Trouble getting the hang of this...
Maybe its because cooky and super make it sound like a cakewalk but three forays and I've have to say It's Not. Any input on these issues would be appreciated:
1) Can't tell the pros from civilians. Just when you think you've found a SW, you see she is with a guy or, in my case once, a baby carriage. Believe me guys, the pics help but from a distance. I mean how do you tell?
2) What is the stroll? I've been just driving up underneath the "L" train and eventually it becomes Kensington, but on my best day I saw four 'maybe"s. Am I just off on the geography? Its not like I can put this into my gps.
3) Is there an ettiquitte? I mean when I've seen what looked like a group of three SW talking, I just froze wondering how I might interrupt. A few times even when I thought 'probably' the SW was at a phone or seemed occupied. I'm guessing 'excuse me.' isn't the best approach.
I hope this doesn't sound like a total Gomer but this is daunting!
Time cost vs. activity costs, and age check
Time cost vs. activity costs:
My experience with "Smiley" has me wondering. She was mentioning costs based on time, similar to what you'd find on CL, BP, and escorts. Yet, I read on this board costs based on activity for SW's. If done this way, is there a time limit for the activity? Couldn't one get into leo trouble based on the latter?
Learned this from posts here.
I did ask as soon as she was getting into the car if she had any drugs or drug accessories on her. Just in case we got pulled over. Leo was everywhere at the time I picked her up. I even asked her if the leo knows her by sight since many were looking right at us when they were passing in the opposite direction. It seemed to be one car per two or three blocks while near the K area.
Age check:
She said she was 25yrs old and sounded appropriate for her face appearance. If someone where to look very young, is it appropriate to see identity first just to be safe? I certainly don't want to be accused of something involving a minor. Comments?
Leo trailer on Frankford Ave at Foulkrod?
So what was up with the leo trailer on Frankford Ave at Foulkrod today?
Guess who I ran into again
It was about 11:30A. M. After driving the K a while and not seeing anyone obvious. I was getting hungry, so I parked at DD that is next to a laundry and Chinese place. Don't know the street names there. While I was eating my chicken and rice, a familiar figure appears. Smiley. She said that she might also be known as "Britney" back around 2005. She walked right past me to buy a token. When she turned around, she recognized me, sat down and was very friendly again. I know she doesn't eat much, so I offered her some of my lunch. I asked why she gave me a bogus number and she claimed she just gave me the wrong one, so she corrected it. Since the opportunity arose, I asked about the previous freebee offer. No doing, she claimed she didn't have enough time for free dates today, maybe another day. We'll see I guess.
Talking a lot about her kids again. She also mentioned something odd. She claimed to be borrowing sneakers since she doesn't own any.
She then asked about if I would be interested in a quick date instead. I hesitated considering what I passed on earlier but just felt like "oh, what the hell, O. K." Since I now trusted her a little, we went to her local room which I do not recommend. The room was 10 per 30 mins. The "bed" was a sheet covering egg crate foam pad that was about two inches thin. This time, I stuck to the recommended rates for the time, with same services. Poor girl had to work it this time, she was a trooper and didn't quit.
This place was close to a fire station, but I don't recall the street names.
On the way to her place, she pointed out a tip for me. Saying, "see that girl over there, notice the spaced out look and the long sleeves, stay away from them, drug users. The sleeves are to cover the marks."
My C.Y.A. pick up routine
[QUOTE=Ssssbadboyssss]....If you're in this hobby it's a fact of life but I agree with Steve when he says you can't let them get high in your car. It's one thing if you get pulled over and they have it on them, but if LEO observes them getting high in your car that makes you an active participant and more likely to get charged with possession because 99% of the time they're gonna try to stash in your car which makes it both of yours if he observed that act in your presence in your vehicle.[/QUOTE]
I agree that you don't want to be giving an officer any reason to pursue action against you. They might not get you for being a john, but drug stuff they will pursue!
My "Cover Your Ass" pick up routine:
I ask the sw immediately if they have any illegal items with them as soon as they get to the car. Since she is still outside of the car, I can refuse to go any further easier if they say yes. I'll say, "Sorry, no illegal items in my car, so can't offer you a ride".
If she misunderstands the question, such as thinking your out to buy or to share her stuff, I'll quickly explain, "I'm not a user, I just don't want that stuff in my car".
If they say no, then I'll ask if they want a ride. Once moving, I'll ask where they want to go. The answer gives the girl a chance to reveal if she is a working girl or a civi just wanting a ride somewhere. Her answer may be something like "Where do you want to go?" or "I have a place/room". She may get right to the point and specific asking about what kind of date you want. Here is where you need to be very careful, do the leo check before you answer!
Don't say anything incriminating or that could lead to a suspicion that your the perpetrator. If she is a leo, she is setting you up to discuss acts and money.
You can say "Officer, I don't pay for sex acts, where would you like to be dropped of at?". If she is a working girl or a leo still trying, she may reply "Honey, I'm not a leo, what would you like to do?". At this point, if she is leo, she lied, and that combined with a leo check where exposure and contact occurs would make her case very weak. If she doesn't comply with this check, such as pushing your hand away or saying something coy as "I'll show you once we set the price(or get to the room)". I'll repeat ""Officer, I don't pay for sex acts, where would you like to be dropped of at?".
You should also know that if you do get pulled over, refuse car searches by saying "I do not submit to being searched without a warrant". Do not leave the car without closing windows and locking it. Leave all items in trunk. For example, your boxed lunch leftovers or even your box of condoms. Anything where they may want to see what is inside. Don't make it easy for them! Know your rights! Even if you don't have anything to hide, don't submit!
Remember, you are innocent until proven guilty. Don't give them anything to use against you! Even if they try to say, we know your out for someone for services. Don't think, "damn, I'm caught" and say anything they want to hear. Once you admit anything, they will pursue you. You can simply reply to all questions saying "I respectfully decline to answer that question. Am I under arrest or am I free to go now?" Your not even required to tell them where you are going or why you are there.
You can chose to be somewhat revealing if they are somewhat friendly about the stop. Do at your own risk though! Such as "I'm just going to the woodshed" or "to get lunch at xxxx". Even if they ask why you picked up someone. This isn't against the law. Just reply "I just offered her a ride, am I under arrest or am I free to go now?". Even if they are cordial, be cautious, they are out to get you to admit to something.
What would strongly help your case is if you have a recording device in plain sight of the passenger. If she is a leo, she will know that your not an easy target. If she is a SW, she probably wouldn't care about the device, just make sure she doesn't steal it. In addition, you can say "Your skin is so smooth, do you like that" as you do the exposure/contact check. If she responds to your question, she won't be able to deny the contact. Since the tape would not actually show this action. If she is a leo, she will know that this is being recorded and would have no case. If you get pulled over, the leo will also know your recording the stop. This is not against the law either. If asked about the device, simply say, "I'm recording this conversation for future reference".
Another point, car dates and alleys. I was told that if caught being exposed in public, you can be placed on a sexual predator list. I recommend that you get in a private situation. Just be careful of where you go! I went to two different girls rooms. I did not feel comfortable in either one. I'd rather pay for a local room of my choice from now on. A place where I'm in control of my surroundings.
Be smart and be safe!