[QUOTE=Mekaman; 1138973]I can only speak for myself here but first let me say I do appreciate your opinion on this however here is my general beef. Had the apology not been made to the general public in an effort to clear her name I would have respected it. Had she bothered to contact me and say " my bad " I would have respected it. I think the board reaction is based on the fact that her first and at the time only post here was one of regret over being called out (now that I think about it, how does someone with no account and likely no traffic on this site even know there is discussion about them? Guess anything is possible)
Let me paint a picture for you. You have been talking to a provider on Yahoo for a few days. You have good conversations and then one day your told yes I can see you. First your told "I have an outcall but when I get back I will I'm you " (by the way can someone explain to me how an outcall in which you have to provide transportation works? Isn't the point not to burn gas money? Anyway). You I'm them when they said they would be back just to see what happened to your appointment. She I'm's you back " I've been back for a while baby LOL, still want to see me?" Suddenly she has phone issues and the text aren't working. How do I know? Her last text says " My text is trippin" Well seeing as she said come over at a given time you head over there and call her from the road. She answers the phone (yay it works again, imagine the chances of that)
Now instead of her saying "Now isn't good, I don't feel comfortable" She says yeah come on and call me from the parking lot when you get here. Now imagine driving over there through snow and icey conditions and reaching the destination. You call and it goes straight to voice mail. Time and time again. Strange considering you spoke to her all of 10 minutes earlier. This goes on for 20 minutes or so. Sitting there freezing, calling.
Why wait you ask? Why sit there and bother? 1) I assumed she actually had a phone issue and couldn't communicate and 2) she initially left a good impression on me. So when I got back home I called and left a message telling her this isn't cool and asked what happend. I also I'm'd simply saying " not cool " not hearing from the next day I again assumed ok, her phone must be jacked up but when I saw her posting on yahoo I realized that this wasn't the case and her actions were intentional. Her responding on here pretty much confirmed it.
This is why I got mad. Still feel it's unjustified? Again congrats on having a great time with her and I can appreciate you defending her honor but as I stated to her THIS IS NOT COOL.
Also please note I only write in response when challenged so please don't confuse that for not moving on even though I am pretty sure you meant that in general. [/QUOTE]Thanks,
For posting what happen to you with this type of chick IT'S the ONLY way we would have known what type of behavior and how she view and treat her "BOYS" her words not mines.
You see when a monger call a chick out like her that's when you REALLY see her true colors when guys telling her she is HOT isn't going to bring out her true self when she gets called on her BULLSHIT !! and how she acts and what she say tells what type of person she is.
You will always have some guys that will be a push over to ANY female that smile at them or even speak back to them when they speak 1st to them, the problem is we have to raise our standards and what we will take and WON'T take from a chick.
All she had to say was she was sorry and can and how she make it up to you !!!
BUT NOT she had to come with some BullShit so she will get it!
Thanks again,
Kid Cisco
