FeminineVenus on seek GHOSTED
[QUOTE=WhiteSun777;7297193][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c48ca1c2-fe23-4718-a612-f798d9388dcb[/URL]
Curious if anyone seen her. Seems friendly via the chat, haven't got numbers yet.[/QUOTE]Don't recommend, I got ghosted right before the meet. Ugh.
Ppm and the world of sugar dating
[QUOTE=AngryMan420;7309452]Hey gents. I've recently begun exploring the SD / SB side of things ahead of my return to the bay area in a couple of months. Started with AMPs, got bored, then I got into CC and Massagefinder which have both been great, feels like SD / SB is a good next step.
Would appreciate some info on the following (feel free to DM me).
1. In the sugar world, when someone says PPM is it usually price per hour? I assume it varies by girl, but based on your experience, do you usually end up spending multiple hours with the girl for the same one time PPM?
2. Other than the popular subreddit, any specific forums on this site that you would recommend to learn about best approaches etc. Towards getting SBs?[/QUOTE]Welcome to the world of sugar dating, it can be frustrating but with a lot of patience, the rewards can be great. It's definitely a hit or miss and usually it's a miss.
Ppm is Pay Per Meet. Usually starts with ppm until you get into a full blown arrangement (more on this later).
Traditionally, you can do a Meet and Greet first where both parties meet at a public spot, to see if the connection is there, talk about the ppm, type of arrangement, etc. Normally the meet and greet should NOT involved a rate although most will flat out refuse to do this now and days. Some will now request a small amount, that could be 100-200, some even expects a PPM amount (avoid those!
Once you've determined her ppm rate, you can either agree or try to negotiate. Let's say she wanted 1000 ppm, you can counter 500 like I do. Also be very clear that this is an intimate meet. There's a few out there who will refuse to get intimate on the first meet as they want to move things slow (avoid those!) This isn't bumble.
As for long how they will stick around, there's no set rule. In my experience, I've encountered a few that will only be there for the hour (those are one and done in my book) till I had one recently where she stayed overnight (very rare).
Now if you find your SB and you guys are really hitting it off, you can move onto an arrangement vs ppm. Everyone's different but usually it involves some sort of monthly allowance. (e. G. Pay for her car payment, rent, other expenses, etc.) It's not cheap for sure but by then she'll agree to go on trips with you, etc. If that's what you're looking for.
Good luck!