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Call her out
[QUOTE=GunnarStahl;7432332]What a place America is! Thankfully I am no house daddy, but I like to stop in when I'm in the area. It becomes wasted time when the 1 or 2 hours is spent waiting for them to leave the hip of a reg. Or for them to do their stage set as some won't do VIP / dances until they do that. Went up to one girl when the regular went to the bathroom after 40 minutes, introduced myself and politely said I'd love a VIP if she had the time and she looked at me blankly like I was speaking some foreign language.[/QUOTE]So the rest of us can avoid her. Because I'll tell you one day she will be without the sad idiot reg and will approach you. But she'll forget she blew you off. That's when you turn the tables and tell her to fuck off.
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Dallas
She is a fairy tale. Bright, smart, sexy. Energetic, enthusiastic VIP.
Girls with the eyes. $300 for three hours and she thinks she's "getting over".
Do 1 VIP an hour w no extras and you're even.
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Dallas, desire rates
[QUOTE=Joey1994;7433289]She is a fairy tale. Bright, smart, sexy. Energetic, enthusiastic VIP.
Girls with the eyes. $300 for three hours and she thinks she's "getting over".
Do 1 VIP an hour w no extras and you're even.[/QUOTE]Fairy tale is right. Great dancer in attitude, hot and curvy. Wish more dancers were like her but many have GPS with bad attitudes here. Started talking with some guys. They overpay. One guy said he paid 500 for a covered blowjob. I mean just stop LOL.
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Kiara
Cuban with really great tits. Anyone do a room?
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I get it.
[QUOTE=OldmanWinters;7431768]The eternal question. I used to think I was being a dick if I pryed them away, but all that got me was my hand. Now I don't care. Didn't do this yesterday day shift but at other clubs just told them I wanted a dance or VIP immediately when they got up. Money talks. Fuck the guys who think they own the dancers. I don't like waiting around because at Desire I've seen them talk to her reg for an hour and he never did a VIP then she got scooped by someone else. No reason to wait around. Some of us have lives and can't go to the club every fucking day to be a 'reg'.[/QUOTE]It is one of the reasons I say "fuck Desires". Place is a cesspool of old farts that are there every day feeding drinks to their wannabe girlfriends.
I hate when strippers think they are besties with patrons. To be brutally honest, I have a couple who see me as a regular and I am willing to talk to them, but not hrs on end. Not going to feed them drinks either (I'm not cheap, but see no point in it other than the dancers milking you for free drinks. To me, they are there for fun. Yes some are nice ladies, but not interested in their problems or their life story.
I have one lady who gets it. It is a purely transactional VIP. Fun, easy, no strings attached. Once it starts to become "more than that", I take a break from that one and move elsewhere. Has served me well.
That said, if someone approaches a girl that I am working on, you better bet I am going to tell you to take a hike. Had one douche at Caddy start chatting a lady up last week who was sitting with me and I finally told him she will see him after we're done chatting. The girl actually told me thanks as it does no one any good and puts her in a no win situation. The guy saw me later in the men's room and told me that he didn't mean any harm which is great, but he absolutely was trying to lean into her a bit.
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Definitely Fair
[QUOTE=RobertABouy;7433441]It is one of the reasons I say "fuck Desires". Place is a cesspool of old farts that are there every day feeding drinks to their wannabe girlfriends.
I hate when strippers think they are besties with patrons. To be brutally honest, I have a couple who see me as a regular and I am willing to talk to them, but not hrs on end. Not going to feed them drinks either (I'm not cheap, but see no point in it other than the dancers milking you for free drinks. To me, they are there for fun. Yes some are nice ladies, but not interested in their problems or their life story.
I have one lady who gets it. It is a purely transactional VIP. Fun, easy, no strings attached. Once it starts to become "more than that", I take a break from that one and move elsewhere. Has served me well.
That said, if someone approaches a girl that I am working on, you better bet I am going to tell you to take a hike. Had one douche at Caddy start chatting a lady up last week who was sitting with me and I finally told him she will see him after we're done chatting. The girl actually told me thanks as it does no one any good and puts her in a no win situation. The guy saw me later in the men's room and told me that he didn't mean any harm which is great, but he absolutely was trying to lean into her a bit.[/QUOTE]It's such a fine line, isn't it? I'm definitely not going to a strip club looking to be buddies with the girls. If a "strip club connection" develops, which is bound to happen if you pop up in one place enough, and I see her a few times or speak at her when I'm in there for a bit then sure, I'd be cool with that but I guess I'm generally going in with the impression that they're there working and money to them makes the world go around. That said I'm they'd probably rather go to the well a few times with someone they know isn't some freak than some odd character that drifts in they've never seen.
I feel a situation out with a girl. If she's just started chatting to someone, I'm definitely not approaching. If it's been like 40-50 minutes, it's kind of like WTF and I either cut my losses or catch them with a "hey, would love a dance when you're done" when the guy goes to the bathroom and hope they move on eventually. I just don't want to look creepy just sitting there or walking aimlessly trying to attract the attention of some girl.
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Desire loser regs
[QUOTE=RobertABouy;7433441]It is one of the reasons I say "fuck Desires". Place is a cesspool of old farts that are there every day feeding drinks to their wannabe girlfriends.
I hate when strippers think they are besties with patrons. To be brutally honest, I have a couple who see me as a regular and I am willing to talk to them, but not hrs on end. Not going to feed them drinks either (I'm not cheap, but see no point in it other than the dancers milking you for free drinks. To me, they are there for fun. Yes some are nice ladies, but not interested in their problems or their life story.
I have one lady who gets it. It is a purely transactional VIP. Fun, easy, no strings attached. Once it starts to become "more than that", I take a break from that one and move elsewhere. Has served me well.
That said, if someone approaches a girl that I am working on, you better bet I am going to tell you to take a hike. Had one douche at Caddy start chatting a lady up last week who was sitting with me and I finally told him she will see him after we're done chatting. The girl actually told me thanks as it does no one any good and puts her in a no win situation. The guy saw me later in the men's room and told me that he didn't mean any harm which is great, but he absolutely was trying to lean into her a bit.[/QUOTE]The situation I have seen at Desire is a girl will sit and drink with a guy for an hour or more. Not do stage dances or circulate around. Sometimes girl will not do VIP and just leave or get scooped up after.
What it means is essentially you have a dancer who is not working for hours.
The other part that happens is guys pay for the girl to do nothing. There is specifically one I know for sure. So you have dumb strippers thinking all they have to do is talk and a guy will give them a few hundred.
The best part is it doesn't last and then they approach you when it's slow, but they forgot they blew you off for their loser reg. That's when I tell them no or maybe waste their time like they wasted mine.
The guys who are at that club everyday are the cesspool you speak of. Not all are old, some of the younger drug dealer types. Feed the girls drinks and pills.
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Dancers
[QUOTE=PapaBear11;7432338]I had a girl tell me recently that one of her regulars pays her $100 per hour to sit and talk with her at the bar and buy her drinks. No rooms, no LDs. This girl isn't a liar, she showed me the money after she was done with this dude. Just pathetic behavior that prevents others who are actually there to have fun from doing so. She was with him for three hours and he gave her $300 plus tip! And you all wonder why these girls have GPS.[/QUOTE]I guess I shouldn't be surprised yet I am. Why would a dancer take $100 for an hour instead of $100+ for one 15 minute VIP or 2-3 lappys in about the same time? Laziness? Being in the wrong line of business in general? Is this GPS or just lack of effort?
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Monday night CD
Pretty quiet. 4-5 very attractive South American girls rocking the Brazilian butt lift. They seemed more concerned with chatting in the corner under the TV than $$.
Tipped a very attractive "Sammi from Spain" while she was on stage but she got scooped up.
Any intel?
[URL]https://www.instagram.com/sammy_lola_spicy?igsh=dmR6ZXpxcXMwN294[/URL]
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Sammy
[QUOTE=Joey1994;7434027]Pretty quiet. 4-5 very attractive South American girls rocking the Brazilian butt lift. They seemed more concerned with chatting in the corner under the TV than $$.
Tipped a very attractive "Sammi from Spain" while she was on stage but she got scooped up.
Any intel?
[URL]https://www.instagram.com/sammy_lola_spicy?igsh=dmR6ZXpxcXMwN294[/URL][/QUOTE]I haven't done a room with her but she is very cool IMO.
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Money
[QUOTE=Flash88;7433838]I guess I shouldn't be surprised yet I am. Why would a dancer take $100 for an hour instead of $100+ for one 15 minute VIP or 2-3 lappys in about the same time? Laziness? Being in the wrong line of business in general? Is this GPS or just lack of effort?[/QUOTE]Who knows? Maybe she had a headache. Maybe she had already done a bunch of VIPs and just wanted to relax and drink. Maybe she had some regulars lined up for later and knew she'd be doing VIPs then. The point is that this dude taking up the time of girls while some of us are trying to pay them for VIP action is annoying.
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Fantasies report
Sparse crowd and not many dancers but a Latina with a nice body approached. English wasn't her strong suit so we used the phone to translate. She lead me to a large room with a couch behind the 1st bar and she knew exactly what I was there for. Said full service was $200 to her. I agreed and she took out a condom hopped on and finished me off. Good deal, although the room fee was more than I would like. I think it went up. This must be why guys aren't going to Desire anymore. Much better attitude and deal here. I thanked her and said I'd be back next week. Didn't get her name. Latina not very good English, nice body some tattoos.
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Likely Cleo
[QUOTE=OldmanWinters;7434098]Sparse crowd and not many dancers but a Latina with a nice body approached. English wasn't her strong suit so we used the phone to translate. She lead me to a large room with a couch behind the 1st bar and she knew exactly what I was there for. Said full service was $200 to her. I agreed and she took out a condom hopped on and finished me off. Good deal, although the room fee was more than I would like. I think it went up. This must be why guys aren't going to Desire anymore. Much better attitude and deal here. I thanked her and said I'd be back next week. Didn't get her name. Latina not very good English, nice body some tattoos.[/QUOTE]Cleo is who it sounds like. She is cool. If she had weird eye tattoos on the back of her legs, likely her. Her butt looked like it got a little plumper last time I was there. She is cool though. She is very reliable and gives a nice BJ.
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[QUOTE=GunnarStahl;7433452]It's such a fine line, isn't it? I'm definitely not going to a strip club looking to be buddies with the girls. If a "strip club connection" develops, which is bound to happen if you pop up in one place enough, and I see her a few times or speak at her when I'm in there for a bit then sure, I'd be cool with that but I guess I'm generally going in with the impression that they're there working and money to them makes the world go around. That said I'm they'd probably rather go to the well a few times with someone they know isn't some freak than some odd character that drifts in they've never seen.
I feel a situation out with a girl. If she's just started chatting to someone, I'm definitely not approaching. If it's been like 40-50 minutes, it's kind of like WTF and I either cut my losses or catch them with a "hey, would love a dance when you're done" when the guy goes to the bathroom and hope they move on eventually. I just don't want to look creepy just sitting there or walking aimlessly trying to attract the attention of some girl.[/QUOTE]You did it the right way in your hypothetical. Doing it while someone is still chatting definitely a fafo situation.
Exactly why ai like Tijuana so much. Yes, girls talk a whole to some guys and they buy drinks, but I don't speak Spanish don't is translator or bust. It is actually a huge advantage for me as I can roam around and if a girl approaches me and doesn't speak English, it is very easy to move on to one you are interested in. Plus there are literally 100+ girls to choose from. I love my job and the ability to go there regularly and have free flights, hotels, and meals in San Diego. Just need to pay for pussy! Actually heading down this weekend!
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Cleo
[QUOTE=RobertABouy;7434314]Cleo is who it sounds like. She is cool. If she had weird eye tattoos on the back of her legs, likely her. Her butt looked like it got a little plumper last time I was there. She is cool though. She is very reliable and gives a nice BJ.[/QUOTE]Think so. Nice one and pretty cute.