Not so fast Madis..., er, Sophie.
[QUOTE=Asophie44]And no if you read it right I am not threatening ANY of my clients because I have no need for disrespectful clients and if you have actually ever seen me and are my regular trust me they won't be worried about it.[/QUOTE]Well, I for one have seen you, had scheduled to do so again, and I won't be doing so again in the future (since you know so much about us, consider this my notice of cancellation--if you can't figure it out, I'm the no-show).
Deny it all you want, but that was definitely an uncalled for threat of indiscretion. But I'll forgive Sophie, who was as hot as she was friendly when I saw her, because I assume the messages below were written by Madison. Why else would you attack T Birdy after he complimented Sophie? She's the hot one, and Madison is decidedly not (you couldn't pay me for a massage from Madison). All TBirdy did was point that out. Now he doesn't really need me defending him, but I'm using those facts to point out that Madison is (as he stated) plainly doing the talking here and ruining Sophie's biz.
And for the record, more people will read this and stay away from you than you are aware. I've been lurking this site for over 3 years and taken the advice strongly, only recently registering to post. To Sophie: Good luck. Make it obvious when Madison is no longer associated w/ you, and we'll be back. Until then, adieu.
I gotta throw in on this - a different take.
I deliberated for awhile about throwing in on this and, hell, I just have to. Let me slip into suit and tie and "lawyer up" for a minute.
I am a little suprised that Sophie/Madison would be so much up in arms about Tbirdy's exposure of the business friction between the two of them and not so much concerned about his exposure of the other kind of "business friction" they are involved in. So, bearing this in mind, it does seem strange the over the top defense of Madison. Frankly, thats just talk, although it is from a valuable and reliable source. It wasn't until their virtual confirmation via over reaction that made one think it actually was true. Just a bad decision to respond, but when one is threatened, the heart is exposed, and it is there from which they speak. And it is from there we will continue the discussion.
The threat to expose the client is unwise and must be taken somewhat seriously. Again, another poor decision, but it is a threat that is unlikely to have teeth. It just doesn't pay for them to do it and they would destroy themselves. It's maybe best for them/her to let this go.
For a moment, however, let us assume this is actually Sophie. Just for illustrative purposes. She obviously has been rattled herself, enough, in fact, to say things she may not really mean. Why? Well, boiling it down, it is for one reason. A trust has been broken. We continue from here.
Then, this would lead us to the other hand, the devil's advocate portion of the discussion. The one that counteracts everyone's justified concern over Sophie's threat but seem oblivious to why it occurred and who really originally broke our "gentlemen's agreement"- our "partnership" with a provider whom Tbirdy himself said brought him back for more. I don't think Sophie/Madison is wholly responsible for this turmoil. I beleive Tbirdy bears some responsibility as well. After all, who was (not "would have been" but "was") the one "outing" who first? I must harkin back to post #791 and then Tbirdy's original post that inspired it.
Who was the one initially "exposed" both professionally, then personally?
If there ever was a real world example of my concern in post #791 these previous posts have testified directly to it. The concern in #791 was about detail that outlined providers specific actions and specific compensation for said actions.
It is no "do or die" situation for me, in the very end, what happens here. I can simply not "log in" and walk away from the forum. After all, if one were to review, this concern was why I lurked initially and didn't post. However, there is value here. People like Tbirdy, Cable Man, Two Nutts and, to a much lesser extent, myself, have a lot of great interesting stories and information to tell. This incident gives us a proving ground on what the best way to go about that really is. This is why I am throwing in here. Not to "force" my opinions on others, which someone, I think, ludicrously proclaimed I was trying to do (I suppose it had to be me? ). Just to persuade through evidence and this latest, and hopefully final, example. Let's think for a moment, there is a fork in the road here. Everyone is welcome in either direction. Lets just be sure we choose the correct one. And which one is correct, you ask? Well, either is really, after all, its our forum, not mine, not Tbirdys but all of ours. Lets consider for awhile, forget all this and move on, hell, and honestly, I think now might be the BEST time to give Sophie a call.
Damn, I'm almost afraid to post
Me and my small penis was wondering if any of you guys or gals, have a "friend" or contact in the Ft Wayne area for this week.I'll be there 5 days. (PM)
Thanks,
Two Nutts (& S.P.)