[QUOTE=Akbyr26;4083333]Hey fellow mongers, I've been eyeing this one chick that lives out of state for a while now. She's really cute, slim thick and has curves in all the right places. She's not visiting my city. I am thinking of flying her over here. Has anyone flew a provider to your city, and how do you go about setting all this up and everything. Do you pay for the hotels and everything? Appreciate any advice. Thank you.[/QUOTE]Yes, I've "sponsored" a number of visits (providers, xXx ladies, UTRs and trusted strippers) over the past 10 years to either visit me in my home cities (COLA, GVL CLT and DFW) as well to other cities where I was working or just wanted to meet up (LA, DC, BWI, New Orleans, CLT, ATL, Philly, Myrtle Beach and Charleston). And in a few cases, the sponsorship was a simple request to visit a city that she's never been to before.
Rarely did I do this for a provide that I had not met at least once before, but I do recall sponsoring a trip for at least 2 or 3 first time visit providers. But these providers were highly reviewed and did not make any huge demands upfront because we had been communicating for some time. And out or all the sponsorships I assisted with over the years, I was never ripped off or short changed when we actually met. The key was making sure that we both fully understood the expectations of the other, which was clearly defined / understood to each other's satisfaction. There was a mutual benefit to the trips for each of us, so each were committed to our end of the arrangement (s). I know that may be hard to grasp / understand with the number of providers that I did this with over the years. But again, we either had a certain level of mutual trust / respect for each other or I did my homework on the 2/3 providers that I had not personally met before but were highly recommended / referred.
By "sponsorship", my definition with the ladies I did this with may or may not have include one or more of the items below:
1; Paid transportation or allowance for her preferred mode of transportation.
2. Paid lodging (details of the arrangement I won't post on this thread. There were a few different options, based on the provider and my travel situation).
3. Other expenses / meals. Details depended on the provider and the nature of the visit and how long.
4. Any additional donation that may or may not had been required was agreed upon upfront.
5. Time and other activities to be spent/done together or on each other's own time.
When it comes to "sponsoring" a trip with any given provider, I did not have a "one-size-fits-all" plan for every provider. The total sponsorship varied by type of visit, location of the trip, the need / request of the provider and the individual provider herself. Each provider had her own want's or expectations and sometimes it was NEVER really about the $.
In the end, each of us were satisfied. And in quite a few of these arrangements, subsequent arrangements were made, some even made to other cities.
So, this is how I (and I alone) have managed the sponsorships that I done over the years. Not perfect, but they worked for me and the providers, xXx ladies, UTRs and a few strippers I've done this with over the years. At least 3 of the providers I flew in to meet me in Baltimore, Charleston, Charlotte and Myrtle Beach (on multiple occasions) did not see this as "work" for them. The saw this as a fun and relaxing vacation or getaway they never had.
My recommendation is to do your research on the provider. Make sure she's someone you'd really like to have some extended time with and most importantly, one who you feel will appreciate such a gesture.
Okay, that's my $0. 01 on the matter.
And BTW, some of the gents in Charlotte, Columbia and Charleston actually benefited from a few of my sponsored visits.
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