[QUOTE=BobWill425;3859828]Gentlemen of the forum.
I'd like to share an example of a PM sent to me requesting contact info for AJ. I will keep the requestor anonymous.
I do this in the interest of encouraging fellow mongers to exercise good judgement when deciding whether or not to share contact info for UTR gems such as these two. I was one of the first to offer up AJ's info by way of PM's and there is a method to my madness. First thing I do when I get a PM request for contact info is click on the requestor's handle and review his forum posts. Yes it takes a few minutes to peruse thru them, but I feel it's the right thing to do and worth the effort. If the guy is a senior member who has made meaningful contributions to the forum with good intel and seems to be a respectful gentleman who doesn't appear to be pushy or abusive, I'll share her email (always with the caveat reminders that she does not offer FS and to please be respectful). If however his posts seem to indicate a pattern of drama or if he sounds like a general dickhead, I will politely decline. Also if he is not a senior and his posts are only queries and he's made no real meaningful contribution to the forum, again, I will decline as in the example below. I'd like to think her other regulars are similarly selective when sharing this info. She has had some bad experiences and I know it comes with the territory. But good UTR's are unicorns and rarely stick around, so I think we mongers should feel an obligation to do right by them. That's just my $. 02 worth. Thanks for listening.
PM example:
I'm afraid not. You only have 5 posts that are actually about a single experience, and that one included drama. Whether the drama was induced by you or to you is irrelevant. No offense, but AJ is a normal, drug free, very sane and nice lady that only does this on the side as a hobby / extra cash gig. And full service is not on the menu, but some guys don't want to take no for an answer. There's no way for me to ascertain from your posts whether you're likely a gentleman or a jerk. She doesn't need drama and I am not inclined to share her info with anyone that shows little or no history on the forum. She has unfortunately had some negative experiences with certain individuals, some from the forum, and I think if we would like to continue to enjoy her sessions, we need to be somewhat protective. As I said, hope you don't take offense, it is not personal. I'll be happy to share once you show positive contributions to the forum. Good luck and safe mongering.[/QUOTE]
Not sure of your point here , unless your getting a cut , but AJ had an ad on the classifieds page if I am not mistaken, and playing the game wether your on one side or the other, its a risk of the game. Just saying.
