Good point but also big picture.
[QUOTE=MuleMan1;4316747]What has become of these providers? I've tried for 3 weeks to get a session with someone. Either they don't respond, take days or hours to respond or want ridiculous. 8 to. 1 for a simple lollipop? None of them which match there pics or even remotely skilled enough to be asking those rates. I'm to the point of giving up. As a monger of 20 plus years I'm ready to give up as its no longer fun.[/QUOTE]I'm new to this and have been reaching out. I'm sure I've come across as super coded and cautious but I don't know the game yet. What I have seen is really long response times, only want to meet immediately, not interesting in creating any kind of safe feeling for most and maybe a get to the point approach (understandable). I'm slowly getting a feel for the communication and lingo. That's me and my relation to your post.
The biggest thing I take from all of this is that 1. We are all here for one reason or another. Whether that's to satisfy a need, fill a void, or just in it for the hunt and thrill of it all. 2. Our information and communication here is key to maintaining a higher level of gentlemanship, safety and success. The grind is tough, but it'll be better with everyone contributing like you have.
Thanks and I have shared some of your frustration.
Hope this renews your resolve.
AN.