Sugar Baby / Sugar Daddy relationships

[QUOTE=GoodTimes007;2723212]Guys,

I wrote that top 10 list out of humor [/QUOTE]Humor can be quite hard to interpret, and I apologize if I misinterpreted anything.

[QUOTE]In my opinion, this is a community of brothers that should lookout for one another.[/QUOTE]You are correct, and any criticism we give should be more constructive. My comments about the girls being real and suggestion that your approach may be to blame were meant to be helpful, not a criticism or in any way mean spirited.

Also very much agree that warning posts are helpful to all. It seems like the rule on SBs should be no public recommendations, just warnings.

[QUOTE]Having spent a considerable amount of time in POF, Ashley Madison, and others, I can confidently say that idiot men, monger or not, say stupid things. If my top 10 list is considered such, I apologize to the community.[/QUOTE]I will admit to poor choice of words in my response, and shouldn't have equated the idiots posting rude things there to mongers. That was unfair. I apologize.

Miscommunications and misunderstandings happen. No need to apologize, but it very big of you to do so.

Has anyone ever met Harley from SA. We have traded texts several times and she seems legit. Offers a complete and full menu. But just wondered before I take the plunge.

[QUOTE=Tonylove465;2723004]Heads up! Guys.

Amber M /21 Indianapolis.

She is probably the hottest chick I've met on SA.

She is a lot of talk. Maybe you might get some attention. Hopefully she learned what this site is about. But chances are she's going to tell ya the SOB stories and ask for money all the time.

Met her this past spring / summer. The first month I knew her she was locked up for 2 weeks.

Kept asking for money for court fees, attorney fees and playing the baby card. Baby needs diapers, please. Baby needs food, please.

She's changed her profile name. It was Angie.[/QUOTE]I'll repeat myself, stay away from this one. She's a total and complete piece of shit. And way less hot since the baby damage, anyway.

[QUOTE=Niceguy52;2723548]Has anyone ever met Harley from SA. We have traded texts several times and she seems legit. Offers a complete and full menu. But just wondered before I take the plunge.[/QUOTE]I met her in the summer for coffee, etc. She seems legit. I did not take the plunge, however, she was wearing an ankle bracelet at the time. So, I moved on.

[QUOTE=Nostra3;2723753]I'll repeat myself, stay away from this one. She's a total and complete piece of shit. And way less hot since the baby damage, anyway.[/QUOTE]Thanks! She's been messaging me a lot lately trying to meet.

If anyone has any experience with her, please PM me.

[QUOTE=Bigg2003;2725380]If anyone has any experience with her, please PM me.[/QUOTE]She's totally legit and open to most things. I've met up with her previously in Indy as she does not mind traveling to meet.

[QUOTE=Dente;2725815]She's totally legit and open to most things. I've met up with her previously in Indy as she does not mind traveling to meet.[/QUOTE]From Kentucky? Is that the one?

[QUOTE=Inndy1;2726399]From Kentucky? Is that the one?[/QUOTE]That is correct.

From Lafayette. Got something in the works with her. If anyone has seen her and willing to pass along any info (pm), I'd be greatly appreciative.

[QUOTE=Hobbyist45;2726750]From Lafayette. Got something in the works with her. If anyone has seen her and willing to pass along any info (pm), I'd be greatly appreciative.[/QUOTE]Chatted with her a bit. Didn't quite strike my fancy, but seemed nice. Good luck.

LizzieH "Well last guy I have gave me an upfront in Amazon as a way for him to show me that he's not lying about his wealthy and it was only like $6,000 dollars so nothing huge, then we met that night and the next day he gave me 50,000 for 8 months and hen after that 8 months anther 50,000. ".

Passionateamdreal: "My books are $607.89. $2 k a month". She said someone gave her a bad check, shame on whomever that was. I will say, she's very rude throughout the entire process.

I think these two are out of my league.

Was a waste of time for me. No call, no show, after what I felt was incredible chemistry. I think the issue is that she requires a meet and greet on the south side, but she could have said such instead of leaving me stranded at a Starbucks for an hour with no returned text. I'm embarrassed to say that the day prior she did the same thing but had texted that time to apologize. Both times I left it cool, including the flat out "blown off" occasion and left it at "I hope all is well and that you are ok. I'm leaving now, but if you get this and are alright let me know. " Nothing. I'm sure she's good for some, but a bit disrespectful to me. I've noticed this trend of great conversation, a strong desire to meet, then the time comes and a lot of cancelations. It must be the holidays.

Anyone have any intell on this one?

Been communicating and am 80% convinced she would be down for a good time.

[QUOTE=Romeoinsd;2679473]So she is the one with a BP ad AND a SA ad.

And YOU are too promiscuous?

Wow.

Delusional.[/QUOTE]Brittney goes by urlittlebaby on SA and SD4 ME. I met her for dinner in TH as well. She's got a rockin hot body with an ass to die for (thank you God for creating yoga pants). Conversation, while pleasant, seemed fake, insincere and a bit cold even when discussing intimate subjects. I am considering a follow up visit with her at her place to see if she warms up some in private. Getting up close and personal with that incredible body should be worth the trip!

[QUOTE=Bfeguy;2729693]Anyone have any intell on this one?

Been communicating and am 80% convinced she would be down for a good time.[/QUOTE]Well, the last 20% of convincing me seeing Monroe pretty much went to hell in a handbasket two days ago.

We got to the donation part of things and she started in how broke she was, electricity was going to get turned off on Christmas eve blah blah.

So I offered to come and see her right then. Said she was babysitting and could I front her the money right then and she would see me the next day. For the hell of it, I asked her to send me some pictures of her standing in front of a mirror holding two fingers up. She agreed, so that confirmed the girl in the picture matched the profile picture on SA.

I explained that our first meeting needed to be face to face with any donations for her time would be addressed at that time. She then asked again if there was anyway I could see it my heart to send her the money for her light bill that day. I acted like I didn't know how to send money like this and she sent me the link for Western Union and explained how it worked.

I told her again, lets meet now. She said she had to go to work right after babysitting and that she could meet me after she got off work but needed the money (200.00) to pay her light bill before 5 pm that day. Even sent me an address.

I acted like my internet wouldn't hook to the Western Union site. She said I will set an account up for you and you can just give me your card number and I can but it in for you.

I said let me know when you have it ready. About 5 min later she texts me saying its ready to go, what is your card number. Wow.

So I respond asking her what made her think that I would just hand over my card information to a prefect stranger. Hell, my family don't even have this information.

So she starts in how I'm just like the rest of the guys on the site, totally fake and uncaring. I kept communicating as I had nothing better to do at the time. She explained that I did not understand how all of this works. (excuse me, I have been at this for going on 39 years) and that if I expected to see her then I had to pay her up front. Really, I thought it was for her pastdue light bill.

I MapQuested the address and it appears to be a 200,000+ home in a location close to water.

Needless to say, BEWARE OF THIS ONE. I would suggest anyone thining about this woman to reconsider.

Happy holidays to all you guys.

[QUOTE=Hobbyist45;2726750]From Lafayette. Got something in the works with her. If anyone has seen her and willing to pass along any info (pm), I'd be greatly appreciative.[/QUOTE]Let us know how that goes.

She was all talk and no go with me.

[QUOTE=Bfeguy;2731544]

Needless to say, BEWARE OF THIS ONE. I would suggest anyone thining about this woman to reconsider.

Happy holidays to all you guys.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the head-up on this one! She recently reached out to me, so at least I now know where the talks will be geared towards. A moneygram.

[QUOTE=Romeoinsd;2685537]Greeneyedbb & Brooklynn. Same person, setups multiple accounts. Gives home address right away for a meet. This person is either a fake, sting, or rob. Went silent when I asked for a unique pic.[/QUOTE]I finally saw this girl. Extremely sweet. Extreme bubbly personality. Pics are accurate.

The only negative is that she is basically a high volume girl using SA instead of BP. She is not that bright.

She is sweet enough that I am hoping her Uncle doesn't catch on.

[QUOTE=Bubbler99;2731535]Brittney goes by urlittlebaby on SA and SD4 ME. I met her for dinner in TH as well. She's got a rockin hot body with an ass to die for (thank you God for creating yoga pants). Conversation, while pleasant, seemed fake, insincere and a bit cold even when discussing intimate subjects. I am considering a follow up visit with her at her place to see if she warms up some in private. Getting up close and personal with that incredible body should be worth the trip![/QUOTE]Back in October her and I started texting. Oh my god what a hot body. After a couple of days of this she lured me from Indy to Terre Haute on the premise of meeting for lunch and then on to her place for dessert.

We had lunch. Kept going to the bathroom, like three times. After the third time she came out and said she had never done this and couldn't go thru with it and left.

About 4 weeks ago, I'm on the website and she hits me up like we never spoke. I reminded her of the fiasco back in October. She said "Well, if you are going to bring that up, then what's the use in talking again?" I told her, "My point exactly".

I think she is bi-polar.

[QUOTE=Bfeguy;2731852]Back in October her and I started texting. Oh my god what a hot body. After a couple of days of this she lured me from Indy to Terre Haute on the premise of meeting for lunch and then on to her place for dessert.

We had lunch. Kept going to the bathroom, like three times. After the third time she came out and said she had never done this and couldn't go thru with it and left.

About 4 weeks ago, I'm on the website and she hits me up like we never spoke. I reminded her of the fiasco back in October. She said "Well, if you are going to bring that up, then what's the use in talking again?" I told her, "My point exactly".

I think she is bi-polar.[/QUOTE]I 'dated' Britt for a few months. She definitely is a pro at the SB game. I agree with all of the comments here as well as those over on the BP forum. I finally had enough of the drive to TH so I ended it. If she lived in Indy I'd probably have continued with her BS as she is very hot.

[QUOTE=Bfeguy;2731544]Well, the last 20% of convincing me seeing Monroe pretty much went to hell in a handbasket...Happy holidays to all you guys.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the heads up. Happy Holidays to you as well.

Proceed carefully with this one!

If you contact her thru SA, she plays the innocent girl whose sh*t doesn't stink and who claims to not know any abbreviations such as GFE, hhr, hr, etc. $300 to "just hang out because I have never done this before."

If you contact her because you found her old escort ads, than she checks references and only does outcall for $$hour.

If you call her out on her BS, she does a "urlittlebaby" act and goes postal on you.

I have no respect for girls that want to play it both ways and get paid for nothing SA-style.

I've been talking on and off with the following ladies for some time now, curious if any have Intel? I'm trying to do some process of elimination here as all require some serious follow up and yet seem worth it. Please PM for the sake of their discretion unless clear warnings are necessary for all.

Jenna.

Amber H maybe drama?

Lexi2716.

Taprath.

Mamaj92.

Scarlett.

Bexpat.

Thanks.

[QUOTE=GoodTimes007;2738185]I've been talking on and off with the following ladies for some time now, curious if any have Intel? I'm trying to do some process of elimination here as all require some serious follow up and yet seem worth it. Please PM for the sake of their discretion unless clear warnings are necessary for all.

Jenna.

Amber H maybe drama?

Lexi2716.

Taprath.

Mamaj92.

Scarlett.

Bexpat.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]For me, they were all time-wasters except for Mamaj92. They either respond once per month or not at all. I sometimes wonder if these are somewhat of shill accounts just to get you to renew your account.

But either way, you should still try and go for them. They could just be ignoring me because they didn't like me.

As someone who's been enjoying this type of relationships for a long time, I thought I'd add a few things (you can see some of my advice early in this thread).

What I've seen from Evalder, Goodtimes and IndyGuy echoes my thoughts and experiences. The ladies I'm looking for are not pros, and treating them like a pro isn't going to go anywhere. The ones I'm looking for are generally young ladies that want to be wined and dined, get their nails and hair done, maybe a little help here and there with the rent. The relationship I'm interested in is much more a committed, caring, friends-with-benefits style than a "menu-based" type of relationship. I don't use SA, so I'm not really qualified to comment directly on the resources that are available; I tend to meet my SBs through real life interactions or sometimes through Craigslist. I bring the same amount of charm, attention and effort as I would to a normal dating relationship, and that's what I expect in return.

First, I want to echo all the advice about never paying for a M&G. I'll buy dinner, spring for the coffee or drinks, whatever. I usually shoot for a lunch meeting just because it's more casual. I treat it like a flirtatious job interview. I want to know about the person, their thoughts, what their requirements are, and why they think they'd make a good sugar baby. I don't necessarily want to hear their sob story (if there is one). I wouldn't dream of giving someone money through Western Union / Moneygram. They need to put forth the effort if they want me to reciprocate. Ladies with the attitude that the DADDY needs to give them something first are living in a fantasy world (or they're being successful taking advantage of guys who are a bit too desperate and don't understand the dynamics of this type of relationship yet).

Second, I wouldn't EVER give a prospective SB a second chance to stand me up. She misses that first date, or she's more than a few minutes late (and I'd better know she's going to be late), and I'm done. Just like I'd treat it if there was a job interview. I've had strings of dead mothers, dead step-fathers, dead daughters, hospitalized loved ones, ER visit excuses. I've also had overslept, got in the shower late, was cleaning out my closet. I really don't care what the excuse is, obviously meeting wasn't important enough to you, so don't cry to me that your rent is due.

Third, there are a lot of sweet, smart, sexy young ladies that are thrilled to death with a steady, committed $600-$800 per month. They're not having to work 100 hours to get that, they generally get to have a good time, etc. If you do your best to treat them well both in public and in private, they'll respond. The idea of $6000 up front "to prove your wealth" is ludicrous in the extreme. That may be necessary if you're trying to seduce some Hollywood starlet, but a midwestern college cutie? Maybe I'm just not that desperate. I do get the occasional "$1000/ wk" type of woman, and strangely, they generally seem to be the least attractive variety. It's weird.

I know on another thread it was said that all these girls are pros, but I don't see it that way. I don't think there's anything at all wrong with a woman being attracted to a guy because he treats her nicely. As a matter of fact, I think it makes perfect sense for a college student who is focused on her school and doesn't want the drama of a "normal" relationship to seek out this kind of relationship. I think there's plenty of reasons for a young lady to be attracted to a decent looking, well kept, gentleman who takes good care of her without it making her a professional or a sex worker.

TD.

P.S. I saw Britt a couple of times a few years back, but got a real serious "stripper vibe" from here with her wanting to negotiate everything. I got a good chuckle at her, "Never done this before" spiel mentioned here. Honestly, I don't like real "meaty" girl parts, either, so I didn't find her that attractive out of her clothes.

[QUOTE=GoodTimes007;2738185]I've been talking on and off with the following ladies for some time now, curious if any have Intel? I'm trying to do some process of elimination here as all require some serious follow up and yet seem worth it. Please PM for the sake of their discretion unless clear warnings are necessary for all.

Jenna. [/QUOTE]Bit of Attitude and Drama. Got a GPS vibe from her.

Others I will PM you info.

[QUOTE=TheDistance;2739722]As someone who's been enjoying this type of relationships for a long time, I thought I'd add a few things (you can see some of my advice early in this thread).

What I've seen from Evalder, Goodtimes and IndyGuy echoes my thoughts and experiences. The ladies I'm looking for are not pros, and treating them like a pro isn't going to go anywhere. The ones I'm looking for are generally young ladies that want to be wined and dined, get their nails and hair done, maybe a little help here and there with the rent. The relationship I'm interested in is much more a committed, caring, friends-with-benefits style than a "menu-based" type of relationship. I don't use SA, so I'm not really qualified to comment directly on the resources that are available; I tend to meet my SBs through real life interactions or sometimes through Craigslist. I bring the same amount of charm, attention and effort as I would to a normal dating relationship, and that's what I expect in return.

First, I want to echo all the advice about never paying for a M&G. I'll buy dinner, spring for the coffee or drinks, whatever. I usually shoot for a lunch meeting just because it's more casual. I treat it like a flirtatious job interview. I want to know about the person, their thoughts, what their requirements are, and why they think they'd make a good sugar baby. I don't necessarily want to hear their sob story (if there is one). I wouldn't dream of giving someone money through Western Union / Moneygram. They need to put forth the effort if they want me to reciprocate. Ladies with the attitude that the DADDY needs to give them something first are living in a fantasy world (or they're being successful taking advantage of guys who are a bit too desperate and don't understand the dynamics of this type of relationship yet).

Second, I wouldn't EVER give a prospective SB a second chance to stand me up. She misses that first date, or she's more than a few minutes late (and I'd better know she's going to be late), and I'm done. Just like I'd treat it if there was a job interview. I've had strings of dead mothers, dead step-fathers, dead daughters, hospitalized loved ones, ER visit excuses. I've also had overslept, got in the shower late, was cleaning out my closet. I really don't care what the excuse is, obviously meeting wasn't important enough to you, so don't cry to me that your rent is due.

Third, there are a lot of sweet, smart, sexy young ladies that are thrilled to death with a steady, committed $600-$800 per month. They're not having to work 100 hours to get that, they generally get to have a good time, etc. If you do your best to treat them well both in public and in private, they'll respond. The idea of $6000 up front "to prove your wealth" is ludicrous in the extreme. That may be necessary if you're trying to seduce some Hollywood starlet, but a midwestern college cutie? Maybe I'm just not that desperate. I do get the occasional "$1000/ wk" type of woman, and strangely, they generally seem to be the least attractive variety. It's weird.

I know on another thread it was said that all these girls are pros, but I don't see it that way. I don't think there's anything at all wrong with a woman being attracted to a guy because he treats her nicely. As a matter of fact, I think it makes perfect sense for a college student who is focused on her school and doesn't want the drama of a "normal" relationship to seek out this kind of relationship. I think there's plenty of reasons for a young lady to be attracted to a decent looking, well kept, gentleman who takes good care of her without it making her a professional or a sex worker.

TD.

P.S. I saw Britt a couple of times a few years back, but got a real serious "stripper vibe" from here with her wanting to negotiate everything. I got a good chuckle at her, "Never done this before" spiel mentioned here. Honestly, I don't like real "meaty" girl parts, either, so I didn't find her that attractive out of her clothes.[/QUOTE]Good advice. Thank you.

[QUOTE=TheDistance;2739722]First, I want to echo all the advice about never paying for a M&G. I'll buy dinner, spring for the coffee or drinks, whatever. I usually shoot for a lunch meeting just because it's more casual. I treat it like a flirtatious job interview. I want to know about the person, their thoughts, what their requirements are, and why they think they'd make a good sugar baby. I don't necessarily want to hear their sob story (if there is one). I wouldn't dream of giving someone money through Western Union / Moneygram. They need to put forth the effort if they want me to reciprocate. Ladies with the attitude that the DADDY needs to give them something first are living in a fantasy world (or they're being successful taking advantage of guys who are a bit too desperate and don't understand the dynamics of this type of relationship yet).

Second, I wouldn't EVER give a prospective SB a second chance to stand me up. She misses that first date, or she's more than a few minutes late (and I'd better know she's going to be late), and I'm done. Just like I'd treat it if there was a job interview. I've had strings of dead mothers, dead step-fathers, dead daughters, hospitalized loved ones, ER visit excuses. I've also had overslept, got in the shower late, was cleaning out my closet. I really don't care what the excuse is, obviously meeting wasn't important enough to you, so don't cry to me that your rent is due.[/QUOTE]Fuck, finally somebody that gets it.

I never thought the day would get here.

A2.

[QUOTE=Admin2;2739972]Fuck, finally somebody that gets it.

I never thought the day would get here.

A2.[/QUOTE]Come on. It can't be helpful to call 99 pct of your users morons.

[QUOTE=Mwdude;2740311]Come on. It can't be helpful to call 99 pct of your users morons.[/QUOTE]It might be helpful if it gets people to stop putting up with tardiness and no shows and to stop paying for M&Gs.

Plus nowhere was the word "morons" used or overtly implied.

Don't know if this has been shared or not (if it has I apologize for missing it), but according to several SBs I've talked to, they get a notification every single time their profile is viewed. Even if the same person has viewed it before. So if you view their profile 10 times and then message them, they will have seen that you viewed them 10 times. They will also see if you checked out their profile even if you have all your status info hidden and your account hidden.

One girl I had spoken to in the past messaged me "I see you looking at me" as I had accidentally clicked on her profile instead of the message thread. That's how I first learned that happens. Have confirmed this info since. Thought it was worth passing along.

So maybe it is a good idea to create a "Shopping" account to check out POT SBs and refresh your memory when chatting / texting.

For those looking for UTR pros / semi pros.

Kinsley2015 looks very familiar from the hobby, and as a cash and dash or robbery. I could be wrong but proceed with caution unless someone else has a better memory than I and can shed some light.

Nina Love Lace real deal pro not SB but plan on spending 250-3 per plus hotel.

Katej22 real deal amature plan on 225 plus hotel and a crappy BP attitude. Looks hot, I have low tolerance for crappy replies when I'm being cordial.

For those looking for a more relationship style arrangement, here's how I have found it to finally work best.

After three months on SA and tremendous success, I'd say that the ones really worth knowing, and the best value, are those who don't sell themselves for sex. They take their time, you make them laugh, you engage in conversation about their passions and dreams, you compliment them, and they show genuine interest in you as a person. Never bring up money throughout the entire time you talk. I'm getting marketing materials made by one, paying half the price of graphic design firms, and we are sharing ideas naked in bed while working on its creation. A true SB has no problem earning her keep, appreciates mentorship in the pursuit of her dreams, and is happy with a new lingerie set from VS as a sign of affection more so than an allowance. With patience, "she" can be found, and I've found mine in 3 months, two of which involved daily conversations with her. It was a 30 minute daily investment for a lady passionate about marketing, a need I have, that has lead to a discrete relationship in the process.

It's really opened my eyes to quality versus quantity and made me rethink the entire approach on that site. Women don't like being negotiated with $$$ for sex, it's insulting to most. So when a woman does not take the time to get to know me prior to asking "how much can you give?" I let her know how equally offensive her question is to those she gets about sex.

The one unexplored avenue.

I'm curious if anyone has experience with paying a monthly allowance and how that has worked out? Pros, cons? I've used the standard line "there must be chemistry, consistency, and trust established prior to commuting to an up front monthly allowance, and I would never insult you with the idea of waiting until months end, do you have an idea that may work for both of our levels of comfort?" That has always lead to a per visit (better referred to a weekly arrangement since your seeing them only once per week anyway). There are however a select few beauties on there that do not bend from monthly. As soon as I perceive them as a scam, they tend to find a suitor. Am I missing out on a good thing, or an increased investment with less visits, more cancellations and scheduling conflicts, etc?

[QUOTE=GoodTimes007;2751105]For those looking for UTR pros / semi pros.

Kinsley2015 looks very familiar from the hobby, and as a cash and dash or robbery. I could be wrong but proceed with caution unless someone else has a better memory than I and can shed some light.

Nina Love Lace real deal pro not SB but plan on spending 250-3 per plus hotel.

Katej22 real deal amature plan on 225 plus hotel and a crappy BP attitude. Looks hot, I have low tolerance for crappy replies when I'm being cordial.

For those looking for a more relationship style arrangement, here's how I have found it to finally work best.

After three months on SA and tremendous success, I'd say that the ones really worth knowing, and the best value, are those who don't sell themselves for sex. They take their time, you make them laugh, you engage in conversation about their passions and dreams, you compliment them, and they show genuine interest in you as a person. Never bring up money throughout the entire time you talk. I'm getting marketing materials made by one, paying half the price of graphic design firms, and we are sharing ideas naked in bed while working on its creation. A true SB has no problem earning her keep, appreciates mentorship in the pursuit of her dreams, and is happy with a new lingerie set from VS as a sign of affection more so than an allowance. With patience, "she" can be found, and I've found mine in 3 months, two of which involved daily conversations with her. It was a 30 minute daily investment for a lady passionate about marketing, a need I have, that has lead to a discrete relationship in the process.

It's really opened my eyes to quality versus quantity and made me rethink the entire approach on that site. Women don't like being negotiated with $$$ for sex, it's insulting to most. So when a woman does not take the time to get to know me prior to asking "how much can you give?" I let her know how equally offensive her question is to those she gets about sex.

The one unexplored avenue.

I'm curious if anyone has experience with paying a monthly allowance and how that has worked out? Pros, cons? I've used the standard line "there must be chemistry, consistency, and trust established prior to commuting to an up front monthly allowance, and I would never insult you with the idea of waiting until months end, do you have an idea that may work for both of our levels of comfort?" That has always lead to a per visit (better referred to a weekly arrangement since your seeing them only once per week anyway). There are however a select few beauties on there that do not bend from monthly. As soon as I perceive them as a scam, they tend to find a suitor. Am I missing out on a good thing, or an increased investment with less visits, more cancellations and scheduling conflicts, etc?[/QUOTE]All good stuff. My gut says to pass on anyone insisting on a monthly arrangement up front. Once that monthly allowance is established the incentive to perform is gone. All she has to concern herself with is making you happy a few days before payment is due.

Another issue are the ones who are double and triple dipping.

However, if you get a regular schedule working with one who is worth the investment, monthly might be a better arrangement.

Bamabelle22 She is real and has her own place. Semi-pro. Do not over pay 2. Isles open. Play safe JB.

Any of you guys know "mirandie"? We got a good dialogue going and she wants to meet tomorrow. She looks like a stripper in her pics, I'm not a club regular but I thought some of you guys might recognize her.

[QUOTE=JaxSon07;2755310]Any of you guys know "mirandie"? We got a good dialogue going and she wants to meet tomorrow. She looks like a stripper in her pics, I'm not a club regular but I thought some of you guys might recognize her.[/QUOTE]I have spent time with her.

Normal drama that an ex stripper has.

[QUOTE=Golfer72;2671600]Definitely a little more work on the front end, but a veritable ever-changing smorgasboard of hot women of you are willing to put in the time and effort.[/QUOTE]Couldn't agree more, if any of you have yet to try this, you are truly missing out. Yes there is a $70 dollar fee to join but if you wait a bit you will get a decent discount, honestly all you probably need is one month to have enough contacts to make it worth your wild.

The savings overall is huge if you like a weekly session, I may never go back to the normal hinting after trying this, it's much more fun and your wallet goes much further. I have been pleasantly surprised thus far, in sure there is scams and bad experiences but haven't ran across that yet.

[QUOTE=Evalder;2739851]Bit of Attitude and Drama. Got a GPS vibe from her.

Others I will PM you info.[/QUOTE]In response to Jenna:

Jenna apparently must have GPS (and at minimum a complete waste of time,) as she spends her time online agreeing to arrangements, then never committing to a meet and greet as she continues to seek out better offers, when one can't be found she will email back (up to weeks) later "forgetting" what our agreement was and asking for clarification. She's done this for months, now her new gig is throwing down attitude "that she's wasted enough of her time" on meet and greets that she wants guaranteed payment if she meets at all. I've noticed a growing trend of ladies expecting to be paid for a meet and greet and sure hope fellas are not doing so to secure a face to face; it's not necessary nor worth it.

In general. To those discussing meet and greets.

Treat SA like a normal dating site with monies not mentioned at all. If they try, simply say you only discuss this once you know chemistry exists, which can only be established once you have met them in person. They are in essence applying for a job, they don't get paid for interviews, nor should they be for meet and greets. I'm personally not paying until I know they look like their picture, do not bring drama or attitude, are safe and live in a decent location, and have good hygiene.

This below should go without saying.

But be careful on SA. The more popular SA gets, the more scammers it attracts. There is a growing number of "send me money through. " Wire transfer or Paypal ladies, and a spawning of "cyber, Skype, and text only" arrangement seekers surfacing. Be careful and be sure to report those to SA, the report feature does work. Just be sure to get the lady to say that this is what she wants within SAs email system and her, and her IP address will be banned. I traditionally try to get them off that site prior to discussing specifics, however I've had to adjust three things: Find out if they are wanting a face to face arrangement and if they intend to do so for the price of a drink (I don't say it that way of course,) get their number first and Google / Facebook it (using a fake fb account,) if you get a name you can google the name + "mugshots," and not showing my pictures prior to knowing for certain it's not a scam. Since doing so, I've caught two ladies scamming: one wanting a wire transfer to get her sick grandma a caregiver for "our day," the other a part of the same druggie group that previously screen shot my pictures. Be safe, for what it's worth. The moderator of this board gave me good advice with these ladies. Tel them to shut up and move on. That works if direct enough about it, also.

If you go into settings, you can hide your activity, profile, and registration date if you want. If you hide your activity, it doesn't show up that you viewed her, if you hide your profile, they won't be able to find you without some effort.

[QUOTE=Evalder;2740902]Don't know if this has been shared or not (if it has I apologize for missing it), but according to several SBs I've talked to, they get a notification every single time their profile is viewed. Even if the same person has viewed it before. So if you view their profile 10 times and then message them, they will have seen that you viewed them 10 times. They will also see if you checked out their profile even if you have all your status info hidden and your account hidden.

One girl I had spoken to in the past messaged me "I see you looking at me" as I had accidentally clicked on her profile instead of the message thread. That's how I first learned that happens. Have confirmed this info since. Thought it was worth passing along.

So maybe it is a good idea to create a "Shopping" account to check out POT SBs and refresh your memory when chatting / texting.[/QUOTE]