Mongering is EASY and requires no knowledge, education nor learning curve.
[QUOTE=MickyMinaj;4972518]That's good advice, because I know firsthand that you must dominate the whole situation or a SW will take advantage of any kindness shown toward them and use against you.[/QUOTE]Don't want to be pedantic over semantics, but the choice of "dominate" gives me an impression of something else. I suspect we are saying the same thing, just in different ways, But indulge me a few comments?
[b]I am FIRM with girls while at the same time being polite and nice[/b]. I might even say I am kind too. Those who are stupid enough to test me will find out, in a nice but unwavering way, that they can't game me. Pulling shit gets you an exit out of my car where ever that maybe. A girl having to hoof it several miles back to her stomping grounds usually wakes up and changes her tune. I am not punching a girl or putting hands on her to get her out of my car either. So one CAN be (and should be) kind, polite and nice to the girls, just be firm on what you say. Start to be wishy washy and you are in trouble.
I have had dudes tell me that girls think I am "controlling"! Hey that's fine with me. If they can tell that, they know where the power lies and fall in line, avoiding any conflicts. I have dated girls that others have had "issues" with (rip offs, etc.) and asked them and to a girl they say that they can tell not to fuck with me. [b]So part of developing mongering chops is learning the power / control dynamics while being kind & polite.[/b] But if a dude realizes a date is going south and gives up his power because he wants to get laid, then he'll get what he deserves: his lunch eaten.
[b]For example[/b] scooped a girl the other day and she said she needed $80 to do an indoor date! WTF! If I said yes, the full cost of the date would have been north of $100, probably 120-130, for a streetwalker! Crazy. She was kind of firm in her style and a bit insistent. Now some guys would see the date potentially crashing and agree to the $80. Maybe a few would have thought they were smart and countered with $60. Me? I just started to slow down looking for a place to turn in and chuckled in a nonchalant way and told her, "No, street rates are 30-40. " That's all I said. All that needs to be said. I let silence build after that. I think with that polite but firm comment and the car turning into a place where she could be dropped off, well that seemed to wake her up. She thought for a moment and then stated she would be fine with that (40). So off we went! So [b]I could have been a pussy and caved in when she said 80[/b], or I could have been afraid of negotiating or unsure on how to do it and just gave her what she wanted so Jr would be satisfied. But I demonstrated, in a polite way, that I knew what the going rates were / are and that I was willing to walk away if need be. That gave me 'the power' in this situation and for the rest of the date. Is that "controlling?" So be it. ###.
But then again, mongering is EASY and requires no knowledge, education nor learning curve. Anyone suggesting that is just a f_cking a $$h*le! [I]sarcasm warning[/I].
So yeah, be FIRM with girls while maintaining control of the situation.
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[I]Now to be honest, my first few times out, I was timid, unsure and un-knowledgeable on how the game was played and I got played a few times. So it does take some time to learn & practice 'how to.' Not as easy as it looks. fwiw.[/I]
To Much Tranq In The Dope
[QUOTE=Lance547;4972230]This isn't just with escorts but with all women that you get romantically involved with. Women are always testing men to find their weaknesses and flaws. Snide comments, using your flaws against you, gaslighting, attacking your manhood, withholding sex, starting arguments, or just anything that you feel in your gut that isn't right about how she came at you is an attack and you have to address it because it just gets worse. If you keep letting it go and she gets all the wins she will eventually lose all respect for you and you're definitely not getting any sex at at point.
I heard different ideas but the one that makes the most sense to me is that back in the old days women saw live in real time men taking over villages and so forth so those men were automatically respected because those women could clearly see those men were strong.
Now days we're more civilized so a woman has no way of knowing if you're really strong or not so instinctively women challenge you to see what you will do to see if you will stand up for yourself. And it never ends!
If there is one thing I know about women and that is women respect strength and strong masculine men. So much so that's why so many of them end up with abusers because as sick as it sounds many misguided women view a man who dominates and controls them with more respect than a guy who treats them as an equal and decently.[/QUOTE]This all null and void the girls got the pussy they run the shpw and there are some sweet blonds all over the place can be had for $20 bt if you want to have sex $40 or $50 for car date getting out of your car is now becoming dangerous on the ave alot of scummbags even at high noon. With TorI S keep one hand on your wallet she stole right out of my pocket while I was on top of her. She will empty your bank account she took my bank card and I caught her threw her the fuck out and only gave her $5 for the date because she did that, and she ripped me for $50 another time it was make uo time, but I'm never going to pick her up she is quote hot, a little heavier than in her prime but she is only 24. Gina the infamous Gina is 24 also and a smoking bod she is a complete sweet heart and never rips guys off anymore, but the dope has so much tranq she falls asleep all the time one time she was so high and tired I just drove her around for 2 hrs [blue]Deleted by Admin[/blue] and I had to really pour water on her face to wake her up and help her out of the car I threw her $40 palYING WITH HER BUTTHoLE AND PUSY AND THOSE PERT LITTLE SEXy titties when e stopped at a few dating spots. She is an angel these days remember her 2 yr ago she threw a lighter at my car after I wouldn't do a second date she needed money and had no phone so she was a streetwalker. You should go with the girls that have phones but they can never keep them for long for whatever reason. There are still alot of veterans out there but many have already wifed up with some ugly dope dealer or some 80 yr old man it never works out and youll see them out there after they get thrown out. Coild write a book about my 4 yrs mongering but then would be able to run for prez in 2028 LOL This site ha become very much about bullshit and not enough about the individual girls anymore an thqt pleez change. I'm looking at bs posts that are meaningless nothing about the girlz out there.
