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Four hours of whatever you want except anal for 500. Cannot host. Or 150 for access to her vids and pics on Snapchat. Tried negotiating for less time at a lower price, no deal. Leaving the area for Miami in 2 - 3 weeks. I passed.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/bf972766-3ef6-44a5-b4e6-d8fc080f4a80[/URL]
Blocked me so I can't post a link. Messaged back and forth a few times, appeared promising. Got to setting up a meeting and all she wanted to do is sell her photos. Total waste of time. Avoid.
[QUOTE=JoeParkers;4493926]It is true that some women will set you up trying to get them to ban you. You will have to be careful and play dumb. Never agree to anything online. 4 lines of convo and move to text. All I say there is hello, How are you?.[/QUOTE]Messaged bellamia99 four months ago and no reply until recently. I'm thinking okay maybe she's been busy. Wants details of what I'm looking for and work out the arrangement through messaging on SA. Tried to move to text and she ghosted. Don't know if it was a setup or what but that type of discussion on SA would have been almost certain to get me banned. Could also just be a coincidence but this occurred shortly after I renewed. I would avoid.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d1a4d261-3a6e-4ebc-8cdf-60d1614235d3[/URL]
[QUOTE=HounDog3;4498830]Messaged bellamia99 four months ago and no reply until recently. I'm thinking okay maybe she's been busy. Wants details of what I'm looking for and work out the arrangement through messaging on SA. Tried to move to text and she ghosted. Don't know if it was a setup or what but that type of discussion on SA would have been almost certain to get me banned. Could also just be a coincidence but this occurred shortly after I renewed. I would avoid.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d1a4d261-3a6e-4ebc-8cdf-60d1614235d3[/URL][/QUOTE]Based on your description, it sounds like as soon as you renew, since SA already has your money, they are setting you up to get you banned. They are doing so by employing these ladies and getting you to talk about PPM or other things that can get you banned. Now the question is are they doing that so that you renew again with a new account so that they essentially get you to pay for two memberships? Sounds like a failing strategy in my opinion, but you never know with these people.
Hi guys I'm recently giving the hobby another go as most of my regulars over the past few years have gone straight or moved since the crack down. I am looking for just so simple advice for SA as I just set up an account I need to be be discreet as I don't want to run into problems at home. But do most of you guys post a picture? Or should I burr out my face or something or use a fake pic till I make contact. A point in the right direction will help. Thanks guys.
Set you pics to private and use pics you put on facebook before that way you can say they stole them off facebook if anyone wonders if you on that site. If a sb is interested in pics let them view your private pics and then you can remove their access to those pics later its one of features of Sa. Never talk money on Sa, Get a new number using text me now and talk to them on there as soon as possible. No money for meetups and never send money using apps those are scams. Money should exchange hands after you been intimate together, don't give the money till the panties drop or they can cash and dash.
[QUOTE=LongBeard07;4499904]Hi guys I'm recently giving the hobby another go as most of my regulars over the past few years have gone straight or moved since the crack down. I am looking for just so simple advice for SA as I just set up an account I need to be be discreet as I don't want to run into problems at home. But do most of you guys post a picture? Or should I burr out my face or something or use a fake pic till I make contact. A point in the right direction will help. Thanks guys.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Avash88;4499947]Set you pics to private and use pics you put on facebook before that way you can say they stole them off facebook if anyone wonders if you on that site. If a sb is interested in pics let them view your private pics and then you can remove their access to those pics later its one of features of Sa. Never talk money on Sa, Get a new number using text me now and talk to them on there as soon as possible. No money for meetups and never send money using apps those are scams. Money should exchange hands after you been intimate together, don't give the money till the panties drop or they can cash and dash.[/QUOTE]That is good basic SA advice. I use Google Voice, with a Google email address I use only for SA. That way my texts and emails and voice calls are all in an app (the GV app) separate from the rest of my life on my phone. And I've had that GV number for a few years now and it's remained anonymous. Also set up a KiK account; many women don't want to give out their phone number for texting right away and prefer it.
I use photos that are not reverse searchable; they are used nowhere else. Google reverse photo search works pretty well; I use it to vet POT's and often find LinkedIn and other photos. But it might not reach into Facebook. Reverse search their phone number before meeting; I've run into a few confirmed felons over the years and I'd rather ditch them before, not after, meeting.
Move from SA messaging to texting or KiK quickly. Avoid endless texting; try to set up a coffee date or something similar the first couple of days. NEVER send funds online before meeting. NEVER pay an allowance for a first 'meet and greet' coffee date, other than a small amount if they are using Uber or have to pay for parking downtown, etc. Never let them try to "start" you with paying for pics, videos, etc.
[QUOTE=Bran001;4499995]That is good basic SA advice. I use Google Voice, with a Google email address I use only for SA. That way my texts and emails and voice calls are all in an app (the GV app) separate from the rest of my life on my phone. And I've had that GV number for a few years now and it's remained anonymous. Also set up a KiK account; many women don't want to give out their phone number for texting right away and prefer it.[/QUOTE]Just a heads up that some pros block VOIP services like google voice. I've had occasional problems with mine, but only occasional. I totally second getting a throwaway google account for mail / phone though.
It is not totally untraceable and costs a couple of bucks a month, but the burner app works pretty good and maintains your anonymity.
[QUOTE=HoraceBury;4502450]Just a heads up that some pros block VOIP services like google voice. I've had occasional problems with mine, but only occasional. I totally second getting a throwaway google account for mail / phone though.[/QUOTE]
Hi anyone have 411 on here first she listed HIngham and now Boston.
Also alot of pictures look like they could be fake.
Any inforo would be helpful.
That is good basic SA advice. I use Google Voice, with a Google email address I use only for SA. That way my texts and emails and voice calls are all in an app (the GV app) separate from the rest of my life on my phone. And I've had that GV number for a few years now and it's remained anonymous. Also set up a KiK account; many women don't want to give out their phone number for texting right away and prefer it.
I use photos that are not reverse searchable; they are used nowhere else. Google reverse photo search works pretty well; I use it to vet POT's and often find LinkedIn and other photos. But it might not reach into Facebook. Reverse search their phone number before meeting; I've run into a few confirmed felons over the years and I'd rather ditch them before, not after, meeting.
Move from SA messaging to texting or KiK quickly. Avoid endless texting; try to set up a coffee date or something similar the first couple of days. NEVER send funds online before meeting. NEVER pay an allowance for a first 'meet and greet' coffee date, other than a small amount if they are using Uber or have to pay for parking downtown, etc. Never let them try to "start" you with paying for pics, videos, etc.
[QUOTE=CandyMan555;4504979]That is good basic SA advice. I use Google Voice, with a Google email address I use only for SA. That way my texts and emails and voice calls are all in an app (the GV app) separate from the rest of my life on my phone. And I've had that GV number for a few years now and it's remained anonymous. Also set up a KiK account; many women don't want to give out their phone number for texting right away and prefer it.
I use photos that are not reverse searchable; they are used nowhere else. Google reverse photo search works pretty well; I use it to vet POT's and often find LinkedIn and other photos. But it might not reach into Facebook. Reverse search their phone number before meeting; I've run into a few confirmed felons over the years and I'd rather ditch them before, not after, meeting.
Move from SA messaging to texting or KiK quickly. Avoid endless texting; try to set up a coffee date or something similar the first couple of days. NEVER send funds online before meeting. NEVER pay an allowance for a first 'meet and greet' coffee date, other than a small amount if they are using Uber or have to pay for parking downtown, etc. Never let them try to "start" you with paying for pics, videos, etc.[/QUOTE]Not sure how my handle got in this message I was trying to reply? NOT MY POST CM.
Was on seeking recently and the majority of the girls are all selling vids and pics. Who gives a fuck, and who's buying their videos? LOL. Some girls also want (as every guy on here knows) a human ATM machine. Maybe by December they'll change since it's time for gifts and they need extra coins.
[QUOTE=ItIsWhatItIs45;4507941]Was on seeking recently and the majority of the girls are all selling vids and pics. Who gives a fuck, and who's buying their videos? LOL. Some girls also want (as every guy on here knows) a human ATM machine. Maybe by December they'll change since it's time for gifts and they need extra coins.[/QUOTE]Yeah, I do not get that. Who is buying that shit with the internet available? One girl told me she was selling videos for $100 and she already sold some. WTF?
[QUOTE=Spill;4508385]Yeah, I do not get that. Who is buying that shit with the internet available? One girl told me she was selling videos for $100 and she already sold some. WTF?[/QUOTE]Probably 90 year old guys. Lots of GPS as well. $700 for 1 hour. Might as well save up and just get an IG model. You might even find some cheaper LOL.
[QUOTE=ItIsWhatItIs45;4507941]Was on seeking recently and the majority of the girls are all selling vids and pics. Who gives a fuck, and who's buying their videos? LOL. Some girls also want (as every guy on here knows) a human ATM machine. Maybe by December they'll change since it's time for gifts and they need extra coins.[/QUOTE]I see some of this, but certainly not a majority of the profiles. A somewhat small percentage actually.
I'm guessing that hardly anyone indulges them. They try this, keep the profile active for a few days or weeks, and then give up.
One common scam is they want us to 'start online and then proceed to in-person. ' No. No. No. I tell them I'm happy to look at their pics and videos, but no money will be exchanged prior to an in-person meeting.
I was suppose to see this girl and we agreed but she said she was busy and will tell me when she is available. Forward 2 weeks later, Well what do you know she wants me to cashapp her first. I can't put the link cause I already deactivated my account. Her name on there was amourrbaby. Unless she changed it, not surprised she's a scammer cause she also has multiple locations on there.
[QUOTE=PaulSweeter;3828727]The gentleman that says he can't find a UTR. Well, the people using SA are paying $90 / month to get their leads, UTR, NSA's, and FWB's. Etc.
I like SA but it costs money and time.
Anyway, I am offering up a UTR named LOLA who lives on the North Shore and I drove 1 1/2 hours to get to see her. (Malden).
She is a very calm and nice lady and good company. Too far for me to drive again.
Here are her photos. Because I am trying to regulate the situation as a favor, PM me for the phone number. I'll try to get back quickly.
Or if you are an SA user, use the link and contact her directly.
She is willing to meet you. She needs support and being treated nicely whether you take her out for a meal and drinks or bring in take out and drinks.
So, below are photos, she is late 40's. Has a little more weight on her than these photos. She will host.
Be nice to her and she'll be nice to you.
SA link:
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/03f3e4fb-3aed-4beb-b6bc-95248afc227e[/URL]
Good Luck. P.S.[/QUOTE]Please excuse the double post here and the Escort thread but the original was posted on both as well. This is from 6-17-18. Any more recent reports? Wondering why she's available almost anytime with those pics and the reasonable, at least for me, price point. Has me thinking there may be an issue to be wary of?
[QUOTE=HounDog3;4526254]Please excuse the double post here and the Escort thread but the original was posted on both as well. This is from 6-17-18. Any more recent reports? Wondering why she's available almost anytime with those pics and the reasonable, at least for me, price point. Has me thinking there may be an issue to be wary of?[/QUOTE]I saw her awhile ago. She doesn't work so that frees up her schedule. Last I knew she didn't host. When I saw her it was just for oral but it was pretty amazing. I would repeat if she was closer.
[QUOTE=ClMike01;4526800]I saw her awhile ago. She doesn't work so that frees up her schedule. Last I knew she didn't host. When I saw her it was just for oral but it was pretty amazing. I would repeat if she was closer.[/QUOTE]I saw her when she first joined SA. A very nice lady. Definitely older than 'late 40's' -- her profile says 50 and I'd say mid-50's? Very nice, just not so much my type so I did not repeat.
Two hidden gems, one north of Boston and one south. Both are single moms with kids at home which means they can't host. Both in the upper end of their mid-forties and better than most thirty somethings I've been with. Very GFE and open to most things although I don't know about anal, to each his own just not for me. Both low volume and have real jobs which means you need some patience when it comes to scheduling. Neither is a professional escort. Not clock watchers, you can take your time and MSOG.
The one north of Boston is in the Woburn / Wilmington area. Cover was never discussed, I went ahead without one and met no objection. Price negotiable. Here is the link to her SA profile:
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0fc9ab63-79b6-45a5-82be-94a7ec463063[/URL]
The one south of Boston is an attractive spinner slightly thick in all the right places. Dedham / Norwood area and she's open to traveling a reasonable distance. Cover mandatory only for FS, not used otherwise. 300 not negotiable. This is my ATF who I see as often as practical. PM me for more.
Wow, just wow.
Scammers as far as the eye can see. LOL.
Between girls that expect a gift before the first meet, the ones who want to be paid just to eat dinner, or plain old GPS, it's a shit-show out there. There are gems but the work to dig them out is herculean!
[QUOTE=HounDog3;4528270]Two hidden gems, one north of Boston and one south. Both are single moms with kids at home which means they can't host. Both in the upper end of their mid-forties and better than most thirty somethings I've been with. Very GFE and open to most things although I don't know about anal, to each his own just not for me. Both low volume and have real jobs which means you need some patience when it comes to scheduling. Neither is a professional escort. Not clock watchers, you can take your time and MSOG.
The one north of Boston is in the Woburn / Wilmington area. Cover was never discussed, I went ahead without one and met no objection. Price negotiable. Here is the link to her SA profile:
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0fc9ab63-79b6-45a5-82be-94a7ec463063[/URL]
The one south of Boston is an attractive spinner slightly thick in all the right places. Dedham / Norwood area and she's open to traveling a reasonable distance. Cover mandatory only for FS, not used otherwise. 300 not negotiable. This is my ATF who I see as often as practical. PM me for more.[/QUOTE]To eschew own but I don't see a gem in that link LOL.
[QUOTE=ClMike01;4529477]To eschew own but I don't see a gem in that link LOL.[/QUOTE]I agree for my personal taste. But even more frustrating is that they are getting $300!! This is a typical example of GPS and the mongers feeding it. I consider myself lucky to have a slim, young, smoking hot, BBFSCIM, total GFE open to anal and who can host for $300. I was reluctant to go that high but as the market is completely over priced and the quality is just not there, I succumbed to the 300. The bonus is she is a civilian I scored from FB and has never played in this world, so to me she is Gold Plated. LOL.
[QUOTE=PaulSweeter;3828727]The gentleman that says he can't find a UTR. Well, the people using SA are paying $90 / month to get their leads, UTR, NSA's, and FWB's. Etc.
I like SA but it costs money and time.
Anyway, I am offering up a UTR named LOLA who lives on the North Shore and I drove 1 1/2 hours to get to see her. (Malden).
She is a very calm and nice lady and good company. Too far for me to drive again.
Here are her photos. Because I am trying to regulate the situation as a favor, PM me for the phone number. I'll try to get back quickly.
Or if you are an SA user, use the link and contact her directly.
She is willing to meet you. She needs support and being treated nicely whether you take her out for a meal and drinks or bring in take out and drinks..[/QUOTE]Thanks to those who commented about more recent visits. Took one for the team. I do not recommend, will not repeat, and suggest others who may be considering to pass.
Pros: Seems nice as others commented and that's the best I can say about her but the "nice factor" is far outweighed by the cons. Very safe location. Cover optional.
Cons: Roommate that stayed in the bedroom, we were confined to the couch. Apt had smoke odor the clothes absorbed even for the short time I was there. Fairly heavier and older than appears in pics. Should have left but it was a long ride and the little head ruled. It was a mistake to stay. Showed no emotion, mechanical, she made no effort and did nothing other than lay there. Put her clothes back on immediately after I popped. Overall lousy experience.
[QUOTE=Joe1223;4529922]I agree for my personal taste. But even more frustrating is that they are getting $300!! This is a typical example of GPS and the mongers feeding it. I consider myself lucky to have a slim, young, smoking hot, BBFSCIM, total GFE open to anal and who can host for $300. I was reluctant to go that high but as the market is completely over priced and the quality is just not there, I succumbed to the 300. The bonus is she is a civilian I scored from FB and has never played in this world, so to me she is Gold Plated. LOL.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the feedback and why not share the find?
To be clear, I wasn't saying they don't do anal, I just don't know because I'm not into it but for each his own and fine if you are. I'm just not able to comment on whether it's available.
The link I posted was the one north of Boston. I consider her a "gem" because she's a civilian, meetings are untimed, all activities are bareback with MSOG, and price is negotiable. You can probably get her for 200 or 250.
My ATF located south of Boston, I did not post her link, is an attractive spinner with wavy blond hair, well proportioned body, and provides hours (plural) of play with no limits on what I want other than FS has to be covered. I'm older and for me she's a dream find. She has a regular full-time job, very low volume and I believe she doesn't see guys younger than 40. Well worth the 300. PM me if you want more details.
So, first off this is a general question and for personal reasons I am not sharing a link.
We know that SA has some glitches (if a girl has her profile set to hide activity, if you have her in your favorites folder and she just logged in she appears at the top of the list meaning she is online. Her status reads hidden but the system stumbles here). Anyway, how is it possible for a girl to have an active profile that is viewable by a link but she is completely unsearchable using different methods. I mean that if I type in her profile name in the text search, set a 1000 mile radius I get zero results. If I narrow things to a small age window, location, ethnicity, same thing zero results.
I also had two buddies go thru the same exercise, profile link led them to her but they too obtained zero results when searching. I am more curious than anything on this one and personally I guess it doesn't matter but not sure how its possible.
You posted about it in SA got any more details? I'm late 30's so I might be too young but the price sounds right.
[QUOTE=Joe1223;4529922]I agree for my personal taste. But even more frustrating is that they are getting $300!! This is a typical example of GPS and the mongers feeding it. I consider myself lucky to have a slim, young, smoking hot, BBFSCIM, total GFE open to anal and who can host for $300. I was reluctant to go that high but as the market is completely over priced and the quality is just not there, I succumbed to the 300. The bonus is she is a civilian I scored from FB and has never played in this world, so to me she is Gold Plated. LOL.[/QUOTE]I have one regular who hosts for 3, and one for 2. But the one for 2 is just an fwb I found on CL long ago; for her the $ is just a little kink.
We all have our views, but I do believe you're right that in today's market, 3 for someone who can host, allows me to shower afterwards, keeps a very clean apartment, BBFSCIM etc, is pretty good "value. " I keep returning to her for 3 because it works for me. We started at 2 a few years ago but she asked for the 'raise' and it was reasonable to me.
[QUOTE=Bran001;4535033]I have one regular who hosts for 3, and one for 2. But the one for 2 is just an fwb I found on CL long ago; for her the $ is just a little kink.
We all have our views, but I do believe you're right that in today's market, 3 for someone who can host, allows me to shower afterwards, keeps a very clean apartment, BBFSCIM etc, is pretty good "value. " I keep returning to her for 3 because it works for me. We started at 2 a few years ago but she asked for the 'raise' and it was reasonable to me.[/QUOTE]I don't know--everybody has their own price range and preferences, I guess. But the precious few times that any hoes who I'd already inseminated several times raised their rates on me, I never went back to them again.
Howdy All,
Some of my finds of the day. Thought I would share:
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/669564a6-2f25-47c7-bbdf-1e15e02cb084[/URL] - strawberrykiwi1991 - Seems like a pro. Wanted to meet right now, anywhere.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d73db284-cd21-47ca-8bb5-b92e6c917a7e[/URL] - reeree12 - Seems nice, eager to meet, but in a shitty section of Worcester. I am afraid to commit to a meet.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8ae526e6-8455-478c-8fd2-70ae8a94c347[/URL] - KaLi_xXx. Very friendly, sought me out. We chatted, but she was hustling for a meet today. Seemed a little desperate.
If you have any thoughts please share!
JW.
[QUOTE=JamesWoods;4538949]Howdy All,
Some of my finds of the day. Thought I would share:
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/669564a6-2f25-47c7-bbdf-1e15e02cb084[/URL] - strawberrykiwi1991 - Seems like a pro. Wanted to meet right now, anywhere.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d73db284-cd21-47ca-8bb5-b92e6c917a7e[/URL] - reeree12 - Seems nice, eager to meet, but in a shitty section of Worcester. I am afraid to commit to a meet.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8ae526e6-8455-478c-8fd2-70ae8a94c347[/URL] - KaLi_xXx. Very friendly, sought me out. We chatted, but she was hustling for a meet today. Seemed a little desperate.
If you have any thoughts please share!
JW.[/QUOTE]The third one will hit you up out of the blue asking you to send money. It's always a phone being shut off, a medical issue or a prescription that is needed. I have only texted with her, no voice communication. She does come across as unstable when she is requesting money.
I agree. Going up rates is a dealbreaker to me.
Time was, it was a universal practice for whatever girl you saw to keep you "grandfathered" in at her old rate. Now I see these girls advertising, "See me now before my rates go up in December!
If anything, older customers are better. The girls know they can trust them. They don't have to spend time screening, etc.
[QUOTE=KingOfFours;4538868]I don't know--everybody has their own price range and preferences, I guess. But the precious few times that any hoes who I'd already inseminated several times raised their rates on me, I never went back to them again.[/QUOTE]
Today I really got annoyed.
I was talking to this girl and she tells me she wants a platonic arrangement and that all her friends have SDs that are not interested in sex. I say I doubt it, she says she met them and it's true, they just want to hangout with young girls to feel younger.
What the actual fuck?!
I used to get annoyed. . . Still do once in a while. . . But it's not worth it. Block; delete; move on with your life. Once you block them and delete the messages, they are gone from your existence and the annoyance can dissipate. At least that works for me.
[QUOTE=Hyperion11;4543538]Today I really got annoyed.
I was talking to this girl and she tells me she wants a platonic arrangement and that all her friends have SDs that are not interested in sex. I say I doubt it, she says she met them and it's true, they just want to hangout with young girls to feel younger.
What the actual fuck?![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Hyperion11;4543538]Today I really got annoyed.
I was talking to this girl and she tells me she wants a platonic arrangement and that all her friends have SDs that are not interested in sex. I say I doubt it, she says she met them and it's true, they just want to hangout with young girls to feel younger.
What the actual fuck?![/QUOTE]It's a thing. You can usually weed out the ones looking for platonic through something they say in their profile. I find that almost none of the women above the age of 25 are looking for that. To each his own, but platonic with a 22-year old seems like an amazing waste of time and money.
[QUOTE=Hyperion11;4543538]Today I really got annoyed.
I was talking to this girl and she tells me she wants a platonic arrangement and that all her friends have SDs that are not interested in sex. I say I doubt it, she says she met them and it's true, they just want to hangout with young girls to feel younger.
What the actual fuck?![/QUOTE]Her friends are lying to her. They don't want her to know what they do behind closed doors. This way they can look very innocent. When they aren't really. Not that that is anything wrong with not being innocent. .
[QUOTE=Hyperion11;4543538]Today I really got annoyed.
I was talking to this girl and she tells me she wants a platonic arrangement and that all her friends have SDs that are not interested in sex. I say I doubt it, she says she met them and it's true, they just want to hangout with young girls to feel younger.
What the actual fuck?![/QUOTE]Her friends don't have platonic arrangements. They are lying to her, or more likely she is lying to you. With these girls, I just tell them flat out I am looking for intimacy and if they ever change their mind I am interested. 70% end up deleting their seeking profiles, but the ones that don't end up contacting me in a few weeks or more after they realize exactly what this site is about and get comfortable with the idea.
I have not found the "platonic" tag to have any correlation to their willingness to put out. It's often a cover if someone they know discovers their profile, or it's an indication that if some schlep is willing to pay for platonic they will do that LOL. When they write it in their bio, they usually mean it, even so I often contact them and make an offer if they are to my liking.
I go for young, preferably 18-19 but up to 22 and usually hit them up when they are new to the site. These girls often need some time to get used to the idea of selling their p****. A couple weeks on SeekingArrangment getting offered $100 for cardate anal by fat retired gym teachers and I start to look like a gentleman to them haha.
I never pursue the platonic ones that hard, just let them know if they change their mind or need cash I am happy to defile them haha.
[QUOTE=Hyperion11;4543538]Today I really got annoyed.
I was talking to this girl and she tells me she wants a platonic arrangement and that all her friends have SDs that are not interested in sex. I say I doubt it, she says she met them and it's true, they just want to hangout with young girls to feel younger.
What the actual fuck?![/QUOTE]"all her friends" is a complete load of shit; however there are some cases of a guy paying a meet and greet and not continuing.
I'm lurking from California, but I was living in S. Florida and a girl I knew used SA to find a boyfriend; she was offered like $900 to drive down to Miami to meet a guy. She said that the guy didn't like her looks in person (of course; she posted pictures from 15 years ago). I consider this guy like Bigfoot riding on a unicorn; very rare in the wild.
As others said, it's pointless to argue facts; you are offering cash for pussy and if she wants it she can see you and talk about it.
All girls will fuck a guy at the first meet IF she likes him enough; others are like bringing horses to water, maybe they won't drink, but change their minds.
Money is perceived very differently by females; cash is an actual aphrodisiac to them. If they know you have it ready, they get hot for you indirectly.
[QUOTE=KevinCalormis;4543984]Her friends don't have platonic arrangements. They are lying to her, or more likely she is lying to you. With these girls, I just tell them flat out I am looking for intimacy and if they ever change their mind I am interested. 70% end up deleting their seeking profiles, but the ones that don't end up contacting me in a few weeks or more after they realize exactly what this site is about and get comfortable with the idea.
I have not found the "platonic" tag to have any correlation to their willingness to put out. It's often a cover if someone they know discovers their profile, or it's an indication that if some schlep is willing to pay for platonic they will do that LOL. When they write it in their bio, they usually mean it, even so I often contact them and make an offer if they are to my liking.
I go for young, preferably 18-19 but up to 22 and usually hit them up when they are new to the site. These girls often need some time to get used to the idea of selling their p****. A couple weeks on SeekingArrangment getting offered $100 for cardate anal by fat retired gym teachers and I start to look like a gentleman to them haha.
I never pursue the platonic ones that hard, just let them know if they change their mind or need cash I am happy to defile them haha.[/QUOTE]Here in Upstate NY, we currently have a huge number of college girls that have joined SA in the last 2 weeks. Of course, they joined cause their friends told them about big money and no sex. I agree, its BS. One girl just asked me "would you be willing to meet and talk a few times". I told her "sure, but no gift, I'll buy the coffee. ". One girl who tagged "platonic" told me "that's not what I'm looking for" when I explained to her what platonic meant haha.
The other thing I have found is the large percentage (I'm guessing 40% of the newbies here) of black and mixed girls on SA. On the Reddit sugarlifestyle subreddit, there is a lot of talk that black and mixed girls are of less interest to many guys on SA to be SBs, these statements are from the girls themselves. I myself had a very dark skinned SB for a year that told me she just could not find an SD cause of her color. Well, I have no prejudice in that regard. I do love the contrast in bed hehehe. What do you guys think about that? Just reiterating what I continue to read on other websites. If this is true, could be lots of girls ripe for the picking (or screwing as it is). I have 4 that I'm chatting with currently and supposed to meet a beautiful brown, tiny 23 year old on Monday for intimate fun.
GG.