[QUOTE=JoeMuckInFutch;4271757]Yup. You are right, and thanks for the info on those two. Let's see how my paranoia works. AMPs might be watched and you could get Kratft'd but you are not a single billionaire who does not need his job. Realistically the probability is low, but if you have experience with Mr Murphy, you will understand the concern. So you start looking at escorts more closely and decide older might be safer, and you are attracted to older women in any event, but the older they get the more they seem to want real screening. Go to point one above about exposure risk. So you start looking at the over 30 group that does not want screening and hope this forum can tell you something. But some guys here are comfortable with or recognize the reality of the addiction problem and tend not to report it. So now your dilemma just got worse. Where to go that is relatively safe? Now I am licensed to carry in ME and NH and that right extends to various other states but not the blue ones nearby. But do I really want to be carrying when visiting a lady? Yes if she has a big pimp waiting to rob a 60 YO out of shape guy with medical problems, but shoot the bastard and you are back to the exposure problem, this time in spades (pun not intended).
I vacation in Maine. But I travel all over the northeast and with a lot of effort can find some situations that appear relatively safe (I am about to report on one in PA as soon as I get time). But I'd really like a UTR situation or something close to it in southern Maine for when I'm up here trying to decompress. But I will probably continue to hobby elsewhere instead.
So you guys with more risk tolerance can tell me I'm a pussy who should not be in this hobby and I might agree. But my libido is still strong and my medical situation is improving, so I have a viable shot at hitting my bucket list of types of women I want to fuck before it permanently goes limp. If I were retired and did not have an SO albatross problem (very long and involved story that I will not share), then my risk tolerance would go up. However, while I recognize that addiction is a driving factor in supply in this hobby, I would prefer not to feed it if at all possible.
If you've read this far and can't figure out a point to this, maybe it is that we all need to improve our reporting about addiction and pimps so we go into situations with our eyes open. We all could learn from JoeBell here, who had the decency to warn us about these two ladies. I wish there were a way to get more mongers to use and post on this forum. And I thank all of my buds out there who have kept me out of trouble so far in this 35 year journey in this hobby.[/QUOTE]I live near exit 130 and have had great success posting my own wanted ads on various sites. There's a lot of UTR providers that will give you the relationship you're describing. I've got a few that ask me not to give out their contact info. I'm not sure how many clients they have but none seem to have addiction problems and I've never seen bruises, track marks or any other red flags on them. Craigslist was the best for posting wanted ads, not you might get away with CxG or some other sites.
