The Prickyard

[QUOTE=FarEastMan;2799073]I just feel disgusted about myself for needing to step out, I need someone to hold me, and my lady won't do that. Just not sure what to do.[/QUOTE]If you think spending some $$ for a provider who will snuggle and hold you is the way to resolve those feelings of inadequacy when you already feel disgusted about the thought, then you are on the wrong board. I'm not trying to tell you what to do, but many of us have been in your shoes and know the feeling. After 20+ years of marriage with no, and I mean zero, intimacy from my SO for a period of three years I ventured out. I felt inadequate as a man and human. This was after counseling and working on communication issues but none of it helped. So after I felt I gave it my best shot, I found a hot freckled stripper and had some fun. So my advice is counseling and in the sessions when things are not proceeding down the path you need, plain and simply say. "If you can't show me the affection that I deserve after X many years of commitment to you and allow me to show you the affection I feel FOR you, then I will find it somewhere else. This is not a threat, just what I have determined I need in my life as a male and a human being with normal feelings and desires of reciprocal intimacy of some type".

After that you may not feel so guilty. Mine didn't care, she said go forth and sew your oats. That's when I found the stripper and sew away I did!

[QUOTE=Kyussfan;2798091]Hey!! If it gets me front row seats to a Flock of Seagulls concert, then so be it!! LOL!![/QUOTE]Not going to lie. Drop day 1 I envisioned you with the Seagulls' lead singer's hair. LOL.

[QUOTE=Mwdude;2799309]Not going to lie. Drop day 1 I envisioned you with the Seagulls' lead singer's hair. LOL.[/QUOTE]If I can still find my Aquanet and my Goody comb, I can make that happen!! LOL then we can all meet at the strip club. Once we've got our eyes on the prizes, we'll all put on our helmets and we'll do the safety dance with some splittails! Wow, there's something seriously wrong with me.

Great advice as always! I think real good therapy would be playing, connect the dots on a freckled, fine, redhead (with baby batter)! Break out the red Kool-Aid, lets all drink to New Pussy!

BG,

P.S., sometimes when it rains it pours! And for the Bigguy, it's monsoon season for pussy! Life is good.

[QUOTE=FreckleFreak;2799296]If you think spending some $$ for a provider who will snuggle and hold you is the way to resolve those feelings of inadequacy when you already feel disgusted about the thought, then you are on the wrong board. I'm not trying to tell you what to do, but many of us have been in your shoes and know the feeling. After 20+ years of marriage with no, and I mean zero, intimacy from my SO for a period of three years I ventured out. I felt inadequate as a man and human. This was after counseling and working on communication issues but none of it helped. So after I felt I gave it my best shot, I found a hot freckled stripper and had some fun. So my advice is counseling and in the sessions when things are not proceeding down the path you need, plain and simply say. "If you can't show me the affection that I deserve after X many years of commitment to you and allow me to show you the affection I feel FOR you, then I will find it somewhere else. This is not a threat, just what I have determined I need in my life as a male and a human being with normal feelings and desires of reciprocal intimacy of some type".

After that you may not feel so guilty. Mine didn't care, she said go forth and sew your oats. That's when I found the stripper and sew away I did![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=IndyGuy123;2801635]What is the purpose of this Forum?

The purpose of this Forum is to facilitate the exchange of information between men who are looking for sex with women.

What is SPAM?

Spam is defined as postings to the Forum that are contrary to the purpose of the site, including:

- Transvestite Messages.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Dnims;2801092]Which one of you degenerates get the ts itch? Any referrals? Mya? Amanda? Adonna? PM if you'd prefer.[/QUOTE]Barf! I just threw up in my mouth. Besides, getting an itch is rarely a good thing in the hobby. Especially when it's with A-man-duh! Or any of them. Also how do you objectively choose between them? Are Adam's apples considered sexy? Back hair? And the term "passable" bothers me. This characteristic is only as good as the adhesive that pastes it to his thigh!

I flag everyone of those ads in the female escort section on Backpage. I would appreciate help.

[QUOTE=Mwdude;2803500]Links. If you want help, don't make us hunt down your inquiry.[/QUOTE]I agree Mwdude.

Is it that difficult to figure out how to copy and paste a link? Isn't it obvious from all of the BP reviews and the requests for info that a link included in the post is standard practice?

Which brings us to the subject of reviews. If you are out there asking for Intel on different advertisers, where are your reviews? Did you get confused and think this is some sort of charity? Just walk in with your hand out and someone will hand you a bowl of soup, a condom and the phone number to their favorite provider?

This is a Co-op, a co-operative exchange. You come by, drop off your reviews, which you don't need, then pick up some new information. In this way everyone benefits. But, if you don't have the decency to share your reviews then No soup for you.

I'm also getting tired of the zero post member PMs asking "can you tell me. " something already in the forum. Do I look like your mother? Am I supposed to make your bed and wash your balls too? RTFF, do some research, TOFTT and at least post an introduction. Something along the lines of: "Hello. I'm a newbie leech. I'm here to suck the information out of everyone, then I will crawl off somewhere until I need some more. I'm not going to give any information, but I will occasionally drop a few names that I've seen others talk about. Please feed me. ".

Rant over.

[QUOTE=Jjbee62;2803580]Is it that difficult to figure out how to copy and paste a link? Isn't it obvious from all of the BP reviews and the requests for info that a link included in the post is standard practice?

Which brings us to the subject of reviews. If you are out there asking for Intel on different advertisers, where are your reviews? Did you get confused and think this is some sort of charity? Just walk in with your hand out and someone will hand you a bowl of soup, a condom and the phone number to their favorite provider?[/QUOTE]The Indy Gents started a Blog for all you new comers and lurkers. It's called First Time Posters and Newbies. Try reading the Blog and read some of the below previous posts. Get on board with the program or you will be completely ignored. We want you here but your mother (s) aren't going to help you out anymore unless you contribute to the household.

Thank you for your consideration and here is a link to the blog.

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?19166-First-Time-Posters-and-Newbies&p=2716976&viewfull=1#post2716976[/URL]

[QUOTE=FreckleFreak;2716976]New members at times find it tough to get answers to their questions and achieve a response to their posts and / or PM's. I find the reasons are similar to hunting with a group of guys. In every hunting group there could be new hunters and experienced hunters. The experienced hunters have a problem with new hunters who never contribute by gathering fire wood, cooking a meal, cleaning the camp and always want to know the location of the best hunting spot.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Admin2;2717219][BLUE]A lot of times the guys that have been around here awhile seem to close ranks and be less than friendly. For you guys that are just joining us, welcome. Seriously welcome to the site and I want to give you something to think about.

Say you're a guy that likes to smoke a little weed from time to time and you have just moved to a new city. You're just a hangaround kinda guy nothing special, 9-5er but you like to go out, have a beer and maybe a little toke in the parking lot. So you find a new bar. Seems like a nice place, the beer is cold, the bartender's kinda hot, the place isn't too dark or to bright, friendly place but not pushy. The first week you're there you see folks going outside and when they come back you get a little wiff of something interesting.

If you start walking around the place looking for a J to buy what's gonna happen? You're gonna get frozen out. If on the other hand, you hang out, let your face be known, have a couple convos, buy a beer or two, tip the hot bartender well, sooner or later you will get an invitation to join.

Again, welcome. If you show up asking shit tons of questions without doing any of the basics you're gonna get froze out. Read back a few pages, if you have a question let it be procedural, not informational. Figure out who is a trusted provider, take a dip write a note about it. Become a familiar face. Before you know it you're known.

A2[/BLUE][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Jjbee62;2803580]I'm not going to give any information, but I will occasionally drop a few names that I've seen others talk about. Please feed me. ".[/QUOTE]This is the fact that seems to be always overlooked. Anyone can jump on here and throw out review after review of ladies that have been reviewed multiple times on the board. I have seen instances of a newbie reviewing a lady that has been reviewed before and after looking back it was nearly a copy and paste of a senior's previous report. If you aren't a monger that is down for TOFTT, then just be aware that it will take longer to earn your credibility here. If that is you, sit back and read the others reviews and use them as you wish. As JJ says, if you are a newbie that is not verified, do not expect the seniors to give you info via PM. Many of us get daily PMs that immediately get deleted.

Indy Guy.

Hey still new here. Wondering if someone can give me help on providers who will meet newbies and will give references. Most of the providers I'm interested in need references. I'm not a hobbyist so I don't do this a lot. Get nervous on meeting providers that don't have reviews here so I don't know who to go to. Thanks.

P.S. I'm not opposed to meeting some of the senior members for a drink so you can meet me, so you don't have to wonder if I'm uncle or some weirdo.

[QUOTE=TapDat9901;2804959]Hey still new here. Wondering if someone can give me help on providers who will meet newbies and will give references. Most of the providers I'm interested in need references. I'm not a hobbyist so I don't do this a lot. Get nervous on meeting providers that don't have reviews here so I don't know who to go to. Thanks.

P.S. I'm not opposed to meeting some of the senior members for a drink so you can meet me, so you don't have to wonder if I'm uncle or some weirdo.[/QUOTE]Some providers will work with you. You can ask if there is a way, ie work reference etc. But with that said, you must be willing to divulge that type of info.

[QUOTE=TapDat9901;2804959]Hey still new here. Wondering if someone can give me help on providers who will meet newbies and will give references. Most of the providers I'm interested in need references. I'm not a hobbyist so I don't do this a lot. Get nervous on meeting providers that don't have reviews here so I don't know who to go to. Thanks.

P.S. I'm not opposed to meeting some of the senior members for a drink so you can meet me, so you don't have to wonder if I'm uncle or some weirdo.[/QUOTE]Most of the good ones will require references or go the route BOTA says. There ain't a lot of ways around that. Call it a right of passage.
On meeting, most guys are just like the ladies. We need references to meet face to face. For some guys that means seeing reviews of ladies we know and can verify you through them. Then some guys are sort of UTR themselves and don't want to meet personally.
Indy Guy.

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[QUOTE=Sara8032;2808494][URL]https://www.facebook.com/OkDumbass/videos/958547644234123/[/URL][/QUOTE]Thanks, I just spit a Crown and Coke over my keyboard!

[QUOTE=Sara8032;2808494][URL]https://www.facebook.com/OkDumbass/videos/958547644234123/[/URL][/QUOTE]My day sucked ass had to cancel an appointment do to the SO being home because of the f at &king snow storm up here. Sara Thank you for the laugh I needed it. I'm going to link it up in SB.

I like this thread just because I can float random shit out and not get beat up on hahaha. Or maybe I will, we'll see. With the tourney coming up, being the college hoops fan that I am, I need to find has a place that runs a parlay. I moved down here from Chicago this summer, where you can't swing a dead cat without hitting a good bar with some action. I was hoping one of my fellow degenerates could send me a PM and point me in the right direction. It would definitely be worth a beer and a dance on me! Happy hunting fellas.