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Hello fellow mongers.
I have a girl that I regularly meet who really likes having sex in my vehicle. I've got a large SUV, and it's definitely spacious enough for this. My issue is trying to find someplace safe to do this without getting caught. We are in the South burbs, Orland, Tinley area. Does anyone know of a place that is out of the way and would not draw police attention?
[QUOTE=NotShy;5947005]Hello fellow mongers.
I have a girl that I regularly meet who really likes having sex in my vehicle. I've got a large SUV, and it's definitely spacious enough for this. My issue is trying to find someplace safe to do this without getting caught. We are in the South burbs, Orland, Tinley area. Does anyone know of a place that is out of the way and would not draw police attention?[/QUOTE]Have you tried the forest preserves? I have a friend who swears by it, both in the car and on picnic tables and never had any interuptions.
[QUOTE=JolieThornDog;5947501]Have you tried the forest preserves? I have a friend who swears by it, both in the car and on picnic tables and never had any interuptions.[/QUOTE]During the day, we have been to a forest preserve. One time a family returned to their car and decided to have lunch right next to our vehicle. It was an immediate buzzkill, but then she did give me a very slow BJ as I had to muffle my voice so the family did not hear me. We normally meet in the evenings, and the preserves close at dusk. We have met at parking lots where there is normal activity, such as a movie theater and grocery store. There is the excitement of possibly getting caught, but I sometimes want to enjoy the moment without that constant fear. I also want to avoid our activities being caught on camera. Her pulling up to my vehicle, us both jumping in the back, then 2 hours later we step out. It's clearly behavior that would attract attention. I have tinted windows, but it does not stop a headlight from shining through and showing the sexy silhouette of her riding on top of me topless. I bought window covers to avoid that issue, but then whenever we hear someone walking outside the vehicle we stop to peek and make sure no one is calling the cops on us. I'm now looking around at businesses that close around 5/6 pm and then parking in a hidden spot in their lot. I 'm hoping the business does not have a camera or someone doing a security check and then questioning why is this large SUV with blacked out windows sitting in our lot. Before you question why we don't get a room. We do that too, but that's when we plan 4-8 hours together. These 1 to 2 hour meets are just her and I getting off during the week.
[QUOTE=JolieThornDog;5947501]Have you tried the forest preserves? I have a friend who swears by it, both in the car and on picnic tables and never had any interuptions.[/QUOTE]I would not do this anywhere you see cars with lone guys in them. There is a subculture of gay hookups at forest preserves and I wouldn't want any of them nosing around my business.
[QUOTE=NotShy;5947005]Hello fellow mongers.
I have a girl that I regularly meet who really likes having sex in my vehicle. I've got a large SUV, and it's definitely spacious enough for this. My issue is trying to find someplace safe to do this without getting caught. We are in the South burbs, Orland, Tinley area. Does anyone know of a place that is out of the way and would not draw police attention?[/QUOTE]I don't know the south suburbs but there are some smaller industrial areas on the north side of the city and I have used those when hooking up and had short windows / no place we could go. At night these are easy because the traffic is so low. During the day, you might find a building that is listed as for rent and park there. Usually there is enough coming and going that a car parked for an hour or less won't even be noticed. If the area is far enough away from heavy street traffic or mass transportation then you won't have homeless guys or other street dudes wandering through the area.
[QUOTE=NotShy;5947005]Hello fellow mongers.
I have a girl that I regularly meet who really likes having sex in my vehicle. I've got a large SUV, and it's definitely spacious enough for this. My issue is trying to find someplace safe to do this without getting caught. We are in the South burbs, Orland, Tinley area. Does anyone know of a place that is out of the way and would not draw police attention?[/QUOTE]If you have tints then your options are a lot more but without tints you are really limited. I know that area well and during the day there aren't many places that don't have alot of daytime activity. If it was nighttime you'd be better off but to find a parking lot of a business closed on weekends. I use to frequent some of the warehouses back in the day off 191st between 80th and 88th Ave.
[QUOTE=NotShy;5947005]Hello fellow mongers.
I have a girl that I regularly meet who really likes having sex in my vehicle. I've got a large SUV, and it's definitely spacious enough for this. My issue is trying to find someplace safe to do this without getting caught. We are in the South burbs, Orland, Tinley area. Does anyone know of a place that is out of the way and would not draw police attention?[/QUOTE]I think the urgent care clinic, UChicago Medicine at Ingalls, on 159th and Oak Park Ave, might fit the bill. It's bounded by forest, it's open late, I've never seen a security vehicle, just a guard inside. Let us know if this may work.
Not really sure where to stick this one, so general reports will have to do. I'm posting about a former provider's take on her profession / the hobby that we all partake in. I don't want to give too many details, as the person has revealed their legal name through their campaign and I don't want to risk exposing her, myself, or anyone else who ever met with her for a session. Suffice it to say, I saw her on more than one occasion.
Last year she started a GoFundMe page asking for support in leaving the profession, I almost donated to it, but didn't want her having any of my legal information; bank account, credit card, legal name, etc. Her story made me feel bad and partially responsible for her situation though, so I continued to check in on her every few months or so with a search through social media accounts and through a regular search engine.
Last week, I found out she had a second GoFundMe campaign asking for help healing (again I don't want to be more specific than that). She writes out how difficult her life is now, and how the profession was a slippery slope thing for her to get into, but then she writes the part that has messed with me, and I'm curious to know if this will mess with you all too. She says that every time she had to take an appointment she was raped. She says that was every single appointment she ever had.
I never scheduled with an in-between for this provider, she didn't have a pimp or handler; she was an independent who was doing it so she could pursue her art of choice in the side. I responded to an ad that she placed, I provided what she requested, am I a rapist because she is now choosing to change her thoughts on her old job? Am I rapist for spending time with any provider? Knee-jerk I think she's willing to say anything she can to get money without actually having to work. I think she's running a scam. Am I jaded? Does she have a point? Or is this something in-between?
[QUOTE=Vbenny;5948912]Not really sure where to stick this one, so general reports will have to do. I'm posting about a former provider's take on her profession / the hobby that we all partake in. I don't want to give too many details, as the person has revealed their legal name through their campaign and I don't want to risk exposing her, myself, or anyone else who ever met with her for a session. Suffice it to say, I saw her on more than one occasion.
Last year she started a GoFundMe page asking for support in leaving the profession, I almost donated to it, but didn't want her having any of my legal information; bank account, credit card, legal name, etc. Her story made me feel bad and partially responsible for her situation though, so I continued to check in on her every few months or so with a search through social media accounts and through a regular search engine.
Last week, I found out she had a second GoFundMe campaign asking for help healing (again I don't want to be more specific than that). She writes out how difficult her life is now, and how the profession was a slippery slope thing for her to get into, but then she writes the part that has messed with me, and I'm curious to know if this will mess with you all too. She says that every time she had to take an appointment she was raped. She says that was every single appointment she ever had.[/QUOTE]The definition of rape is a forced sex act that's non-consensual. If she offered or implied you will get laid for X amount of money, it is not rape. If she said "no" during any point, you must stop before it is considered rape. I'm sure there will be a lot of opinions, but that's the general rule.
Most likely though, she is still doing her thing on a different platform, while attempting to make money off her story.
When I was married, my wife and I volunteered at a shelter for former prostitutes looking to get out of the business. Most were middle aged, with lots of depression. Some were physically ill with AIDS, or other STD's, that took a heavy toll. We were warned they may lie to get money or sympathy. Most never finished school.
[QUOTE=Vbenny;5948912]Not really sure where to stick this one, so general reports will have to do. I'm posting about a former provider's take on her profession / the hobby that we all partake in. I don't want to give too many details, as the person has revealed their legal name through their campaign and I don't want to risk exposing her, myself, or anyone else who ever met with her for a session. Suffice it to say, I saw her on more than one occasion.
Last year she started a GoFundMe page asking for support in leaving the profession, I almost donated to it, but didn't want her having any of my legal information; bank account, credit card, legal name, etc. Her story made me feel bad and partially responsible for her situation though, so I continued to check in on her every few months or so with a search through social media accounts and through a regular search engine.
Last week, I found out she had a second GoFundMe campaign asking for help healing (again I don't want to be more specific than that). She writes out how difficult her life is now, and how the profession was a slippery slope thing for her to get into, but then she writes the part that has messed with me, and I'm curious to know if this will mess with you all too. She says that every time she had to take an appointment she was raped. She says that was every single appointment she ever had.[/QUOTE]That is messed up. I actually have a problem with being intimate with a woman unless there is mutual consent, so if I visited this provider, it would really mess with my head too. I think if the ad she placed talked about providing specific services, and there was an agreement going into the meeting, then that is not rape.
I don't think this helps now, but maybe going forward it will. Whenever I am with a provider, I ask her what she wants to do. Normally she says, "Anything you want," but I tell them I'm serious, I want to know what they feel like doing. I have had some tell me they don't feel like having sex, and instead I have given them a massage or we just cuddle and kiss. I do this for fear of what you wrote. I don't want to force myself on any woman against her wishes.
[QUOTE=Vbenny;5948912]Not really sure where to stick this one, so general reports will have to do. I'm posting about a former provider's take on her profession / the hobby that we all partake in. I don't want to give too many details, as the person has revealed their legal name through their campaign and I don't want to risk exposing her, myself, or anyone else who ever met with her for a session. Suffice it to say, I saw her on more than one occasion.
Last year she started a GoFundMe page asking for support in leaving the profession, I almost donated to it, but didn't want her having any of my legal information; bank account, credit card, legal name, etc. Her story made me feel bad and partially responsible for her situation though, so I continued to check in on her every few months or so with a search through social media accounts and through a regular search engine.
Last week, I found out she had a second GoFundMe campaign asking for help healing (again I don't want to be more specific than that). She writes out how difficult her life is now, and how the profession was a slippery slope thing for her to get into, but then she writes the part that has messed with me, and I'm curious to know if this will mess with you all too. She says that every time she had to take an appointment she was raped. She says that was every single appointment she ever had.
I never scheduled with an in-between for this provider, she didn't have a pimp or handler; she was an independent who was doing it so she could pursue her art of choice in the side. I responded to an ad that she placed, I provided what she requested, am I a rapist because she is now choosing to change her thoughts on her old job? Am I rapist for spending time with any provider? Knee-jerk I think she's willing to say anything she can to get money without actually having to work. I think she's running a scam. Am I jaded? Does she have a point? Or is this something in-between?[/QUOTE]Sounds like she is just fishing for money. You paid for a service. Not rape. That same logic she is using, I'm getting raped at the gas pump.
[QUOTE=Vbenny;5948912]Not really sure where to stick this one, so general reports will have to do. I'm posting about a former provider's take on her profession / the hobby that we all partake in. I don't want to give too many details, as the person has revealed their legal name through their campaign and I don't want to risk exposing her, myself, or anyone else who ever met with her for a session. Suffice it to say, I saw her on more than one occasion.
Last year she started a GoFundMe page asking for support in leaving the profession, I almost donated to it, but didn't want her having any of my legal information; bank account, credit card, legal name, etc. Her story made me feel bad and partially responsible for her situation though, so I continued to check in on her every few months or so with a search through social media accounts and through a regular search engine.
Last week, I found out she had a second GoFundMe campaign asking for help healing (again I don't want to be more specific than that). She writes out how difficult her life is now, and how the profession was a slippery slope thing for her to get into, but then she writes the part that has messed with me, and I'm curious to know if this will mess with you all too. She says that every time she had to take an appointment she was raped. She says that was every single appointment she ever had.
I never scheduled with an in-between for this provider, she didn't have a pimp or handler; she was an independent who was doing it so she could pursue her art of choice in the side. I responded to an ad that she placed, I provided what she requested, am I a rapist because she is now choosing to change her thoughts on her old job? Am I rapist for spending time with any provider? Knee-jerk I think she's willing to say anything she can to get money without actually having to work. I think she's running a scam. Am I jaded? Does she have a point? Or is this something in-between?[/QUOTE]Not rape. She was a willing participant. She placed ads and sought out customers. She received financial benefit. It's the oldest profession. In no way is that rape.
[QUOTE=Moejoo;5947678]I would not do this anywhere you see cars with lone guys in them. There is a subculture of gay hookups at forest preserves and I wouldn't want any of them nosing around my business.[/QUOTE]I would second this opinion. Back in the 90's I took a SW I knew to a forest preserve on Cumberland (she lived nearby). We parked in a quiet spot and she gave me a BBBJ and my eyes were closed for a bit. When I opened my eyes there was this dude at my door / window jerking off out in the public. UGH, lost my boner and called it a day. Later learned about them being a gay pickup spots. Avoid.
[QUOTE=Getreal;5948981]Sounds like she is just fishing for money. You paid for a service. Not rape. That same logic she is using, I'm getting raped at the gas pump.[/QUOTE]Hahaha. We're all getting raped at the gas pump!
[QUOTE=Red6666;5949499]Hahaha. We're all getting raped at the gas pump![/QUOTE]Not me. I ride a Honda Ruckus. 4 dollars gets me a full tank of gas. My car stays parked.