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[QUOTE=Uki Eater; 1447398]The argument here from a number of guys out there Oldee would be.
"Yah but, I don't see anyone else that I like though. There's not that many options to choose from. That's why I'm focusing on that one particular BG. You could recommend some other BG that plays but, I'm not interested in that one even if she did play"[/QUOTE]To disguise the fact that they want a relationship MORE than sex. Getting attached to one bg is a sure sign of LVB desease.
[QUOTE=Oldee;1447405]To disguise the fact that they want a relationship MORE than sex. Getting attached to one bg is a sure sign of LVB desease.[/QUOTE]Most would defend themselves and say:
"No, it's not that. How can I get physically turned on if I'm not visually attracted to the female? How can I get aroused? If I had a choice, why would I get physical with the other female (s) whom I don't find attractive vs the one that I do find attractive?"
Aloha gang,
Do all the girls at KB's table hop and what's the normal length of stay at each table? Just wondering, every time I buy a drink she will disappear and leave the drink sitting next to me. Kind of feel like that's her way of marking her territory so when she gets back it's another drink. Funny how when I walk out, she may be clear on the other side of the bar but she'll realize that I am leaving and follow me to my car. These games can kill the mind!
Aloha no,
GK
[QUOTE=GKaniho; 1448084]Aloha gang,
Do all the girls at KB's table hop and what's the normal length of stay at each table? Just wondering, every time I buy a drink she will disappear and leave the drink sitting next to me. Kind of feel like that's her way of marking her territory so when she gets back it's another drink. Funny how when I walk out, she may be clear on the other side of the bar but she'll realize that I am leaving and follow me to my car. These games can kill the mind!
Aloha no,
GK[/QUOTE]Lots of variables to your question but by the sound of it looks like you got a ROB on your hands. I'll answer you with more detail cause my phone is about to die.
[QUOTE=GKaniho; 1448084]Aloha gang,
Do all the girls at KB's table hop and what's the normal length of stay at each table? Just wondering, every time I buy a drink she will disappear and leave the drink sitting next to me. Kind of feel like that's her way of marking her territory so when she gets back it's another drink. Funny how when I walk out, she may be clear on the other side of the bar but she'll realize that I am leaving and follow me to my car. These games can kill the mind!
Aloha no,
GK[/QUOTE]I walk when a girl tries to use the drink thinking it will tack-weld me in place; it doesn't. I cut my losses and move-on; I don't need to see her drink it. IMHO Table Hoppers just aren't worth it.
The exception is if she then returns and spends some time before asking for another, is nice about it (apologizes for keeping me waiting), and is not chronic about it. Usually, though, when those types do come back (a gold-digger who struck gold won't), they suck the drink then ask for another.
You are correct; when possible BGs typically will strategically seat their customers in locations that allow them to multitask. That is, keep an eye on you (to see if you're letting another girl sit there, and especially to catch you leaving, as you noted), while makng money off another guy.
I never park in visual range of the bar entrance (girls will rarely venture beyond several feet of the door if it looks like you're going down the road). In case of a sour, psycho, or just plain crazy BG, you don't want her knowing which car to key, or what license plate number to tell her cop friends to look-up for her.
[QUOTE=GKaniho; 1448084]Aloha gang,
Do all the girls at KB's table hop and what's the normal length of stay at each table? Just wondering, every time I buy a drink she will disappear and leave the drink sitting next to me. Kind of feel like that's her way of marking her territory so when she gets back it's another drink. Funny how when I walk out, she may be clear on the other side of the bar but she'll realize that I am leaving and follow me to my car. These games can kill the mind!
Aloha no,
GK[/QUOTE]Not all BGs do this as often as others. Some are just known for wanting to do this. The length of stay depends on what may come up. A regular may walk in, she excuses herself to go use restroom.
A BG will keep you there while she says: "hello hunnee" to her other regulars that walks in. It's a means of keeping you there so that you don't leave and that no other BG comes by to sit down. It's a good way of excusing herself and you not leaving. Leaving the drink is like placing a "Do Not Disturb" sign on the door. She knows you're going to feel bummed to just leave considering that you just got her the drink. When a BG does that to a customer, what's his reaction?
"Damn, where she went? She didn't even touch her drink yet!"
So, he would sit there and wait until she does come back. If she doesn't come back, no big deal to her because the other guy she greeted is already spending more than you. When she says: "I come back" try stand up and look for her. You can bet she talking to someone at the bar or sitting with someone at another booth.
[QUOTE=Jehuty;1448095]Lots of variables to your question but by the sound of it looks like you got a ROB on your hands. I'll answer you with more detail cause my phone is about to die.[/QUOTE]The variables depend on what you want. If she stays, you lose money, if she leaves you get bored. If you want play then you have to strike fast while she's sitting with you.
Mahalo for the advice and info guys. I hate to say it, I think I've been falling into the LVB trend recently. Frick, my bad gang! I got to remember "bros" before "hoes". Aloha gang.
What about if a bartender comes around the bar to sit with me but won't sit with other guys. Should I feel slightly special or am I being STUPID? Getting old, starting to think with the little head too much like I am still in my 20's.
Appreciate all your advice fellas!
GK
[QUOTE=GKaniho; 1448151]Mahalo for the advice and info guys. I hate to say it, I think I've been falling into the LVB trend recently. Frick, my bad gang! I got to remember "bros" before "hoes". Aloha gang.
What about if a bartender comes around the bar to sit with me but won't sit with other guys. Should I feel slightly special or am I being STUPID? Getting old, starting to think with the little head too much like I am still in my 20's.
Appreciate all your advice fellas!
GK[/QUOTE]Cut the fucken line son. SAVE YOURSELF! BTW what bar then we tell you if you can be save. Hope not Nana, thats ok It's NaNa my business. LOL. Oh shit I'm going get kill for that.
Uki pointed out mostly of what I was going to put but oh well as long as you get it. No need for me to add anymore.
[QUOTE=Jehuty;1448166]Uki pointed out mostly of what I was going to put but oh well as long as you get it. No need for me to add anymore.[/QUOTE]Aww dude. Sorry about that.
[QUOTE=GKaniho;1448151]What about if a bartender comes around the bar to sit with me but won't sit with other guys. Should I feel slightly special or am I being STUPID? GK[/QUOTE]Bartenders play you in tandem or partners. One does the cooking; the other tends bar. If there's a neko potential or LVB then they'll switch or double-up. They'll have different strategies but the goal is to max the money-making with minimum effort; lay the trap and see what wanders in.
KBGs try to make everybody feel special and convince them that they're smart before going for the jugular. LVB suicide is painless that way.
It was very slow in town Saturday. BE, Jehuty, and Lumps were bar hopping hitting the same bars. All 3 of you are the shall we say NOT shy types, LOL. So was wondering if you guys ran into each other at any of the bars? All 3 of you were giving live reports too. (love live reports). Did you see any blue shoes for example? I don't think you guys went Casino though. However, I was in the corner so was hard to see, LOL.
Not a good night to bar hop, as majority of the bars I went to last night were slow. First up was Sakura Jin. 4 old ladies on duty; was obvious that none of them were Myra or her friend Marie. When I left only had one other guy in there, should've took that as a sign to go home. But I hard head, so figure I'd check out 904 next. The only reason I wanted to stop in here, was because my coworker was raving about what a good time he had with this Mongolian chick. Get in and was surprised that I got IDed! The bartender said that the manager thought I looked kinda young! So showed her my drivers license and everything was good. Sat at the bar and scanned the place to see which girl was the Mongolian. Wasn't really impressed with the lineup and didn't look like the girl was there, so left 10 mins. later. Next figure I'd hit Vegas III, before I went to the gym. Couldn't be any worse then the previous bars I went to. I was right, the bartender was young and cute. Was going to ID me until she found out I was drinking green tea. WTF! I dunno if I really look that young or they doing that to flatter me into staying! But, hey I ain't goin complain. I taking all the compliments I can get. Especially from someone as young and pretty as her. Getting back to Vegas, had better looking girls there then the last 2 bars I was at. The one girl with the yellow Playboy shirt was kinda hot, from the way she was talking she was either viet. Or Chinese. But I couldn't keep my eyes off the bartender. What a hottie! Would repeat if she sit with me!
[QUOTE=Oldee;1448190]It was very slow in town Saturday. BE, Jehuty, and Lumps were bar hopping hitting the same bars. All 3 of you are the shall we say NOT shy types, LOL. So was wondering if you guys ran into each other at any of the bars? All 3 of you were giving live reports too. (love live reports). Did you see any blue shoes for example? I don't think you guys went Casino though. However, I was in the corner so was hard to see, LOL.[/QUOTE]LOL after all the Blue stuff I was pointing out I never bothered to look at shoes. I went Casino thats how I found out Eri said she moving back Korea. Also that Tiffany from Moonflower work there. And thats also how I found out Sky working at Green Tee and that Chanel not the Mama at Moonflower anymore. Guess no more free pen set for xmas...