NeverEnoughCPie / OnTheDL
Has anyone had any luck with this SB?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8302edd1-68fb-47a0-ba7a-6a2a4f6cd510[/URL]
She has been on and off the site since at least last fall. Her username now is NeverEnoughCPie; last year it was OnThe DL. We corresponded last year and were setting up a meeting, then she ghosted. She said that she goes back and forth to Vegas.
NotYourAverageGir (FKA: AnimalLover): Meet Report
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1afda4de-72ce-472a-8a6c-7e2593180c6f[/URL]
Met this one for lunch recently. She showed up an hour and a half late but was communicative throughout the process. She looks damn good for 43 -- definitely better than her pics and I'd select her over many women in their 20's on SA. Has a young-adult daughter so she's now seeing what's out there. She looks trim and tight, but apparently doesn't work out despite looking like she does. Has legit and stable employment but works second shift. Her personality/affect is slightly odd but nothing off-putting for me in this context. I disclosed early on that I'm married with kids.
Our date went three hours between lunch and ice cream down the street. It ended with some DFK on the sidewalk so I figured it was a lock. (I would've moved to bag her then if I wasn't due home within an hour.) She'd readily accepted my offer of 400/wk and we'd agreed to meet the next week at my place. I forgot however that my old lady was off work then and later tried to reschedule for a different day. She then asked where we'd meet -- she remembered that my wife is usually off on the day I proposed -- I said lunch followed by a hotel. She then asked if 400/wk was for sex. I answered that I'd only pay for her time. She never replied.
I was a bit puzzled by the question, as I'd asked her point blank if she understood what the site was about and she came off as street smart. She's since clarified on her profile that she doesn't want anything sexual with married men.
Wow that's a long time for a hook-up
Were you just connecting with her online for that time or did you go on platonic dates? I don't think I could put up with platonic dates with a hottie that doesn't signal she wants to move things forward.
[QUOTE=Ryan33;5969344]I don't think that is an accurate assumption for a couple of reasons. There are many things that can happen once you are alone with them. I have had many experiences on SA where they didn't give head and required a condom, but we're amazing in bed and open to many other things.
One example is a college student I meet few yrs ago. It is a long story, but I had meet her almost a year and half before we finally moved forward with our arrangement. I knew a condom was required since she was not on birth control. When she got to the hotel room I gave her a hug and a small kiss and she said she wasn't really into kissing that much. I had something for us to drink, but she really wasn't into drinking. I suggested we start with with some mutual oral and she said she really didn't like giving or receiving.
So, at this point I thought it was going to be a bust, so I asked her what she did like and she said "I love to fuck and I like it rough. You can do whatever you want just don't pull pull my hair" Believe me, she was not lying about that at all, I would be completely drained after several rounds and she would be begging to go again. Turns out I was only the third guy she had slept with in her life, the other two being her boyfriend during her freshman year and a previous SD. She eventually loosed upon the kissing and the oral and really was a lot of fun.
The other reason is somewhat similar is that they don't always green light every thing they are willing to do with a stranger they have not meet in person. My experience has been they will always hold little something back until they feel comfortable and trust you. Once they get to that point they are likely to be more open to different things.[/QUOTE]