Seeking Arrangements (SA)

[QUOTE=SouthernJohn;2374273]4). If someone was looking for a SB and ended up with a pro, that was not what they were looking for. You stating that you never tell them that they are the only one you are seeing isn't a false statement, but it is withholding truth (both are deceit). So, I provided information and they can make the decision based upon what they want.[/QUOTE]Suitable points made and pertinent information. I'd hate to see the reaction of a dude looking for a "wholesome" SB and ended up with a "seasoned" pro. SA is not as ripe for the picking as it used to be. I get information from gals saying, "I'd like to get help on a per visit basis until we can decide on a monthly arrangement". Call it what you want, but that is reminiscent of pro-talk to me with the exception of the monthly arrangement aspect. Most of those gals are getting test driven like a used car at a buy here. Pay here lot, so they have gotten wiser with respect to getting something out of the situation. Several of the gals that have dropped off of SA and continued to reach out to me talked about spending 4-5 hours with a dude for little more than a thanks. It's so easy for dude to specify on his profile that escorts or Pros are restricted from contacting him, but escorts or Pros aren't supposed to be on SA anyway (the good ole honor system. You can block them or go as far as reporting them if you so choose). The information that SouthernJohn provided is relevant because guys need to be aware that plenty of Pros are masquerading as SBs (who would otherwise be naive to the SD / SB game). I'm still playing the SA game, but it's not all that it's cracked out to be. I've run across some certifiable flakes and vindictive gals who could cause some serious problem for a fella. If a dude wants to see a Pro, he can use a virtually unlimited number of resources to find one. If a dude wants a seemingly regular girl, who will have no limits for 40-50 roses per hour for her time. Needing a little help with bills and not trying to make a living from it. SA has helped fill that void. It's still supply and demand regardless of how you slice it.

Keep boosting the economy.

Milfman.

[URL]https://knoxville.craigslist.org/cas/4904110831.html[/URL]

In case the link doesn't work still I think she went as Satobaby and now showing up under Craigslist under MW4 MW did anyone have any contact with her on the site? I wonder if she got swooped up by some guy and now they are looking for more playmates or if someone is using her pics?

[QUOTE=LayenLow;2377739][URL]https://knoxville.craigslist.org/cas/4904110831.html[/URL]

In case the link doesn't work still I think she went as Satobaby and now showing up under Craigslist under MW4 MW did anyone have any contact with her on the site? I wonder if she got swooped up by some guy and now they are looking for more playmates or if someone is using her pics?[/QUOTE]She def was Sato. I have actually had lots of contact with her and know her and knew her before she signed up on SA. As many of you can figure out, she isn't that age and that's not even remotely her name. I know, rarely do we ever find these girls names out, but I trust this one. She was very upset about the whole CL deal and I helped her get it removed.

She is a very fun time though.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e48380c7/view?conversation-inbox[/URL]

Was messaging back and forth yesterday with this one. Started off vanilla. I mentioned I love to give but like to take. She asked what did I mean, in the same message asking when could we meet. Here is my response last night.

"Give and take, referring more to sexual activities. I want you to always be satisfied first if at all possible, but I want mine too. Example, I like receiving oral, but I love giving oral so much more. To make you squirm and squeal while my tongue darts and teases, with your bottom in my hands and my fingers exploring. Give and take. ".

Now this morning she has blocked me. I just had to post this experience. Hilarious. The chase just gets more exciting.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e7989b45/view?interests-viewed-me[/URL]

Good value for your money. Enjoys herself. $1 per meet.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ed59bd59/view?interests-viewed-me[/URL]

Fun, dependable (shows up on time everytime), likes to have fun. $3 week, couple meets a week.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e260634c/view?search-recently-active[/URL]

Fun, small enough to place where you want her, eager. $2 per meet.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e04340c4/view?interests-viewed-me[/URL]

This one is quite, willing but not skilled. Awkward. $2. 5 per meet.

Happy hunting.

[QUOTE=Jem411;2398634][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e7989b45/view?interests-viewed-me[/URL]

Good value for your money. Enjoys herself. $1 per meet.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ed59bd59/view?interests-viewed-me[/URL]

Fun, dependable (shows up on time everytime), likes to have fun. $3 week, couple meets a week.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e260634c/view?search-recently-active[/URL]

Fun, small enough to place where you want her, eager. $2 per meet.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e04340c4/view?interests-viewed-me[/URL]

This one is quite, willing but not skilled. Awkward. $2. 5 per meet.

Happy hunting.[/QUOTE]Is Megan 20 for real? The site indicates that her last log in country was Brazil. I love the looks of her and her height.

HK.

[QUOTE=HardKnox;2403071]Is Megan 20 for real? The site indicates that her last log in country was Brazil. I love the looks of her and her height.

HK.[/QUOTE]In Brazil for six weeks, school thing. Experienced SB. She handles getting room wherever we meet. And she's embarrassed by her height. Lovely figure.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e7989b45/view?search-recently-active[/URL]

This one is a handful. Willing participant in every cense of the word. Down side is Morristown and she is in her forties, so I know everyone isn't into that age group, and she smokes (not while I was present) and it lingers. Her oral skills are close to phenomenal. She's good with $1 per visit. She's aggressive. Like her toys. Bring your on covers, she's quick to point out she isn't a pro. Someone else please step up, I've got my hands full with work and well you know. Just hang on, cause it's one wild ride.

[QUOTE=Jem411;2404935][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e7989b45/view?search-recently-active[/URL]

This one is a handful. Willing participant in every cense of the word. Down side is Morristown and she is in her forties, so I know everyone isn't into that age group, and she smokes (not while I was present) and it lingers. Her oral skills are close to phenomenal. She's good with $1 per visit. She's aggressive. Like her toys. Bring your on covers, she's quick to point out she isn't a pro. Someone else please step up, I've got my hands full with work and well you know. Just hang on, cause it's one wild ride.[/QUOTE]I am about to step up. Been talking with her and WOW. Can't wait to see her. From talking with her everything you say seems right. Beautiful titties, big nipples and think she puts her all into oral.

[QUOTE=Jem411;2404935][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e7989b45/view?search-recently-active[/URL]

This one is a handful. Willing participant in every cense of the word. Down side is Morristown and she is in her forties, so I know everyone isn't into that age group, and she smokes (not while I was present) and it lingers. Her oral skills are close to phenomenal. She's good with $1 per visit. She's aggressive. Like her toys. Bring your on covers, she's quick to point out she isn't a pro. Someone else please step up, I've got my hands full with work and well you know. Just hang on, cause it's one wild ride.[/QUOTE]I have not asked any of these ladies for permission to give out their digits. I will continue to report findings from my adventures on SA, with individual links, but you will have to pay your own way to play on the site. These aren't utr's asking me to help find them customers. Not in any way trying to be a dick. I just don't want any of them to think I'm pimping them out. Thanks for understanding. J.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e15ec68c/view?interests-viewed-me[/URL]

Pictures are a bit misleading as is "athletic". Sweet girl, just not for me. I just did meet / greet and no more. Filled her car with gas.

[QUOTE=Jem411;2405961][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e15ec68c/view?interests-viewed-me[/URL]

Pictures are a bit misleading as is "athletic". Sweet girl, just not for me. I just did meet / greet and no more. Filled her car with gas.[/QUOTE]That degree in Phycology would have stopped me before I started.

[QUOTE=RJHunter;2405992]That degree in Phycology would have stopped me before I started.[/QUOTE]I love to fuck with people who think they're smart. Being a recovering addict, I've got a twisted mind. All she could say is why she didn't know something. Her degree is shit, she can't even get a license to be a therapist without 2-3 more years of school. Apparently grad school is the new required degree to get a job. Poor kids getting out of school with so much debt and no chance for good paying job without getting more into debt. I say learn a trade, we'll be building or repairing from now on.

[QUOTE=Jem411;2405961][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e15ec68c/view?interests-viewed-me[/URL]

Pictures are a bit misleading as is "athletic". Sweet girl, just not for me. I just did meet / greet and no more. Filled her car with gas.[/QUOTE]I've messaged with her a few times and she's definitely seeming eager. Can you elaborate on what you mean by the pics being misleading? Feel free to PM if you prefer.

Thanks in advance!

[QUOTE=RazorXX;2406263]I've messaged with her a few times and she's definitely seeming eager. Can you elaborate on what you mean by the pics being misleading? Feel free to PM if you prefer.

Thanks in advance![/QUOTE]She is not athletically built today. For the record, neither am I. But I don't describe myself that way either.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e2bd4abd/view?conversation-inbox[/URL]

5' 1" blonde hair, green eyes, slim.

She just put up her profile today. States she's 18. She indicated that she'd had 2 previous bad experiences.

Set the terms and scheduled a meet for tonight. Asked me if I could come to Oak Ridge. I agreed. She stated she wanted it to be at a hotel in town (no problem). She also stated that she wanted the "help" up front. I told her that I don't do that. She can get help after we are done. She asked for an hour to get ready (no problem). I sent her a few PMs to get info before heading over. Shock. Silence. Could see she read my PMs on SA, including the this one (Seems like I should make other plans.). After typing up my review, I sent her a last PM to see if she would like to explain before I made my post. Second shock. She replied with "I'm sorry things came up & a post? Yeah, right.

My guess is that she is (1) very inexperienced / scared, (2) was planning a cash & dash, (3) was planning to get the help and then do as little as possible, or (4) got a better offer and left me hanging. Doesn't matter, I have zero tolerance for all of them.

Back up plan (always have one) is engaged.

Stay safe and have fun.

SouthernJohn.

[QUOTE=SouthernJohn;2417097]5' 1" blonde hair, green eyes, slim.

After typing up my review, I sent her a last PM to see if she would like to explain before I made my post. Second shock. She replied with "I'm sorry things came up & a post? Yeah, right.

My guess is that she is (1) very inexperienced / scared, (2) was planning a cash & dash, (3) was planning to get the help and then do as little as possible, or (4) got a better offer and left me hanging. Doesn't matter, I have zero tolerance for all of them.

[/QUOTE]Hey SJ thanks for the warning. I know burning our time and efforts can be a hassle, but that's part of the appeal of hooking a non-pro. You already know but to new people -- a brand new girl? She's going to have tons of PMs. I figure any new girl is a crapshoot. Either you get to them first, or you deal with a big headache. I bet she did get a more appealing offer (on her terms) or from someone younger, dumber, with a larger salary, or all three. If she is really 18, I'd expect nothing but flakeville.

[QUOTE=SouthernJohn;2417097][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e2bd4abd/view?conversation-inbox[/URL]

5' 1" blonde hair, green eyes, slim.

She just put up her profile today. States she's 18. She indicated that she'd had 2 previous bad experiences.

Set the terms and scheduled a meet for tonight. Asked me if I could come to Oak Ridge. I agreed. She stated she wanted it to be at a hotel in town (no problem). She also stated that she wanted the "help" up front. I told her that I don't do that. She can get help after we are done. She asked for an hour to get ready (no problem). I sent her a few PMs to get info before heading over. Shock. Silence. Could see she read my PMs on SA, including the this one (Seems like I should make other plans.). After typing up my review, I sent her a last PM to see if she would like to explain before I made my post. Second shock. She replied with "I'm sorry things came up & a post? Yeah, right.

My guess is that she is (1) very inexperienced / scared, (2) was planning a cash & dash, (3) was planning to get the help and then do as little as possible, or (4) got a better offer and left me hanging. Doesn't matter, I have zero tolerance for all of them.

Back up plan (always have one) is engaged.

Stay safe and have fun.

SouthernJohn.[/QUOTE]Clearly a breach of the SA "fight club" creed if you are telling the girl that you are going to "post" about her. If the girl is really an SA girl, then she has no idea about this review board and should never learn about it. Don't talk about fight club dudes. You ruin it for all of us. That being said, thanks for the heads up on this one.

LTM.

While your message about not discussing this board is valid, there was no breach of "fight club creed" here. I will not go into the details (here or in PM). She's no SB and should be avoided by all.

[QUOTE=LoveTheMerch;2418434]Clearly a breach of the SA "fight club" creed if you are telling the girl that you are going to "post" about her. If the girl is really an SA girl, then she has no idea about this review board and should never learn about it. Don't talk about fight club dudes. You ruin it for all of us. That being said, thanks for the heads up on this one.

LTM.[/QUOTE]

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e0024e29/view?search-recently-active[/URL]

Take me to Tokyo. Its more like I would like to send her to Tokyo. She asks for a lot up front and then has a real attitude about returning calls or meeting even for coffee. I let the little head do the thinking or I would have never given her cash up front. She is the girl in the pics and is hot.

[QUOTE=HardKnox;2420717][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e0024e29/view?search-recently-active[/URL]

Take me to Tokyo. Its more like I would like to send her to Tokyo. She asks for a lot up front and then has a real attitude about returning calls or meeting even for coffee. I let the little head do the thinking or I would have never given her cash up front. She is the girl in the pics and is hot.[/QUOTE]Sorry to hear HardKnox. I've had a few ladies give me the bleeding heart crap (kid can't eat, not place to stay, etc.) while on [URL]SA.com[/URL]. I make sure to tell them in the first message that I don't give money until we are intimate. I just assume they are bullshitting me. Kind of harsh, but keeps you from being played.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e2bd4abd/view?interests-viewed-me[/URL]

Very quick to give a price for first meet and then from now on price. I haven't even asked her name.

[QUOTE=Jem411;2425997][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e2bd4abd/view?interests-viewed-me[/URL]

Very quick to give a price for first meet and then from now on price. I haven't even asked her name.[/QUOTE]Read post number 209 below: [URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?12509-Seeking-Arrangements-%28SA%29&p=2417097&viewfull=1#post2417097[/URL].

Urged to use extreme caution in the report.

-milfman.

[QUOTE=MilfMan865;2426016]Read post number 209 below: [URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?12509-Seeking-Arrangements-%28SA%29&p=2417097&viewfull=1#post2417097[/URL].

Urged to use extreme caution in the report.

-milfman.[/QUOTE]I remember reading that before. Sorry, I should have looked before I asked. My bad. Thanks for directing me to the post, MM.

I have been messaging this gal. She is hard to get read on. Comes off as p2 p but sort of beats around bush. Not sure if it is just a play for cash. Any info would be appreciated.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e8d5df7d/view?search-recently-active[/URL]


Thinking of contacting this one also if anyone has the scoop.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e1338a0d/view?search-recently-active

[QUOTE=PHunt37;2430274]I have been messaging this gal. She is hard to get read on. Comes off as p2 p but sort of beats around bush. Not sure if it is just a play for cash. Any info would be appreciated.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e8d5df7d/view?search-recently-active[/URL]


Thinking of contacting this one also if anyone has the scoop.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e1338a0d/view?search-recently-active[/QUOTE]Second link isn't working. See if this works.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e1338a0d/view?search-recently-active[/URL]

Her profile states she is 22 and located in Knoxville.

I short-cutters many of my screening processes and began regretting it. My methods have generally served me very well. This experience was a "gentle" reminder to stick with my approach.

Chloe got onto SA in April and I contacted her. We chatted a bit on SA and then by text. We talked $ and she finally agreed to my number. We set up a day to meet. She had to rearrange her work schedule to make it happen. I stopped by her work and met her the day before our arranged meet. Saw that her pics were likely years old and 30+ lbs ago. Based upon her situation and having rearranged her work, I didn't feel comfortable backing out. Normally, I would have vetted that better, so it was my own fault.

The day of the meet she again addressed our deal. I told her I do the deal we made. So, we confirmed the start time, duration, and amount, again. I drove to a nearby town where she lives and got a place. She showed on time, but was nervous. Said it was her first meet. I talked with her for awhile to allow her to get comfortable. She stated her relative would pick her up at a certain time. The time she stated was prior to when we were supposed to be finished. She looked confused and I did the math for her. Told her she could have the relative pick her up after we were done.

A few minutes later she stated she was too nervous and started apologizing for wasting my time. I told her not to worry, that she needed to be comfortable with the situation or it wouldn't be right. She offered to reimburse me for the room, but I told her not to worry about it.

I would have just let it all go, writing it off to an ultra nervous first-timer. However, she was back working the SA website within 20 minutes. So, maybe she's new. Maybe she didn't like me. Maybe she had a hard commitment that wouldn't allow her to stay the entire time. Don't know. However, the rest of you now know what went on with she and I should you choose to contact her.

SouthernJohn.

[QUOTE=PHunt37;2430280]Second link isn't working. See if this works.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e1338a0d/view?search-recently-active[/URL][/QUOTE]Haven't seen either. Limited chatting with the first and more extensive negotiations with the second. P Hunt, check your PM for details.

SouthernJohn.

[QUOTE=SouthernJohn;2430318]Haven't seen either. Limited chatting with the first and more extensive negotiations with the second. P Hunt, check your PM for details.

SouthernJohn.[/QUOTE]I would be interested in knowing more about "Nicole". Is this the one you are calling Chloe?

I had Nicole down as a favorite but haven't contacted yet.

[QUOTE=Gibson1970;2430568]I would be interested in knowing more about "Nicole". Is this the one you are calling Chloe?

I had Nicole down as a favorite but haven't contacted yet.[/QUOTE]I had an aborted meeting with Chloe. I also stated I never met either of the girls that P Hunt mentioned. So, Chloe cannot be Nicole. You can follow P Hunt's links to which girls he referenced. I couldn't get the link to post so I put Chloe's screen name in the title.

What am I doing wrong when I go to SA I only find males can't find how to search for females.

[QUOTE=KenVetteman;2431872]What am I doing wrong when I go to SA I only find males can't find how to search for females.[/QUOTE]Check your profile settings.

[QUOTE=Jg3786;2431875]Check your profile settings.[/QUOTE]Thank you ken.

But seems to play games with endless messaging. Having some good luck with others though.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/edc71d4c/view?conversation-inbox[/URL]

Is this Charlie's Curves?

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e5aeb7ed/view?conversation-sent[/URL]

[QUOTE=BobVac21;2434039]Is this Charlie's Curves?

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e5aeb7ed/view?conversation-sent[/URL][/QUOTE]No that is not her.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e2bd4abd/view?search-recently-active[/URL]

Could just be she is busy but think this one is a scammer.

After much lurking, signed up last week on SA. Have gotten heavy marketing from Kelsowellso. , who is also on SD4 Me. She wants a high priced restaurant for a first meet. Any more info than what is already posted below?

Got a picture request from DEE DEE, [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ecf1f62a/view?interests-my-favorites[/URL] . Any intel? Thanks.

Bob.

[QUOTE=PHunt37;2430274]I have been messaging this gal. She is hard to get read on. Comes off as p2 p but sort of beats around bush. Not sure if it is just a play for cash. Any info would be appreciated.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e8d5df7d/view?search-recently-active[/URL]


Thinking of contacting this one also if anyone has the scoop.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e1338a0d/view?search-recently-active[/QUOTE]The lady in the first link goes by ashmariebarbie. I texted with her late last week and she didn't like my proposed arrangement. She wanted to be paid for going to dinner and I told her that I didn't do that. After wishing her well, I told her to contact me if she ever changed her mind. Something made her snap (one of you guys?) and she tore into me via message on SA (got her facts all wrong and leveled some slanderous statements). She claimed she was turning my info (texts, etc) over to the police (LOL). I blocked her and reported her to the SA Admin (received confirmation they are investigating her behavior). I also noticed she changed her profile pic and rewrote her profile (more LOL).

So, save yourself the grief and avoid the PSYCHO.

[QUOTE=SouthernJohn;2434699]The lady in the first link goes by ashmariebarbie. I texted with her late last week and she didn't like my proposed arrangement. She wanted to be paid for going to dinner and I told her that I didn't do that. After wishing her well, I told her to contact me if she ever changed her mind. Something made her snap (one of you guys?) and she tore into me via message on SA (got her facts all wrong and leveled some slanderous statements). She claimed she was turning my info (texts, etc) over to the police (LOL). I blocked her and reported her to the SA Admin (received confirmation they are investigating her behavior). I also noticed she changed her profile pic and rewrote her profile (more LOL).

So, save yourself the grief and avoid the PSYCHO.[/QUOTE]Some of these young ladies must think we can only think with our little heads. I think AMB is fine and wouldn't mind at all putting her on a monthly allowance for regular visits. However, some of these young ladies have this 50 shades of grey delusion. This game of meeting with me pouring sugar on them then they decide after accepting the sugar that we don't click is a game I won't play. I have chemistry with my SO. We have an unspoken don't ask don't tell, don't expose her to something she don't want, and for God's sake definitely don't be seen by friends or family. Taking some young girl to Ruth's Chris or the Orangery is never going to happen with me. Now, if we have a regular thing and she is cool when I go to Atl she can come along.

A few of these ladies think they can go out to dinner with an older guy pick up $50-$100 w / o ever having any intention of being a sugar baby. They see a dozen guys a month that fall for that shit and collect $600-$1200 a month. Not bad but very little difference between that and cash & dash in my mind.