[QUOTE=EgoBoy;6784257]So tell me, why do some of you guys:
1. Make an appointment with a girl and then ghost them. They spend time getting ready and making sure they can see you. So when you just don't show up and then don't even let them know you can't make it, its rude. You would be upset if they ghosted you when you made an appointment, I know this because it has happened to me a few times. I would never do that to a girl.
2. Keep promising to see a girl day after day. They get to the point where they assume you will never come see them. Are you just wanting to talk to them? Just be honest like I do. I tell them it will be X amount of days or time before I have the ability to see them. In fact, I don't even reach out to a girl if seeing her isn't possible for the foreseeable future.
3. Ask for outrageous things for them to provide before you have ever met them, like BBFS and CIP. Yes, some of the girls will do that. But it's like asking a girl you meet at the bar for Anal the first time you have sex. It's something you should inquire about after the first time you visit them.
Honestly, the above stuff is what makes the service providers hard to be friendly with because they hate us for doing this stuff. When you do it, it affects all of us. The girls start responding with short texts and won't want to engage because they assume you are wasting their time. Treat the girls as human beings. Respect their rates and their boundaries. You will get so much more out of them when you do this.
Take it from a guy who knows so many service providers' real identities and gets so much mileage out of my time with them. The real gems are out there and you can't find them doing the stuff above. I've turned service providers into sugar babies. I've had them go with me on business trips without charging day rates. And I've hired them to work for me in corporate settings (not as a sex worker).[/QUOTE]I agree with all this.
As for #1 - Timing is everything. Sometimes I run out of time trying to get the schedule to click. I always do tell them I have to cancel and say I am sorry.
Unfortunately, this hobby has assholes just like every other. Can't get rid of them. But maybe they can learn that you can catch more flies with honey than vinegar.
I have gotten more mileage with providers just being nice, sincere, and truthful. Sometimes they end up enjoying your company and take care of you for free. This hobby may seem like its all about the clams and the yams, but everyone deserves respect and kindness. You all know trouble when you see it too. Be fair but be cautious.
