Setting you up to see how much
[QUOTE=Westsideguy89;2740138]As far as this goes, I'm sure everyone here has a different opinion on what to do or how to be. In the end, you will make the choice you want no matter what any of us say. That said, some things to consider which I think a couple have already been touched on. Mind how your relationship started. This is not to say there are not success stories with meeting a sex worker and having a happy ending. Did she get into it for pure finances or drugs? If drugs, it is almost always a losing battle to get them to no longer "use the dark side of the force". She is involved with and living with another man (will she leave for something better down the road like she may with you?) Do you absolutely think you can trust her? As cliche as this is. Would you bring her home to mom? If you have kids, would you have them interact with them or leave them with her? With all that said, I certainly hope you are happy with whatever call you make.[/QUOTE]I posted a response earlier but forgot to add the title. While you are saying strippers run on emotion (and sometimes cocaine) it's easy to forget that mongers run on ego. She has been seeing you for some months and you're paying only 1 so she's figured you can afford more and she's trying to see exactly how much more you can afford. She will tell you you're the only one who has ever made her feel that way. She knows where you live. This is a classic mind trick. Her guy probably tells her to call the guys she knows and get whatever she can by setting the guy up to feel good. You're welcome.
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[QUOTE=Kwagmire;2737684]I'm going to offer up a different opinion: You SHOULD keep paying her, ESPECIALLY now. And with your spidey senses tingling, your gut is right, bro, listen up.
You need to keep reminding her that she's a booty call to you, and a paid one at that (and don't be a retard -- show it, don't say it, for god's sake). This is important because it allows you to control her "perception" of you and your relationship in her mind. What you want is to keep her knowing that she's a sugar baby involved in an equitable trade of goods and services, nothing more. Paid help, fair and square. Start having appointments. Working late. Family obligations. Generally be unavailable, but it's just all bad luck, you really wish you could see her and take her with you to the land of soaked sheets. Plus, if you need to slow things down further, you can claim a lack of money. Just a "little tight on the funds this week, honey. " "I like our arrangement, you're so hot, I like helping you out and I don't want to take advantage of you, I just can't this week. " Control the frequency of interactions; let her "feelz" fade a little. Just business. No bad feelings here, no rejection, no pulling back on the validation. Slowly reduce the $$, and you're no longer good provider material. Let her feelings fade gradually, and the hamster will be kept at bay. Manage that shit.
America runs on Dunkin, but strippers run on emotion (and often cocaine). When a strippers' emotions get bad in your direction (like when they feel a removal of validation, rejected, used, slutty (I know, WTF?) they can wind up doing shit that ends with the police being called, your car being keyed, claims of pregnancy (whether true or not), the white knight BF avenging your besmirching of her oh-so-pristine reputation, false-rape claims.
What I think happened is that you made her cum, and she caught the feels for you. She indicated she rarely cums, and you made her squirt -- a friggin' volcanic orgasm. When that happened, her brain got flooded like Missouri is this week with oxytocin and she now feels "bonded. " To you, sadly. I recall reading a thing about men and women and sex a long time ago (I can't find a reference, sorry, but humor me a bit here), that said that men after an orgasm feel "connected" with their partner for about 24-48 hours, while for women the "connected" feeling can last up to TWO WEEKS. Who knows what's going on in her life? Fight with the bf? Second (regretful) thoughts about her career choice and thinking of settling down? Just had a birthday and the ticking of the biological clock got a little louder? And now all this oxytocin, and caused by a dude who seems to have a nice fat wallet, who just gave her a literally mind-blowing orgasm, who could send her back to nursing school and get her out of this life, and gosh, I kind of need a new car, and wouldn't he be a pretty good dad to boot?
She's in Bad-Decision land, and liable to sail into the Police-Intervention Straits or the Pregnancy-Trap Shallows, equally. One thing's for sure -- she's not headed to the island of Let's-Keep-Fucking-and-Be-Happy.
Keep the shit business and fade. Less expensive in the long run, I promise.[/QUOTE]There is some great humor mixed in here especially about Missouri. But seriously the truth behind the humor is spot on. Like anything in life you have to manage it. Take control or it will control you. I completely agree with Kwagmire based on various personal life experiences.
Hotel add from a couple of months ago
[QUOTE=LapDanceGuy;3172413]Hey guys. Wondering if anyone can recommend an hourly hotel.
Or motel in the west Springfield area, near route 5 or riverfale road. Trying to work out a location and not knowing if a regular place is available until 2 or 3 pm the day of is troublesome. Suggestions? PM if you'd prefer. Thanks.[/QUOTE]I've used this place with great success. Off Rte 5 in Holyoke. Private. This is their add:
Do you need a resting place between two flights; a romantic hotel with your partner; or just pampering yourself in a peaceful Hotel escaping from the city. We are happy to offer you a wide selection of rooms that meets your discriminate standards, and your budget. Guarantee of confidentiality. No credit card required 3 hour room rental $40.
Only hours: 7 am-6 pm.
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671 Northampton St.
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413-536-3377.
Natasha- W. Springfield MILF
Does anyone know if she is still around the Springfield area?
Natasha- W. Springfield MILF
[QUOTE=Troutman;3419114]If this is the large, beautiful woman I'm thinking of, she has retired.[/QUOTE]Sounds like her. She was getting to be somewhat thick but was a great Provider.