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[QUOTE=RegularJoe1985;6410043]A new profile of Lala, has been around for quite a while. Not sure if she's still doing this behind her BF's back.
Too much drama.[/QUOTE]Haha, funny that you mention a boyfriend. She sent me a message yesterday: "Gtg boyfriend coming soon". Sounds like she's still doing it behind his back. I'm not for the drama, so I'll bow out of this one.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/284e92f0-5460-4f3a-ba7e-ad563ea0cbb0[/URL]
Be careful with this one. Used to be on Tryst and tried to blackmail me with a pregnancy scare last year (#26366 under escorts). When I didn't fall for it and asked if I still could get the goods they told me I would never again get it. So when I recently saw the profile I decided to see if she would recognize me. She didn't and we proceeded to chat and try to arrange a date to meet. I couldn't meet the same week so she hit me with "needed money for heart condition". When I told her I was ppm only she claimed to get offended by something I said and decided she didn't want to meet anymore. YMMV. Beware.
[QUOTE=SkidMarks;6410608][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/284e92f0-5460-4f3a-ba7e-ad563ea0cbb0[/URL]
Be careful with this one. Used to be on Tryst and tried to blackmail me with a pregnancy scare last year (#26366 under escorts). When I didn't fall for it and asked if I still could get the goods they told me I would never again get it. So when I recently saw the profile I decided to see if she would recognize me. She didn't and we proceeded to chat and try to arrange a date to meet. I couldn't meet the same week so she hit me with "needed money for heart condition". When I told her I was ppm only she claimed to get offended by something I said and decided she didn't want to meet anymore. YMMV. Beware.[/QUOTE]She might not have recognized you through text, but if you fucked her before, she's definitely going to recognize you in person.
[QUOTE=GeechieDan;6410594]Haha, funny that you mention a boyfriend. She sent me a message yesterday: "Gtg boyfriend coming soon". Sounds like she's still doing it behind his back. I'm not for the drama, so I'll bow out of this one.[/QUOTE]They all have real boyfriends their age. Some have husbands. They're just doing this internet thing for money.
[QUOTE=SaTraveler;6384749]Yes -- I recommend -- a little passive but can get into it if you treat her right! Spinner body. BBFS and CIP available.[/QUOTE]Willing to pm her digits?
[QUOTE=KingKane;6410932]They all have real boyfriends their age. Some have husbands. They're just doing this internet thing for money.[/QUOTE]Been banging her when things are quiet for a while. Pretty sure its a new boyfriend, but she's been playing all of her BFs with a bunch of us for a while far as I can tell LOL.
[QUOTE=KingKane;6410932]They all have real boyfriends their age. Some have husbands. They're just doing this internet thing for money.[/QUOTE]The way she replied to me made it sound like she was sneaking around and drama could be lurking around the corner. I've banged ones with BFs, and I've banged ones with husbands, but none of them gave me the sense that drama could ensue. Most have been in open relationships with no sneaking around, and I even met one of the BFs. I just prefer to avoid unnecessary drama.
[QUOTE=Kilika;6411811]Willing to pm her digits?[/QUOTE]She's been ghosting and denying her number to a few guys I sent her way. Not sure what the deal is with her now.
Possible scam or bot. Had a strange interaction with this one. Convo started great, but then when asked to get digits she went completely bipolar on me. I ended it right there before the seeking moderators accuse me of something.
[QUOTE=GiveItRaw10;6416196]Possible scam or bot. Had a strange interaction with this one. Convo started great, but then when asked to get digits she went completely bipolar on me. I ended it right there before the seeking moderators accuse me of something.[/QUOTE]Lot's of red flags there, plus here image pops up here:
[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hysn_8YWgdk[/URL]
Or.
[URL]https://www.tiktok.com/@stronger_girls_dont_cry[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4c9583a4-34a3-4e88-80f8-bf7f334bfe02[/URL]
Wants 500 an hour and adds extra charges for BBBJ. She wanted 1. 2 k for 2 hours most, BBBJ, and wants a current STD check.
Does anyone have her number? She gave it to me and I was texting with her but I have deleted my SA account and accidentally deleted her number. Can PM if have it.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6802bcb6-969a-4710-9974-c53e5d677391[/URL]
Anyone having trouble getting a verification code to sign in? I haven't logged in for a few months and checked to see if my ad blocking extension was blocking the code. Any suggestions would be appreciated. I don't want to go through the process of setting up another account. Thanks.
[QUOTE=MulchMan;6423616]Anyone having trouble getting a verification code to sign in? I haven't logged in for a few months and checked to see if my ad blocking extension was blocking the code. Any suggestions would be appreciated. I don't want to go through the process of setting up another account. Thanks.[/QUOTE]For what site? This one doesn't. [URL]seeking.com[/URL] doesn't.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6427685]For what site? This one doesn't. [URL]seeking.com[/URL] doesn't.[/QUOTE]Sorry I wasn't more specific. I was referring to the Seeking site. I played in the bowl awhile back and used it on a regular basis. I never had to use 2 FA when logging in before. I know my Comcast email is working fine but I am not receiving a verification code when I try to login. I'm guessing I'm SOL and will have to set up a new account with another email address. Thanks.
So I guess about 44 million people who haven't had to pay on student loans since COVID first hit will have to start making payments in a few months. Do I smell some fresh pussy entering the market?
[QUOTE=SkidMarks;6410608][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/284e92f0-5460-4f3a-ba7e-ad563ea0cbb0[/URL]
Be careful with this one. Used to be on Tryst and tried to blackmail me with a pregnancy scare last year (#26366 under escorts). When I didn't fall for it and asked if I still could get the goods they told me I would never again get it. So when I recently saw the profile I decided to see if she would recognize me. She didn't and we proceeded to chat and try to arrange a date to meet. I couldn't meet the same week so she hit me with "needed money for heart condition". When I told her I was ppm only she claimed to get offended by something I said and decided she didn't want to meet anymore. YMMV. Beware.[/QUOTE]Got to be Raelyn LOL.
[QUOTE=GeechieDan;6412012]The way she replied to me made it sound like she was sneaking around and drama could be lurking around the corner. I've banged ones with BFs, and I've banged ones with husbands, but none of them gave me the sense that drama could ensue. Most have been in open relationships with no sneaking around, and I even met one of the BFs. I just prefer to avoid unnecessary drama.[/QUOTE]I have seen her twice now. Super nice and very accommodating.
[QUOTE=SafePlayer69;6429765]I have seen her twice now. Super nice and very accommodating.[/QUOTE]Perhaps she didn't get a call when you were with her.
It was crazy while I was in her and she answered her phone and was asking me to 'hush' LOL.
I posted about this in a preliminary way, search for that.
I found cards that are issued by Blackhawk. I include a picture of the exact card I used. When I bought it the cashier tore open a window on the back. Once I opened the packaging and saw the card, I recognized it from one I had long ago that worked.
I did go to the card website and put in a bunch of fake sugar info for the address, etc, and also put in a PIN.
I went to seeking and tried to pay with it. I got the usual message that they don't have a great success rate w / prepaid debit cards and they hope that I will use a major credit card. I went ahead anyway. I also used the discount code I posted about recently. The site was grinding away for a while, but ultimately, my membership renewal went through. With the discount. I gave up no personal information to do so.
[QUOTE=SaTraveler;6384749]Yes -- I recommend -- a little passive but can get into it if you treat her right! Spinner body. BBFS and CIP available.[/QUOTE]If any of ya'll are sharing her contact info, I'd love to have it.
[QUOTE=RichmondVa;6433613]If any of ya'll are sharing her contact info, I'd love to have it.[/QUOTE]How does that work, with sharing a SBs number with other dudes? Are girls cool with that? Is there any blow back for the dude who shares the number?
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6430267]I posted about this in a preliminary way, search for that.
I found cards that are issued by Blackhawk. I include a picture of the exact card I used. When I bought it the cashier tore open a window on the back. Once I opened the packaging and saw the card, I recognized it from one I had long ago that worked.
I did go to the card website and put in a bunch of fake sugar info for the address, etc, and also put in a PIN.
I went to seeking and tried to pay with it. I got the usual message that they don't have a great success rate w / prepaid debit cards and they hope that I will use a major credit card. I went ahead anyway. I also used the discount code I posted about recently. The site was grinding away for a while, but ultimately, my membership renewal went through. With the discount. I gave up no personal information to do so.[/QUOTE]So are you giving up on the old OneVanilla, now Secure Spend, card?
[QUOTE=Shampoo55;6433768]How does that work, with sharing a SBs number with other dudes? Are girls cool with that? Is there any blow back for the dude who shares the number?[/QUOTE]I think the situation is usually that the girl wants money and is ok with picking up a few more SD's / clients.
[QUOTE=RichmondVa;6433613]If any of ya'll are sharing her contact info, I'd love to have it.[/QUOTE]Has anyone seen her the past month? From what I can tell she went ghost, or got a new number or just blocked me after the last time I saw her. LOL been getting nothing back since the beginning of April.
[QUOTE=CarpenterP2017;6433786]I think the situation is usually that the girl wants money and is ok with picking up a few more SD's / clients.[/QUOTE]I would first ask the SB first if it is ok to share her phone number. Some of these women are not pros so they may not want their number being published.
A quick question to the frequent flyers. Do I leave the sugaring phone at home? Or risk it all and take it on a trip with the SO? We are planning on traveling for 2 weeks and I can't remember for the life of me if phones have to be taken out of any carry on bags and placed in the trays when going through the security check point at the airport. In the past I only had 1 phone and used a texting app. Things are different now so I'm just wondering if it's best to leave it at home or check a bag and have the phone in that luggage.
Seeking really has to stop this shit.
[QUOTE=LoriTruck;6438534]A quick question to the frequent flyers. Do I leave the sugaring phone at home? Or risk it all and take it on a trip with the SO? We are planning on traveling for 2 weeks and I can't remember for the life of me if phones have to be taken out of any carry on bags and placed in the trays when going through the security check point at the airport. In the past I only had 1 phone and used a texting app. Things are different now so I'm just wondering if it's best to leave it at home or check a bag and have the phone in that luggage.[/QUOTE]Never never never on any trip w / the SO. I suggest using Google Voice, as you can log into your sugaring google account from a (secure, different) browser and send texts, without there being any phone at all.
If you are a trusted traveler you can leave everything in the bag. I think you'd be a fool to risk this though.
I never ever have my burner in my house. It is always off when I get home and it is buried deep in a golf bag.
[QUOTE=LoriTruck;6438534]A quick question to the frequent flyers. Do I leave the sugaring phone at home? Or risk it all and take it on a trip with the SO? We are planning on traveling for 2 weeks and I can't remember for the life of me if phones have to be taken out of any carry on bags and placed in the trays when going through the security check point at the airport. In the past I only had 1 phone and used a texting app. Things are different now so I'm just wondering if it's best to leave it at home or check a bag and have the phone in that luggage.[/QUOTE]Why not ask the TSA what the current regs are?
Just take two weeks off from the sugar bowl, enjoy your vacation with your SO, tell any significant SBs that and they will be fine and see you when you get back
[QUOTE=LoriTruck;6438534]A quick question to the frequent flyers. Do I leave the sugaring phone at home? Or risk it all and take it on a trip with the SO? We are planning on traveling for 2 weeks and I can't remember for the life of me if phones have to be taken out of any carry on bags and placed in the trays when going through the security check point at the airport. In the past I only had 1 phone and used a texting app. Things are different now so I'm just wondering if it's best to leave it at home or check a bag and have the phone in that luggage.[/QUOTE].
Does anyone know if during I'd verification seeking confirms the SBs age on their I'd matches their age on their profile, or are they simply confirming their I'd is 18+ ?
[QUOTE=Btt123;6439434]Does anyone know if during I'd verification seeking confirms the SBs age on their I'd matches their age on their profile, or are they simply confirming their I'd is 18+ ?[/QUOTE]I have zero idea, and have been here a long time and no one has ever discussed this. I recommend asking the girl for it, because if you are lucky you will get more info about her, such as her real full name. This is background info that can be useful to you if things ever go south. There is significant concern (justified) of girls trying to extort guys if they are in an ongoing interaction. If you know all of her business, and have ammo to shoot back, you are less likely to get into trouble. Knowing all the personal information of a POT has not in my experience been very useful in actually getting a better arrangement, but it is good to have in your hip pocket. Of course I keep record of everything pertinent in my interactions w / a girl.
[QUOTE=Btt123;6439434]Does anyone know if during ID verification seeking confirms the SBs age on their I'd matches their age on their profile, or are they simply confirming their I'd is 18+ ?[/QUOTE]There is a massive black market for producing fake I'd's. When my son was in high school, I was regularly confiscating his and sometimes those of his friends. One characteristic that is common to fake driver's licenses is that they are almost always out of state for your current location (makes it harder for a cop to run it.) I would not rely on a DL for any kind of reliable age or name verification. The only safe solution is to stay way from anyone who looks like they could be in high school. There are just too many easy and safe alternatives to bother with the risk.
BAM
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6438717]Seeking really has to stop this shit.[/QUOTE]Most find quickly that they are not worth what they think they are!
Any info?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a991ee4b-695e-4833-8ed8-a7fb07c2ccde[/URL]
See my attachment. I got this message not too long ago. It was my fault, because I mentioned "ppm". They were at least nice enough to warn me before I sent the message. I just found it interesting because I'd never gotten that before.
[QUOTE=LoriTruck;6438534]A quick question to the frequent flyers. .[/QUOTE]Put it in a ziplock bag and then bottom of suitcase.
[QUOTE=GeechieDan;6442432]See my attachment. I got this message not too long ago. It was my fault, because I mentioned "ppm". They were at least nice enough to warn me before I sent the message. I just found it interesting because I'd never gotten that before.[/QUOTE]Consider yourself extremely lucky, like winning the lottery! In the past stating anything that even remotely could be interpreted as P2 Play language got you banned from the site.
Best advice is talk stuff that has [U]nothing to do with P2P, allowance, PPM or whatever on the site[/U] and quickly get to PM / DM OFFSITE where you can talk PPM, allowance or P2 P!
Look, with the passage of FOSTA / SESTA that site, Seeking, is in the cross-hairs of LE. It is a cash cow for Bandon Wade. Every wonder how they stayed open when BackPage got knicked? Therefore, Wade IMMEDIATELY took steps to protect his business by instituting BOTS or AI to scan every e-mail looking for anything that could be inferred to be prostitution. When the BOT finds that, it was an immediate banishment. He had to do this, such that he could argue that his site was not prostitution related and thus not illegal. Protect the cash cow.
IF the site gives a pass, it could be considered "coaching" on how to get around their strict enforcement of no prostitution. That just opens the door for prosecution. That was part of what took BP down.
Now maybe there are so many dudes who never got the message and continue to use P2 P types of messages that they were banning a majority and decided to give warnings. IMHO that is a very risky move on SA's part as they are already trying to thread the needle legally in a very, very narrow loop-hole.
[QUOTE=GeechieDan;6442432]See my attachment. I got this message not too long ago. It was my fault, because I mentioned "ppm". They were at least nice enough to warn me before I sent the message. I just found it interesting because I'd never gotten that before.[/QUOTE]I agree with Shampoo: this is a positive sign that they are feeling the pain of frequent and indiscriminate banning. Warning people and blocking bad messages is more desirable than permanent bans. It is also fairly easy to implement.
It would not have helped me. They told me I was banned for "Spamming. " They could have saved my revenue by simply putting a message / day limit. Perhaps that is coming next.
BAM.