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Very interesting to hear that from a provider. I would say, outstanding POV. That is one reason I have decided to slow down exploring and keep with providers that I already know and try those who have well known reputation. I think that human connection is very important to greatly improve your and your provider performance and enjoyment. When I am out of the state or overseas have experienced anxiety during the process to see a provider even when it is legal in the country turning me off lowering my performance and sometimes I have to bring some memories of my favorites girls, that turn me on, LOL!. Very good advice that safe money and increase enjoyment of the game.

I would like to hear more about this topic from other providers if that be possible.

"Stay thirsty, my friends".

[QUOTE=JimShorts;2655394]Hi Avalon.

I think your advice (and observations), as well as those from a number of others (including a few PMs) I have gotten on this, make some excellent points and offer solid suggestions. It is obvious this is fairly common and a lot of guys on her have described how they overcame it. I will sort of collate the info and post it as a "public service". It includes everything from pharmaceuticals to provider choice.

As I mentioned, everything with me is fully functional outside the hobby, so I am looking at those "warm-up" activities involving massage, etc as critical I. E. "human connection" first, not last. I have had a couple body rubs that definitely got me ready for action-so that's a clue right? Only those girls giving great body rubs wouldn't let me do the real deed- HEs aside!! At the end of the day, I suppose the idea that I'm there to definitely fuck within an hour versus hoping to fuck (on a date with a hot chick!) are two different things! At least my brain is wired that way.

Again- thanks all.[/QUOTE]

This is why I usually stuck with regulars I would find one I liked and stick with her. I would observe how the provider acted did she seem worried or sad about your problem. If she did I would go a second time and most of the time the second time is much more relaxed and less stressful. Most providers will probably tell you the first visit is the hardest for them as well and they can imagine trying to get blood going to that area while being aware of your surroundings (pimps coming in to rob you!) with a new person you literally just met can be very stressful. Stick with veterans and the providers who will talk with you and don; t just want you in and out as soon as possible these are the providers you want to stick with and a lot of them are on these forums and are amazing I've had glasses of wine and even had a provider cook me lunch and eat with her off the clock like was said with the NaNa situation we're all humans treat each other as such!

[QUOTE=JimShorts;2653895]Hi Fellas-.

An open question for the list.

I have no problem getting it up (without pharmaceutical assistance) for my girlfriend who is plenty sexy-in fact even getting texts from her will do it frequently.

However, when I get with these providers, even ones I consider very sexy and clean, I don't know if its nervousness from the arrangement, or feeling like the clock is ticking as soon as I walk in and the pressure is on, but I have sound the last few times that I get there, I have Nervous Cock and Junior won't cooperate and I end up taking matters into my own hands, etc and in a couple cases just gave up on the FS and the whole outing ends up becoming an expensive BJ.

Any of you guys experience this?- and yes, everyone is different, it is in my IBig) head, but how do you deal with it- a drink first or. ?

I'm seeing some hotties I want to try but now I'm wondering if I should risk another expensive launch failure.

I'm fairly new here- if this should be in the blog or somewhere else I'll move it![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Iamaries54;2512802]I met this stunning UTR who lives in heathrow So not knowing exactly where I was going I headed to see her and when I get there I see cars lined up at the guard gate. Fast thinking I follow a resident in thru the resident lane, found her house and had a marvelous dream.

I definitely want to return but I am concerned about the gate running. Is there any one who is familier with that area and knows weather they tolerate people running the gates or will I eventually have a big problem.

The girl says not to worry during the day as everybody does it, and a friend who thinks its a dangerous move.

Giving my info at the gate requires having her put me on a list and obviously is not a good option.

Any other Ideas?

Thanks.[/QUOTE]I would like to Thank my "RAM BROTHER"(some will get that) for passing this one along to me. She is quite the looker. Petite, nice chest, snug kitty, pretty nice skills. I have probably did the "gate run" for the last time for her recently. She has no business plan in that she thinks it is ok if a dream ends early due to her "landlord", "roomie", ect coming home to end the dream. IMHO she might have filled her "Jack-O-Lantern" just a little early and not just on Halloween. Oh well. Thanks again for the intel, time to look for another flavor of the month or just stick with the sure thing. That is a hint I need help. PM me . When oh when will I ever learn.

J54 out.

She has gone upscale, saw her late yesterday afternoon with her luggage on restaurant row. She was rolling along by the chick-fil-a.

Recently there was a discussion on prices and are they in sync with demand and supply. I want to ask the gentelmen on what determines the value to you personally. So For myself the order is Safe, Sane and Skilled as I tend to overlook age, race to some degree face and body if otherwise attractive.

My most desired quality is when the business carries through in the background as freindship develop on trust and mutual respect for each other, Companionship as we like to call it in the business and real life. I will see anyone once but I only go back to see friends.


What do ladies compete for to get your business? is it body, price, attitude, skills, short avilablity and would you pay more?

[QUOTE=NewGuy2;2656603]She has gone upscale, saw her late yesterday afternoon with her luggage on restaurant row. She was rolling along by the chick-fil-a.[/QUOTE]Yea I saw her the other day but didn't have time to stop. Next time I'm going to get a selfie with her. I've bought her a few meals so I'm sure she wouldn't mind. I would just have to block out my face LOL. Her fave is the Big Mac meal with a sweet tea. Take care.

[QUOTE=NewGuy2;2656603]She has gone upscale, saw her late yesterday afternoon with her luggage on restaurant row. She was rolling along by the chick-fil-a.[/QUOTE]New bus stop location, Sandlake and I Drive, SE corner, looked pretty pissed.

I guess the Lynx drivers are over her bench squatting their stops!

[QUOTE=FloridaSun;2656710]Recently there was a discussion on prices and are they in sync with demand and supply. I want to ask the gentelmen on what determines the value to you personally. So For myself the order is Safe, Sane and Skilled as I tend to overlook age, race to some degree face and body if otherwise attractive.

My most desired quality is when the business carries through in the background as freindship develop on trust and mutual respect for each other, Companionship as we like to call it in the business and real life. I will see anyone once but I only go back to see friends.


What do ladies compete for to get your business? is it body, price, attitude, skills, short avilablity and would you pay more?[/QUOTE]Being Safe / discreet is at the top of my list. A monger who shall remain nameless a few months back had an unexpected knock at his door (not me thank god). It was the BF of an UTR gal he was seeing. So picture this, the BF tells the monger whose wife was close by XXX has been doing escort P4 P while I am at work. She uses this extra money for candy. I do not like her using candy so understand if you continue to give her money we are going to have a huge problem. Talk about a nightmare.

I do agree having the companionship feeling is a bonus. I will say caution must be used as not to get too close or attached. For those that have been around for a bit, Fat Albert catching feelings for Asian Jade is what should be avoided. Nice to share some info however there is a line that should not be crossed. If it is blame no one but the mirror on the wall when you get the call for rent, electric, phone, car, sick kid, ect.

True bonds can be built without all that. One MIDF from my past with an incredible IQ has a real job as a marriage / relationship coach. She has a radio talk show, has written a book or two. To say she has given me solid advice over the years is like saying there is a tourist at WDW. Unfortunately I am now in the friend zone so if I see her it is just to talk.

All those other things age, body type, menu, price, ect are just a matter of indivual taste. IMHO that is secondary to being able to play another day. Just my. 02 cents. Perhaps me being questioned by the unwanted uncle recently has altered my thoughts.

Safe travels. Jesse.

Drive 50 to old Ch- nothing!

Drive Oak to 528 - nada!!

Texted 3 of my regs -- no luck!

Guess it wasn't meant to be today. Crap!

Stay safe.

ST99.

And I damn sure hate when it does, especially to me! I feel your pain, bro, but sometimes its better that way.

Better luck next time!

[QUOTE=SuperToro99;2657113]Drive 50 to old Ch- nothing!

Drive Oak to 528 - nada!!

Texted 3 of my regs -- no luck!

Guess it wasn't meant to be today. Crap!

Stay safe.

ST99.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Jesse54;2657074]

True bonds can be built without all that.[/QUOTE]Very thoughtful response. I agree that lines need not to be crossed. That's why sane was next on my list. I am not at risk for falling for my provider as I have clear goals on that department. I also do not encourage that from them and would run faster than the speed of light if I see it coming, so eyes wide open here. This is an arrangement and not a union. Having said this being welcomed with a smile and affinity is a nice relief from life's hassles.

I also have lost ATF to friendship but it doesn't bother me as I continue to enjoy our encounters without private time. You can always find another lay, but when you experience openness and trust with a smart women, then you want that one to be a keeper.

We are taking about the few that can rise to be our favorites.

[QUOTE=GrayZorro;2656806]New bus stop location, Sandlake and I Drive, SE corner, looked pretty pissed.

I guess the Lynx drivers are over her bench squatting their stops![/QUOTE]Somebody, maybe me, needs to convert her to a "JawBoner" and maybe then she will have a different perspective on life. Maybe I'll butter her up with the Big Mac meal this weekend LOL. Take care.

I would like to thank Jenna, Mystical, Paige and any of the other fine providers here who have spoken kindly of me to the gentlemen of this board. It is nice to be in the company of such stellar ladies. I,for one, always feeler safer when a gentleman says a provider from the board has spoken kindly of me and gladly would and have done the same. Keeping our community safe especially with the recent changes is key and I salute these and all the ladies of the board who work together to keep us all safe. THANKS! And keep on being awesome. YOU ROCK!

[QUOTE=InsideAvalon;2654558]I'll be completely honest and tell you as a provider, it happens fairly often. Probably more than most will admit. Age & marital status doesn't matter, I've experienced it with men in their early 20's through late 60's; whether they married, dating, or single.

I've actually asked clients why this happens. I used to think it was me, like I wasn't doing something right. LOL. However, many have shared that it's just the entire situation that can cause it (legality risk, provider hotness, not used to condoms, performance anxiety, unfamiliarity, time, etc).

My suggestions: avoid alcohol & drugs, ensure adequate session time, and only play in relaxing, safe environments. Also, select providers that won't rush you, ones that you feel comfortable talking to. Start off with mutual massage; it's a great way to relax & reduce stress. Use female condoms if physical comfort is the issue. Lastly, establish a human connection with your provider rather than just a physical one, it makes all the difference in the world. Best wishes![/QUOTE]Your comments and suggestions I feel are spot on and from what I've read you seem to be a heartfelt and sincere women. A wonderful quality I am fond of. You are amazing and I hope to get a chance to meet you in the near future.

As most of you know by now NaNa is in the Orange County Jail now. She screwed up big time and will be paying for it for the next several years. If anyone wants to help her out during her absence please PM me. She has put me in charge of handling all of her affairs while she is gone. She is asking for help from all her old friends. Let's try to help one of Orlando's finest. Any help will be greatly appreciated.