Hey. Have not posted in a long time.
I consider my self very lucky because I am not looking for fun Ladies in todays atmosphere. I take that back, I look but not as easy as the in the old Craigslist days. And for you old enough to remember AOL chat rooms were a virtual candy store.
Anyway I have had an American Pilipino FWB lady for the last couple years. She is not beautiful but the her culture is comfortable with the mistress concept in society.
We are comfortable with each other and change things up to keep it fun. We get together 2 or 3 times a month and I donate a few 1. 0 for her and very occasionally order her something from Amazon that she needs or thinks she needs.
Do I urn for new strange lady pussy. Yes I do. But older bigger head wins more often over the smaller one.
My advice is to look for the friendly women just looking for a bit of help with rent of lonely.
Welcome responses and see my other posts.
And good luck.
Tryst seems to be improving
[QUOTE=TomMcAn;4623097]Thanks, and I found the respective link for Northern Virginia:
[URL]https://backpage.co/c/nova[/URL]
You're right about the site. Like CityXGuide, it seems to be dominated by the Asian and Latina crapshoots with some other ads for escorts and AMP's mixed in for good measure. As JmSuttr noted, each site has its flaws and the new BP is no exception. The old phrase "let the buyer beware" is alive and well in the hobby these days.[/QUOTE]I don't recall when they added a search function, but it's decent and lets you specify a few parameters. Here's one for the DMV area (escort + FBSM) up to $300:
[URL]https://tryst.link/search?loc=38.89511%2C-77.03637%3AWashington%2C%20D.C.%2C%20Washington%2C%20D.C.%2C%20United%20States&within=50km&gender%5B%5D=female&type%5B%5D=escort&type%5B%5D=massage&rate_max=300[/URL]
One thing to be aware of is the distance parameter appears to reset to the max value after every search. But, if you just remember to re-select your desired distance before hitting "search" that takes care of the problem.
At least it looks like they're putting some effort into the site and also not allowing it to be populated by fake and TGTBT ads. Let's hope it continues to improve and attracts quality providers, especially in the mid-tier range.
Backpage. Co search seems to be improving
I can search for female escorts in nova and it seems to be giving the correct result.
[URL]https://my.backpage.fans/search-results/?city=nova&client=&cat=female-escorts&cty_auto=Northern[/URL]+Virginia%2 C+District+of+Columbia&search=.
Try it out.
[QUOTE=JmSuttr;4622623]When CL pulled their adult ads BP became the biggest player in the lower-to-mid tier of the ad market. It's my recollection that they were so dominant that nobody could really pull market share away from them. After their downfall the market became so fragmented that it's hard to see how any one site will be able to duplicate BP's dominance in the future.
Still, for any single site to rise above the others, they'll have to provide superior value for both providers and clients. IIRC, basic ads for providers were free or very low cost, with upgrades available for more $. That made it easy for girls to enter the biz and encouraged a constant flow of new providers. At a minimum they'll have to attract providers and give them decent customer service. From what several women have told me, most sites only care about the $ and anything after that is pretty bad.
From the client's point of view, BP offered pretty comprehensive coverage of the US and also a decent search function. The way NYC worked is a good example, IMHO. In just a few minutes you could check out escort and bodyrub options in Midtown East, UES, UWS, Brooklyn, etc. All the current sites have either no search capability or a really bad one. The backpage (dot) co site gave me results from Atlanta when I tried to seach for Midtown in Manhattan.
So it seems to me that the market is wide open and ripe for a dominant player to arise, but they've got to actually be GOOD. About the other sites in your list, they all have serious flaws which makes it hard to see them pushing out the others. So unfortunately, unless something dramatic happens, I think were looking at a fragmented ad market for the foreseeable future.[/QUOTE]
Touring Girls is officially gone
I logged on and it had a "farewell" message.
Anyone concerned with the virus
Chinese businesses across the country have been taken a hit with the virus that's going around. I was wondering if it would affect this hobby? Not just the Chinese providers but all of them. Those that are active are why'all continuing with business as usual?
Addressing Human Trafficking in the Over 100 IMBs in Fairfax County
From the West Springfield supervisor:
Yesterday the Board of Supervisors unanimously approved my motion to establish a work group of Fairfax County agencies and non-profits to revise the County's massage ordinance and develop a plan to create a non-permissive environment for human trafficking-- starting with the more than 100 illicit massage businesses (IMBs) in Fairfax County and their over 170 victim workers. These illicit massage businesses have operated in plain sight and become safe havens for human trafficking. Regular, coordinated random inspections by county agencies and revised regulations will help us address these illicit businesses, fight human trafficking and get victims the help they need.
Human trafficking is a horrific crime that is nefarious in the many forms it takes. Illicit massage businesses (IMBs) are one of the largest forms of trafficking in the United States. These IMBs hide in plain sight in strip malls and business parks among legitimate businesses. It is estimated that there are 9,000 to 10,000 IMBs in the United States, with Virginia ranking in the top ten states with the highest number of IMBs.
County staff and nonprofit partners, including the Northern Virginia Human Trafficking Initiative (HTI) and Heyrick Research, have gathered critical information regarding the scope of IMBs in Fairfax County and their operations. According to research from these sources there are more 100 IMBs with an estimate of over 170 victim workers in Fairfax County alone.
The continued existence of these businesses is simply unacceptable and just a piece of the human trafficking that exists in our County. While conducting its usual fire code and violation inspections, the Fairfax County Fire and Rescue Special Investigations Unit has gathered and brought particularly valuable information to light regarding the operations of these IMBs that further magnifies the extent of the IMBs and the impact on the safety of those being trafficked. The Police Department and Licensing and Regulations Branch, which licenses and regulates massage businesses in Fairfax County, have also gathered information on the operations of these illicit businesses.
During my multiple meetings with various County staff, the most common feedback on how we should address this issue is the need for a more coordinated approach to stop human trafficking, and more specifically in addressing IMBs. In addition to sharing resources and information between departments, I have received significant feedback on the need to strengthen the County's massage regulation ordinancesa that appears weak compared to other jurisdictions. The strengthening of this ordinance and increasing enforcement of other County policies and requirements are an opportunity to close the loopholes IMBs are taking advantage of while making sure we do not put an unnecessary burden on the many legitimate massage businesses that also operate in Fairfax County.
At yesterday's Board meeting, the Board approved my motion, made jointly with Supervisors Walter Alcorn and Rodney Lusk, to direct the County Executive to convene a working group with staff from the Health Department, Fire and Rescue Department, Police Department, Department of Licensing and Regulations, Department of Tax Administration, Domestic and Sexual Violence Services, Department of Code Compliance, the County Attorney's Office, as well as nonprofit partners to develop a coordinated plan to address IMBs and other forms of human trafficking in Fairfax County with the overall goal of creating a non-permissive environment.
The plan created by this group will be used to provide a platform for information sharing and changes to the County ordinance regulating massage businesses and relevant County code requirements. The County Executive will report back to the Board in two weeks and the proposed plan will come back before the Board within six months at a Public Safety Committee meeting. Our goal for this group would not only be to shut down these IMBs, but also to address and support the victims of human trafficking working in them. We've already begun conversations with our non-profit community who will be helpful in this effort.
It is possible to close these IMBs in Fairfax County and sustain a non-permissive environment so they can't exist here again. There are many jurisdictions that have significantly reduced or eliminated the presence of IMBs in their communities, including Washington, DC; Kent, WA; Aurora, CO; and San Jose, CA. I look forward to mobilizing the various departments, agencies, and our nonprofit community partners to effectively end the illicit massage industry in Fairfax County.
