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[QUOTE=Guild0218;6129610]Is this someone any of y'all Remember or know?
[URL]https://ft-wayne.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/exotic/jas-is-back-/104972044086[/URL][/QUOTE]Yeah, pics and name match from quite a few years ago. Messaged with her and wanted CashApp payment before meeting for out OR incall. So take that for what's its worth. I wouldn't risk it, but if someone can vouch for her, I'm all ears!
I asked about her awhile back, but no answer.
What happened to the cat lady? I'm hoping to reconnect with her if she's still around.
[QUOTE=Boner1986;6132034]I asked about her awhile back, but no answer.
What happened to the cat lady? I'm hoping to reconnect with her if she's still around.[/QUOTE]She's been gone quite a while. Can't even remember the last time she posted. She's either out of the Fort or out the biz.
[QUOTE=Boner1986;6132034]I asked about her awhile back, but no answer.
What happened to the cat lady? I'm hoping to reconnect with her if she's still around.[/QUOTE]When you say 'cat lady', I'm not 100% sure who you are referring to, but I think of the girl I've seen a couple times. She changes her name now and then. Was Country Girl, then Candy, and now posting as Hazel. She doesn't post often as it seems she has pretty regular clients. She stays in a hotel here and has like 5 cats. About 30 yo, small petite body, really nice if you are nice and respectful, but can snap of your not. Had a miscommunication where I told her 'no hurry', and she thought I was telling her to hurry, when I meant the opposite. All in all, I find she is very kind. She's the only girl I've seen so far as I haven't done this much, and she was very kind to me. If you look back a bit on STG, you will find her pics and listing under Hazel. Her number hasn't changed tho.
If that's not who you are referring to, then I'm not sure and I probably wasn't helpful.
Can't find a great place to ask this, and if it's really not meant here my apologies, and we can delete. I would love some feedback, and feel free to message me with feedback if you'd prefer to keep the thread clear.
Can I ask an honest question in relation to your experience with working girls? I'm relatively new to this and have only seen Hazel / Country Girl a couple times. I like the petite body style, so also considering reaching out to Kash too. (The only reason I haven't is she makes it clear she she doesn't do any scheduling. I like to know when and where I'm supposed to be with time to prepare / shower, instead of getting all showered and ready and then hope someone responds.) Gorgeous petite girls like that will always be out of my league in the real world, so I enjoy working that fantasy this way. I also work a lot and have no time to maintain relationships now.
Anyway, I have a lot of anxiety / nervousness around any 'personal' encounter. Performance anxiety if you will. I haven't been with anyone regularly in years and don't have the stamina built up anymore. As I get older I also believe I'm dealing with PE more in relation to performance anxiety, and it's a bit embarrassing. I'd like to last longer. That's part of the reason I want to find a regular to see for awhile and build some stamina before I even try to date.
Do these girls really care at all how long we last? Should I hold any embarrassment with a SW'er if I don't last long, like one would feel with a new potential partner. I've seen Hazel twice and I was so worried about coming too soon that I worked it out twice before going and took a Sildenafil too. This helped me go longer, but I never did actually finish with her. I would love to be able to go without working it out prior, and just let myself fully enjoy it, even if it's only a few minutes. Idk why I'm trying to live up a performance standard with a SW'er? I guess the quicker I go, the easier work for them. It's just a thing wired in my brain and I have a sense of shame around it. I don't come in the room solid and ready to go. I have to get comfortable, relaxed and in the mood with a little play before I'm ready, so I always plan to pay for an hour wether I use it all or not.
I think a lot of guys experience some level of performance anxiety and some PE at times, and it's rarely talked about. Have you ever seen a girl here and we're satisfied in just a few minutes? What was their reaction? Did you see them again? Is it acceptable to just 'blow and go' with an escort? I think I just need to get over the mental block and realize she's not there for fun, but to provide me a service and could care less if I last a few minutes.
I have personally blown my load on the first stroke in. The lady thought it was hilarious and a bit of a compliment.
Do not forget you are a business to them. Full pay for 5 minutes work is good for them. Enjoy yourself, don't sweat it. You are the customer, and they say the customer always cums first, anyways!
[QUOTE=InTheFort;6132959]Can't find a great place to ask this, and if it's really not meant here my apologies, and we can delete. I would love some feedback, and feel free to message me with feedback if you'd prefer to keep the thread clear.
Can I ask an honest question in relation to your experience with working girls? I'm relatively new to this and have only seen Hazel / Country Girl a couple times. I like the petite body style, so also considering reaching out to Kash too. (The only reason I haven't is she makes it clear she she doesn't do any scheduling. I like to know when and where I'm supposed to be with time to prepare / shower, instead of getting all showered and ready and then hope someone responds.) Gorgeous petite girls like that will always be out of my league in the real world, so I enjoy working that fantasy this way. I also work a lot and have no time to maintain relationships now.
Anyway, I have a lot of anxiety / nervousness around any 'personal' encounter. Performance anxiety if you will. I haven't been with anyone regularly in years and don't have the stamina built up anymore. As I get older I also believe I'm dealing with PE more in relation to performance anxiety, and it's a bit embarrassing. I'd like to last longer. That's part of the reason I want to find a regular to see for awhile and build some stamina before I even try to date.
Do these girls really care at all how long we last? Should I hold any embarrassment with a SW'er if I don't last long, like one would feel with a new potential partner. I've seen Hazel twice and I was so worried about coming too soon that I worked it out twice before going and took a Sildenafil too. This helped me go longer, but I never did actually finish with her. I would love to be able to go without working it out prior, and just let myself fully enjoy it, even if it's only a few minutes. Idk why I'm trying to live up a performance standard with a SW'er? I guess the quicker I go, the easier work for them. It's just a thing wired in my brain and I have a sense of shame around it. I don't come in the room solid and ready to go. I have to get comfortable, relaxed and in the mood with a little play before I'm ready, so I always plan to pay for an hour wether I use it all or not.
I think a lot of guys experience some level of performance anxiety and some PE at times, and it's rarely talked about. Have you ever seen a girl here and we're satisfied in just a few minutes? What was their reaction? Did you see them again? Is it acceptable to just 'blow and go' with an escort? I think I just need to get over the mental block and realize she's not there for fun, but to provide me a service and could care less if I last a few minutes.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=InTheFort;6132959]Can't find a great place to ask this, and if it's really not meant here my apologies, and we can delete. I would love some feedback, and feel free to message me with feedback if you'd prefer to keep the thread clear.
Can I ask an honest question in relation to your experience with working girls? I'm relatively new to this and have only seen Hazel / Country Girl a couple times. I like the petite body style, so also considering reaching out to Kash too. (The only reason I haven't is she makes it clear she she doesn't do any scheduling. I like to know when and where I'm supposed to be with time to prepare / shower, instead of getting all showered and ready and then hope someone responds.) Gorgeous petite girls like that will always be out of my league in the real world, so I enjoy working that fantasy this way. I also work a lot and have no time to maintain relationships now.
Anyway, I have a lot of anxiety / nervousness around any 'personal' encounter. Performance anxiety if you will. I haven't been with anyone regularly in years and don't have the stamina built up anymore. As I get older I also believe I'm dealing with PE more in relation to performance anxiety, and it's a bit embarrassing. I'd like to last longer. That's part of the reason I want to find a regular to see for awhile and build some stamina before I even try to date.
Do these girls really care at all how long we last? Should I hold any embarrassment with a SW'er if I don't last long, like one would feel with a new potential partner. I've seen Hazel twice and I was so worried about coming too soon that I worked it out twice before going and took a Sildenafil too. This helped me go longer, but I never did actually finish with her. I would love to be able to go without working it out prior, and just let myself fully enjoy it, even if it's only a few minutes. Idk why I'm trying to live up a performance standard with a SW'er? I guess the quicker I go, the easier work for them. It's just a thing wired in my brain and I have a sense of shame around it. I don't come in the room solid and ready to go. I have to get comfortable, relaxed and in the mood with a little play before I'm ready, so I always plan to pay for an hour wether I use it all or not.
I think a lot of guys experience some level of performance anxiety and some PE at times, and it's rarely talked about. Have you ever seen a girl here and we're satisfied in just a few minutes? What was their reaction? Did you see them again? Is it acceptable to just 'blow and go' with an escort? I think I just need to get over the mental block and realize she's not there for fun, but to provide me a service and could care less if I last a few minutes.[/QUOTE]Don't sweat it, most of these ladies deal wit a lot of older guys and run into all kinds of PE issues. It's a business to them, the great ones make it feel very real, but in the end it's a business transaction. You'll read stories on these forums, not so much in FW though, of guys saying I made her orgasim 6 times and I finally came after 40 minutes and 6 positions, those are perhaps not all, but mostly BS. If you can both enjoy the time great, but in the end your the customer. Most of the ladies are happy if you are clean and kind, they sometimes deal with a lot of assholes. So if your nice to them, they will want you back. If they get off too then it's a bonus.
[QUOTE=InTheFort;6132959]Can't find a great place to ask this, and if it's really not meant here my apologies, and we can delete. I would love some feedback, and feel free to message me with feedback if you'd prefer to keep the thread clear.
Can I ask an honest question in relation to your experience with working girls? I'm relatively new to this and have only seen Hazel / Country Girl a couple times. I like the petite body style, so also considering reaching out to Kash too. (The only reason I haven't is she makes it clear she she doesn't do any scheduling. I like to know when and where I'm supposed to be with time to prepare / shower, instead of getting all showered and ready and then hope someone responds.) Gorgeous petite girls like that will always be out of my league in the real world, so I enjoy working that fantasy this way. I also work a lot and have no time to maintain relationships now.
Anyway, I have a lot of anxiety / nervousness around any 'personal' encounter. Performance anxiety if you will. I haven't been with anyone regularly in years and don't have the stamina built up anymore. As I get older I also believe I'm dealing with PE more in relation to performance anxiety, and it's a bit embarrassing. I'd like to last longer. That's part of the reason I want to find a regular to see for awhile and build some stamina before I even try to date.
Do these girls really care at all how long we last? Should I hold any embarrassment with a SW'er if I don't last long, like one would feel with a new potential partner. I've seen Hazel twice and I was so worried about coming too soon that I worked it out twice before going and took a Sildenafil too. This helped me go longer, but I never did actually finish with her. I would love to be able to go without working it out prior, and just let myself fully enjoy it, even if it's only a few minutes. Idk why I'm trying to live up a performance standard with a SW'er? I guess the quicker I go, the easier work for them. It's just a thing wired in my brain and I have a sense of shame around it. I don't come in the room solid and ready to go. I have to get comfortable, relaxed and in the mood with a little play before I'm ready, so I always plan to pay for an hour wether I use it all or not.
I think a lot of guys experience some level of performance anxiety and some PE at times, and it's rarely talked about. Have you ever seen a girl here and we're satisfied in just a few minutes? What was their reaction? Did you see them again? Is it acceptable to just 'blow and go' with an escort? I think I just need to get over the mental block and realize she's not there for fun, but to provide me a service and could care less if I last a few minutes.[/QUOTE]My experience is the opposite concern you have. For most ladies the concern is more if someone goes to long beyond the time. However, even with that there are two kinds of ladies.
First kind, are purely there for business, if you are quick that prefer it that way and won't care about the actual amount of time you donated for. Also these ladies get mad or annoyed if you last longer than they think you should and likely won't put in extra effort if you are struggling to finish. Avoid these ladies if you can.
Second kind, are the good ladies in town that actually care about you having a good time. They won't care if you are quick nor rush you if you need extra time or effort, within reason, several of these ladies will even let you go a second round if you were quick and still have time left. In general these good ladies will take it as a compliment if quick but will be concerned they didn't perform well if you don't complete.
Thank you three for you feedback! I know it's a business transaction and that's exactly how they look at it. It's how I look at it too, but there is still this part of my mind that won't fully flip the switch. I've always tried to make sure my partners were fully satisfied and it's just odd for me, I suppose, to know this is a service I'm paying for and I get to be selfish and aim for completion, and time doesn't matter. It's also a little intimidating I guess, because these ladies are smoking hot. Way out of the league I would get in real life.
I've always overestimated my time. I give myself enough time to relax and such, but am usually in and out in 15-30 minutes, but pay for an hour. I also like to schedule to be sure I'm fresh out the shower. I try to be kind, so I'm hoping I'm their ideal type of client despite occasionally having PE issues.
I'm going to not put so much pressure on myself because I'm at the point now I'm not even getting off because I've put so much pressure on myself no to go too short. I'd think I'd feel better at this point to at least finish early then not at all. Sildenifil seems to make it so I can't reach that sweet spot.
I saw Rose today. Her pictures are not updated. I will say she was very kind, passionate, GFE type experience automatically in terms of touching, etc. Not a great BJ, a lot heavier then I anticipated by pics and I hate to say this, but she is very loose. I could barley feel a thing unfortunately. A few minutes in, someone is banging on the door yelling in half foreign half English. She is scrambling saying 'I just got out the shower, can I slide you some money through the door'. I couldn't fully understand him, but I do know he said 'you're always busy' and if you don't bring rest down police will come. She said it was the office and they wanted their money for the room. Not a good interruption. We started again, but I quickly realized I wasn't feeling it.
I really wanted to see Sam today (Country Girl / Candy / Hazel). She says she's available everyday, but is hurting a lot, so she doesn't respond a lot of the time and it's unfortunate. She's very kind to me when I do see her.
I have yet to be able to get ahold of Kash. I am craving to see her, but she never responds to my messages.
Everything now and then I also follow up with Autumn, who hasn't posted in a long time. I've been craving to see her forever. She texted me today saying she's coming back and I can see her soon.
Thank you all for your feedback again. I'll post my updated on Kash and Autumn if I get to see them.
Anyone check her out? Thanks!
[URL]https://ft-wayne.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_e/southern-comfort-/170264383792[/URL]
[QUOTE=InTheFort;6132959]Can't find a great place to ask this, and if it's really not meant here my apologies, and we can delete. I would love some feedback, and feel free to message me with feedback if you'd prefer to keep the thread clear.
Can I ask an honest question in relation to your experience with working girls? I'm relatively new to this and have only seen Hazel / Country Girl a couple times. I like the petite body style, so also considering reaching out to Kash too. (The only reason I haven't is she makes it clear she she doesn't do any scheduling. I like to know when and where I'm supposed to be with time to prepare / shower, instead of getting all showered and ready and then hope someone responds.) Gorgeous petite girls like that will always be out of my league in the real world, so I enjoy working that fantasy this way. I also work a lot and have no time to maintain relationships now.
Anyway, I have a lot of anxiety / nervousness around any 'personal' encounter. Performance anxiety if you will. I haven't been with anyone regularly in years and don't have the stamina built up anymore. As I get older I also believe I'm dealing with PE more in relation to performance anxiety, and it's a bit embarrassing. I'd like to last longer. That's part of the reason I want to find a regular to see for awhile and build some stamina before I even try to date..[/QUOTE]I would strongly recommend you get yourself put on a decent dose of Prozac. It will help with your stamina as if that was specifically designed to do. Judging by your post you may also benefit in other ways. It is easy to get a prescription for Prozac. Just ask for it. If you want an excuse, just tell your physician you're afraid of your cat, or something. It dulls the senses a bit, which is precisely what you need.
[QUOTE=PoolSharc69;6133669]Anyone check her out? Thanks!
[URL]https://ft-wayne.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_e/southern-comfort-/170264383792[/URL][/QUOTE]She use to post a couple of years ago and was generally a good time if I remember correctly. My only concern with her post now is that the pics are all the same that she use to post with. It could simply be an effort to remind people of who she is but either way it worth keeping an open mind on her looks, but that is somewhat normal thing to do with all the ladies. A lot or nothing can change in 2 years, but if her service is the same she is worth checking out.
[QUOTE=BiggieJc;6134054]She use to post a couple of years ago and was generally a good time if I remember correctly. My only concern with her post now is that the pics are all the same that she use to post with. It could simply be an effort to remind people of who she is but either way it worth keeping an open mind on her looks, but that is somewhat normal thing to do with all the ladies. A lot or nothing can change in 2 years, but if her service is the same she is worth checking out.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the info! Greatly appreciate it!
[QUOTE=InTheFort;6132959]Can't find a great place to ask this, and if it's really not meant here my apologies, and we can delete. I would love some feedback, and feel free to message me with feedback if you'd prefer to keep the thread clear.
Can I ask an honest question in relation to your experience with working girls? I'm relatively new to this and have only seen Hazel / Country Girl a couple times. I like the petite body style, so also considering reaching out to Kash too. (The only reason I haven't is she makes it clear she she doesn't do any scheduling. I like to know when and where I'm supposed to be with time to prepare / shower, instead of getting all showered and ready and then hope someone responds.) Gorgeous petite girls like that will always be out of my league in the real world, so I enjoy working that fantasy this way. I also work a lot and have no time to maintain relationships now..[/QUOTE]No worries in what you're going through!
Tbh, if you find a good provider you like just be honest (at least about the deed itself) going into it, a lot of providers around are pretty cool with things.
Like a lot of people have said below, it's business for them and their main job is to make sure you enjoy yourself! If you find anyone that make you feel uncomfortable at all or just doesn't feel like opening up would help any, you may just need to find a different provider. The upside being, you can always just not contact them.
I myself have had a couple long scheduled visits that ended in me ending early but the provider I was seeing was super cool and understand about everything!
[URL]https://ft-wayne.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/black_caribbean/pics-are-real-serious-inquires/330634822678[/URL]
Has anyone seen this girl yet? She was quick to respond and with that body I may have to TOFFT, just wondering if anyone already had any info.