Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=BostonMan781;4389557]Does anyone have experience with girls not putting out on the first date? Any future success? I found one girl who said she wouldn't want to do anything the first date. She is young. Looking to take the risk.[/QUOTE]The trick is to never put yourself in that position in the first place.

The expectation should be clear prior to the first meeting. My typical experience is we have an initial meet and greet to get comfortable with each other and prove I am not a serial killer. I pay for dinner and that's it. No allowance on initial meet and greet. I make that clear. No exceptions. If she is not comfortable with that then she is most likely scamming you and not worth pursuing. On to the next. There are so many girls on SA with lots of promises. It is so easy to listen to your small head. Listen to your big head. Don't fall for it.

[QUOTE=Aardvarks;4388640]Totally agree. The amount of effort it is taking to find the good ones is driving me crazy lately. The prices are going up. The quality is going down. It's so annoying. My ex stated that she thought I should start giving her $500 per meet last month. And I was like BYE. Hottest girl I've ever been with but not worth $2 K per month for weekly met ups.[/QUOTE]I guess I'll out myself and admit that I'm in the process of ramping up from what is essentially $3/ wk to $5/ wk. But this is the rare case of an unusually well-matched relationship. She is impeccably reliable, opens up a lot of time for me, and I can say that I truly cannot think of a single minute where I haven't enjoyed her company. Our weekly dates are overnights, and we have done a number of trips together. Again, not a single uncomfortable minute. She knows the names of my children, her inner circle knows me by name, and she treats me like any other partner (she's tru-poly). She also has a Venus-de-Milo figure, a face that requires no makeup, hair that requires no styling, and the most mesmerizing blue eyes you'll ever encounter.

So while I understand the don't-overpay mindset, there are in fact diamonds out there, depending on what you are looking for.

[QUOTE=BostonMan781;4389557]Does anyone have experience with girls not putting out on the first date? Any future success? I found one girl who said she wouldn't want to do anything the first date. She is young. Looking to take the risk.[/QUOTE]Not putting out on the first date is the norm for many. My usual experience is similar to Spike; to use his words (edited) an initial meet and greet to get comfortable with each other and prove I am not a serial killer. I pay for drinks & appetizers or dinner and that's it. No allowance on initial meet and greet. I make that clear.

As for me, I'll cover the cost of an Uber but that's it. Then there's the occasional exception where she invites me back to her place to get right down to it, in which case ppm applies.

If they insist on allowance for meet and greet, and refuse to meet without it, I pass them by regardless of how hot the profile pic looks. I've run into this a few times. I'm sure you all know the rationale they use: my time is worth something; I'm taking my time to meet and you may never see me afterwards; etc.

[QUOTE=HounDog3;4392120]Not putting out on the first date is the norm for many. My usual experience is similar to Spike; to use his words (edited) an initial meet and greet to get comfortable with each other and prove I am not a serial killer. I pay for drinks & appetizers or dinner and that's it. No allowance on initial meet and greet. I make that clear.

As for me, I'll cover the cost of an Uber but that's it. Then there's the occasional exception where she invites me back to her place to get right down to it, in which case ppm applies.

If they insist on allowance for meet and greet, and refuse to meet without it, I pass them by regardless of how hot the profile pic looks. I've run into this a few times. I'm sure you all know the rationale they use: my time is worth something; I'm taking my time to meet and you may never see me afterwards; etc.[/QUOTE]I had a first date recently where I suggested a meet and greet. She mentioned that she would need to be paid for the meet and greet. I asked if that meant she was ready to skip the meet and greet and get straight to the fun. She said yes and we had a nice time. Sometimes I guess a lady's schedule is too busy.

[QUOTE=Spill;4392407]I had a first date recently where I suggested a meet and greet. She mentioned that she would need to be paid for the meet and greet. I asked if that meant she was ready to skip the meet and greet and get straight to the fun. She said yes and we had a nice time. Sometimes I guess a lady's schedule is too busy.[/QUOTE]See that's what I'm talking about. Get to the good stuff quickly, everyone gets what they want, and if everyone likes it you keep going. If not you spent a little time and money and off to the next adventure.

I went to sign up for S A and they give two options 1 automatic billing for every month 2 buy 3 months at one time.

No more one month membership??

Please advise Thanks.

Someone said no free memberships fro women. Please advise Thanks CM.

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;4392906]I went to sign up for S A and they give two options 1 automatic billing for every month 2 buy 3 months at one time.

No more one month membership??

Please advise Thanks.[/QUOTE]Just sign up for automatic billing then cancel it right away so you don't forget it will give you the 30 days.

[QUOTE=ClMike01;4393198]Just sign up for automatic billing then cancel it right away so you don't forget it will give you the 30 days.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the help.

Trying to use a gift card {100 dollar }.

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;4393306]Thanks for the help.

Trying to use a gift card {100 dollar }.[/QUOTE]Does the gift card work?

[QUOTE=ClMike01;4393758]Does the gift card work?[/QUOTE]My first sign up with a gift card did not work. I contacted SA and they told me they did not accept these. I proceeded to use my CC and it worked however my CC was hacked literally the same day and had 5 unauthorized charges. I cancelled the card and never renewed after the 30 days expired.

Anyone know anything about this girl? Seen her? Talked with her?

Have talked with her. Not really sure what her deal is. She seems real, says she wants to meet but does not make definite plans, just says we'll meet soon.

If anyone knows anything would appreciate it.

Princessemmie.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/40396b11-5d29-41b8-901b-b69617350a2c[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/938be2dd-5fff-4489-b7b7-d93d6c5292c1[/URL]

$300 no rush. Cute face however stomach area definitely had a kid or 2. Unpleasant to look at.

She's legit, takes a while to see her. She is cautious and a good time. Worth the wait. Cute in person. She might have a BF now, she went quiet after a few meet ups.

[QUOTE=JohnTies;4394028]Anyone know anything about this girl? Seen her? Talked with her?

Have talked with her. Not really sure what her deal is. She seems real, says she wants to meet but does not make definite plans, just says we'll meet soon.

If anyone knows anything would appreciate it.

Princessemmie.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/40396b11-5d29-41b8-901b-b69617350a2c[/URL][/QUOTE]

Hey,

I'm talking with a few girls on seeking, looking to see if anyone's talked to any of them or would test it before I do. To many scams on seeking now so I'm trying some caution. PM me if interested in helping me out.

[QUOTE=Cr440;4395252]Hey,

I'm talking with a few girls on seeking, looking to see if anyone's talked to any of them or would test it before I do. To many scams on seeking now so I'm trying some caution. PM me if interested in helping me out.[/QUOTE]Post the links of the girls you are talking to and MAYBE someone can help you.

[QUOTE=Longjblues;4385171]Exchanged messages with this one. She can't host, so off my list. Seems very nice and straight forward.

Agreed to 250, which is higher than my preferences, but in this day and age, and due to her description, I would have seen her if she could host.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/68f58fa0-fe3f-4d46-a3e3-2c6d6179c069[/URL]

Looking For.

Men / Women.

Ethnicity.

White / Caucasian.

Body Type.

Slim.

Occupation Industry.

Student.

Drinks.

Social Drinker.

Height.

5'0".

Relationship.

Single.[/QUOTE]Your post saved me as if she can't host I can't see.

[QUOTE=Ccup2;4395754]Your post saved me as if she can't host I can't see.[/QUOTE]I can't open the seeking link which means either I blocked her or she blocked me, in either case it was probably with reason.

Has anyone had any success convincing someone on SA for bbbjcimws / BBFS & greek. I mean no restrictions with any of the SA girls? I have been trying to talk couple of them into it with no luck so far. They are ignoring me now LOL. I know someone had posted earlier that some of these know they are hoes and some others don't know that yet I am trying the figure out if the ones who know who they are would agree for this type of arrangement before meeting. Want to spend my money on those that truly can agree to my arrangement. No interest in just throwing hard earned dollars away. Just curious. Thanks.

[QUOTE=RamDoodle;4396130]Has anyone had any success convincing someone on SA for bbbjcimws / BBFS & greek. I mean no restrictions with any of the SA girls? I have been trying to talk couple of them into it with no luck so far. They are ignoring me now LOL. I know someone had posted earlier that some of these know they are hoes and some others don't know that yet I am trying the figure out if the ones who know who they are would agree for this type of arrangement before meeting. Want to spend my money on those that truly can agree to my arrangement. No interest in just throwing hard earned dollars away. Just curious. Thanks.[/QUOTE]They are out there I met one last week. And she loves Greek round 1 was bbfscip and round 2 was bbgcia was definitely a good time. Will be visiting again next week.

[QUOTE=RamDoodle;4396130]Has anyone had any success convincing someone on SA for bbbjcimws / BBFS & greek. I mean no restrictions with any of the SA girls? I have been trying to talk couple of them into it with no luck so far. They are ignoring me now LOL. I know someone had posted earlier that some of these know they are hoes and some others don't know that yet I am trying the figure out if the ones who know who they are would agree for this type of arrangement before meeting. Want to spend my money on those that truly can agree to my arrangement. No interest in just throwing hard earned dollars away. Just curious. Thanks.[/QUOTE]This is tricky because I think this level of detail in arranging services will come off too much like a transaction for the "civilian" hoes that are on there. I've had my best luck getting bare services in the moment with sugar baby dates and arrangements. Over 50% don't even bring it up. Another way to not be so direct in your negotiations is to steer your normal conversations to fantasies / kinks and in that context bring up what you want and gauge their response. This is also a good way to test the water on what they are going to be down to do and not.

She had a little belly damage, but unpleasant to look at us a bit strong, IMHO. . CBJ, cfs.

[QUOTE=Jyushin;4394112][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/938be2dd-5fff-4489-b7b7-d93d6c5292c1[/URL]

$300 no rush. Cute face however stomach area definitely had a kid or 2. Unpleasant to look at.[/QUOTE]

Best approach on SA is to just do it if she does not object. Mentioning this up front will elicit a lot of hang ups and slammed doors. But if you aren't snipped, beware that some will not mind making you their baby daddy.

[QUOTE=RamDoodle;4396130]Has anyone had any success convincing someone on SA for bbbjcimws / BBFS & greek. I mean no restrictions with any of the SA girls? I have been trying to talk couple of them into it with no luck so far. They are ignoring me now LOL. I know someone had posted earlier that some of these know they are hoes and some others don't know that yet I am trying the figure out if the ones who know who they are would agree for this type of arrangement before meeting. Want to spend my money on those that truly can agree to my arrangement. No interest in just throwing hard earned dollars away. Just curious. Thanks.[/QUOTE]

Met one that told me she never goes below 300, I told her where I was at, I have to pay for hotel, drinks, etc. She did not have a problem when we met, never said a word about the money when she left or since I contacted her to meet again, we make plans and now she is telling me she has been thinking and she really does not like going below 300.

I told her I'm sorry you did not like our arrangement from the first time. If you are not happy, no worries, we don't have to meet anymore. LOL.

These girls and there b. S. Games! They really just don't get it at all. Their ego's cost them money. She told me point blank she needs money all the time as she is not working.

So she will now get $0 from me instead of 200-250 which is not 300 but is much better than 0 LOL.

Honestly just putting this out there as an FYI not a brag. But I've been off / on SA for a few years and during that time I've spent a combined 250 for "fun" but have had a ton of success over that time. Including several FWB, that have lasted a long time, as well as regular occurrences of meet & gets that end with a BBBJ or a creampie in a car. I tell them up front I'm not interested in a transactional relationship and that I'd rather it be more "natural" w dates / gifts etc. It's been a great time.

[QUOTE=BonerX2;4396847]Honestly just putting this out there as an FYI not a brag. But I've been off / on SA for a few years and during that time I've spent a combined 250 for fun but have had a ton of success over that time. Including several FWB, that have lasted a long time, as well as regular occurrences of meet & gets that end with a BBBJ or a creampie in a car. I tell them up front I'm not interested in a transactional relationship and that I'd rather it be more "natural" w dates / gifts etc. It's been a great time.[/QUOTE]That seems to be more difficult to find on there now. Have talked with too many girls on there not interested in that at all, they just want to meet and get paid.

Ones that are interested in going on dates and such want 4-500+ for that honor.

[QUOTE=JohnTies;4397257]That seems to be more difficult to find on there now. Have talked with too many girls on there not interested in that at all, they just want to meet and get paid.

Ones that are interested in going on dates and such want 4-500+ for that honor.[/QUOTE]Sometimes you get lucky. For example, this past Sunday, met with a girl and only texted with her the day before. Met for coffee and chatting. Then back to my place where she sucked my dick like a total pro and let me fuck her for as long as I pleased. Afterward she laid me back and sucked my dick really well for like 20 minutes, a porno style blowjob. Total costs? $50. Already planning to meet with her again next week too.

Recently with a 27 yr old gril from Boston. Very affectionate. PM for more info.

[QUOTE=RamDoodle;4396130]Has anyone had any success convincing someone on SA for bbbjcimws / BBFS & greek. I mean no restrictions with any of the SA girls? I have been trying to talk couple of them into it with no luck so far. They are ignoring me now LOL. I know someone had posted earlier that some of these know they are hoes and some others don't know that yet I am trying the figure out if the ones who know who they are would agree for this type of arrangement before meeting. Want to spend my money on those that truly can agree to my arrangement. No interest in just throwing hard earned dollars away. Just curious. Thanks.[/QUOTE]

Thanks guys. This is encouraging will keep trying my luck!

[QUOTE=JamesWoods;4397492]Recently with a 27 yr old gril from Boston. Very affectionate. PM for more info.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=SwimSays;4396606]This is tricky because I think this level of detail in arranging services will come off too much like a transaction for the "civilian" hoes that are on there. I've had my best luck getting bare services in the moment with sugar baby dates and arrangements. Over 50% don't even bring it up. [/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MamboMikea;4396648]Best approach on SA is to just do it if she does not object. Mentioning this up front will elicit a lot of hang ups and slammed doors. [/QUOTE]Word. I am totally in the camp of not bringing it up. Just take them to the FC, treat it like a date and go after what you want. Many will not object to bareback FS, CIM, CIP. Greek in my experience is a little harder sell, especially the first time you hook up. But I'm happy to "settle" for their pussy.

[QUOTE=Joe1223;4393787]My first sign up with a gift card did not work. I contacted SA and they told me they did not accept these. I proceeded to use my CC and it worked however my CC was hacked literally the same day and had 5 unauthorized charges. I cancelled the card and never renewed after the 30 days expired.[/QUOTE]Have you tried to register your giftcard for online purchases before signing up?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c98d512f-3460-4dac-8a76-1620e0d73b9d[/URL]

500 min to meet.

Can you buy a one month membership?? I hate to get banned and loose 3 months money.

CM.

Wants money before the meet. Who the F does that? So insane.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8b1fb4e9-d88b-4b22-9f15-05df5c367d73[/URL]

If you're the guy sending girls money before the initial meeting please stop. This is just not right.

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;4399065]Can you buy a one month membership?? I hate to get banned and loose 3 months money.

CM.[/QUOTE]It happened to me. Screwed out of 2 months for using the work incall. 50% or more of the women there were scammers anyway. I think with the mobile app you can pay by month.

[QUOTE=Aardvarks;4399939]Wants money before the meet. Who the F does that? So insane.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8b1fb4e9-d88b-4b22-9f15-05df5c367d73[/URL]

If you're the guy sending girls money before the initial meeting please stop. This is just not right.[/QUOTE]I personally know this girl. Total scam artist. Is on probation. Trying to get in her pants. But so far she is mentally unstable. You will find her on the streets talking to her self.

Does anyone know the trick to contact the girls on the site for free? I think there's a way to do it. If anyone has any tips to share that would be great.

[QUOTE=EvilTmp;4372623]Some of these girls really take the men on SA for complete drooling morons.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7a4f1c9d-e15b-4376-9c55-93f00acf4079[/URL]

She's short, fat, and not young but she wants you to believe that she "model on the professional level". For anyone with experience with the modeling business, this girl wouldn't even get hired to get coffees for the actual talent. I know they all lie but sometimes the tall tales just go beyond unbelievable and fall into the absurd.[/QUOTE]You aren't kidding and for the mere price of 600 pm or 3 K a month. PM for her private pics can’t upload

[QUOTE=TerOnlyOnce123;4400738]Does anyone know the trick to contact the girls on the site for free? I think there's a way to do it. If anyone has any tips to share that would be great.[/QUOTE]Just pony up the small investment and gather up the contact info. There is no such thing as a free ride.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/bcfb43c1-65b5-4ed7-a35e-11a0ca5d68ca[/URL]

This one is from Saugus. Wanted 400 at first but came back with 250. Open minded and everything but anal. Fine ass. Wanted to know if anyone seen her.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5ba7dec2-17ab-43ba-a57a-2416cdccb79c[/URL]

This one quoted 300 for a few hours 400 overnight. Very aggressive sending all the pics you can think of. Her video of her giving head was descent.