[QUOTE=Glockman;3340481]I was kicked out of the cub scouts.[/QUOTE]For eating brownies.
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[QUOTE=Glockman;3340481]I was kicked out of the cub scouts.[/QUOTE]For eating brownies.
[QUOTE=CactusIago;3302654]With the recent dustup on here between BR and Brookee I just wanted to highlight a couple of things that seem to have been lost.
The ladies on here are first and foremost, businesswomen; independent contractors, or even employed by someone. The hobbyists on here need to recognize that fact. Their reputations, ARE the currency of the realm around here for every provider. There are ladies that are unreliable, lay there like a dead fish, don; t kiss, do kiss, give the best service ever, or the worst--The reviews we give should and will highlight these FACTS about your particular experience. The problem that I want to address is when we deviate from these things in a cupla ways--1) As consumers or providers on this site, no one should EVER traffic in rumor--If you saw a needle or a track mark, you should report EXACTLY that, If her service isn't up to par, you should report EXACTLY that, If she is out of it, report it. BUT, don't take whatever research you have done, and combine it with a misperceived slight, to jump to conclusions. BR and Brookee have been wonderful, mostly reliable providers on here--report they are hard to get a hold of, don; t bring in rumor and innuendo about dope boy boyfriends and multiple mongers screening--Give them the credit their reputations have earned--And call them out when they slip up. 2) Negotiating--and this is more for the providers than the mongers--When there is an advertised price associated with a time, Don; t negotiate--You are business women, Take care of business-I work from xxx time to yyyy time, I'll return texts no later than 15 minutes if I am in an appointment, and my rates are zzzz" That's it--the second someone tells you he will give you less than you advertised, tell him to pound sand--If you are a good provider, and you are professional, the clients will come to you. And guys--a little consideration for the ladies as well--They are working hard for us--Unless there is a question about what is on the menu or the price, don; t try and haggle too hard. This is their living, If you have the discretionary income to partake, do it without nickle and dimeing them to the penny--let them pay for an extra pair of shoes for their child or dog--they will appreciate it! 3) Communication--From both sides. If you get a text, return it when you can, and state clearly in your ad, that your window to return is 15 minutes, to prevent unwanted texts 3 hrs later when the SO is now within hearing distance of the phone. DO NOT return texts or calls many hours later, or unsolicited, UNLESS you have enough of a relationship with the guy that you know there is no SO and you won; t be screwing them by texting late. When you set an appointment--Stick with it!! If something comes up, communicate that you can; t do it now--you should NEVER, EVER ghost someone. For Mongers--Same rules apply--Send a text every 15 minutes for about an hour, or let her know in your initial text she can respond at anytime with no problem. If you set an appointment, keep it--If something comes up, communicate-If you send out 4 text to find a providers, When you get a bite and make an appointment, have the common courtesy to resend the text to the ones you didn't choose, saying you are no longer interested--NEVER EVER ghost someone.
This is my opinion about this--It may seem like I am Knighting--really not trying to, just want everyone involved to remember that this is a business, no different, functionally, than walking into a restaurant, giving (and taking) an order and providing the services requested for a defined fee. Don; t give shitty Yelp Reviews because your ex-girlfriend works there or the Manager cut you off on the highway, or try to get the waiter to give you the Filet for the price of the Ribeye.[/QUOTE]Very well said. As we all have improving to do. I completly agree!!
[QUOTE=CactusIago;3302654]With the recent dustup on here between BR and Brookee I just wanted to highlight a couple of things that seem to have been lost.
The ladies on here are first and foremost, businesswomen; independent contractors, or even employed by someone. The hobbyists on here need to recognize that fact. Their reputations, ARE the currency of the realm around here for every provider. There are ladies that are unreliable, lay there like a dead fish, don; t kiss, do kiss, give the best service ever, or the worst--The reviews we give should and will highlight these FACTS about your particular experience. The problem that I want to address is when we deviate from these things in a cupla ways--1) As consumers or providers on this site, no one should EVER traffic in rumor--If you saw a needle or a track mark, you should report EXACTLY that, If her service isn't up to par, you should report EXACTLY that, If she is out of it, report it. BUT, don't take whatever research you have done, and combine it with a misperceived slight, to jump to conclusions. BR and Brookee have been wonderful, mostly reliable providers on here--report they are hard to get a hold of, don; t bring in rumor and innuendo about dope boy boyfriends and multiple mongers screening--Give them the credit their reputations have earned--And call them out when they slip up. 2) Negotiating--and this is more for the providers than the mongers--When there is an advertised price associated with a time, Don; t negotiate--You are business women, Take care of business-I work from xxx time to yyyy time, I'll return texts no later than 15 minutes if I am in an appointment, and my rates are zzzz" That's it--the second someone tells you he will give you less than you advertised, tell him to pound sand--If you are a good provider, and you are professional, the clients will come to you. And guys--a little consideration for the ladies as well--They are working hard for us--Unless there is a question about what is on the menu or the price, don; t try and haggle too hard. This is their living, If you have the discretionary income to partake, do it without nickle and dimeing them to the penny--let them pay for an extra pair of shoes for their child or dog--they will appreciate it! 3) Communication--From both sides. If you get a text, return it when you can, and state clearly in your ad, that your window to return is 15 minutes, to prevent unwanted texts 3 hrs later when the SO is now within hearing distance of the phone. DO NOT return texts or calls many hours later, or unsolicited, UNLESS you have enough of a relationship with the guy that you know there is no SO and you won; t be screwing them by texting late. When you set an appointment--Stick with it!! If something comes up, communicate that you can; t do it now--you should NEVER, EVER ghost someone. For Mongers--Same rules apply--Send a text every 15 minutes for about an hour, or let her know in your initial text she can respond at anytime with no problem. If you set an appointment, keep it--If something comes up, communicate-If you send out 4 text to find a providers, When you get a bite and make an appointment, have the common courtesy to resend the text to the ones you didn't choose, saying you are no longer interested--NEVER EVER ghost someone.
This is my opinion about this--It may seem like I am Knighting--really not trying to, just want everyone involved to remember that this is a business, no different, functionally, than walking into a restaurant, giving (and taking) an order and providing the services requested for a defined fee. Don; t give shitty Yelp Reviews because your ex-girlfriend works there or the Manager cut you off on the highway, or try to get the waiter to give you the Filet for the price of the Ribeye.[/QUOTE]For me being new to the community this is a great tool to have.
Stay Safe,
LS69.
[QUOTE=DrKennethW;3338299]I am under the impression that this site operates outside the jurisdiction of the USA.[/QUOTE]This site does operate offshore.
The fear is that US ISPs may ultimately somehow be required to "block" offshore sites in the name of Freedumb. "respecting women" . Honoring one or more of the Ten Commandments. Or something. Ugh.
I have reached out to 7 provider's today. 2 text back then crickets. WTF.
[QUOTE=Gunman2013;3346137]I have reached out to 7 provider's today. 2 text back then crickets. WTF.[/QUOTE]As you are having GM. I have reached out to 5 and have heard nothing. One of which I see quarterly or so. Had the nice room ready for our planned few hours (planned and set up last week) and have gotten nothing from her for a few days. The other 4 are advertising on this site. Not sure I get it. Guess I'll try again for my 3 hour open window tomorrow. Maybe if I'm lucky, I'll get a PM from someone who has some time on their hands. Geez.
[QUOTE=CactusIago;3302654]With the recent dustup on here between BR and Brookee I just wanted to highlight a couple of things that seem to have been lost.
The ladies on here are first and foremost, businesswomen; independent contractors, or even employed by someone. The hobbyists on here need to recognize that fact. Their reputations, ARE the currency of the realm around here for every provider. There are ladies that are unreliable, lay there like a dead fish, don; t kiss, do kiss, give the best service ever, or the worst--The reviews we give should and will highlight these FACTS about your particular experience. The problem that I want to address is when we deviate from these things in a cupla ways--1) As consumers or providers on this site, no one should EVER traffic in rumor--If you saw a needle or a track mark, you should report EXACTLY that, If her service isn't up to par, you should report EXACTLY that, If she is out of it, report it. BUT, don't take whatever research you have done, and combine it with a misperceived slight, to jump to conclusions. BR and Brookee have been wonderful, mostly reliable providers on here--report they are hard to get a hold of, don; t bring in rumor and innuendo about dope boy boyfriends and multiple mongers screening--Give them the credit their reputations have earned--And call them out when they slip up. 2) Negotiating--and this is more for the providers than the mongers--When there is an advertised price associated with a time, Don; t negotiate--You are business women, Take care of business-I work from xxx time to yyyy time, I'll return texts no later than 15 minutes if I am in an appointment, and my rates are zzzz" That's it--the second someone tells you he will give you less than you advertised, tell him to pound sand--If you are a good provider, and you are professional, the clients will come to you. And guys--a little consideration for the ladies as well--They are working hard for us--Unless there is a question about what is on the menu or the price, don; t try and haggle too hard. This is their living, If you have the discretionary income to partake, do it without nickle and dimeing them to the penny--let them pay for an extra pair of shoes for their child or dog--they will appreciate it! 3) Communication--From both sides. If you get a text, return it when you can, and state clearly in your ad, that your window to return is 15 minutes, to prevent unwanted texts 3 hrs later when the SO is now within hearing distance of the phone. DO NOT return texts or calls many hours later, or unsolicited, UNLESS you have enough of a relationship with the guy that you know there is no SO and you won; t be screwing them by texting late. When you set an appointment--Stick with it!! If something comes up, communicate that you can; t do it now--you should NEVER, EVER ghost someone. For Mongers--Same rules apply--Send a text every 15 minutes for about an hour, or let her know in your initial text she can respond at anytime with no problem. If you set an appointment, keep it--If something comes up, communicate-If you send out 4 text to find a providers, When you get a bite and make an appointment, have the common courtesy to resend the text to the ones you didn't choose, saying you are no longer interested--NEVER EVER ghost someone.
This is my opinion about this--It may seem like I am Knighting--really not trying to, just want everyone involved to remember that this is a business, no different, functionally, than walking into a restaurant, giving (and taking) an order and providing the services requested for a defined fee. Don; t give shitty Yelp Reviews because your ex-girlfriend works there or the Manager cut you off on the highway, or try to get the waiter to give you the Filet for the price of the Ribeye.[/QUOTE]Very well said, and applicable on both sides of the hobby. Respect goes a long, long way!
CFG.
[QUOTE=CactusIago;3302654]With the recent dustup on here between BR and Brookee I just wanted to highlight a couple of things that seem to have been lost.
The ladies on here are first and foremost, businesswomen; independent contractors, or even employed by someone. The hobbyists on here need to recognize that fact. Their reputations, ARE the currency of the realm around here for every provider. There are ladies that are unreliable, lay there like a dead fish, don; t kiss, do kiss, give the best service ever, or the worst--The reviews we give should and will highlight these FACTS about your particular experience. The problem that I want to address is when we deviate from these things in a cupla ways--1) As consumers or providers on this site, no one should EVER traffic in rumor--If you saw a needle or a track mark, you should report EXACTLY that, If her service isn't up to par, you should report EXACTLY that, If she is out of it, report it. BUT, don't take whatever research you have done, and combine it with a misperceived slight, to jump to conclusions. BR and Brookee have been wonderful, mostly reliable providers on here--report they are hard to get a hold of, don; t bring in rumor and innuendo about dope boy boyfriends and multiple mongers screening--Give them the credit their reputations have earned--And call them out when they slip up. 2) Negotiating--and this is more for the providers than the mongers--When there is an advertised price associated with a time, Don; t negotiate--You are business women, Take care of business-I work from xxx time to yyyy time, I'll return texts no later than 15 minutes if I am in an appointment, and my rates are zzzz" That's it--the second someone tells you he will give you less than you advertised, tell him to pound sand--If you are a good provider, and you are professional, the clients will come to you. And guys--a little consideration for the ladies as well--They are working hard for us--Unless there is a question about what is on the menu or the price, don; t try and haggle too hard. This is their living, If you have the discretionary income to partake, do it without nickle and dimeing them to the penny--let them pay for an extra pair of shoes for their child or dog--they will appreciate it! 3) Communication--From both sides. If you get a text, return it when you can, and state clearly in your ad, that your window to return is 15 minutes, to prevent unwanted texts 3 hrs later when the SO is now within hearing distance of the phone. DO NOT return texts or calls many hours later, or unsolicited, UNLESS you have enough of a relationship with the guy that you know there is no SO and you won; t be screwing them by texting late. When you set an appointment--Stick with it!! If something comes up, communicate that you can; t do it now--you should NEVER, EVER ghost someone. For Mongers--Same rules apply--Send a text every 15 minutes for about an hour, or let her know in your initial text she can respond at anytime with no problem. If you set an appointment, keep it--If something comes up, communicate-If you send out 4 text to find a providers, When you get a bite and make an appointment, have the common courtesy to resend the text to the ones you didn't choose, saying you are no longer interested--NEVER EVER ghost someone.
This is my opinion about this--It may seem like I am Knighting--really not trying to, just want everyone involved to remember that this is a business, no different, functionally, than walking into a restaurant, giving (and taking) an order and providing the services requested for a defined fee. Don; t give shitty Yelp Reviews because your ex-girlfriend works there or the Manager cut you off on the highway, or try to get the waiter to give you the Filet for the price of the Ribeye.[/QUOTE]Lengthy, but relevant and vey true. Thanks for taking the time to share.
[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3347951]Any SB that has been in the bowl long enough could be classified as a pro. Most SD's never use that type of lingo to a SB. They pick it up from the mongers who treat them like an escort. This is learned behavior from being promised an arrangement from someone who goes silent or missing after the first FC. After a couple of these incidents the girls either get out of the bowl disillusion ed and or learn to adapt and start doing rotations the way the guys do. This is something that the mongers created because most SB wo. Uld much rather have one SD that could be counted on.[/QUOTE]ALL SB's ARE HOOKERS! ALL SD's ARE JOHNS!
You are paying them for sex, you can add all of the stuff that sucks about having a girlfriend to that relationship if you wish to punish yourself but it's still commercial sex.
If you don't pay them they don't fuck you that makes you a john and them a hooker.
[QUOTE=Admin2;3348307]ALL SB's ARE HOOKERS! ALL SD's ARE JOHNS!
You are paying them for sex, you can add all of the stuff that sucks about having a girlfriend to that relationship if you wish to punish yourself but it's still commercial sex.
If you don't pay them they don't fuck you that makes you a john and them a hooker.[/QUOTE]Technically and by most laws your right. Any mutual beneficial agreement would be considered prostitution.
[QUOTE=Whathesaid;3345496]This site does operate offshore.
The fear is that US ISPs may ultimately somehow be required to "block" offshore sites in the name of Freedumb. "respecting women" . Honoring one or more of the Ten Commandments. Or something. Ugh.[/QUOTE]This will never happen because of the negative effect it would have on the global economy.
Off shore legitimate companies would not be allowed to ply their trade.
Just my $0. 02 on the matter.
[QUOTE=Whathesaid;3345496]This site does operate offshore.
The fear is that US ISPs may ultimately somehow be required to "block" offshore sites in the name of Freedumb. "respecting women" . Honoring one or more of the Ten Commandments. Or something. Ugh.[/QUOTE]Get a VPN. Chinese guys have figured out a way around that. And Korea is tougher but that whole country doesn't have internet.
[QUOTE=Admin2;3348307]ALL SB's ARE HOOKERS! ALL SD's ARE JOHNS!
You are paying them for sex, you can add all of the stuff that sucks about having a girlfriend to that relationship if you wish to punish yourself but it's still commercial sex.
If you don't pay them they don't fuck you that makes you a john and them a hooker.[/QUOTE]It's a financial transaction, and if you want to test the "special nature" of that, just ask her if she'll see you for free. LOL I mean, you can engineer it to feel like it's not pay for play, but don't delude yourself.
[QUOTE=Gunman2013;3346137]I have reached out to 7 provider's today. 2 text back then crickets. WTF.[/QUOTE]I keep seeing you guys post that none of these providers answer to your texts or calls amd it blows my mind. I get up at 7-8 am everyday and I get canceled on all the time I don't get it. I always answer and reply to messages promptly because my time is valuable, as I assume you fellas time is as well.
[QUOTE=JosiJames;3349027]I keep seeing you guys post that none of these providers answer to your texts or calls amd it blows my mind. I get up at 7-8 am everyday and I get canceled on all the time I don't get it. I always answer and reply to messages promptly because my time is valuable, as I assume you fellas time is as well.[/QUOTE]I didn't contact you dear. I contacted those close to where I work. But get this at 1:38 AM. This morning I get a text from Zalie24 one of which I reached out to. Saying. " What's up? " I mean WTF?