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[QUOTE=Ryan33;4478292]If you like seeing more than one woman and not be exclusive, allowance is probably not a good idea.
If she has not shown that she can be trusted, allowance is probably not a good idea.
If she is seeing multiple men, allowance is probably not a good idea.
If scheduling time with her is difficult, allowance is probably not a good idea.[/QUOTE]I have to agrees with at Ryan33 on these. All very good points and ones I have stuck to.
Just to follow up on my allowance post. I meet a 19 yr old student this week. Coffee on Wednesday and hotel yesterday. She is probably a 9+ in looks, slender like a model with perky B / C tits and a cute face, although some might consider her too slender. I would say she is a black version of Bella who has been discussed recently, but with nicer tits.
Won't go into details, but we had an amazing time. One of my best experiences ever for a straight hotel room meeting. Best experiences are usually outside the hotel, like fucking them on my desk after everyone else has left work. But that is another story. Issue is money is important to her and we agreed at 400, although I thinks she wants more. First guy she meet on SA gave her 700 for the first meeting and only went 1 round, unlike the multiple we did yesterday. Second guy, bought her a $500 necklace at their meet and greet. I couldn't figure out what he was giving her for an allowance, but he couldn't get it up and just fingered her a couple times a week. Sometimes she would stay for 6 hours. He had a really strange fetish request that turned her off, so she ghosted him.
My point is, she would be perfect for an allowance situation if you found a number you could agree on. She would probably meet couple time a week and occasional overnight similar to Readct's arrangement. But I can't do it given my situation since I can't meet that often or do overnights. Lucky, I may bring to Florida with me for a few days later this month. Otherwise, just going to ride this out as long as I can or she starts wanting too much for PPM.
Not giving her info out yet, so don't ask LOL.
[QUOTE=Poksman;4364435]I just checked link, still working (here are screenshots). She didn't give her number.[/QUOTE]Months ago this girl ghosted me for a meet. Talked to her on the phone and everything. I see her profile comes and goes. Just a heads up in case any set something up with her, she may disappear on you.
She contacted me and we went quickly to text. Asked for 800 and did not want to negotiate.
[QUOTE=Anonyminn;4474840][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/10840b56-3c55-4256-b9a3-73bc1dcb43ae[/URL]
Met her for dinner. Very attractive in person, excellent conversationalist and super chill. Negotiated 300 PPM and set up a meeting at her place about week later.[/QUOTE]Just curious how many meet for dinner for the initial meet and great. I only do coffee or drinks, depending on their age and time of day. That way if I am not interested I can be out the door in 30 minutes or less. Feel that dinner is too much of a time commitment for someone I have not meet.
My meet and greet with the 19 yr old I meet this week was little different. After the initial pleasantries, she started asking me questions and she kept looking at her phone. It was obvious that she had a list of questions that she was reading from, so I asked her about it. She admitted to it and said she had prepared as if it was a job interview, including the way she dressed. She claimed they we her own questions and she hadn't downloaded them from a website. When we were leaving, I asked if once she finished grading my answers if she was going to text me grade. Giving our meeting the next day, I must have passed LOL.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/33aa7fc5-7b05-4320-8c20-d3e3937a7490[/URL]
If you're into tall and thin, she looks potentially exceptional from her teaser pic. She "prefers" that the "first few meets" be platonic, and claims she's fetched 150 for these in the past. I replied that I've never comp'd for such meets and asked how much she wants when things heat up. Unsurprisingly, no response to date.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a3b1d108-8697-4203-9c37-d18b033ee136[/URL]
Readily accepted 250 PPM. She then asked for electronic payment at the beginning of the meet, but accepted my counter of cash in a 50/50 split (start / finish) for the first few meetings. Agreeable to an uncompensated M&G provided "our initial meeting occur at the one location for under an hour. " She also "require (s) a condom for vaginal as well as oral sex without exceptions. " No thanks.
[QUOTE=Ryan33;4479637]Just curious how many meet for dinner for the initial meet and great. I only do coffee or drinks, depending on their age and time of day. That way if I am not interested I can be out the door in 30 minutes or less. Feel that dinner is too much of a time commitment for someone I have not meet.
My meet and greet with the 19 yr old I meet this week was little different. After the initial pleasantries, she started asking me questions and she kept looking at her phone. It was obvious that she had a list of questions that she was reading from, so I asked her about it. She admitted to it and said she had prepared as if it was a job interview, including the way she dressed. She claimed they we her own questions and she hadn't downloaded them from a website. When we were leaving, I asked if once she finished grading my answers if she was going to text me grade. Giving our meeting the next day, I must have passed LOL.[/QUOTE]I'll invite them to dinner on the rare occasion I have both the free time (my main limiting factor) and feel like eating out anyway. Being married, such opportunities are uncommon, though several came up in the past few weeks.
My usual meetups are weekend lunches. My go-to spot is cheap, unique and local so I can grab a meal (which I need anyway) and gauge chemistry with minimal loss of time and money.
Interesting experience with your new SB Ryan. Sounds like it may have been a bit awkward conversationally, but ultimately a net positive in how seriously she took the meet. Glad you've found a keeper.
[QUOTE=Ryan33;4478292]I have tried the allowance route a couple times and never worked out as much in my favor as I had hoped. I am almost 57 and married, so my experiences are probably quite different than a younger single person. But here are a couple thoughts.
If you are married with limited availability to meet up and require a hotel for each meeting, allowance is probably not a good idea.
If you like seeing more than one woman and not be exclusive, allowance is probably not a good idea.
If she has not shown that she can be trusted, allowance is probably not a good idea.
If she is seeing multiple men, allowance is probably not a good idea.
If scheduling time with her is difficult, allowance is probably not a good idea.
Again just my opinions and every arrangement is different. For me PPM is so much easier. Given the right set of circumstances an allowance agreement would be wonderful, but fairly certain that is not going to happen for me.[/QUOTE]Right on point, can't say better.
I got her to text a few weeks ago. Tried to set up a meet and greet and she kept having to reschedule, so I gave up.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3610a14b-dd55-473c-a0c4-1a1e068b7ddc[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2fdf8076-d8eb-4e19-b3b4-fd4920eb41b2[/URL]
[QUOTE=JlWenten;4480807][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2fdf8076-d8eb-4e19-b3b4-fd4920eb41b2[/URL][/QUOTE]They sent me this message:
"Hey 2 girls looking for fun 💙. Text me if interested 💋 6514196254".
Guess there is a chance they are real, but I doubt it. That is just my opinion I could be wrong.
[QUOTE=Anonyminn;4480395] Interesting experience with your new SB Ryan. Sounds like it may have been a bit awkward conversationally, but ultimately a net positive in how seriously she took the meet. Glad you've found a keeper.[/QUOTE]This month marks the 4th anniversary of when I created my profile. Have had a few conversations that were much more awkward, like when the MMA fighter ex-boyfriend showed up and sat down with us. Or when another pulled a gun from her purse and said give me all your money. This was much less stressful than those LOL.
I would say the last year has been the best for me, despite the fact there is way more BS on the site. Might be that I am getting smarter or maybe the fact I changed my age from 56 to 46 on my profile. I have actually moved on from a few that were terrific because I didn't have time for all of them. Still seems I am always looking for something better or that I consider better value.
Any info on Maddy?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6fbc7b83-3862-4e10-bbf7-c042a815ab4e[/URL]
[QUOTE=HardWoodsman;4483100]Any info on Maddy?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6fbc7b83-3862-4e10-bbf7-c042a815ab4e[/URL][/QUOTE]I exchanged messages with her a long time back, things seemed little off with her and never went anywhere.