Best place is hotel near airport.
[QUOTE=FreshPrince;7562805]First off wanted to say thanks for all the advice I've been reading off and on for the past few months. I've been debating making a trip, but it's about an 8 hour round trip so that's not really feasible without getting a place to stay. How far away from Inkster do I need to stay to not be in a bad part of town?[/QUOTE]Your hub area for access to all the clubs is going to be Middlebelt Rd and Michigan Ave. The airport is just down Middlebelt to the south about 2 to 3 miles with plenty of hotel space in the area south of Michigan Ave. There are 6 clubs within easy driving distance of that intersection. Henry the VIII (north on Middlebelt about a 1/3 of a mile), Bogarts and Flight Club right near that intersection on Michigan ave. With Playhouse (Middlebelt rd south of I-94 and just past Northline Rd about 4 miles) and Landing Strip on opposite side of the Airport (west) and the hardest driving wise to access from the Middlebelt-Michigan ave intersection about 5 miles. Silver Cricket is east on Michigan ave on the south side about 2. 5 miles give or take. Just bring up google maps for that intersection and start punching the club names into the maps app.
It is not like Inkster is a completely lawless crime ridden hell hole. It isn't. It's a suburb of a crime ridden hell hole (Detroit) and does not have a direct border with the City of Detroit. In Inkster there are lots of residential areas and businesses lining major roads. Unless you do something incredibly stupid you'll likely not run into any trouble.
Advice on hotels and traveling to this area
[QUOTE=FreshPrince;7562805]First off wanted to say thanks for all the advice I've been reading off and on for the past few months. I've been debating making a trip, but it's about an 8 hour round trip so that's not really feasible without getting a place to stay. How far away from Inkster do I need to stay to not be in a bad part of town?[/QUOTE]If you really want to stay in Dearborn, the Holiday Inn Express (cheapest) and the Staybridge Suites (little more expensive) in the same parking lot are a mile from Silver Criket and have the same owner. They have security in the parking lot at night. They are the best price, Holiday Inn Express on Michigan specifically, if you are just looking for a bed and shower, and wanting to avoid unfavorable local elements. Its quick to get to all 6 extras clubs from here.
At the same time, check [URL]super.com[/URL] and Expedia for deals on both of these, but also check out downtown Detroit. Staying downtown gives you much better rooms, bathrooms and beds, access to bars and restaurants in the hotels. Most of which are night spots, and somewhere to bring dancers back to. There is MGM and other casinos where dancers also go after the clubs close at 2. Some go to the casinos and hang out at bars looking for patrons instead of the clubs on any given night.
If you check the monthly calendar on Expedia for a hotels nightly rates, you will find often you could be staying in a nice room downtown, still under $200, and have a roof top bar, casino or some other destination where dancers will be targeting for the night. If you decide to have someone back to your room from the club, you are going to get much better results based on where you are staying.
I would not try to bring a dancer back to the Holiday Inn Express, and she would be far less likely to go anyways. And you certainly aren't going to find any other action at the Holiday Inn Express. The 20 minute drive is worth it for a much fuller experience.
It's also worth staying 2 nights if you are coming far. This gives you a chance to check out multiple shifts at multiple clubs, and to explore the talent downtown that is available. There are times I am in Detroit and never make it to the clubs because there is so much action in the casinos downtown area. This time of year it is especially true of all 3 casinos.
Agree with everything you said plus a little intel on Anna
[QUOTE=MareloboMex;7562525]HK,
First stop beating yourself up over this. Every single guy has had this similar experience.
Don't be specifically looking for an AA girl. They are abundant at Criket. You can also try Pantheon which 98% black girls. Be open to who you find attractive and the black girls will come to you.
Ask yourself why did she sit at your table. Did you tip her, wave her over? She knows you will likely choose someone else unless she locks you up first. That is her hustle and that is fine, but I usually will say I am settling in for my first hour please come back after an hour.
By the way you should look at your club experiences as an investment of your time. The more time you invest the more likely you will find success. If it was me, I might say I am going to watch the entire dance rotation and tip the 3 or 4 girls I a most interested in and talk to each one for 10 minutes. I would tell each one that after speaking with 3 of them I will choose one for dances.
Look she is an expert, she has this negotiation 10 times a night and you are not. You have only negotiated this a few times. Her job is reading people and knowing what to say to extract the most cash. Acknowledge her for being good at her job.
I have never paid $300 for any services a Criket. That price point is too high. She knew that, but she also thought you didn't know that.
Your big mistake was negotiating in the main room and then renegotiating in the VIP. There is no need for that. You should have said, I am sorry I thought you agreed to $200. I guess I am not your customer after all. Walked out. She would have chased you down and begged you to give her $200.
Agreeing to $250 was pretty much you saying feel free to cheat me multiple times. To which she did.
She gave you one more chance to walk away with paying up front. I recently had this same experience with Anna at BTs. We negotiated and I said before we go back I want to be sure payment is at the end. She says no I require payment up front. I said thank you for informing then I won't be going with you. She broke into a lot of reason why I should and how amazing she is. I said Anna no hard feelings I am not actually your customer and you are not my dancer. She finally said if I change my mind to let her know. I said that same if she changes her policy maybe I can be her customer. Neither of us have spoken since. I instead took a great little girl called Alexa and she was fine with paying at the end.
I know there is a thought that any girl will do any service. Especially for the hotter (use your judgement) and newer girls. That is just false. A girl who will refuse BBBJ to you may happily do it with others. Or she may have 10 guys she does things with that she won't do with anyone else. Their was a thread going on here about talking to the girls. Taking and building rapport and getting to know and like them reduces the cheating opportunities and open the door for a girl to do things with you that she won't do with others. Suggest being her repeat customer.
Lastly if a girl jumps into table / booth and you don't want her there. Put your big boy underwear on and say please leave. It sounds kind of rude, but it is not. You are being mindful of your time and her time. As you both want to watch money jump from your pocket to her pocket and if that isn't going to happen, then it is better you sit with a girl where that could happen and she sits with a guy where that could happen.
You got very lucky that she delivered on the service and you are only out money. When I started reading this I though she was going to do a poor service. My goal is never to have a session where even if my balls empty that I am disgusted by the girl and won't go back and sample her again. I only want session where I like the girl and can't wait to be in her company another time.
Monger on.
MM.[/QUOTE]If Anna is the tall white good looking girl with long blond hair at BT, bigger frame but not chubby, I had taken her back once. I had to pay in advance because she only mentioned that after we were back and I already paid for the room. (Also, she is really hot and I was quite new to the hobby.) It was bossy and rushed. Just jackhammering and very little warmup. I would not repeat even sometime she is often the most good-looking in the lineups at BT.