Rants and Raves

[QUOTE=Ronny770;7243822]Yo this one crazy story but my question is why didn't you switch to cash so that you can take it back? She obviously looks at you like some goofball that she take advantage of (Not saying that's a bad thing bc who the hell cares what a hoe thinks) but you got to take extra precaution under those circumstances. I would of never even went to her place. You got to remember that's her comfort zone and she most likely to swindle you in her comfort zone. I would of got a room or did a car date so you can control the situation.[/QUOTE]True. I figured she wouldn't pull no sneaky snake shit at her place especially since I now know where you and your kids live. If I was on YN and on that type of timing that would eventually lead to something more negative. I don't do outcalls with anyone from this hobby and I don't do car dates cause they are so uncomfortable and my car is a small 2 door coupe manual so the stick gets in the way. I only do cash meets because of the beginning stages of deposits I've gotten got multiple times but I had to learn to stop that no matter what and I also learned you can get some valuable info from a person's image on cashapp or just their cashapp name or PayPal name for that matter. In her case I denied her multiple times for sending her money and making excuses not to until I told her straight up I don't trust people and I only do cash meets. Aside from the hotel meet that she ghosted me at, everything else was cash including yesterday morning. Hell, before I left I even told her let me get 20 bucks back as collateral cause I don't trust you. She said no claiming I won't be back and I'll like says the person who has shown she can't be trusted. She had people in the apartment so I didn't want to cause I scene. So maybe I pissed her off by saying that but she knew I was on to her. When I came back (went to the car and back) and text her saying I was at the front door and then called 3 minutes later. She sent me to voicemail and then text back saying I was doing too much and her infant child was awake. I then called again and the phone was disconnected, the same outcome has the hotel meet minus the infant. This is 1 of the main reasons why I don't trust people and have become cold and numb about people and their feelings. I don't care about anything you have going on, I don't care about your family, and I don't care of you just lost a family member. I just care about my 🥜. Don't contact me asking for anything cause I will block you, in this hobby I only contact you if I want some not the other way around. Now I'm only left with 1 true regular I see every now and again due to her schedule but she's proven to be trusted.

[QUOTE=Marcus07;7242541]Long story short met this provider about 5 yrs ago and she was a semi regular at the time. Lost contact but she kept my number. Last summer she texts out the blue and I didn't recognize the number so I finally recognize her after she sends me a pic. She wanted some mula and I was like you know the deal and she said yea. We met up at a hotel. She gets in my car and I send her the mula and she says she going to get a room and went ghost. Aight charge it to the game shame on you. About 4 months goes by and she hits me up for some more mula and I don't her no cause I don't trust you. She's says she had a lot of stuff going on and I'm like I don't give a fuck that shit ain't got shit to do with me and what you did was some foul shit. After awhile a agree to met her at her apartment. At this point I don't trust her so I have my piece on me. This time she was legit and we do the deed and I leave. About 2 months ago she calls me wanting me to send her some mula and I said no I still don't trust you and I got her cash app name. Doing research on her name and found out she was locked up for scamming and I still went against this info and my gut. So this morning she hits me again wanting want you guessed it mula. I agreed and got to her apartment. Go in and she gives bbj. I didn't have a rubber since last time we agreed from now on we would do bare. She said this time no go get a rubber. I 100% knew if I leave she was going to ghost me and boy was I right. I instantly blocked her and left pissed off at myself for getting got not only once from the past but again this time. I should've listened to my gut. Crazy how true a strong feeling of the gut can be.[/QUOTE]1. why did you send her money to begin with to get the room, should've walked in together or you should have paid. 2. After she burned me once I would have never got with her again, regardless if she delivered or not, you really had to bring a gun to get some snatch?

[QUOTE=DooMama7;7244580]1. why did you send her money to begin with to get the room, should've walked in together or you should have paid. 2. After she burned me once I would have never got with her again, regardless if she delivered or not, you really had to bring a gun to get some snatch?[/QUOTE]You right. My little head got the best of me which is why she got me more than once. I never send money to anyone cause I know it's a scam but I broke my rule on that Should have went in together to get the room but wanted to be discreet. Once I'm in your element and given the fact she shady I only felt it was necessary to bring a piece. That was the biggest red flag I've could've gotten but chose to ignore it or was naive about it. I always stand on business when it comes to my money or principals but for this one I slipped. It's been numerous times when I got fooled once and charge it to the game and I'm done with you for good. Another regular did that shit and I saw her once a week but tried the same bs this one did. Only difference is I gave cash but she was at work so we agreed later in the week since my availability was at that time. She ghosted me too and then reappeared months later and posting on sites. She needs me more than I need her so I said my peace and blocked her and she lived 3 mins away from me super convenient. I've been in the game 15+ yrs now and I should have known better and made a major rookie move.

Give me the rundown on why a young white girl would associate with any type of thug activity (race irrelevant) and end up turning tricks for a sub-human.

-Fuel their ability to buy drugs / convert to profits?

-Continue to allow herself to be hoed out, due to being fed drugs to keep her subdued?

All to "build that elusive hood empire" while he creates mid-rap music on SoundCloud then leaves her to them streets?

-Seduced by big talk and hung like a baby arm?
-Daddy issues?
-Impressionable white trash?
-The allure of 'that King and Queen life'?

What is the psychological make up of the infamous 'Snowbunny'?

Rarely seen a black provider not fully be in control of her business and pimp-free.

You first need to define what a "Snowbunny" is. Google it!

For me it is a white ***** who caters to black dudes.

But it might be as innocent as "a young woman who likes skiing or snowboarding, often one who is inexpert. ".

[QUOTE=Androo75;7245333]Give me the rundown on why a young white girl would associate with any type of thug activity (race irrelevant) and end up turning tricks for a sub-human.

-Fuel their ability to buy drugs / convert to profits?

-Continue to allow herself to be hoed out, due to being fed drugs to keep her subdued?

All to "build that elusive hood empire" while he creates mid-rap music on SoundCloud then leaves her to them streets?

-Seduced by big talk and hung like a baby arm?
-Daddy issues?
-Impressionable white trash?
-The allure of 'that King and Queen life'?

What is the psychological make up of the infamous 'Snowbunny'?

Rarely seen a black provider not fully be in control of her business and pimp-free.[/QUOTE]

Lets break this down and see if the numbers add upcomparing the financial and lifestyle aspects of hiring escorts versus the expenses and potential drawbacks of marriage, divorce, and raising children. The figures provided, along with some logical assumptions, will be used to evaluate the return on investment and quality-of-life perspective being suggested.

[b]Scenario 1: The Escort Lifestyle[/b]
Timeframe: 5 years.
Frequency: 2 providers per month.
Cost per Visit: Median of $250.
Total Encounters: 5 years 12 months 2 encounters = 120 encounters.
Total Cost: 120 encounters $250 = $30,000 over 5 years.

This calculation assumes consistent payments for services, without factoring in extras like travel or gifts, which could increase the total slightly but arent mentioned. So, $30,000 represents the core expense for 5 years in this approach.

[b]Scenario 2: Marriage, Divorce, and Parenthood[/b]
Divorce Cost: Typical range of $7,000 to $20,000. The middle ground will be used: $13,500. More complicated cases can escalate, but this suits a standard situation.
Alimony/Child Support: $1,000 monthly for 18 years for one child, amounting to:
$1,000 12 months 18 years = $216,000.
Total Financial Impact: $13,500 (divorce) + $216,000 (alimony/support) = $229,500 over 18 years.
Timeframe Adjustment: The escort case spans 5 years, while alimony extends to 18. In the first 5 years of payments, thats $1,000 12 5 = $60,000 in alimony, plus $13,500 for divorce = $73,500 within that 5-year period.

This excludes additional expenses like wedding costs, shared living, or asset division in divorce, which could raise the total significantly. For clarity, $73,500 will be used as the 5-year cost of the divorce-and-child scenario, with $229,500 as the full long-term obligation.

[b]Numerical Comparison[/b]
5-Year Cost:
Escorts: $30,000.
Divorce + Alimony (5 years): $73,500.
Difference: $73,500 - $30,000 = $43,500 saved with escorts over 5 years.
Full 18-Year Cost:
Escorts (projected): $250 2 12 18 = $108,000.
Divorce + Alimony: $229,500.
Difference: $229,500 - $108,000 = $121,500 saved over 18 years.

On the financial side, the escort choice costs lesssaving $43,500 in 5 years and $121,500 over 18 years. The investment return is evident: lower spending for a straightforward, predictable arrangement compared to a potentially messy and expensive family commitment.

[b]Lifestyle Considerations[/b]
Escort Approach:
Advantages: No emotional ties, no legal disputes, no ongoing responsibilities. Companionship or physical needs are met on demand2 visits monthly is roughly weekly, sufficient without adding complexity. The $30,000 over 5 years breaks down to $6,000 annually or $500 monthlyless than many car loans.
Drawbacks: Social judgment, possible isolation (lacking deeper bonds), and legal concerns (depending on location). Quality can differ $250 may not always deliver premium experiences.

[b]Marriage/Divorce Approach:[/b]
Advantages: Chance for love, family, and social acceptance (if successful). Children can offer fulfillment (though this is viewed as a downside here).
Drawbacks: Risk of an unstable ex-partnerdivorce rates in the US sit around 40-50%, and bitter separations heighten stress. Alimony and child support tie into decades of payments, plus emotional strain (custody disputes, bitterness). Life quality drops if the relationship fails.

If independence and minimal conflict are prioritized over conventional family life, the escort path provides a significant lifestyle edge. No arguments, no courtroom drama, no 18-year financial commitment just donate, enjoy, and move forward. Even at its best, the divorce path carries risks of turmoil and a $229,500 cost that far exceeds the escort expense.

[b]Does the Logic Hold?[/b]
Absolutely. Financially, $30,000 over 5 years outperforms $73,500 (or $229,500 over 18 years) by a wide margin. The investment case stands: less money spent, more control retained. On the lifestyle front, if better is seen as avoiding legal or emotional entanglements and a problematic ex-spouse is assumed as a probable risk, the escort choice prevails. The figures and reasoning alignits less costly and less complicated, particularly if the benefits of marriage are doubted.

Considerations: This assumes no kids or emotional depth from escorts (unlikely) and overlooks the potential upsides of a strong marriage (if the odds are defied). But given this perspective? The calculations and conclusions are sound.

This does not factor in 'sugaring' which could be more economical, or VIP @ clubs - YMMV.

Post #600 - signing off:

[I]All posts are for informational and entertainment purposes only, not financial, legal, or personal advice. It uses hypothetical scenarios and assumed figures, not reflecting individual circumstances or specific laws, which vary by jurisdiction. Engaging in discussed activities (e.g., hiring escorts, marriage decisions) carries risks; readers must ensure legal compliance and consult professionals before acting. No guarantees are made about accuracy, and the author disclaims liability for any consequences. Opinions are not endorsements, and use is at the readers risk.[/i]

[b]Remember to make OPSEC habitual, and always treat providers like a gentleman no matter what, they are someone's daughter, sister or friend.[/b]

[QUOTE=BirdMangy;7245525]Atlanta is cooked bro. Same maybe 10 SWs walking the same areas. Gems not even gems anymore due to the runaround and weird actions. Even the homeless ones apparently feel entitled and / or liars. A big ole hassle and waste of gas. It's becoming increasingly common now that I'm left dissatisfied and angry.

The whole idea for picking up women from the streets is convenience, variety, and money saved. Unfortunately, it's nothing convenient about it anymore and these hoes are too busy trying to give you as little action for as much money as possible. Traffic and people are always in the way too. I've had quite a few misses due to this and the scarcity of SWs.

I rather just stick to my girlfriend and roster of side pieces. At the very least, I get to enjoy activities and dates with them from my money spent. I'll just have to continue to juggle the side pieces hopefully not get caught up. I hate having to hold conversations and spend time with them.[/QUOTE]Yea I feel you man Atlanta SW scene is just pathetic. I'm at the point of just retiring from Mongering in Atlanta. I just saving my money so I can fly to LA for a week and have a blast on Figueroa street now that's where all the real SW action is LOL.

I remember Atlanta was like Figueroa once upon a time long ago.

Damn Atlanta smh.

[QUOTE=MrAtlanta;7245747]Yea I feel you man Atlanta SW scene is just pathetic. I'm at the point of just retiring from Mongering in Atlanta. I just saving my money so I can fly to LA for a week and have a blast on Figueroa street now that's where all the real SW action is LOL.

I remember Atlanta was like Figueroa once upon a time long ago.

Damn Atlanta smh.[/QUOTE]Dude, at this point. Just delete your account. You don't offer any valuable information to any newcomers who are trying to find locations and information on our current streetwalkers. All you do is complain and tell guys that none exists when in fact, me and plenty of other locals are picking them up every time we go for a hunt. You are just leading non experienced people astray and having them believe the SW game in Atlanta is completely dead all because the ones that do exist, are not of your liking.

Just delete your account and stop lying to these guys all the time. It's annoying. Year after year you do this same stuff over and over again.

[QUOTE=AdmireMyRealit;7249422]Dude, at this point. Just delete your account. You don't offer any valuable information to any newcomers who are trying to find locations and information on our current streetwalkers. All you do is complain and tell guys that none exists when in fact, me and plenty of other locals are picking them up every time we go for a hunt. You are just leading non experienced people astray and having them believe the SW game in Atlanta is completely dead all because the ones that do exist, are not of your liking.

Just delete your account and stop lying to these guys all the time. It's annoying. Year after year you do this same stuff over and over again.[/QUOTE]Dude I'm just being honest the SW scene in Atlanta is dead far as quality SW goes. I mean who wants run down junky SW. You out there just picking up anything with a pussy in between there legs I mean come on dude where are your standards?

The new comers I'm sure don't want just want run down SW they actually want a decent SW and Atlanta does not offer that anymore. I mean yea you can find some tore up run down crackhead SW in Atlanta but who really wants that?

It's guys like you who make it even worse because you actually picking up these run down SW and giving them money. I mean you just better off going to a strip club. I'm not trying to discourage anyone about the SW scene in Atlanta but I'm just telling it like it is and that Atlanta don't have any quality SW left. I seen the ones you fucking and I wouldn't touch those with a ten foot pole I mean come on dude. Don't get mad at me for telling the new comers how Atlanta really is.

If guys looking for a quality SW Atlanta ain't it!

Society is so damn stupid. Why do these dumb broads stop talking to you when they figure out you don't have a fucking iPhone? Weather it's a regular broad or provider, some will stop talking to you all together. If it's a provider, only cops use Android. If it's a regular broad, only lames and weirdos have android. Why'all so fucking dumb. Who the fuck cares what phone brand I have. IPhone is not the best or only phone in the world, same goes for Android. People are allowed to have different versions of whatever. That's why all these insecure broads get a bbl to look the same as every other broad and somewhere along the way replaced your brain with the same dodo brain those broads have. If thinking for yourself and having different versions of things were illegal, I'll understand. News flash dummies, it's not illegal to be different. Rant over.

[QUOTE=Marcus07;7254043]Society is so damn stupid. Why do these dumb broads stop talking to you when they figure out you don't have a fucking iPhone? Weather it's a regular broad or provider, some will stop talking to you all together. If it's a provider, only cops use Android. If it's a regular broad, only lames and weirdos have android. Why'all so fucking dumb. Who the fuck cares what phone brand I have. IPhone is not the best or only phone in the world, same goes for Android. People are allowed to have different versions of whatever. That's why all these insecure broads get a bbl to look the same as every other broad and somewhere along the way replaced your brain with the same dodo brain those broads have. If thinking for yourself and having different versions of things were illegal, I'll understand. News flash dummies, it's not illegal to be different. Rant over.[/QUOTE]Get your rizz up.

Long story short I paid for a room for a provider only because they said that they left there I'd at home and they don't work out of there house. Mind you she already gave me the address to the hotel and I gave her eta and updates of my arrival I told her I was 5 minutes away and told me to hold on then ask me to get the room. I told her I only had what we agreed to. She tells me a can get the room for a few hrs with the donation. Before I agreed I asked how for away she was since when went to go get her other I'd. 8 minutes away I'm like ok. I do it and it's ghost city. I waited 30 minutes and in between calling and texting she finally responds with I'm pulling up now. I'm walking around outside the room and walking the building just in case she sets me up and I don't want to be in the room if that's the case. I left after an hour of waiting still being ghosted. That's some bullshit. 1st getting a room and last time. Never ever again.

[QUOTE=Marcus07;7261972]Long story short I paid for a room for a provider only because they said that they left there I'd at home and they don't work out of there house. Mind you she already gave me the address to the hotel and I gave her eta and updates of my arrival I told her I was 5 minutes away and told me to hold on then ask me to get the room. I told her I only had what we agreed to. She tells me a can get the room for a few hrs with the donation. Before I agreed I asked how for away she was since when went to go get her other I'd. 8 minutes away I'm like ok. I do it and it's ghost city. I waited 30 minutes and in between calling and texting she finally responds with I'm pulling up now. I'm walking around outside the room and walking the building just in case she sets me up and I don't want to be in the room if that's the case. I left after an hour of waiting still being ghosted. That's some bullshit. 1st getting a room and last time. Never ever again.[/QUOTE]Sorry for your lost, but should have at least put the room to good use and tried to get an outcall from another provider since you already had a room? May as well go all in. IMO.

[QUOTE=LongtimeAtlien;7262504]Sorry for your lost, but should have at least put the room to good use and tried to get an outcall from another provider since you already had a room? May as well go all in. IMO.[/QUOTE]That's what I was going to do but I paid for 2 hrs for the room and she wasted an hr of that so trying to find a decent provider that I like plus get to me and do the deed in an hr with rush hour traffic wasn't going to happen.

[QUOTE=Marcus07;7264362]That's what I was going to do but I paid for 2 hrs for the room and she wasted an hr of that so trying to find a decent provider that I like plus get to me and do the deed in an hr with rush hour traffic wasn't going to happen.[/QUOTE]I didn't know there were still places that rented rooms by the hour? I must be getting old, I'm 52. I thought try "outlawed" those places, because they were thought to be hang outs for pimps and hoes. Must still be some of them around. Learned something new everyday I guess.