Tips, Tricks, Arguing, and Bullshit

GoodMorning All,

Three weeks ago walking to my car after work and I get a text meaage. I've reason to believe you've been cheating on me and I've changed the locks and security code. Don't come home, your shit will be in the alley tomorrow. Seems somehow my wife and med student son cracked the screen lock on my tablet, or accessed my second email account from a Laptop he had given me. Basically my wife lost her mind, tossed my shit in the alley told her family and mine of my habit cut off my cell phone, slept in my car for a day and had to buy clothes at Walmart to visit my mom on Sunday. So I guess what I'm saying is keep your secret a secret. Lock that shit up. Three weeks into this and I am isolated from most people I knew with family and friends. I'm getting along well now but it was a struggle for a few days to recreate my new life. That is all.

Wow, sorry to hear that but thanks for sharing. Good luck and keep us posted.

[QUOTE=DoctorPhil;3092059]GoodMorning All,

Three weeks ago walking to my car after work and I get a text meaage. I've reason to believe you've been cheating on me and I've changed the locks and security code. Don't come home, your shit will be in the alley tomorrow. Seems somehow my wife and med student son cracked the screen lock on my tablet, or accessed my second email account from a Laptop he had given me. Basically my wife lost her mind, tossed my shit in the alley told her family and mine of my habit cut off my cell phone, slept in my car for a day and had to buy clothes at Walmart to visit my mom on Sunday. So I guess what I'm saying is keep your secret a secret. Lock that shit up. Three weeks into this and I am isolated from most people I knew with family and friends. I'm getting along well now but it was a struggle for a few days to recreate my new life. That is all.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Bowtie;3092168]Wow, sorry to hear that but thanks for sharing. Good luck and keep us posted.[/QUOTE]My son also busted me out 12 years ago, but I got careless. Now even though I have no one to answer to I always delete the temporary files from my lap top when I'm done, and do not use email, and have a burner phone. Hate to see a brother go down. Good luck.

[QUOTE=DoctorPhil;3092059]GoodMorning All,

Three weeks ago walking to my car after work and I get a text meaage. I've reason to believe you've been cheating on me and I've changed the locks and security code. Don't come home, your shit will be in the alley tomorrow. Seems somehow my wife and med student son cracked the screen lock on my tablet, or accessed my second email account from a Laptop he had given me. Basically my wife lost her mind, tossed my shit in the alley told her family and mine of my habit cut off my cell phone, slept in my car for a day and had to buy clothes at Walmart to visit my mom on Sunday. So I guess what I'm saying is keep your secret a secret. Lock that shit up. Three weeks into this and I am isolated from most people I knew with family and friends. I'm getting along well now but it was a struggle for a few days to recreate my new life. That is all.[/QUOTE]Sorry about that man, best of luck getting everything sorted out again and back on your feet.

[QUOTE=DoctorPhil;3092059]GoodMorning All,

Three weeks ago walking to my car after work and I get a text meaage. I've reason to believe you've been cheating on me and I've changed the locks and security code. Don't come home, your shit will be in the alley tomorrow. Seems somehow my wife and med student son cracked the screen lock on my tablet, or accessed my second email account from a Laptop he had given me. Basically my wife lost her mind, tossed my shit in the alley told her family and mine of my habit cut off my cell phone, slept in my car for a day and had to buy clothes at Walmart to visit my mom on Sunday. So I guess what I'm saying is keep your secret a secret. Lock that shit up. Three weeks into this and I am isolated from most people I knew with family and friends. I'm getting along well now but it was a struggle for a few days to recreate my new life. That is all.[/QUOTE]Sucks it happened but if your married, you should be staying faithful to your wife. Women are not stupid and it was just a matter of time before you were caught. I guess your a true gambler, maybe bring luck at the casino is a better option.

[QUOTE=JustHereNow;3092442]Sucks it happened but if your married, you should be staying faithful to your wife. Women are not stupid and it was just a matter of time before you were caught. I guess your a true gambler, maybe bring luck at the casino is a better option.[/QUOTE]Such a true statement, faithfulness would have avoided all this trouble.

If you're ever tempted beforehand, don't go for more than an hour. I've signed up for 90 min and 2 hrs all the time, and it very, very rarely ever works out, whether with quality providers or not. I've had them fall asleep on me, stall, get drunk, cancel the 2nd hr after I already set down a gift, and even flat out roll off like I only pd for 1 hr. Too much time and guess they get distracted. Thought I was being a nice guy taking a relaxed approach. But I always find myself in that awkward position of whether I should reach back in that envelope or ask for part back. Stick with the hr of power and come back full steam.

[QUOTE=ArtWater;3095619]If you're ever tempted beforehand, don't go for more than an hour. I've signed up for 90 min and 2 hrs all the time, and it very, very rarely ever works out, whether with quality providers or not. I've had them fall asleep on me, stall, get drunk, cancel the 2nd hr after I already set down a gift, and even flat out roll off like I only pd for 1 hr. Too much time and guess they get distracted. Thought I was being a nice guy taking a relaxed approach. But I always find myself in that awkward position of whether I should reach back in that envelope or ask for part back. Stick with the hr of power and come back full steam.[/QUOTE]Also true of hr. Some girls are meant for hhr. Go the hr and she doesn't seem to know what to do with herself. That said, some chicks like to hang out beyond the contracted time. That's cool. But I'm still usually kicking her out after about 2. 5. All depends on the girl. But I agree; I never PAY for more than an hour.

[QUOTE=DoctorPhil;3092059]GoodMorning All,

Three weeks ago walking to my car after work and I get a text meaage. I've reason to believe you've been cheating on me and I've changed the locks and security code. Don't come home, your shit will be in the alley tomorrow. Seems somehow my wife and med student son cracked the screen lock on my tablet, or accessed my second email account from a Laptop he had given me. Basically my wife lost her mind, tossed my shit in the alley told her family and mine of my habit cut off my cell phone, slept in my car for a day and had to buy clothes at Walmart to visit my mom on Sunday. So I guess what I'm saying is keep your secret a secret. Lock that shit up. Three weeks into this and I am isolated from most people I knew with family and friends. I'm getting along well now but it was a struggle for a few days to recreate my new life. That is all.[/QUOTE]Sorry my friend, keep your head up. Something similiar happened to me back in April. Except 13 year old found condoms in car. And ex found my charge from year and half ago. Kicked me out that day. I regrouped. Got me apt. Less then month. Ex wanted to decorated it. Lolol Nah I'm good. I since retired from this hobby and I'm having more fun now smashing females off Plenty of Fish and Meet me. Quality is whole lot better and don't cost a dime. Still keeping my body count up. Lololol As far as the ex. Lolol she still holla at you boy. Look at the positive that cloud is lifted from over your head. If she was handling hers, you wouldn't be looking side eye. Nature of beast we like variety. Stay strong, Get your smash on, Say who wants some luvin from DrPhil. LOL Peace.

[QUOTE=Redemption45;3096424]Sorry my friend, keep your head up. Something similiar happened to me back in April. Except 13 year old found condoms in car. And ex found my charge from year and half ago. Kicked me out that day. I regrouped. Got me apt. Less then month. Ex wanted to decorated it. Lolol Nah I'm good. I since retired from this hobby and I'm having more fun now smashing females off Plenty of Fish and Meet me. Quality is whole lot better and don't cost a dime. Still keeping my body count up. Lololol As far as the ex. Lolol she still holla at you boy. Look at the positive that cloud is lifted from over your head. If she was handling hers, you wouldn't be looking side eye. Nature of beast we like variety. Stay strong, Get your smash on, Say who wants some luvin from DrPhil. LOL Peace.[/QUOTE]Well. Almost a month into it I've landed on my feet OK. Got me a 48 inch TV today to watch the Buckeyes. Still some stuff left at the old place I'm sure I'll get eventually. I feel like a weight is lifted off me. Thanks for all the positive remarks except from the two D. Bags who said you're married and should remain faithful. I thought Billy Graham died geesh, do they know what this site is. Thanks again. That is all.

DoctorPhil.

[QUOTE=JustHereNow;3092442]Sucks it happened but if your married, you should be staying faithful to your wife. Women are not stupid and it was just a matter of time before you were caught. I guess your a true gambler, maybe bring luck at the casino is a better option.[/QUOTE]Lololol moral righteousness, Why are you here? You here because you want you noodles buttered. That's it. We are a brotherhood. We stick together. We all have our reasons why were here. Single, married, lonely or widowed it doesn't matter. Respect the Bro code.

[QUOTE=DoctorPhil;3096726] you're married and should remain faithful, do they know what this site is.

DoctorPhil.[/QUOTE]Just because people are on this site, doesn't mean they are married. Some folks have different morals when it comes to sexual activity.

[QUOTE=Redemption45;3096944]Lololol moral righteousness, Why are you here? You here because you want you noodles buttered. That's it. We are a brotherhood. We stick together. We all have our reasons why were here. Single, married, lonely or widowed it doesn't matter. Respect the Bro code.[/QUOTE]I personally differentiate between crimes that have a victim and those that do not. Everyone should be free to do as they wish as long as they do not infringe on anyone else's rights. Prostitution itself should be legal and is fine with me because there is no victim. Some couples have open relationships where it's okay to have sex with other people. If a married man has vowed not to have sex with other women, he should not. If he does, his wife is a victim of fraud. In principle it is no different from a lot of the scams reported in the ripoff thread. I would be a hypocrite if I said it was okay to cheat on your wife but not okay for a backpage girl to accept your donation and then not perform the agreed upon service, for example.

I tried the Rhino Black (ck?) whatever it is called Friday night. I had my UTR want to see me and I really wasn't ready for another round so I decided it would be a perfect time to try it, scooped some up and it kicked in within half an hour and worked really well.

[QUOTE=DoctorPhil;3096726]Well. Almost a month into it I've landed on my feet OK. Got me a 48 inch TV today to watch the Buckeyes. Still some stuff left at the old place I'm sure I'll get eventually. I feel like a weight is lifted off me. Thanks for all the positive remarks except from the two D. Bags who said you're married and should remain faithful. I thought Billy Graham died geesh, do they know what this site is. Thanks again. That is all.

DoctorPhil.[/QUOTE]Sure I know what this site is. But I also know what the vows are when they are married. If your out cheating on your wife, which this is, then I think what you were doing was wrong. I don't care if you agree with my thoughts nor do I think you care what I think but this is a message board and I expressed my opinion. If you did not want to hear peoples thoughts, don't put them on an open board.