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Don't waste your time. Interested in online only, selling pics and vids [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bea36e75-9ced-40ea-ab7c-d82251ff4e66[/URL].
I could be wrong, but seem to recall a time when reporting profiles that did not want to meet in person was an option. Pre-Covid maybe? Anyway, frustrating that they allow this to go on. Seems to be more of them popping up on there these days.
Doesn't look 35, pics are too glam for your average SB.
Anyone get anywhere?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a109e063-4aa2-4185-87aa-dad5062796f4[/URL]
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5644100]Just one note of caution. There are infinite ways that you can get in trouble on SA w / the proprietors. They don't like your photos, they don't like some of your messages, etc. If they never look at them, though, you're OK. They have a lot on their plate. IF you complain, though, they have a reason to take a look at this stuff, and then they decide you've done something wrong and ban you. Needless to say, from posts we see fairly often, it doesn't come easy to get yourself back on. IK this has happened to me, for no good reason, even after being on the site a few years. IF I am having trouble w / a girl, the very very first thing that I do is block her. That way, she can't access my profile to report me.
While it might feel good to punish a scammer by getting them banned, this pales in comparison to the trouble you will face if you yourself get banned, merely by drawing attention to your profile. I am sure you can make your own choices, balancing self-interest with a sense of justice and community well-being.[/QUOTE]I have gone the same way here with just blocking the person right away. It seems that if I go back later and look in my messages or blocked members most of those have changed to 'attractive member' so I assume they got banned themselves.
What makes me wonder though, unless I (we) use some type of language that specifically discusses sex for money why is SA so aggressive in banning men? Yes they have to be careful but we are their cash cow and it is expensive month after month if you keep a premium membership.
When I really take a good look, after removing all the obvious scammers and girls that haven't been on for months at a time that the quantity of active and available women is much less than it seems and SA wants you to believe there are. Granted I have done well on SA, even in little Delaware, but it comes a a cost.
PH.
[QUOTE=PinHead11;5656286]I have gone the same way here with just blocking the person right away. .[/QUOTE]If they mention PPM I report them.
If they say they just want to sell pics / vids, I report them under COMMERCIAL ACTIVITY.
If they are using fake pics I report them.
Have to cover your ass. Not sure you earn any brownie points, but I'd rather draw first than have them report me because I called them out -- which you should never do. A woman scorned and all that.
[QUOTE=BobLobLa;5656298]If they mention PPM I report them.
If they say they just want to sell pics / vids, I report them under COMMERCIAL ACTIVITY.
If they are using fake pics I report them.
Have to cover your ass. Not sure you earn any brownie points, but I'd rather draw first than have them report me because I called them out -- which you should never do. A woman scorned and all that.[/QUOTE]Reporting is a waste of time, calling them out and arguing with her is plain stupid. Reporting just brings more attention to you.
[QUOTE=NormGerd;5649002]I actually got an email with a 33% code. But I cannot get it to work on the app, as there is no way to enter a promo code. It only shows up on the website, which won't let me used Google Pay, while the app will. I can buy Google pay anonymously with cash at many stores.
Anyone have a solution to get the discount while using Google pay?
Norm![/QUOTE]Just thought I would update everyone on the issue. I actually wrote to customer service. The first person to respond asked for more info, basically a screenshot of the discount offer.
I sent that, and after three days got a response that discount codes DO NOT work on the app. So I bought a prepaid CC instead. Google pay would have saved the CC purchase fee, but not really a big deal for the seven dollar fee.
Norm!
[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;5656355]Reporting is a waste of time, calling them out and arguing with her is plain stupid. Reporting just brings more attention to you.[/QUOTE]B"ut if you report -- which blocks them -- it prevents them from having access to your profile to return the favor.
[QUOTE=BobLobLa;5656819]B"ut if you report -- which blocks them -- it prevents them from having access to your profile to return the favor.[/QUOTE]Just repeating what I said earlier. If you report them, it will make the mods on SA look at *your* profile and *your* messages, and you never know how that turns out. You can just block her without reporting her.
And to the other post on here about girls looking for online-only 'arrangements' - that used to be grounds for a complaint in the report window. It no longer is, and I suspect that modification in policy was indeed done during the pandemic.
[QUOTE=BobLobLa;5656298]If they mention PPM I report them.
If they say they just want to sell pics / vids, I report them under COMMERCIAL ACTIVITY.
If they are using fake pics I report them.
Have to cover your ass. Not sure you earn any brownie points, but I'd rather draw first than have them report me because I called them out -- which you should never do. A woman scorned and all that.[/QUOTE]Agree with pic / video sellers & fake pics but why report them for PPM? I think the majority of Daddies are hoping for a gorgeous, 18-25 year old that is willing to trade her hot little body for some monetary help.
I'm not looking for a relationship on SA. It has turned into one a few times, but it all starts for me with a PPM. By turning them in your dwindling the pool of talent that most of us are on SA for. Instead, report the paid M&G Babies, the need gas money to come see you, the my phone is getting turned off, my baby needs diapers & formula scammers.
Just my opinion.
DF.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5652119]I am noticing a certain type of fake profile these days. A gorgeous 30's woman, happy to engage in convo on the site. I have even gotten some of them off the site to text or messaging apps (Telegram). They get into big discussions about cryptocurrency, how they're making millions, etc. However, sometimes they suddenly show up on the site with a totally different location, even in another country. I don't really think they are traveling, I'd wager they are using a VPN into the country they are alleging to be from. Whether that is outside the US or inside it is a question. This can be very deceptive and obviously a bit of a time-waster. IDK what the game is, I haven't had any of them try to get me to Venmo them $ or get me to buy pix.
Oh, yeah. Weird - they are often asking me if I have eaten a meal. Lunch, dinner. WTF?[/QUOTE]I've had a couple message me and eventually bring up the crypto topic. I think it's a HUGE red flag.
[QUOTE=DoggieFan;5656921]Agree with pic / video sellers & fake pics but why report them for PPM? I think the majority of Daddies are hoping for a gorgeous, 18-25 year old that is willing to trade her hot little body for some monetary help.
I'm not looking for a relationship on SA. It has turned into one a few times, but it all starts for me with a PPM. By turning them in your dwindling the pool of talent that most of us are on SA for. Instead, report the paid M&G Babies, the need gas money to come see you, the my phone is getting turned off, my baby needs diapers & formula scammers.
Just my opinion.
DF.[/QUOTE]The issue isn't whether you end up in a ppm deal w / a girl. The point is, if you have a ppm convo on the site and the mods see it, they deem you involved in commercial sex and ban you. The girl and the guy. Say whatever you want, *after* you get them onto text or a messaging app.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c516ac17-52d3-4938-9fed-f16dbe3c192a[/URL]
She American Ukrainian, with no accent. I drop her mainly because I was bored, and she can be rude to serving staff at the restaurants, which is a big turn off for me. She also has zero patience. Best not to be late to dates, because she doesn't like waiting for anything. Her pics are accurate, and she doesn't drive or host. Sex was avg, but she does love to swallow.
[QUOTE=DoggieFan;5656921] but why report them for PPM? [/QUOTE]Because if they say the Phrase taht Pays, they are violating the TOS, and you should run far, run fast to avoid reported by them when they tell you their ask and you tell them they are crazy.
I'd think the number of SBs who would say "PPM" in a message on the App would agree to anythhing less than $4-500.
Sounds like typical Eastern European. I dated several vanilla and found them to be self absorbed and bipolar. Great lays but run like hell when you're done.
[QUOTE=Lobsid;5658269][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c516ac17-52d3-4938-9fed-f16dbe3c192a[/URL]
She American Ukrainian, with no accent. I drop her mainly because I was bored, and she can be rude to serving staff at the restaurants, which is a big turn off for me. She also has zero patience. Best not to be late to dates, because she doesn't like waiting for anything. Her pics are accurate, and she doesn't drive or host. Sex was avg, but she does love to swallow.[/QUOTE]
How timely! Just got a message from a super hot, older SB asking me what my PPM number is. I assume this is her modus operandi, as it was her second message to me, and she has been on the site since Jan 2020.
Based on the discussion here, I am hesitant to reply with a figure on the site.
She is real, because I found her personal social media page by sheer accident when scrolling through some photos and recognized her! I really want to have this woman (sooo my type) but don't want to lose her by asking to move off site, but don't want to get booted from seeking for discussing PPM.
Any advice appreciated.
Norm!
[QUOTE=NormGerd;5659849]How timely! Just got a message from a super hot, older SB asking me what my PPM number is. I assume this is her modus operandi, as it was her second message to me, and she has been on the site since Jan 2020.
Based on the discussion here, I am hesitant to reply with a figure on the site.
She is real, because I found her personal social media page by sheer accident when scrolling through some photos and recognized her! I really want to have this woman (sooo my type) but don't want to lose her by asking to move off site, but don't want to get booted from seeking for discussing PPM.
Any advice appreciated.
Norm![/QUOTE]I semi-recently had an SB send me a lengthy message with her (absurdly high) PPM and M&G pricings, and shortly afterward the account went dark. I'm assuming that she got suspended, because a week or two later she had a new profile. So the risk of losing her by asking to go to text is offset by the higher risk that you get suspended for engaging in PPM discussions. And do it sooner than later since you risk her account getting suspended.
[QUOTE=NormGerd;5659849]How timely! Just got a message from a super hot, older SB asking me what my PPM number is. I assume this is her modus operandi, as it was her second message to me, and she has been on the site since Jan 2020.
Based on the discussion here, I am hesitant to reply with a figure on the site.
She is real, because I found her personal social media page by sheer accident when scrolling through some photos and recognized her! I really want to have this woman (sooo my type) but don't want to lose her by asking to move off site, but don't want to get booted from seeking for discussing PPM.
Any advice appreciated.
Norm![/QUOTE]Pretty Princess in Mineral?
She's real. Met her as an undergrad at UVA, but got ghosted after M&G - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fb67ec97-2071-439c-9614-f6a50617b766[/URL].
[QUOTE=Walruscl;5659875]I semi-recently had an SB send me a lengthy message with her (absurdly high) PPM and M&G pricings, and shortly afterward the account went dark. I'm assuming that she got suspended, because a week or two later she had a new profile. So the risk of losing her by asking to go to text is offset by the higher risk that you get suspended for engaging in PPM discussions. And do it sooner than later since you risk her account getting suspended.[/QUOTE]Risk losing her by asking to text?? If you can't get a girl to text you off the site, there's no point. If you want to M&G, in my experience, you have to have a phone conversation first, otherwise there's a very very high probability she doesn't show up. Even if I speak w / a girl by phone, my deal-breaker, there's a 50/50 chance she ghosts. But then, that is what you get when you are trying to bag real amateurs. The convo here about whether these girls are hooking is laughable. Most of the ones I target are clearly not in business, if they were, they'd never make a living at it because they are so skittish. If I do get one to the FC, I am sure they are low mileage. I was chatting w / a POT the last month, she told me her 'body count' was 5, and I believe her.
Does anyone have any intel on this one below? I was really interested in this one and offered a meet & greet for this weekend and she said yes until the next message from her was is she getting compensated for that. I replied that I don't pay for a M&G but she was getting a free dinner or drinks of her choice of place and if we both wanted to proceed then talks and discussions would occur for time, she has gone silent since. No biggie cause I refuse to pay for M&G but just curious if anyone else has intel. TIA. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0355200e-9c0b-4e99-8a52-7d6f166965c7[/URL].
Any info on this beauty?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/663b9c25-8491-4c4c-b25b-cc1feba2efb9[/URL]
[QUOTE=EasyGuy69;5656062]Anyone had dealings with this one recently on SA? Any info is helpful. Thanks.[/QUOTE]She's legit, actually looks better naked than with clothes but nothing too special. All I got was an amazing BBBJCIM but her prices were high she wanted 250 for that won't repeat.
[QUOTE=ColinRva;5661027]Any info on this beauty?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/663b9c25-8491-4c4c-b25b-cc1feba2efb9[/URL][/QUOTE]No personal experience but see posts #2541 and 20543.
[QUOTE=IbDaddy;5660874]Does anyone have any intel on this one below? I was really interested in this one and offered a meet & greet for this weekend and she said yes until the next message from her was is she getting compensated for that. I replied that I don't pay for a M&G but she was getting a free dinner or drinks of her choice of place and if we both wanted to proceed then talks and discussions would occur for time, she has gone silent since. No biggie cause I refuse to pay for M&G but just curious if anyone else has intel. TIA. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0355200e-9c0b-4e99-8a52-7d6f166965c7[/URL].[/QUOTE]I do not know her but from her profile, she has been on SA for 5 years. She is an experienced SB. Do not pay for M&G. If SD hold the line, the girls will eventually drop the idea of asking pay for M&G. It does not make sense to pay for watching someone drinking and eating.
I am seeing a defined uptick in girls who play all coy -- and I am waiting for the scam to go to a pay site -- but then get an offer to M&G.
A few more messages and they say very nicely that they do expect to be compensated for their time for meeting. As their time is valuable (like ours is not).
I reply that I give no cash for M&G and lunch / drinks / whatever is compensation.
With MANY lately that is the last I hear (except crickets).
These girls are experienced and milking the system. It is a numbers game -- the second you are identified as no pay M&G. You are GONE.
They do not report -- as they want to get others. They are careful what they say so do not get banned.
I am pretty sure the word is getting around that this is a pretty good scam for girls willing to do M&G. But who would NEVER open their legs! One M&G payout and move on. Get two or three of these and it is as much as one fuck!
SATraveler.
[QUOTE=ColinRva;5661027]Any info on this beauty?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/663b9c25-8491-4c4c-b25b-cc1feba2efb9[/URL][/QUOTE]She's a freak if you can get her to reply (which is 90% of the battle) but you better have deep pockets because that pretty smile would cost you 1 k per date.
[QUOTE=Walruscl;5659875]I semi-recently had an SB send me a lengthy message with her (absurdly high) PPM and M&G pricings, and shortly afterward the account went dark. I'm assuming that she got suspended, because a week or two later she had a new profile. So the risk of losing her by asking to go to text is offset by the higher risk that you get suspended for engaging in PPM discussions. And do it sooner than later since you risk her account getting suspended.[/QUOTE]"Let's switch to text or an app so we can discuss details and not get in trouble with the Seeking moderators" is what I send. It works or it doesn't, but I've never had any trouble with the moderators. .
[QUOTE=BobLobLa;5656298]If they mention PPM I report them.
If they say they just want to sell pics / vids, I report them under COMMERCIAL ACTIVITY.
If they are using fake pics I report them.
Have to cover your ass. Not sure you earn any brownie points, but I'd rather draw first than have them report me because I called them out -- which you should never do. A woman scorned and all that.[/QUOTE]I used to report the girls on SA. I quickly realized that it only takes them about 10 minutes to create another account and then I don't know it's them. Now I just write down their username and block them. I don't want them coming back under another username where I can't protect myself. SA states that you can't talk about PPM because they don't want to get rated by the FBI for prostition. The majority of men and women on SA are going to be PPM because I'm certainly not going to pay someone a month's worth of money in advance and then have her disappear on me. I am also sure that there aren't any girls out there letting us fuck them with the promise of getting money later. Unless you find a really stupid one, you got to go PPM. We all know that SA is not [URL]match.com[/URL], but even the girls on [URL]match.com[/URL] will ghost you if they find someone better so never pay an advance. Always go PPM. Then everyone is satisfied after you meet.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/61222098-9246-4ba2-a693-52d060779b50[/URL] -- hard to tell just how average the body is. Texted pics have little lighting / dark. But she sure does talk a good game. $300 PPM, multiple times a month ideally. Can host. Tatoos arent consistent in profile pics, but that might be becauyse some are older. Texted pics are consistent.
Had a couple of interesting convos with a mid 30's hottie. She showed me a few messages from several guys in the 30's, who basically were saying "Ill bang you well, you'll have the pleasure of experiencing my body" and nothing more.
[QUOTE=BobLobLa;5666088][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/61222098-9246-4ba2-a693-52d060779b50[/URL] -- hard to tell just how average the body is. Texted pics have little lighting / dark. But she sure does talk a good game. $300 PPM, multiple times a month ideally. Can host. Tatoos arent consistent in profile pics, but that might be becauyse some are older. Texted pics are consistent.[/QUOTE]She's been around a while. Has a reputation for being a flake. Search for Amberrvaxo or Amber to see previous posts about her. And ones posted by Kevin C.
[QUOTE=SBmidlo;5597342]Interesting post on the second one over on the NOVA board:
"Messaged this slag and she immediately was down to business. That's usually a red flag but I wanted to see where she was going. She wanted to meet the next day, in Fredericksburg not Richmond, and for $$$ film everything for her husband.
Hard pass but maybe that is someone else's fantasy.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8...e-b35c78154d9c[/URL]".[/QUOTE]She strung me along for a bit as well. Got to snap fairly quickly, I offered 300, she said sure she'll be over in an hour. Gets close to that time, and she says, "block me on SA, hubs got on my phone". Which, like, what phone is SHE snapping me from then? I ask if she's still on her way, she says yea, then ten minutes later I get "don't add anyone else on snap if they try", then a few minutes later I'm blocked. Either she legit got busted, or was never going to come anyway. Either way, no great loss, more money in my pocket for another day.
[QUOTE=BobLobLa;5666088][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/61222098-9246-4ba2-a693-52d060779b50[/URL] -- hard to tell just how average the body is. Texted pics have little lighting / dark. But she sure does talk a good game. $300 PPM, multiple times a month ideally. Can host. Tatoos arent consistent in profile pics, but that might be becauyse some are older. Texted pics are consistent.[/QUOTE]You said that you report girls who talk about PPM. Did you report her? I hope not, it's pretty rare to find somebody who will go as low as 300 anymore on SA.
[QUOTE=ShoreDog;5667036]You said that you report girls who talk about PPM. Did you report her? I hope not, it's pretty rare to find somebody who will go as low as 300 anymore on SA.[/QUOTE]Hmmm, perhaps things down south are a bit more expensive? I have never paid 300 ppm for a SB. So I would not say it's rare.
Oh wait! I did give a girl 300 for a meeting last week so she could get current on her rent, but we met this week for a freebie, since the agreed 'help' was 150. Oh and we nearly ran out of time (3 hrs) on the SS place and I got a couple of pops.
Then there was the single Mom who a reviewer met and dumped her because she complained that guys wanted to cum in her. Been dating her for months, 2 pop dates, CIP for the same level of help.
I think it all depends on what you are looking for? Good sex or sex with a trophy date? But hey, IF guys keep thinking 300 ppm is the floor and keep paying that, then it will become a self fulfilling prophecy. Seems like the OG types who have been around tend to pay less, while those new pay list or asking price. Solution is education into "how to. " just saying.
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[QUOTE=ShoreDog;5667036]You said that you report girls who talk about PPM. Did you report her? I hope not, it's pretty rare to find somebody who will go as low as 300 anymore on SA.[/QUOTE]Just happened to see this. My rule is never report any girl for any reason.
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[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;5667493]Just happened to see this. My rule is never report any girl for any reason.[/QUOTE]Listen to the Master / Professor! He knows of what he speaks! If memory serves, He's also the King of the $100 sugar date! (and he does it in no "cheap" market!)
[QUOTE=BobLobLa;5666088][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/61222098-9246-4ba2-a693-52d060779b50[/URL] -- hard to tell just how average the body is. Texted pics have little lighting / dark. But she sure does talk a good game. $300 PPM, multiple times a month ideally. Can host. Tatoos arent consistent in profile pics, but that might be becauyse some are older. Texted pics are consistent.[/QUOTE]She's been around for a couple years now. Real, BBFS everything at 3 or less sometimes. Use to see her but can be a pain scheduling, but she does host. If not under the influence, a good time.
[QUOTE=EasyeOne;5667767]She's been around for a couple years now. Real, BBFS everything at 3 or less sometimes. Use to see her but can be a pain scheduling, but she does host. If not under the influence, a good time.[/QUOTE]She offered to drive an hour to see me -- at $300 -- so she need some $. Hopefully she won't be under the influence while driving!