Seeking Arrangements (SA)

You are absolutely correct GaltGuy. I have been on the site for awhile now and have witnessed it's continued downward spiral. I am now getting messages from women my age or older who think SA is a freakin dating site. There are many fake profile, usually given away by model like pics from Ten Mile, TN or Rogersville, TN or some other small town that you know there's no way she actually lives there. Also, the ones from jumbled up locations. If you do happen to find a local gal who isn't a pro she's only wanting to be your online friend. At least some spell that out in their profile to reduce the wasted time. I also don't mind paying for quality but my pockets aren't as deep as yours from reading your post. LOL. I'd like to get off there but really have no idea if anything else exists.

[QUOTE=GaltGuy;6953566]For quite a while, I thought of myself as a sort of SB Svengali. I knew what I liked, had gotten pretty good at separating wheat from chaff, and had an almost 100% success rate once I met someone in person. Then I settled in for almost three years with a 30-year-old MILF and former college athlete. Who had 3 primary things she was seeking: (1) to feel wanted, (2) exciting experiences and (3) wild fucking sex. We had incredible freaking trips. Italy, a Super Bowl, tons of weekends in Miami. Sex anywhere you could imagine, including hotel rooftop pools with people only feet away from us. Fuckkkk.

Eventually, however, she decided there was a 4th she she wanted: a new husband. (Yes, she was married.) from DayOne I made it clear that I was not a possible husband. And she didn't want one, so that was great. But. Well. Things change. And she changed her mind.

Anyway, to make a long story even longer and more boring. But hopefully to get me back around to the point of my post. We eventually called it quits a year or so ago. And in he 3 years I wasn't active on SA, that place changed. Or, I my skills got horribly rusty. Maybe I got spoiled and subconsciously think I can replace my previous arrangement. Intellectually, I know not to try to do that. But maybe my bar is too high. Or maybe I'm not used to SO many fake profiles and (what appear to be real) profiles seeking a traditional boyfriend. (As MILFMan has well-explained, the SA CEO, currently doing a very good Bill Belichick impersonation, has said the target market of the SA site has changed.).

SA has been a frustrating and massive waste of my time lately.

And I don't want any of you guys mad at me, but I don't even mind some moderate amount of GPS. That is, I'm not getting irritated because I can't find 22year-old college graduate spinners who want to suck this old man's pecker for $150. When I find something I like, I'm willing to pay a somewhat premium price in order to keep it. In business, it's always harder to find a new customer than it is to keep an existing one- so I am willing to pay a little more in order not to have to repeatedly go back to the SA well.

Anyway, my last 18-24 months have really sucked (in the bad way.) FC'd a few attractive SA gals, but they all had massive "issues" that made them unattractive for anything ongoing. There are some absolute fuck freaks on the site. Many of them have been there for years. But I haven't met any I'd want to spend 48 consecutive hours with.

My short term solution has been "massage" providers. FR & MMS, most frequently. I can't even find a dependable rub-and-tug girl to do outcall.

Oh well. I apologize for the long post. I just needed to vent today, and now I realize this probably belonged in the "Tricks and rants" thread.[/QUOTE]SA isn't changing. Women are bro.

[QUOTE=GaltGuy;6953566]For quite a while, I thought of myself as a sort of SB Svengali. I knew what I liked, had gotten pretty good at separating wheat from chaff, and had an almost 100% success rate once I met someone in person. Then I settled in for almost three years with a 30-year-old MILF and former college athlete. Who had 3 primary things she was seeking: (1) to feel wanted, (2) exciting experiences and (3) wild fucking sex. We had incredible freaking trips. Italy, a Super Bowl, tons of weekends in Miami. Sex anywhere you could imagine, including hotel rooftop pools with people only feet away from us. Fuckkkk.

Eventually, however, she decided there was a 4th she she wanted: a new husband. (Yes, she was married.) from DayOne I made it clear that I was not a possible husband. And she didn't want one, so that was great. But. Well. Things change. And she changed her mind.

Anyway, to make a long story even longer and more boring. But hopefully to get me back around to the point of my post. We eventually called it quits a year or so ago. And in he 3 years I wasn't active on SA, that place changed. Or, I my skills got horribly rusty. Maybe I got spoiled and subconsciously think I can replace my previous arrangement. Intellectually, I know not to try to do that. But maybe my bar is too high. Or maybe I'm not used to SO many fake profiles and (what appear to be real) profiles seeking a traditional boyfriend. (As MILFMan has well-explained, the SA CEO, currently doing a very good Bill Belichick impersonation, has said the target market of the SA site has changed.).

SA has been a frustrating and massive waste of my time lately.

And I don't want any of you guys mad at me, but I don't even mind some moderate amount of GPS. That is, I'm not getting irritated because I can't find 22year-old college graduate spinners who want to suck this old man's pecker for $150. When I find something I like, I'm willing to pay a somewhat premium price in order to keep it. In business, it's always harder to find a new customer than it is to keep an existing one- so I am willing to pay a little more in order not to have to repeatedly go back to the SA well.

Anyway, my last 18-24 months have really sucked (in the bad way.) FC'd a few attractive SA gals, but they all had massive "issues" that made them unattractive for anything ongoing. There are some absolute fuck freaks on the site. Many of them have been there for years. But I haven't met any I'd want to spend 48 consecutive hours with.

My short term solution has been "massage" providers. FR & MMS, most frequently. I can't even find a dependable rub-and-tug girl to do outcall.

Oh well. I apologize for the long post. I just needed to vent today, and now I realize this probably belonged in the "Tricks and rants" thread.[/QUOTE]If Galt guy isn't scoring, that doomz a Beta male like me, LOL. I got back on SA this spring after a 2-year hiatus and Galt is right on the money! 2017 was the golden age.

[QUOTE=BobVac21;6953748]If Galt guy isn't scoring, that doomz a Beta male like me, LOL. I got back on SA this spring after a 2-year hiatus and Galt is right on the money! 2017 was the golden age.[/QUOTE]I have had decent success on SB but SA has been mostly bots and scammers. It's really a numbers game you talk to 20 to meet 1 or 2.

[QUOTE=Willu11;6953787]I have had decent success on SB but SA has been mostly bots and scammers. It's really a numbers game you talk to 20 to meet 1 or 2.[/QUOTE]Uh oh. I haven't been on SA in about a year. Sounds like things have changed quite a bit. I used to be able to pull 25 solid leads off of there in a single month. Damn.

[QUOTE=Willu11;6953787]I have had decent success on SB but SA has been mostly bots and scammers. It's really a numbers game you talk to 20 to meet 1 or 2.[/QUOTE]I agree, I've had pretty good success there. Have to be careful not to waste your credits on bad bets but its a higher success rate.

[QUOTE=FireBall99;6953831]Uh oh. I haven't been on SA in about a year. Sounds like things have changed quite a bit. I used to be able to pull 25 solid leads off of there in a single month. Damn.[/QUOTE]I actually ended up cancelling recently. I found success rate is high if you can get someone who will actually meet, but unfortunately it was like a needle in a haystack. Other than the girls that have been on there for years it seems like mostly bots or those that are looking for simps to pay them for nothing. I know I am probably pickier than some, but the site fee just became not worth it to me. But I get it. Why meet when there's guys out there that will just send you free money for coffee, nails, lunch etc. The fact that they keep asking means they must be finding success somewhere. Oh well. I'll probably revisit later. I tried SB a little last year and didn't have any success, but based on recent reports maybe it's worth another shot. Happy hunting brothers.

I too have grown tired of SA. Just recently found [URL]www.sugardaddymeet.com[/URL].

Looks legit. Anyone have better luck here than SA?

I've had decent success with [URL]Sugardaddy.com[/URL] I don't care for the pricing structure with credits being used to unlock messaging for each girl. However, most of the verified girls have a recording of themselves saying "Let me be your secret". Don't get me wrong, the pickins are still slim but I've had a few meals from it.

[QUOTE=Nolle;6957765]I've had decent success with [URL]Sugardaddy.com[/URL] I don't care for the pricing structure with credits being used to unlock messaging for each girl. However, most of the verified girls have a recording of themselves saying "Let me be your secret". Don't get me wrong, the pickins are still slim but I've had a few meals from it.[/QUOTE]From what I've gathered, that site is somehow connected to Secret Benefits. Had a girl that I found on SB tell me she wasn't on there, but had a profile on [URL]SD.com[/URL] instead. I only say this to caution folks from paying for two separate sites with potentially the same girls.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/beeded1c-b09c-4457-a491-4d5d51d9f7a5[/URL]

I think this one might have been previously reviewed under a different name. Either way, I cannot find anything, but she's been around a while.

If anyone has any information that would be helpful, please let me know.

[QUOTE=JoeKnox555;6956872]I too have grown tired of SA. Just recently found [URL]www.sugardaddymeet.com[/URL].

Looks legit. Anyone have better luck here than SA?[/QUOTE]Yes, you do not get banned, it is cheaper and easier to pay and also quite a few of the SA girls are there also and also it has good videos and chats.

Thanks for the feed back. I've browsed it a few times and thought it looked promising.

I've meet several from SA in the past but it's just not as good as it was a few years ago.

[QUOTE=NapataJohn;6964724]Yes, you do not get banned, it is cheaper and easier to pay and also quite a few of the SA girls are there also and also it has good videos and chats.[/QUOTE]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f3b87b20-f468-4724-b4e3-faee1f8fca05[/URL]

I believe this one used to go by SweetClementine or just Clementine. Evidently, I have no idea how to search the forum but I know there were several posts about her 8-10 months ago. If anyone has any useful information, could you please share. Communication has been sporadic but at least consistent.

[QUOTE=OnTheGo13;6964682][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/beeded1c-b09c-4457-a491-4d5d51d9f7a5[/URL]

I think this one might have been previously reviewed under a different name. Either way, I cannot find anything, but she's been around a while.

If anyone has any information that would be helpful, please let me know.[/QUOTE]This one is real. She is significantly heavier than the pics including the one where she is wearing the referees outfit. Those of you guys that like them pretty thick might have some interest. Really pleasant attitude. Large breasts with dark saucer size areola. Thick throughout. Good enough time, real easy going, just not my type physically. I was kind of expecting a spinner.