RE: Tanya and 4000th Pic Anniversary Contest
[QUOTE=Dripper]SE:
I'm a kind of Luddite, so I confess that I was not really sure how to cast my vote.[/QUOTE]
Luddite...that's funny. Those of you who might be scratching your heads on that one, refer to the following: [url= http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Luddite]Luddite[/url] I think there are many "Luddites," or maybe the last week of August was a very bad time to decide to hold a voting contest. Most people were probably trying to squeeze in the last of their summer vacation before Labor Day. However, please feel free to keep voting, and expressing your opinions of your favorite SWs. I will keep an open "favorites" list based on your opinions, and count your opinions and votes towards my SW of the Year Contest 2010 at year end.
[QUOTE=Dripper]But, I do vote for Tanya. What a gem. Hard to believe that she isn't in a different niche of the market. You in the City of Brotherly Love should be showing her a lot of it![/QUOTE]
Tanya is definitely a keeper: pretty, incredible body, flexible (in mind as well as body), smart, fun, imaginative, loves sex and is VERY good at it! You just don't find very many SWs or many women PERIOD who are any better.
[QUOTE=Dripper]The great thing about the compilations of SE's conquests is that it shows that he is, by leaps and bounds, the most ambitious and creative SW monger on the board, without peer.[/QUOTE]
Thank you for your testimonial, but I do feel I have a few peers. We all do our own things in distinctive ways, and what could be better. Viva la diff'erence.
[QUOTE=Dripper] Not even our own favorite son, Baldy Cruiser, a legend in his own right, is as prolific in sharing his exploits as SE. Keep everything up, SE.[/QUOTE]
I take nothing away from Baldy Cruiser. He has come up with some incredible finds and pics. I just love the T shirts he has for some of his girls, which look like the T shirts that say I Love NY, where the word "Love" is expressed as a big red heart. In his case the T shirt says I Love (big red heart) Baldy Cruiser. Gotta LOVE it! A picture is worth a thousand words and here is an example: [url=http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=104222I]I Love Baldy Cruiser T Shirt: "Lil Princess"[/url]
RE: Gina and Video Sharing
[QUOTE=Robert10]Thanks. She did tell me she works for a pimp. She was definitely not someone I would repeat. I was able to get a video of the CBJ as well. Can those be uploaded on this site?[/QUOTE]
Freaklikdat would be our video expert to consult. There are some free websites that allow you to upload videos, and then you can use them for links to share the videos with others, as with any regular web link. The problem is that some of these video upload facilities have issues with viruses and other nasty surprises. I would defer to Freak's expertise in this regard.
My Parallel from the 1800s?
[QUOTE=Street Steve]I have a background in Libraries, and years ago, in my personal research this book came on my radar. It is entitled [b]"My Secret Life"[/b] A huge body of work, it first it was simply dismissed as porn fiction, but then something wonderful happened. Scholars became interested in it because it was loaded with historic detail- tons of small things that only someone living in the 1800's would know.[/QUOTE]
This is terrific. Thank you very much, Street, for pointing it out to me. It may give me some insights on including details that will make my book much more historically valuable, and perhaps, with some effort, worth reading by scholars in centuries to come.
[QUOTE=Street Steve]Soon it was no longer dismissed as just old porn, but rather as a very detailed account of one Mans sexual exploits from the 1800's. It seems that you and this Man- who is still a mystery- are cut from the same cloth.[/QUOTE]
I have been sexually obsessed from as far back as I can remember, and my book begins early in my life even before adolescent sexual awakenings might more typically occur. I was sexual in certain ways before I even had a concept what it was or the hormones to drive it.
I will definitely read this work you have mentioned because it seems an appropriate, if century old, parallel to my situation.
[QUOTE=Street Steve]And let me tell you this guy cound really fucking score! He did Prostitutes, servants, and working class women-this guy spend all his mature years on Auto-Fuck. And like you SuperE, he had two important things going for him:
Intelligence and money. That is what took to score then; that is what it takes to score now.
Here is a link to find out more.
[url]http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/My_Secret_Life_(erotica[/url])
[b]Street[/b][/QUOTE]
He sounds like my kinda guy! LOL Thanks for the reference. I don't know that it necessarily takes intelligence to "score," but being relatively smart gives you an ability to inject imagination into what you do. Money is another matter. Unless you are famous, with groupies in every city (Wilt Chamberlain?), or incredibly good looking, having money will get you laid a lot faster and more often than not. ;)
Ashley is formally known as Jen?
Hey SuperE,
First of all, very nice pics and report!
Your [url=http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=109407]Ashley[/url] looks very similar, like a thinner version, of the [url=http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=889615&postcount=2291]Jen[/url] that I dated a while ago. Same person?
PM me as I know what street she lived on, if you know, this might confirm.
RE: Whinners (sic) and Cry Babys (sic)
[QUOTE=Tha X Facta]I'm not sure which is worse..... whining,,,, or whining about whiners.....hmmmm. [b][size=-2](Especially on a monger forum)
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I tend to think of "whining" as complaining, its primary definition. There is a secondary definition of protesting in a childish fashion. There is no shortage of whiners in this Forum, by both definitions, but I beg to differ that I am a complainer. Whether my "protests" are childish I suppose is a matter of interpretation. I have been known to have a few outbursts like that. Those who wish to taunt me might characterize me as being "always" that way, but I have been making a concerted effort of late to be logically, if sometimes irritatingly cogent and analytical, even in response to what is obviously mindless criticism (that does not refer to your post, X Facta, but you could brush up on your spelling and grammar ;)). Mostly I post reports and pics of SW encounters like a good little SW monger photojournalist. Occasionally I do some reflection or offer an opinion on a subject relevant to mongering. I guess a relatively small portion of my posts reply to criticisms, like this one (or, at least part of it was). That comes with the territory of posting a great deal and varies with the volume of critiques. If that is "whining" by your definition, then I would respectfully disagree with your definition.
[QUOTE=Tha X Facta]All we ever hear is how bad the pics are, tan lines, poor post timing, Blah, blah, bla...[/QUOTE]
No comment. :)
[QUOTE=Tha X Facta]The other guy; all he does is, Waaa, waa, waa.....cry baby.[/QUOTE]
"All?" Asked and answered.
[QUOTE=Tha X Facta]Quit snilvling and keep shootin pictures or maybe quit mongering and chase a little white ball. [/QUOTE]
I didn't need marching orders to continue to do what I enjoy doing anyway. Besides, I hate golf and I love getting sucked and fucked.
[QUOTE=Tha X Facta][b]"I'm just voicing my own personal opinion.
Nobody cares."[/b] [/QUOTE]
Somebody cares. You must have cared or you wouldn't have written and voiced your "own personal opinion." :)
[QUOTE=Tha X Facta]Nice outside shots! :)[/QUOTE]
Thanks. I may try some more.
RE: Have to Give Applause
[QUOTE=Yung501]Super, have been watching your post for quite some time and have to say I am down right jealous of your choices,style, and overall delivery. You are the man and a bunch of wimps are just plain envious and small minded to ever complain about your choices or style. Keep up the great time and joy you Choose to share with us.[/QUOTE]
First of all, thank you. I appreciate your kind remarks.
Secondly, it is unfortunately in my insidious nature to clarify some things even when they appear in a congratulatory post. Please do not take it the wrong way. I do not mean it personally. Many people get wrong what I am about to explain.
Jealousy refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and anxiety over an anticipated LOSS of something that the person values, such as a relationship, friendship, or love. One often properly hears, for example, of being jealous of a rival bf or gf because of the fear of losing one's love interest to another. However, you did mention envy in its proper context. Envy occurs when a person lacks another's (perceived) superior quality, achievement, or possession and either desires it or wishes that the other lacked it. Another way to look at it is that envy always involves only two people, and jealousy typically involves three people.
Envy can be a positive and useful thing, spurring one on to achieve or possess that which is envied. That seems to sound like your healthy form of it. Envy can also be negative. It can derive from a sense of low self-esteem that results from a perceived threat to a person's self image: another person has something that the envier considers to be important to have. If the other person is perceived to be similar to the envier, the aroused envy will be particularly intense, because it signals to the envier that it just as well could have been he or she who had the desired object.
So, it would seem that the "wimps and small-minded" would be the least of my worries where envy is concerned. Peers, or those who see themselves as peers, would be hardest hit, and would howl most loudly in complaint. Aristotle had a great definition of envy: "the pain caused by the good fortune of others." Kant, one of my favorites for many reasons, had a more involved definition of envy: "a reluctance to see our own well-being overshadowed by another's because the standard we use to see how well off we are is not the intrinsic worth of our own well-being but how it compares with that of others." I rarely, if ever, envy others, not because many others aren't doing things I would like to do, or possess things I would like to have, but rather because I do not personally choose to measure my self-worth by comparison with others.
To Bicker or Not to Bicker: THAT Is the Question!
[QUOTE=Fbtom]There might be some who may grow weary of looking at the same girl with multiple shots. If you look at the viewed numbers, I'm sure that you will see varied counts reported as people picked which ones to look over more carefully.[/QUOTE]
I usually don't look at the "number of views" in the photo gallery as indicative of much, except my following personal observations:
1. When there is just one picture of a girl, there tends to be many views. Conversely, when there are many pictures of a girl there tends to be more selectivity and less views per pic. The fewer pics there are of a girl, the more views of each pic there tends to be and vice versa, regardless of the style of the pics.
2. The longer a pic stays on the first few pages of the photo gallery, the more views it tends to get. I guess guys don't tend to look much beyond what was most recently posted.
3. There is a tendency to like "flashing" pics of either top and/or bottom, up-skirt and naked spread pics. The rule seems to prevail, however, that the fewer the pics posted of one girl, the more views there are. There is a weariness or bored factor here operating to some extent.
4. There tends to be more views of "real" pics of a SW encounter by a monger reporting about it as opposed to commercial pics, advertising pics from the internet, etc.
5. There tends to be many views of a SW fully dressed as she might appear on the street (most especially shots of her actually on the street), or close-ups of her face or pics of her riding in a car. My guess is that this helps in real-life identification.
6. How pretty in the face or attractive in the body a girl is can always be a factor on how many views there are of a pic. But the above general rules still seem to apply.
I noticed myself that, when I limited my posts of any one girl at any one time to 10 or less, that the number of views per pic went way up, in many cases by a factor of 10 times or more. This reinforced the self-perceived wisdom of my decision to begin doing this in the first place.
[QUOTE=Fbtom]...criticizing pic count or quality is just ignorant. The viewer should feel lucky to have even seen any pics since posting online is all done voluntarily. Along that thought, girls get paid for pics. Did the complainer pay for that? Nope, so shut up already. The person taking the pics controls what is photographed and posted. So requests for certain poses should not be expected, but thankful if done. For example, if I like assholes, I'm going to take a pic of them, perhaps even post them for others who like to see them. If you don't like them, just keep on moving along. The same would go for pics of too thin, too fat, too whatever. You don't like them, then take ones that you do and post them! Otherwise, be courteous to the generosity of the adventurous peers.[/QUOTE]
I couldn't agree more. Be happy with what you get, even if it isn't perfectly what you want. If you really want to demonstrate your "superior" taste and choices, take your own pics and post them instead of just complaining about what "others" do.
[QUOTE=Fbtom]The same thing goes with reports, if they are wordy, repetitive, dull, full of errorrs and misspeellings, who cares? As long as the reports are accurate enough to satisfiy the goal of the forum of sharing info in order for men to have sex with women.[/QUOTE]
Tom, did you mean "errorrs(sic) and misspeellings(sic)" on purpose or was that a Freudian slip? ;)
My reports tend to be long and detailed. I am guilty on that count. However, I usually always provide a brief ratings summary at the end for those who just want to see if they care to date this girl or not.
[QUOTE=Fbtom]Peers may comment on how to improve pic taking or reporting content. Most of the time, if done with constructive criticism in mind, this is done for everyone's benefit.[/QUOTE]
"Constructive criticism" is like beauty. It is in the eye of the beholder. Making suggested improvements is one thing; just saying you don't like something is another. The latter isn't likely to be either very "constructive" or get any pic taking behavior altered.
[QUOTE=Fbtom]All of the above is my personal point of view..mentioned for consideration of peers to review or comment on. Hoping to find a common understanding so that we can all get along with less useless bickering. Let's talk about our adventures with the woman instead, it is a lot more interesting anyways![/QUOTE]
Less bickering about pic taking?: [b]HEAR, HEAR! and HIP HIP HOORAY![/b]
I am not holier than thou. I have had my share of contentions in this Forum about many things. HOWEVER, I have never, ever criticized the number, type, style, subject, content or anything else regarding anyone's posted pics. So, I feel somewhat justified in saying to everyone that I will post my pics my way and you can post your pics your way. :D
RE: Grade School Exchanges
[QUOTE=Fbtom]Purposely smart azz, LOL![/QUOTE]
Tom, not for a minute did I really think you were that bad a speeeller. I was pulling your chain, bud. :D
[QUOTE=Fbtom]I know that my own sentence structure, word usage, and spelling are not perfect. Now if these reports were for something serious, such as a job, then I would review and rewrite until correct. Butchered up as they may be, they are still suitable to get the point across.[/QUOTE]
You are MUCH better than the vast majority on here, even without trying very hard.
[QUOTE=Fbtom]Although your responses were insightful SuperE, please don't feel as if my comments were specific to you. As I mentioned ...where I first it is a generalization of various comments by various peers over the past few months. If you feel as if they were, perhaps that is "Freudian" on your part? ;) [/QUOTE]
I took you at your word: that your remarks were a generalization for commentary by the membership. I never thought they were specifically directed to me. There was no "Freudian" here at all, I favor the biopsychosocial psychiatric approach. :)
[QUOTE=Fbtom] Seriously, I just wanted to bring the focus of our discussions back to the sexy women and our adventures meeting them. Let the past be as "water under the bridge" and move on towards a better forum. Where all, seniors, newbies, and even trolls, can view this forum as a respectable place to have decent exchange of info. I dislike opening up a thread only to find grade school style of exchanges taking place. WTF! Are we men or boys here?[/QUOTE]
It is clear that we have some members who are still in "grade school" when it comes to mongering and appreciating the efforts of fellow mongers. Telling them not to be that way would be a bit like asking an 8 year old not to make fart sounds with his hand under his armpit. :D