"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

What's up fellow mongers. Haven't been on this site for a while but I wanted to give my two cents about SA. It has been a gold mine for me. I have had the pleasure of filling up 15 girls with my DNA thus far over a period of 4 months or so. All 23-35 with various races and body types but all good looking (except one). I am in my early 40's, have a little dough, and do not live a lavish lifestyle. I also have a pretty good job. When I initially contact the girls, I keep text conversations short and sweet. We converse about general stuff but I prefer to ask personal questions when we meet. I ask them if they would like to meet me somewhere public for in person chatting. I let them pick the spot so they can be comfortable. I just make sure that the place they pick is very public with easy parking. There are flakes and scammers on the site but I guess my vetting process works pretty well since I have not actually met one of these types face to face nor has any girl ghosted me. I normally meet them at a restaurant. I feed them while I chat with them LOL. Every girl I've met with has been quite pleasant. They say that I am pleasant as well, which they appreciate since it's not always the case. They say a lot of guys they meet are rude or weird. So, being pleasant goes a long way guys. Just saying LOL.

There have been a couple of girls that have invited me over to their place after texting with them via phone for the first meet. Not going to lie, this was kind of scary to me at first because it seemed way too easy. I was wrong. They just seemed to be trusting and didn't really seem much concerned safety wise. Typical naive young girls. I met three girls at their apartment for the initial meeting and was going at it within 15 minutes of going inside. Young, good looking girls too. One girl met me at the gate to her apartment in casual clothing so she could let me in. One girl gave me her address which lead me to her front door and her standing there in lingerie after I knocked. One met me in the parking garage of her apartment in a sun dress and nothing else. She invited me upstairs beforehand but I was hesitant because I felt uneasy. She then told me that she would meet me in the parking deck. She came down, got into my vehicle, and proceeded to show me her new sun dress and what was underneath it (nothing). She was absolutely gorgeous with a gorgeous body too. I mean, who does that LOL? No, she's not a pro, just a good looking girl that most guys believe is not real so she gets stood up a lot. A LOT. And now I know waaaaaaay too much about her personally. I also met with one initially at her hotel. She's not a pro either but comes to Atlanta for work several times a month. I had one that I met that didn't look nearly as good as her pictures. I was horny so I still hit it but I wasn't pleased with myself that day LOL. I figured, what the hell.

Once I determine that I will indeed hook up with them when we meet, the girl and I would rent a room shortly thereafter. There were a couple that were on the fence about hooking up so soon, so I would tell them that when they felt comfortable to just contact me and we'll go from there. They always contacted me back within a few days and I met with them at a later time. There have been a few that I met with that I just didn't feel the chemistry with so I didn't pursue it any further after we met. There are a few that I see on a regular basis. The others were just one and dones. It's weird because I would say that all the girls I have met were really sweet and eager for a friendship with the sugar twist.

I mean some of these girls, I had to admit it, I couldn't keep up with. I swear, some of them seemed to be using me for sex and not the other way around. Don't get me wrong, I got what I wanted too but damn. I had two barking commands at me in order to get them off and I wasn't sure what would have happened if I fell short LOL. It was all in fun but I could easily see that they were looking for their nut too and they were determined to get it. DETERMINED. I'm just not used to that with someone I just met. I also have some concerns that some of these girls wouldn't mind getting pregnant by me. That's concerning but it's hard for me to stop. A couple of these girls I have really taken a liking to and the pussy is good. And it doesn't help that a lot of these girls are very GFE Hell, I had two ask me to spend the night with them after two visits. But I do things the right way so they have no real information on me.

When I meet the girls, I do not dress up at all. These days I am always dressed in cargo shorts and a t-shirt. I also just recently purchased a new car but no SA girl has seen it yet. I actually drove a car that was far from fancy and not new, but it was clean LOL. I did not portray money or wealth. With these girls, a monger needs to show confidence and just talk to them like a friend. Put them at ease with your conversation. Nothing special but be interested in her life, her dreams, and her goals. Ask how you can help. You don't actually have to help but your interest puts you in a positive light for this budding relationship.

Based on my experience, these SA girls are freaks with daddy issues. I am curious about their upbringing and family. These girls love to talk about their upbringings too. Almost to a fault, like giving me too much information about them. It seems that they are truly looking for a father-figure in their life that they can also fuck. Not all, but definitely most. Based on this, I'm curious if any younger guys have had positive experiences on the site. The money does add up. If you don't have the discretionary funds to do it properly, I wouldn't recommend it. Sorry, I know my post is all over the place but I figured I would give my two cents. Guys keep your head up, there are some great girls on the site. It kinda sucks because there is almost too many girls to meet up with. I find myself meeting a great girl then going back to the site and hunting more since there is additional pussy to be had. What are your experiences? About the same? I'm curious. Anyways, stay safe and happy hunting.

[QUOTE=Hal1957;5498046]I focus on 25-40 single mothers whose profiles indicate they are looking for a pleasant experience. They don't yell, they don't tell and they're grateful as hell.[/QUOTE]Amen, brotha.

I hit her up on SA and she wants 300+ for head only, and only on cashapp. I think it's that time of the month, and she does not have a back account so she can't deposit cash.

[QUOTE=KDiezel;5532076]Amen, brotha.[/QUOTE]Especially recent divorcees. They're horny as hell and out to prove the divorce wasn't their fault!

[QUOTE=KDiezel;5532050]What's up fellow mongers. Haven't been on this site for a while but I wanted to give my two cents about SA. It has been a gold mine for me. I have had the pleasure of filling up 15 girls with my DNA thus far over a period of 4 months or so. All 23-35 with various races and body types but all good looking (except one). I am in my early 40's, have a little dough, and do not live a lavish lifestyle. I also have a pretty good job. When I initially contact the girls, I keep text conversations short and sweet. We converse about general stuff but I prefer to ask personal questions when we meet. I ask them if they would like to meet me somewhere public for in person chatting. I let them pick the spot so they can be comfortable. I just make sure that the place they pick is very public with easy parking. There are flakes and scammers on the site but I guess my vetting process works pretty well since I have not actually met one of these types face to face nor has any girl ghosted me. I normally meet them at a restaurant. I feed them while I chat with them LOL. Every girl I've met with has been quite pleasant. They say that I am pleasant as well, which they appreciate since it's not always the case. They say a lot of guys they meet are rude or weird. So, being pleasant goes a long way guys. Just saying LOL.[/QUOTE]What's your $$ damage range you typically incur?

[QUOTE=KDiezel;5532050]What's up fellow mongers. Haven't been on this site for a while but I wanted to give my two cents about SA. It has been a gold mine for me. I have had the pleasure of filling up 15 girls with my DNA thus far over a period of 4 months or so. All 23-35 with various races and body types but all good looking (except one). I am in my early 40's, have a little dough, and do not live a lavish lifestyle. I also have a pretty good job. When I initially contact the girls, I keep text conversations short and sweet. We converse about general stuff but I prefer to ask personal questions when we meet. I ask them if they would like to meet me somewhere public for in person chatting. I let them pick the spot so they can be comfortable. I just make sure that the place they pick is very public with easy parking. There are flakes and scammers on the site but I guess my vetting process works pretty well since I have not actually met one of these types face to face nor has any girl ghosted me. I normally meet them at a restaurant. I feed them while I chat with them LOL. Every girl I've met with has been quite pleasant. They say that I am pleasant as well, which they appreciate since it's not always the case. They say a lot of guys they meet are rude or weird. So, being pleasant goes a long way guys. Just saying LOL.

[/QUOTE]Sounds like my first year on SA, it's a gold mine if you play it right & have the money to play.

Brother you got to get to the gym, & hit them spin classes. I do 2 a week at Lifetime, & then another 3 days on my Peloton at home. I had to pickup the cardio after I couldn't keep up with the girl I had before my current one. My lower region was literally sore for 2 days afterwards the first night we fucked. My first 3 nut night in a long time was with her.

Also your in a sweet spot at 41, that's the perfect age a lot of these girls want, especially those with daddy issues.

One more thing, if you find a girl you really like, make her your main SB & then do tryouts with different girls. I did this for awhile, & would have a main SB who was cool with all of my requirements, & then would usually meet 2 new girls a month, if one of the newer girls was better than my current SB, then I would swap them out.

[QUOTE=SeekingHead;5532611]Sounds like my first year on SA, it's a gold mine if you play it right & have the money to play.

Brother you got to get to the gym, & hit them spin classes. I do 2 a week at Lifetime, & then another 3 days on my Peloton at home. I had to pickup the cardio after I couldn't keep up with the girl I had before my current one. My lower region was literally sore for 2 days afterwards the first night we fucked. My first 3 nut night in a long time was with her.

Also your in a sweet spot at 41, that's the perfect age a lot of these girls want, especially those with daddy issues.

One more thing, if you find a girl you really like, make her your main SB & then do tryouts with different girls. I did this for awhile, & would have a main SB who was cool with all of my requirements, & then would usually meet 2 new girls a month, if one of the newer girls was better than my current SB, then I would swap them out.[/QUOTE]That's good advice sir but I'm lazy as fuck. Just being honest. Great advice though still.

[QUOTE=TallGuy3000;5532284]What's your $$ damage range you typically incur?[/QUOTE]Typically 3-4. Had as low as 200 but most were 300.

[QUOTE=KDiezel;5532050]I have had the pleasure of filling up 15 girls with my DNA thus far over a period of 4 months or so.......I also have some concerns that some of these girls wouldn't mind getting pregnant by me. That's concerning but it's hard for me to stop. [/QUOTE]I assumed you had a vasectomy, but maybe not? I guess you trust the girls take their BC. Anyway, amazing stories and you are living the life that 99.9% of men would dream to live. Kudos.

I can't even manage to get back on the stupid site, but I really need to get a vasectomy and do it right. I've had enough 20ish y/o poon from Craiglist Casual Encounters years ago that I get how sweet it is. I mean pretty much all of us know that, but just saying....hitting it with a rubber on just isn't to cut it.

[QUOTE=2me4Looking2;5531744]She gets a new profile every other day. Sometimes I accidentally message her before realizing it's her. Personally I'd avoid her.[/QUOTE]Thank you.

[QUOTE=KDiezel;5532805]That's good advice sir but I'm lazy as fuck. Just being honest. Great advice though still.[/QUOTE]I've done well by keeping two regulars while continuing to shop. Find something better and swap out one of the regulars for the new girl. Rinse & repeat. Its good to have two in play because sometimes I just need some relief and one may not be available. Skip over the 18 to 21 crowd. Too full of crap and unskilled. The grad student age to the well preserved MILF is the best. About 23 to 43. The best have typically been the divorcees who have not been laid in a while and also want to prove to themselves that they are still desirable and it was all his fault. The skill set is often there with the 30 something divorcee. She understands the difference between romance and sex, she understands that sometimes a man just needs a good blowjob to relieve a little tension, she's at least tried things with the ex like anal and swallowing and toys, she appreciates not eating a meal alone and finding a card on the nightstand with a few hundred bucks in it. And, so sad to say, the average 35 year old in our society is in better physical shape than the average 20 year old.

[QUOTE=KDiezel;5532810]Typically 3-4. Had as low as 200 but most were 300.[/QUOTE]$250 to $300 is the norm for most spinners in our area from my experience also. When I lived in Savannah I had a couple of girls who were $150 to $200, plus I found quite a few over 40 who were good with just dating someone who didn't consider applebee's fine dining.

[QUOTE=JustMikey;5533108]I've done well by keeping two regulars while continuing to shop. Find something better and swap out one of the regulars for the new girl. Rinse & repeat. Its good to have two in play because sometimes I just need some relief and one may not be available. Skip over the 18 to 21 crowd. Too full of crap and unskilled. The grad student age to the well preserved MILF is the best. About 23 to 43. The best have typically been the divorcees who have not been laid in a while and also want to prove to themselves that they are still desirable and it was all his fault. The skill set is often there with the 30 something divorcee. She understands the difference between romance and sex, she understands that sometimes a man just needs a good blowjob to relieve a little tension, she's at least tried things with the ex like anal and swallowing and toys, she appreciates not eating a meal alone and finding a card on the nightstand with a few hundred bucks in it. And, so sad to say, the average 35 year old in our society is in better physical shape than the average 20 year old.[/QUOTE]Totally agree, in my experience. Absolutely correct!

I got some pictures out of her that aren't all doctored up with filters, and you didn't miss out on anything.

[QUOTE=GoneForGood97;5530631]Decided to roll the dice on SA using the labor day discount. If AdorableButterfly21 is the profile you're referring to:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/76614224-64bd-4ffc-b94e-d1981f163f4d[/URL]

When I moved her to text message she was ready to meet up for $250, but only wanted it cashapp. I told her I don't do apps but I could do cash and she just said "fuck. " Technically never asked for a deposit, but turning her nose up at cash gave me second thoughts.[/QUOTE]

Gents,

Knowing that YMMV, if these negative experiences don't help you, just tell me stop! I just don't want others wasting time. I use some of the writeups here to block folks immediately so I don't waste my time. I have names, but no links, sorry, since they tend to block me after either sending laughing emojis or countering.

Case. Cute 19 yo AA. Lots of chatting, then texting off site. After 2 days, everything is arranged to go straight to the act when I get the 'pay upfront using a cash app. ' Nope and no compromise offered. She is very cute and think she thought she'd hooked me.

Ultraviolet. 36 yo W. Think her profile is down now. Met her for drinks and went straight to hotel after. Everything was great and I planned to repeat -- right before she went psycho and started demanding extra $$. Ran away quickly since I make sure I only carry what I'm willing to part with in my wallet.

SugarBabySerena. 29 yo Latina. I'll let her message speak for itself: "If your interested in making an arrangements with me baby please send me a number so I can text you back. A long term arrangement that would include $1000 ppm for an hour of my time And we would meet every other day at least for five times a week (non-negotiable) at the least the least 3 where would go on dinner dates outings for fun and private time." The laughing emojis in my reply really pissed her off.

One annoying thing I started embracing is all the VZ / South American interests. Now I just request they send me their private photos before I dismiss. Some of them are quite nice! Nothing wrong with a little eye candy.

I'm reading some of the recent posts with interest since I've a shit track record of setting up meeting and engaging. Thanks for the tips and tricks. I know I'm picky, and I know my age (late 50's) is probably not in the sweet spot for them. Including psycho chick, 2 good encounters, but I'm saving the other one for myself since it's ongoing. I'm in week 4 on SA. Seems like a lot of work so far.