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[QUOTE=LoganSon;3378189]Hi,

I am new here and have reviewed the topics, checked the lingo page, and searched my area threads for bdsm topics and providers with no luck. I used to use backpage and look on eros and craigslist but am unfamiliar with other resources. Is there a thread here on good resources? The familiar backpage women don't post in the "women seeking men" thread as much as they did special interests so I have to assume they're somewhere. I am on fetlife and collarspace but everything else I've searched for seems shady. Any help would be great.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]Are you looking for a pro-Domme or a pro-sub?

I'd suggest putting an personal ad on Fetlife stating what your looking for and whether you're looking for a professional or a non pro to satisfy you. That's how I found my domme.

[QUOTE=LoganSon;3378189]Hi,

I am new here and have reviewed the topics, checked the lingo page, and searched my area threads for bdsm topics and providers with no luck. I used to use backpage and look on eros and craigslist but am unfamiliar with other resources. Is there a thread here on good resources? The familiar backpage women don't post in the "women seeking men" thread as much as they did special interests so I have to assume they're somewhere. I am on fetlife and collarspace but everything else I've searched for seems shady. Any help would be great.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Sascout;2084398]I (male) have am in a codependent relationship with a submissive female that I seem to be addicted to how I've been taking her sexually the last year or so. She is paranoid that I'm going to leave her and will stop at nothing to keep me from breaking up with her, Yet this hasn't stopped her from being very argumentative with me. I don't know if this qualifies as a BDSM type relationship but she's always in pain when I have anal sex with her, she hates it and finds it horrible and used to always complain about it and tell me to slow down use more lube., stop taking it out "once its in leave it in" stuff, and used to make me stop. After a real bad argument one time I pretty much gave her an ultimatum. I told her I was going to do her anal and that if she didn't let me finish I was going to leave her, I was so furious at her. She reluctantly agreed and opened Pandora's box that night.

I was really angry and wanted her to feel some pain and discomfort to punish her. I didn't think she could handle it and that I'the be out the door eitherway, and this was the case at first as she would get angry and yelled at me to stop. I began gathering my clothes and things as I was really ready to leave the relationship. She starts mocking me but eventually realizes I'm serious as I start ignoring her. She starts trying to negotiate with me as I'm packing up silently ignoring her. As I'm walking out the door she starts to panic and starts crying. She wraps her self around me blocking me from leaving. Pretty much pleading to know what she can do for us to work it out. Angrily I tell her to let me finish. She disagrees I advance towards the door, she eventually agrees after a few attempts to negotiate and me rejecting them by moving to the door.

She presents her self doggy with her ass up high and her head way down on the bed. She also makes the mistake of taunting me. I forget exactly what she says but I want to remember it was some what insulting along the lines that "Your not a man". She bolts forward when I roughly thrust my penis forcefully inside of her to which I snap at her that "I'm not messing around either your going to do this or I'm out." She says nothing. She repositions and faces away from me with that face of disgust I've learned to love punishing over and over these days. Not nearly as aggressive as my first thrust I reinsert my cock in to her and start pumping. Still feeling annoyed I thrust more quickly enjoying the firm pinch of her sphincter but more so now that my speed and pressure are no longer regulated by her demands or grunts of agony. All the way in and all the way out, I can feel my cock expanding a little bit more with each thrust, and I'm guessing so does she. Her head turns around from time to time to glare at me all angry like she thinks it will intimidate me, but this just makes me more callus and I thrust harshly and till she breaks eye contact. I take little breaks now and then and pull all the way out for a while to let her close up and then start up again. It must have been working cause I see her face tense up and wince. I pull out when I see she's loosing to let her close up then repeat the penetration. Her back and body is wet from a cold sweat. Her buttocks feel cool against my hips as they slap into them. She's trying to be strong but she's starting to cry into the pillow.

Do the sounds of your woman crying during anal sex also send a chill down your spin and out your penis like a bolt? To me its almost like the sensation of biting into a lemon. Does it feel primal and natural taking her this way? Are you addicted to the sounds of her agony and desperation? I know I'm addicted but much like other addictions fail to satisfy as time goes on. I keep finding my self pushing and pushing her to the edge but stopping just before she starts screaming. One time she panicked and froze up on me and went into a fetal crouch. She wasn't even crying she just up stopped. I don't push her that hard anymore.

The strange thing is the moment I come I feel disturbed by all this I put her through and feel really bad for her. I start to cuddle and she's of course greatly relieved its all over. The holding and carerssing must be why she goes through with it. I don't know she brings the monster out of me. Its like I feel disturbed but that feeling wears off after an hour or so and its back to normal. We pretty much have anal sex exclusively and she hates it always but she knows it's a huge part of our relationship and knows her place in bed so se performs it faithfully.

I know this story may sound to fantastic to be true but Its true, and I also know I'm not alone. But I'm wondering how your relationships are? How far has your relationship gone with your submissive woman?[/QUOTE]It really just sounds like you are sexually abusing a mentally ill woman with Borderline Personality Disorder. Probably not okay and you could likely face criminal charges if she wanted, and since Borderlines don't love anyone, she actually hates you, but she's horribly afraid of losing you due to her severe abandonment issues, she will have the last laugh as she destroys you. Be careful, you are walking on dangerous ground.

I was just wondering what you guys think the prices for pro dommes be and should I pay them more then hookers? I'm looking to explore my submissive side but don't want to be taken advantage finances wise. I have a humiliation fetish, foot fetish, and overall just want to be dominated. What are some of your experiences with Pro domme?

I don't want a professional. I am looking more for someone with like a secret kinky side. Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets type of thing.

I had one for several years and would see her every other month or so and an hour and a half-2 hour session would cost $300-400 depending how much work it was for her. She did not dominate me financially but I willingly gave her thousands over the years. But damn was it worth it. I'd only cum once per session near the end but it was hard as hell and left me shaking and she's hold me for 30 minutes giving me aftercare.

[QUOTE=MrHandsome7;4134476]I was just wondering what you guys think the prices for pro dommes be and should I pay them more then hookers? I'm looking to explore my submissive side but don't want to be taken advantage finances wise. I have a humiliation fetish, foot fetish, and overall just want to be dominated. What are some of your experiences with Pro domme?[/QUOTE]

Hi gang. In the past I had some very nice prostate massages in Bangkok. And now I am tried to find something similar in or around Seattle but with no luck. Does someone local have any experience with this?

[QUOTE=NicolasBruno;2985050]All I have is this picture and the information she is currently in Detroit, Michigan. She claims she posed for Vogue and Diva.[/QUOTE]I'd love to know more about her.

[QUOTE=DockMan;4315873]I had one for several years and would see her every other month or so and an hour and a half-2 hour session would cost $300-400 depending how much work it was for her. She did not dominate me financially but I willingly gave her thousands over the years. But damn was it worth it. I'd only cum once per session near the end but it was hard as hell and left me shaking and she's hold me for 30 minutes giving me aftercare.[/QUOTE]I've wanted something like what you described for a while, but with more financial domination. Willingly giving a girl money, sending her gifts, and just feeling like she owns me feels so good.

[QUOTE=TaylorTaste;4218632]I don't want a professional. I am looking more for someone with like a secret kinky side. Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets type of thing.[/QUOTE]Old question, but thought I would share my MO.

I've liked to go to stripclubs since I turned 21. I don't go that often. I have success when I go alone. I don't make a scene, don't yell and scream. I play everything low key. I don't make it rain. All I do is talk to the strippers, waitresses, and bartenders like normal people. I treat them like normal people, which they are. Women love to have their hair pulled. I'll be respectful, but be firm in pulling a girls hair. You would be completely shocked at the number of fish that have just jumped in the boat. Every one of this chicks was normal looking and a complete sex freak in some way. One had a masters degree. One was a p5 cheerleader in college. There were a few that just came to work to make money and then go home.

[QUOTE=PornDude2;4511564]Hi gang. In the past I had some very nice prostate massages in Bangkok. And now I am tried to find something similar in or around Seattle but with no luck. Does someone local have any experience with this?[/QUOTE]If you find, then share, please, I want to try this type of massage.

[QUOTE=TaylorTaste;4218632]I don't want a professional. I am looking more for someone with like a secret kinky side. Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets type of thing.[/QUOTE]Attend munches in your area. Fetlife is a good free source.

Hello everyone! Surely you can help me, I know I am in the right place! Soon I will be away for work in Italy, in Milan, and I would like to arrive with the tasks already done! Have any of you already been to Italy? I am looking for a Pro Domme that will make me his slave. I saw these two dominatrixes, Lady Scarlet and Goddess Noemi Bulgari the angel of sin. Do you have any info or have you already tried it? Thanks, below I put the link to the site where I saw them.

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Hello everyone!

I am curious to discuss and to find out more about what are the first things you take in consideration before booking a session with a prodomme.

Is it appearance, what she offers, price?