Oh Judy! LOL. Bless her heart.
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Oh Judy! LOL. Bless her heart.
[QUOTE=Enigma2015;3393554]Oh Judy! LOL. Bless her heart.[/QUOTE]I saw that on the list today. It's a wonder she has made it this long.
Jim.
Hello all.
As the title states, I have upset a provider. Now for a little back story. A few days before Christmas I arranged a meeting with a well known and reviewed provider. During the conversation beforehand we talked about it being a meet and greet because we have not met previously. Said provider assured it was best and I agreed. The context was not charge for the meet and greet, only if we were comfortable would the expectations change. As I think most would agree, I thought that was a good idea and was pleasantly surprised by the notion. Of course I agreed and we set a time. Nearing her location, litteraly turning into the parking area, I got the text. You know the on, can you wait a bit, something came up, etc. I said sure and went to kill some time. Fast forward an hour and a half or so and I get the all clear come on I'm ready. I get to her room, greets me, hugs, general chit chat, Yeah she is nice. I'm not quite comfortable and the getting to know each other starts. Now, saying she is chatty is an understatement. Rambling on about everything in her life, kid, ex, losses, problems. I consider myself a nice enough guy and I listen. Even though she's not my cup of tea, I consider the thought maybe she just needs a shoulder for a while, but I am not in the least bit attracted. I was there for quite a long time, Close to 2 hours. She does try to seduce me, starts to give a half Ass'ed BJ. Constantly chatting the entire time. Asking what's wrong, why m I not getting into it. I make excuses and make my way out. As it were, I did not leave a donation. She didn't ask, I didn't offer. End of that fiasco. "So I Thought! ".
Half way home I get the texts and calls asking why I didn't leave it. I blew it off and let things be. Then it started getting sideways, I unfortunately told her I was not attracted to her and that's why I had issues. Then the threats. She will post about this, message every provider telling them about me. Whatever right. WTF do I care. Soon enough that all went away and all is forgotten. So I thought.
Now I haven't been posting until now. Things were dry for me and I wasn't interested in what K-town has to offer. Recently however, I saw some posts that got my attention, I ask the fine gentlemen here for some info. For which I got several replies and I am very thankful for those BTW. I will post reviews soon enough. So back to the story, I just logged on and low and behold I got a PM from previous said provider. So here it is. The entire PM and My reply. Feel free to rant, burn or praise. WTF do I care. LOL.
[QUOTE===] Since you skipped out on the bill after our visit, I haven't seen you post on here..Until now. I am personally going to send a message to every provider in town again, just so I can be sure they all remember what you could potentially do to them.. Maybe you will show up and stay for at least a couple hours..And then leave like a weasely little rat without paying what you owe. And if you will do it to a single mother the day before Christmas Eve, then I'm sure you would have no problem doing it to anyone else on a regular day in May.
When you did what you did, I was advised by several senior members to post the details in the public forum, but I decided not to do that. But if you keep showing your face I will have to go completely public with what you did to me.
Unless you would like to settle your bill...[/QUOTE]Yes, I remember you.
Of course our opinions vary as to a bill owed. Unlike you however, I have not pondered about posting anything negative about you. Its obvious we did not have chemistry and at that I left things as they were. A meet and greet that didn't turn into anything more. I distinctly remember you saying we can get to know each other and that time will not be charged. If you had felt owed, that is something you should have mentioned before I left.
Lets say I went to buy a car. You were the sales person and spent a couple of hours showing me cars, talking about the options, etc. Now, I didn't find anything I was interested in and decided to move on to another dealership. Suppose I said something like, "Well I've been here a while and I'm not really interested in any of your products. I think I'll just go but thanks for your time. " Would you, as a sales person, still expect your commission for a sale?
I do understand this situation is a bit different, but our conversation before I set the appointment lead me to believe if we didn't hit it off, all would be fine and that's that.
And to go a bit further, If you remember, as I was nearing your location you text and ask if I could wait. I'm a patient guy and of course I said sure. I turned around to kill some time, expecting 10-20 minutes as you had mentioned. Almost an hour and a half later, you said you were ready.
So now down to brass tacks. If you feel like you are owed for time wasted, then I feel I am owed as well. I think that makes us even.
Now the last point. The reasons I haven't post in a while are no ones business but my own. But I will tell you something. I know I am not handsome, rich, and I really do have a small cock. The amazing thing about this hobby / business? It doesn't matter. I can be picky. Any man on this forum can be as picky as they want. I haven't found my cup of tea therefore I didn't have anything to post about. However in searching this great forum I see someone that interests me so I ask. Fortunately, soon after I got a few PMs and was maybe able to meet someone closer to my preferences. I have yet to post about that encounter as well. Although I will, in my own good time.
Okay, So PM if you want more information. I'm sure the seniors she referring to will burn me but anyway I feel this needed to be out here.
Thanks again all who post and report.
Be safe and have fun.
TheDude.
[QUOTE=TheDude865;3393840]Hello all.
As the title states, I have upset a provider. Now for a little back story. A few days before Christmas I arranged a meeting with a well known and reviewed provider. During the conversation beforehand we talked about it being a meet and greet because we have not met previously. Said provider assured it was best and I agreed. The context was not charge for the meet and greet, only if we were comfortable would the expectations change. As I think most would agree, I thought that was a good idea and was pleasantly surprised by the notion. Of course I agreed and we set a time. Nearing her location, litteraly turning into the parking area, I got the text. You know the on, can you wait a bit, something came up, etc. I said sure and went to kill some time. Fast forward an hour and a half or so and I get the all clear come on I'm ready. I get to her room, greets me, hugs, general chit chat, Yeah she is nice. I'm not quite comfortable and the getting to know each other starts. Now, saying she is chatty is an understatement. Rambling on about everything in her life, kid, ex, losses, problems. I consider myself a nice enough guy and I listen. Even though she's not my cup of tea, I consider the thought maybe she just needs a shoulder for a while, but I am not in the least bit attracted. I was there for quite a long time, Close to 2 hours. She does try to seduce me, starts to give a half Ass'ed BJ. Constantly chatting the entire time. Asking what's wrong, why m I not getting into it. I make excuses and make my way out. As it were, I did not leave a donation. She didn't ask, I didn't offer. End of that fiasco. "So I Thought! ".
Half way home I get the texts and calls asking why I didn't leave it. I blew it off and let things be. Then it started getting sideways, I unfortunately told her I was not attracted to her and that's why I had issues. Then the threats. She will post about this, message every provider telling them about me. Whatever right. WTF do I care. Soon enough that all went away and all is forgotten. So I thought.
Now I haven't been posting until now. Things were dry for me and I wasn't interested in what K-town has to offer. Recently however, I saw some posts that got my attention, I ask the fine gentlemen here for some info. For which I got several replies and I am very thankful for those BTW. I will post reviews soon enough. So back to the story, I just logged on and low and behold I got a PM from previous said provider. So here it is. The entire PM and My reply. Feel free to rant, burn or praise. WTF do I care. LOL.
Yes, I remember you.
Of course our opinions vary as to a bill owed. Unlike you however, I have not pondered about posting anything negative about you. Its obvious we did not have chemistry and at that I left things as they were. A meet and greet that didn't turn into anything more. I distinctly remember you saying we can get to know each other and that time will not be charged. If you had felt owed, that is something you should have mentioned before I left.
Lets say I went to buy a car. You were the sales person and spent a couple of hours showing me cars, talking about the options, etc. Now, I didn't find anything I was interested in and decided to move on to another dealership. Suppose I said something like, "Well I've been here a while and I'm not really interested in any of your products. I think I'll just go but thanks for your time. " Would you, as a sales person, still expect your commission for a sale?
I do understand this situation is a bit different, but our conversation before I set the appointment lead me to believe if we didn't hit it off, all would be fine and that's that.
And to go a bit further, If you remember, as I was nearing your location you text and ask if I could wait. I'm a patient guy and of course I said sure. I turned around to kill some time, expecting 10-20 minutes as you had mentioned. Almost an hour and a half later, you said you were ready.
So now down to brass tacks. If you feel like you are owed for time wasted, then I feel I am owed as well. I think that makes us even.
Now the last point. The reasons I haven't post in a while are no ones business but my own. But I will tell you something. I know I am not handsome, rich, and I really do have a small cock. The amazing thing about this hobby / business? It doesn't matter. I can be picky. Any man on this forum can be as picky as they want. I haven't found my cup of tea therefore I didn't have anything to post about. However in searching this great forum I see someone that interests me so I ask. Fortunately, soon after I got a few PMs and was maybe able to meet someone closer to my preferences. I have yet to post about that encounter as well. Although I will, in my own good time.
Okay, So PM if you want more information. I'm sure the seniors she referring to will burn me but anyway I feel this needed to be out here.
Thanks again all who post and report.
Be safe and have fun.
TheDude.[/QUOTE]Your candor and diplomacy is appreciated.
I'd agree, there isn't much you can do. Other than to articulate what transpired.
Your probably not the only one she's taken issue with. It's business. If she doesn't understand how to conduct her trade, along with providing quality service, then she's not going to do very well.
Wouldn't worry about the other providers. They're usually too busy trash talking each other. Sure they're probably aware of her antics anyway.
Remember, all women are "at least a four crazy"!
In case anyone is not familiar.
[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vwbKYcBdVyk[/URL]
Or Google: "The Universal Hot vs Crazy Matrix. A Man's Guide to Women".
[QUOTE=GeeDick;3393933]In case anyone is not familiar.
[URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vwbKYcBdVyk[/URL]
Or Google: "The Universal Hot vs Crazy Matrix. A Man's Guide to Women".[/QUOTE]Damn! I'm currently in the "no go zone". But! If she lost 15-20 lbs, I'd be in the "fun zone".
[QUOTE=TheDude865;3393840]Hello all.
As the title states, I have upset a provider. Now for a little back story. A few days before Christmas I arranged a meeting with a well known and reviewed provider. During the conversation beforehand we talked about it being a meet and greet because we have not met previously. Said provider assured it was best and I agreed. The context was not charge for the meet and greet, only if we were comfortable would the expectations change. As I think most would agree, I thought that was a good idea and was pleasantly surprised by the notion. Of course I agreed and we set a time. Nearing her location, litteraly turning into the parking area, I got the text. You know the on, can you wait a bit, something came up, etc. I said sure and went to kill some time. Fast forward an hour and a half or so and I get the all clear come on I'm ready. I get to her room, greets me, hugs, general chit chat, Yeah she is nice. I'm not quite comfortable and the getting to know each other starts. Now, saying she is chatty is an understatement. Rambling on about everything in her life, kid, ex, losses, problems. I consider myself a nice enough guy and I listen. Even though she's not my cup of tea, I consider the thought maybe she just needs a shoulder for a while, but I am not in the least bit attracted. I was there for quite a long time, Close to 2 hours. She does try to seduce me, starts to give a half Ass'ed BJ. Constantly chatting the entire time. Asking what's wrong, why m I not getting into it. I make excuses and make my way out. As it were, I did not leave a donation. She didn't ask, I didn't offer. End of that fiasco. "So I Thought! ".
Half way home I get the texts and calls asking why I didn't leave it. I blew it off and let things be. Then it started getting sideways, I unfortunately told her I was not attracted to her and that's why I had issues. Then the threats. She will post about this, message every provider telling them about me. Whatever right. WTF do I care. Soon enough that all went away and all is forgotten. So I thought.
Now I haven't been posting until now. Things were dry for me and I wasn't interested in what K-town has to offer. Recently however, I saw some posts that got my attention, I ask the fine gentlemen here for some info. For which I got several replies and I am very thankful for those BTW. I will post reviews soon enough. So back to the story, I just logged on and low and behold I got a PM from previous said provider. So here it is. The entire PM and My reply. Feel free to rant, burn or praise. WTF do I care. LOL.
Yes, I remember you.
Of course our opinions vary as to a bill owed. Unlike you however, I have not pondered about posting anything negative about you. Its obvious we did not have chemistry and at that I left things as they were. A meet and greet that didn't turn into anything more. I distinctly remember you saying we can get to know each other and that time will not be charged. If you had felt owed, that is something you should have mentioned before I left.
Lets say I went to buy a car. You were the sales person and spent a couple of hours showing me cars, talking about the options, etc. Now, I didn't find anything I was interested in and decided to move on to another dealership. Suppose I said something like, "Well I've been here a while and I'm not really interested in any of your products. I think I'll just go but thanks for your time. " Would you, as a sales person, still expect your commission for a sale?
I do understand this situation is a bit different, but our conversation before I set the appointment lead me to believe if we didn't hit it off, all would be fine and that's that.
And to go a bit further, If you remember, as I was nearing your location you text and ask if I could wait. I'm a patient guy and of course I said sure. I turned around to kill some time, expecting 10-20 minutes as you had mentioned. Almost an hour and a half later, you said you were ready.
So now down to brass tacks. If you feel like you are owed for time wasted, then I feel I am owed as well. I think that makes us even.
Now the last point. The reasons I haven't post in a while are no ones business but my own. But I will tell you something. I know I am not handsome, rich, and I really do have a small cock. The amazing thing about this hobby / business? It doesn't matter. I can be picky. Any man on this forum can be as picky as they want. I haven't found my cup of tea therefore I didn't have anything to post about. However in searching this great forum I see someone that interests me so I ask. Fortunately, soon after I got a few PMs and was maybe able to meet someone closer to my preferences. I have yet to post about that encounter as well. Although I will, in my own good time.
Okay, So PM if you want more information. I'm sure the seniors she referring to will burn me but anyway I feel this needed to be out here.
Thanks again all who post and report.
Be safe and have fun.
TheDude.[/QUOTE]I wouldn't worry about the other providers not being willing to see you, because after all it's business. Money talks and bs walks! Don't see them turning you down over one pissed off lady. There are some sane ones out there that don't use sessions as a whine fest and truly make it about you. Sure once I get to know one and become friends, which has only been a few over the years, I'll talk about their lives but on the first cisit or even the first 5-6 I don't want to hear it. Honestly I'd like to know who so I know who to avoid! You will always have the white knights too that think they'll get special treatment if they act that way. Just shrug it off and move on.
As for the money, I would have at least laid down $ for room cost but not more if we did nothing really. Of course I would've paid room and left from the start if it wasn't what I was expecting. Not to mention I've learned if they want to make you wait at last minute, move on! If I show up on time and get put off I'm done.
Just my two cents.
Dawg.
I also appreciate your post.
[QUOTE=TheDude865;3393840]Hello all.
As the title states, I have upset a provider.
Okay, So PM if you want more information. I'm sure the seniors she referring to will burn me but anyway I feel this needed to be out here.
Thanks again all who post and report.
Be safe and have fun.
TheDude.[/QUOTE]
I have had my "white knight" moments (I prefer to think of that as just being a decent human being, but whatever). But I found your post to be very credible, I believe you, and I am on your side. And I don't know you and probably don't know the provider. Based on your information, I don't think you did one thing wrong and don't owe one red cent. I also disagree with one reply regarding paying for the room -- if that wasn't part of the agreement up front then you owe nothing. Now maybe you could have declined the BJ to avoid any misunderstandings or expectations but if the provider wasn't clear about it, and didn't even mention it until after you left, you don't owe a red cent. And I agree your time is important, too, but it seems providers seldom take that into account when they blow you off (no pun intended) or make you wait.
I appreciate your post and the opportunity to have an intelligent conversation about an issue where details are provided and discussed. I really get tired of the airbags who make grandiose general statements about what they will do, won't do, have never done, etc. With providers -- worthless bullshit to me absent a real story.
[QUOTE=TheDude865;3393840]Hello all.
As the title states, I have upset a provider. Now for a little back story. A few days before Christmas I arranged a meeting with a well known and reviewed provider. During the conversation beforehand we talked about it being a meet and greet because we have not met previously. Said provider assured it was best and I agreed. The context was not charge for the meet and greet, only if we were comfortable would the expectations change. As I think most would agree, I thought that was a good idea and was pleasantly surprised by the notion...... to will burn me but anyway I feel this needed to be out here.
Thanks again all who post and report.
Be safe and have fun.
TheDude.[/QUOTE]Absolutely right. They can waste our time, but God forbid we waste theirs.
Pretty funny actually.
You spent 3.5 hours getting nothing, then she spent 1.75 hours getting nada. Sad part is that she is still ahead. LMAO.
BTW.
For all you lovelies out there, my rates are 25/H 15/HH 8/QV. (I have a driver/handler)
Thank you for the post and opening up this discussion. While I've never had a provider suggest a "meet and greet" with no fee required, it's an interesting concept. I'm sure they believe it will almost always end in a paid session (if they feel safe with us), because they believe (with very good reason) that we want what they have more than we want to keep the money in our pocket. They know we are men and are generally led around by our little head. If we are in the room with a woman who is willing, we usually set our bar pretty low. The little head makes us stupid.
I agree and appreciate everything you said, and you had the right to walk out without paying. Except for one thing: you let her put your dick in her mouth. Yes, she wasted your time by delaying you for an hour and a half (but you still waited, as many of us would have done. Because we're stupid). She wasted your time by talking too much about her life and struggles for a long period (but you listened, as many of us would have done. Either out of politeness or being stupid). You could have left at any point because (by your own admission) you were not attracted to her. You could have said, "it was very nice to meet you, but this isn't working out" and left with absolutely no issue. But you let her put your dick in her mouth.
Others might disagree, and that's fine, because this is just my opinion, but once the dick comes out and goes in a mouth, the meter is running. At that point, it has gone beyond a meet and greet.
It doesn't matter if you don't finish. I've been in few situations where I knew when they opened the door that I was not attracted. I stupidly, stubbornly entered the room and made the fumbling, awkward attempt to complete the transaction. Sometimes I could close my eyes and hit the goal, and others I had to call a technical and head for the locker room. Either way, I paid the piper. I could have left at the door, but I didn't. I gambled and lost. That's the hobby.
[QUOTE=Mundane;3394446]I gambled and lost. That's the hobby.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=StonesRoller69;3394253]
I appreciate your post and the opportunity to have an intelligent conversation about an issue where details are provided and discussed. I really get tired of the airbags who make grandiose general statements about what they will do, won't do, have never done, etc. With providers -- worthless bullshit to me absent a real story.[/QUOTE]I applaud TheDude for having the gumption to put the dilemma out there. I have never been in a situation involving a pleasure companion / commercial s.3.x where I "test drove" any portion of merchandise without paying. I've arrived at a few spots during my early days of mongering and just couldn't get past the clutter of the room, the environment just didn't feel safe, or the stench coming from her orifices. In any situation like that, I ask that we come to some agreement to make it right because I need to get out of there; I want to provide an opportunity for her to rebook that slot (usually less than what the full session would have been). Part of the problem is that she may have misrepresented herself, but it was my responsibility to research before committing to the visit and the gambling didn't work in my favor. This somewhat reinforces why some gals ask for the compensation up front while mongers balk dreading a cash and dash.
In essence it sounds like some major mis-communication took place granted she contacted you about the missing payment afterwards. I'm not trying to tell a grown @.$$ man how to conduct himself or to live by some special code, but to walk out with your d1.ck slippery from the BJ (whether you finished or not) suggests that she put in some level of work (and she should have been compensated accordingly). Pulling a "no payment" or non-reconciliation with certain providers and it may be much worse than a scathing PM. Most disagreements like that, you just have to charge it to the game (the money and the time is gone), make it right in a mutually beneficial way, and move on to the next one.
Stay safe,
Milfman.
[QUOTE=MilfMan865;3394541]I applaud TheDude for having the gumption to put the dilemma out there. I have never been in a situation involving a pleasure companion / commercial s.3.x where I "test drove" any portion of merchandise without paying. I've arrived at a few spots during my early days of mongering and just couldn't get past the clutter of the room, the environment just didn't feel safe, or the stench coming from her orifices. In any situation like that, I ask that we come to some agreement to make it right because I need to get out of there; I want to provide an opportunity for her to rebook that slot (usually less than what the full session would have been). Part of the problem is that she may have misrepresented herself, but it was my responsibility to research before committing to the visit and the gambling didn't work in my favor. This somewhat reinforces why some gals ask for the compensation up front while mongers balk dreading a cash and dash.
In essence it sounds like some major mis-communication took place granted she contacted you about the missing payment afterwards. I'm not trying to tell a grown @.$$ man how to conduct himself or to live by some special code, but to walk out with your d1.ck slippery from the BJ (whether you finished or not) suggests that she put in some level of work (and she should have been compensated accordingly). Pulling a "no payment" or non-reconciliation with certain providers and it may be much worse than a scathing PM. Most disagreements like that, you just have to charge it to the game (the money and the time is gone), make it right in a mutually beneficial way, and move on to the next one.
Stay safe,
Milfman.[/QUOTE]I think Milfman has most points covered in his reply. Lets remember to act like grownups. Sometimes the best thing to do is just get in touch, admit both sides may have made some mistakes and figure out how to come to some compromise that brings closure to the event. Applies to many things in life.
But I would like to comment on the issue of no-shows, delays, standing people up. This came up before and most people seem like reasonable adults. No I realize it is a pain to have to wait, be delayed, no-showed. But this only costs you a delayed BJ. Usually not even delayed much since most guys seem to have alternatives readily available. But when you no-show or cancel at the last second, the "business" has lost an opportunity to make income. That might mean paying bills (or getting their next fix, whatever). Not trying to be a white knight, just pointing out that the 2 sides of the transaction are in different situations, with different risks and rewards.
Most people get the golden rule wrong. It is not treat people like they treat you, it is to treat people like you want them to treat you. I find that handles most situations in life.
[QUOTE=GeeDick;3393928]Your candor and diplomacy is appreciated.
I'd agree, there isn't much you can do. Other than to articulate what transpired.
Your probably not the only one she's taken issue with. It's business. If she doesn't understand how to conduct her trade, along with providing quality service, then she's not going to do very well.
Wouldn't worry about the other providers. They're usually too busy trash talking each other. Sure they're probably aware of her antics anyway.
Remember, all women are "at least a four crazy"![/QUOTE]I had a similar experience right before Christmas. A well known local provider stood me up at the last minute. When I posted about it she blew my phone up threatening to blackball me with other providers. I didn't understand her reasoning but apparently it was my fault she stood me up.
I wonder if this is the same girl? Pm me if you don't want to post her name.
This crap happens from time to time. But does not help us much without sharing her name. I have had one like this from Athens area once and as I predicted she burnt out in no time with the attitude. People may take sides one way or the other but we all have seen one form of this before.
[QUOTE=TheDude865;3393840]Hello all.
As the title states, I have upset a provider. Now for a little back story. A few days before Christmas I arranged a meeting with a well known and reviewed provider. During the conversation beforehand we talked about it being a meet and greet because we have not met previously. Said provider assured it was best and I agreed. The context was not charge for the meet and greet, only if we were comfortable would the expectations change. As I think most would agree, I thought that was a good idea and was pleasantly surprised by the notion. Of course I agreed and we set a time. Nearing her location, litteraly turning into the parking area, I got the text. You know the on, can you wait a bit, something came up, etc. I said sure and went to kill some time. Fast forward an hour and a half or so and I get the all clear come on I'm ready. I get to her room, greets me, hugs, general chit chat, Yeah she is nice. I'm not quite comfortable and the getting to know each other starts. Now, saying she is chatty is an understatement. Rambling on about everything in her life, kid, ex, losses, problems. I consider myself a nice enough guy and I listen. Even though she's not my cup of tea, I consider the thought maybe she just needs a shoulder for a while, but I am not in the least bit attracted. I was there for quite a long time, Close to 2 hours. She does try to seduce me, starts to give a half Ass'ed BJ. Constantly chatting the entire time. Asking what's wrong, why m I not getting into it. I make excuses and make my way out. As it were, I did not leave a donation. She didn't ask, I didn't offer. End of that fiasco. "So I Thought! ".
Half way home I get the texts and calls asking why I didn't leave it. I blew it off and let things be. Then it started getting sideways, I unfortunately told her I was not attracted to her and that's why I had issues. Then the threats. She will post about this, message every provider telling them about me. Whatever right. WTF do I care. Soon enough that all went away and all is forgotten. So I thought.
Now I haven't been posting until now. Things were dry for me and I wasn't interested in what K-town has to offer. Recently however, I saw some posts that got my attention, I ask the fine gentlemen here for some info. For which I got several replies and I am very thankful for those BTW. I will post reviews soon enough. So back to the story, I just logged on and low and behold I got a PM from previous said provider. So here it is. The entire PM and My reply. Feel free to rant, burn or praise. WTF do I care. LOL.
Yes, I remember you.
Of course our opinions vary as to a bill owed. Unlike you however, I have not pondered about posting anything negative about you. Its obvious we did not have chemistry and at that I left things as they were. A meet and greet that didn't turn into anything more. I distinctly remember you saying we can get to know each other and that time will not be charged. If you had felt owed, that is something you should have mentioned before I left.
Lets say I went to buy a car. You were the sales person and spent a couple of hours showing me cars, talking about the options, etc. Now, I didn't find anything I was interested in and decided to move on to another dealership. Suppose I said something like, "Well I've been here a while and I'm not really interested in any of your products. I think I'll just go but thanks for your time. " Would you, as a sales person, still expect your commission for a sale?
I do understand this situation is a bit different, but our conversation before I set the appointment lead me to believe if we didn't hit it off, all would be fine and that's that.
And to go a bit further, If you remember, as I was nearing your location you text and ask if I could wait. I'm a patient guy and of course I said sure. I turned around to kill some time, expecting 10-20 minutes as you had mentioned. Almost an hour and a half later, you said you were ready.
So now down to brass tacks. If you feel like you are owed for time wasted, then I feel I am owed as well. I think that makes us even.
Now the last point. The reasons I haven't post in a while are no ones business but my own. But I will tell you something. I know I am not handsome, rich, and I really do have a small cock. The amazing thing about this hobby / business? It doesn't matter. I can be picky. Any man on this forum can be as picky as they want. I haven't found my cup of tea therefore I didn't have anything to post about. However in searching this great forum I see someone that interests me so I ask. Fortunately, soon after I got a few PMs and was maybe able to meet someone closer to my preferences. I have yet to post about that encounter as well. Although I will, in my own good time.
Okay, So PM if you want more information. I'm sure the seniors she referring to will burn me but anyway I feel this needed to be out here.
Thanks again all who post and report.
Be safe and have fun.
TheDude.[/QUOTE]