Maybe you should take off your CPD uniform before you go
Hi, sorry to be so cynical, but I can't imagine what you're doing to strike out so consistently. Maybe you need to establish a relationship by talking to your MT and bring up the subject. Some guys have resorted to grabbing her hand and taking it where you want it. Obviously, your passive approach is not getting you what you want and getting you poorer every day. Be safe out there, although, that doesn't look like it will be a problem if you don't change your ways. Never give more than a nominal tip if it's not earned. Arlo.
[QUOTE=OPIllini; 1216604]I went to 3 places Tuesday. I really couldn't afford to do it but couldn't help myself. Here's a brief recap; PM if you'd like more details:
1) Alice Salon: called at last second late afternoon and was able to walk in. Paid. 35 for 1/2 hr, MT was a bit on the chunky side but not a bad-looking face. So-so massage but very pleasant and fun personality, hinted at extras but declined (I'd kick myself later for passing this up) because I'd determined I would try another place too. Tipped. 2 for a total of. 55. Will repeat.
2) Oriental Massage: this is the MP located on 2nd floor of Chinatown Square. Walked in and asked for 1/2 hr massage. Paid. 45 for an actually good massage; MT decent-looking but I'd heard there was a MT there who dresses like a private school girl. Certainly didn't see anyone like that. No extras hinted, and I tipped. 2 for a total of. 65.
3) Last stop was Xindy's. I really felt if anything was going to happen it'd be here. Paid. 6 for 1 hr, MT may have been the mamasan herself. I'm not sure. Decent massage, I tried to grab her legs a couple of times but she would back away; when that happened I knew it was over. Even asked for extras at the end, no go. Was going to leave without tipping but she insisted (same thing happened at Oriental) , and since I didn't want to make a scene I was polite and gave her. 2. Total:.8.
Grand total of 2 see-notes and 2 strikeouts and 1 big missed opportunity. I may have to take a little break from this hobby; I felt I wasted a lot of money. [/QUOTE]
Not LEO; time to settle down and change approach
[QUOTE=Arlogu;1217418]Hi, sorry to be so cynical, but I can't imagine what you're doing to strike out so consistently. Maybe you need to establish a relationship by talking to your MT and bring up the subject. Some guys have resorted to grabbing her hand and taking it where you want it. Obviously, your passive approach is not getting you what you want and getting you poorer every day. Be safe out there, although, that doesn't look like it will be a problem if you don't change your ways. Never give more than a nominal tip if it's not earned. Arlo.[/QUOTE]No, I am not LEO. I'm just your average working-class guy who operates a train for a living. I just started off with this hobby two months ago, so I expected to have a few bumps along the way. But you do raise a good point. Maybe I have been too passive with my approach because I've always tried to treat ladies with respect. The next time I go perhaps I should be more upfront with what I really want. Maybe touching the MT as soon as the massage starts and having a few bills in plain sight couldn't hurt.
I do RTFF and go to places where I feel. Based on what others have reported. That I can get a HE. That, and a little hugging and kissing, is all I really want for extras; I'm not keen on the idea of getting BJ's, DATY's, and FS (too much risk with health IMO, but to each his own). I do feel that the more experience I get the better my trips will be. Perhaps it's also time to look back, evaluate the better times I've had, and stick to 1 or 2 MPs. I've been to 10-12 MPs and I probably stretched myself too thin, thinking each experience would be better than the last. That's obviously hasn't been the case, so I ask you guys. And you can PM me if you like. For any tips to make my mongering better and more cost-efficient. Thanks, and stay safe!
Midway Massage. 708 400 1214
Unfortunately, more of the same 'over promise' in the pics and ad presentation, and then switch the lady, average massage, questionable neighborhood, and no fun available for too much $.