A lesson in How Not to Pick Up SWs
[QUOTE=Gscs Ret]I asked her if she had recently posed for pictures because I saw her picture on usasexguide.info. and that is how I new her name. She said no and appeared a little pissed and got quiet. ... Obviously she was really pissed about finding out her picture was out there and I ended up paying by missing out on a good time. ...I guess in hindsight I should never have mentioned those dam pictures but I really thought she would have had no problem with them. She must have known the pictures were taken but her finding out they were on the web really struck a nerve. Cookyjar you may want to contact her because she is probably pretty pissed at you for posting her pictures. Sorry for putting you in a bad spot but she was going to find out eventually.[/QUOTE]Not a real smooth approach there, Gscs Ret. I appreciate you being honest in saying what you did and what happened. I'm sure you're hardly the first one to open up a conversation w/ one of CJ's subjects that way. But c'mon think about it, do you really think it's a sure thing that a Philly SW will be flattered to hear that she's so well-known on the Net for being an SW that some stranger from VA knows her name, has seen nude photos of her, and is seeking her out. Doesn't surprise me in the slightest that she might feel annoyed, embarrassed, or creeped out. Cooky has mentioned before what he tells girls when he takes their pictures. He mentions sharing the pictures w/ others but I'm pretty certain he's said he doesn't specifically tell them it will be on this site. Some girls obviously know or find out, and for some it's no big deal or even a good thing b/c it can bring them more business. But I think it's foolish to think that all of his subjects are going to be thrilled. They need money and are vulnerable to doing almost anything to get it, including getting into cars with strangers for sex, or having nude pictures taken. It doesn't mean they're proud or won't have regrets about these decisions.
Personally I have never mentioned this site to any SW I've picked up. A few SWs have mentioned it to me and I always play dumb. Cooky's pictures and reports, and the reports by many other mongers here provide great scouting reports and help us spend our money wisely. But except for maybe telling bad or scamming providers that they've been branded as a rip-off artist, I don't see value in drawing SW attention to USASexGuide.
RE: A lesson in How Not to Pick Up SWs, RE: Sabrina
[QUOTE=Mike 80]Not a real smooth approach there, Gscs Ret. I appreciate you being honest in saying what you did and what happened
…Cooky has mentioned before what he tells girls when he takes their pictures. He mentions sharing the pictures w/ others but I'm pretty certain he's said he doesn't specifically tell them it will be on this site. [/QUOTE]
I am certain Sabrina knew her pictures were posted. I should qualify that statement: I am certain that I told Sabrina that her pictures would be posted. As a rule I always tell the girls that their pictures will be posted and I do so for just this reason. And as Mike has pointed out, I don’t go into great detail about where they are to be posted, [b]unless[/b] they ask me for more details. I have no problem telling a girl about this site, if they ask me. Why? There is no need to lie if you don’t have too. There are too many girls out there who are willing to have their pictures taken and posted; so I have no need to lie to them. If a girl says she doesn’t want her pictures posted, I move on. Also; why should I take a chance on some girl finding out that I lied and then taking her revenge on me by throwing a brick though my windshield the next time she sees me driving by. If they ask me what site I will be posting them on, I tell them. If they ask, I’ll even write it down for them. Most girls don’t ask for such information. Why? I don’t honestly know. If it were me, I’d want to know; wouldn’t you? Yes! Because, we are computer literate. Most of the girls on the avenue don’t have access to computers so they do not ask. However, lots of the girls have friends, other streetwalkers’ maybe or even dates, who do have access to computers and will tell them about this site. Why should I lie and ruin my reputation.
[QUOTE=Gscs Ret]Picked up Sabrina last night about 11.
…then she starts mumbling and told me to stop because she had a daughter and didn't want to go to jail. Wow was I surprised. So I try and explain to her I not a cop, just a regular guy from VA on a business trip. Nope she wants out. So I end up having to pull over and drop her off WTF.
Not sure if she was really high or something.
Cookyjar you may want to contact her because she is probably pretty pissed at you for posting her pictures. Sorry for putting you in a bad spot but she was going to find out eventually.[/QUOTE]
I don’t know what happened between you and Sabrina to elicit such a response. Many girls follow the same rules that we do. And rule #1 is follow your instincts. Maybe her first impression was that you were LE, or that there was something else a little off from the norm. If this was the case then she did exactly what I do when I am not one hundred percent sure – I bail.
There are a number of possible reasons why Sabrina may have acted as you reported. Maybe, like you said, she was high. Maybe she had already met her quota for the day. Maybe she finally realized that streetwalking was bad. I don’t know all of the facts, so I can not answer the question. What I can tell you is that; Sabrina knew her pictures were being posted. She knew because I told her and we have discussed it on a few occasion. She also knew because; as she put it, one of her regulars had told her that he’d seen her pictures and that they looked nice.
I don’t know why Sabina was spooked, but believe me, I will ask her.
CookyJar
PS: Thanks for posting a report on what happened and Thanks for your concern.