I agree with both Senna and TPP
[QUOTE=TwoPupPop; 1393766]Both well written and certainly reasonable expectations. If I might add ONE item to both lists that I think would be a reasonable expectation from both sides of the transaction: Please be CLEAN! Both escorts AND mongers. This should go without saying for the escorts, but some of the stories I've heard from girls about some of the pigs that have come to see them truly makes me sad.
And ONE item for the escorts: Many of us have SOs that either don't smoke, or we don't, or some combination thereof. If your entire room smells like an ashtray, then we will, too, when we part company with you. There's been more than one girl that I've truly enjoyed the company of that I will no longer see because it became too difficult to try to schedule time to where I would be able to both shower AND run a load of laundry before the SO gets home. I understand that most of you smoke, and trying to keep your room somewhat smoke-free is difficult, but just keep in mind that it really DOES matter to many of us.
TPP[/QUOTE]Senna, your right! So many ladies actually do things you mentioned. Everything on your list is a no brainer and it makes one wounder what they are thinking when they book. Like no condoms, really? Your a provider, and theyre like $9. 99 at target for 25! Probably cheaper at Walmart, ha ha.
Anyway, I agree 100% with your list.
TPP, YES! CLEAN! That is probably #1 with me. If you have people coming in back to back as said on Senna's post, you DO NOT have time to properly clean yourself (At Least an hour is needed to properly get ready for a date). And if a guy is nice and fresh, Ill enjoy so much more.
Luv ya guys,
Anna
LOL. Generalizations never quite work.
[QUOTE=FastAndLoose; 1398593]This will probably go down as one of the most infamous posts to hit this site in some time. However, I don't really care. It's something that's been weighing on my mind for quite some time now. Yes, you will notice this is a first post. Only because I'm what you would consider a "Senior Member" and god forbid I should post something negative.
First, just let me say I'm as guilty of this as anyone. I'm not calling out anyone as much as maybe I'm calling out myself. I guess my first statement would be who in the hell are we kidding? Yes, I'm talking to you Don Juan. Hear me when I say this they really don't enjoy it and you're not the worlds greatest lover. I mean honestly you just passed the third or fourth trick of the day on your way to the door, yet you think you're the special one that got her to climax? Really? The only thing that put a smile on her face was that money you laid on the counter and that was for other reasons that we will get to in a moment.
Sorry for calling bullshit.
Happy hunting.[/QUOTE]Your right on most of it most of the time. However, there's always something else in the world. Not always the way the generalizations you make say it is. Mostly yes but not always.
I got plenty of 20 somethings UTRS that enjoy every minute. Got ones that are acting too (I get bored with these and kick them to the curb very quickly). And yes "I" wouldn't be ENJOYING either type if the $$$ weren't there (even though they swear its not so. Yah right.) Happy to spot them that lie and not call them on it. Let them have their bit of denial too.
Well known to stop seeing them if I discover my tuition money is being diverted for drugs. Known to test them too. LOL.
But I don't usually hang with the serious pro's seeing guy after guy. I'm usually their only pay for play type. But I pay way way more for this privilege. I kick many to the curb if they graduate from semi-pro to pro.
Heck, places ones here drive into. Alone scare me.
Have to call you on that one.
[QUOTE=Skwerl;1399999]And how is this different from a wife or girlfriend that strokes our ego to get something on the honey-do list or from the jewelry store. There are a lot of relationships out there that are little different. Many women are masters of manipulation. They use what they have that we want to get what they want. Always have, Always will.[/QUOTE]Let's be honest, we men are manipulative too. We say and do what we need to in order to get what we want. And just as I don't think this is an appropriate forum to come in and preach about the evils of mongering, I don't want it to become a place where we basically say that most women (wives, mothers, daughters, etc.) are nothing more than money hungry working girls. This isn't the Rush Limbaugh show.
I don't judge the ladies who have made the choice to make money from our lust, but I am also not going to justify my choice to visit them by saying my SO deserves my wandering activities because she is no different than they are. My choices (right or wrong) are mine and mine alone.