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[QUOTE=BeechNut79;5454858]I have had no luck lately in finding an escort who will take cash, especially one who will do so without an advance deposit.[/QUOTE]Where are you looking? Stick to providers that have been reviewed here and / or on TER, or agency girls. All the Chicago agencies take cash and don't require deposits.
[QUOTE=LuxiMudi;5455250]Where are you looking? Stick to providers that have been reviewed here and / or on TER, or agency girls. All the Chicago agencies take cash and don't require deposits.[/QUOTE]I've almost never seen reviewed girls and I've never paid a deposit nor would I. But it's been a hugely trending thing for girls to ask for them. I mostly use listcrawlers and on there the rule of thumb is they only ask for a deposit for outcalls, but I avoid pitfalls, and if I was to do an outcall, which I have before, it's not with one that's asking for deposits. The games rough all around. Good time for any man to retire from this shit.
It's been awhile but I've reported in the past about providers who ask for addresses and don't show up. I had this happen recently but it was brought to my attention by another monger that it may be more that meets the eye. I had a provider ask for my address. I always give out a nearby one just in case the unknown happens. I told her the city I was in which is small and at that point she should know if I'm too far. After agreeing on details she asks or the address and goes completely ghost. I get a text recently stating they are offering incalls. The point of caution is that I wouldn't see a provider for the first time if she's aware where I live. Could turn into a robbery while your gone (they know where you are if you're with the girl) or even a blackmail scheme. Just think, would you visit a provider if she demanded to know your address before meeting at her location?
[QUOTE=BeechNut79;5454299]But unless they really felt in danger for any reason it makes no sense for them not to show as they are losing money. And yet they complain about us being no shows. [/QUOTE]They could earn the full fee by showing up and providing the service, of course. But they can "earn" the deposit by doing nothing more than sending some texts. Depending on how you look at it, that's not exactly "losing money. ".
[QUOTE=BeechNut79;5454299]Would love to see some thoughts as to why nearly no escorts communicate by phone. If we could hear their voices we would know they are real and not fakes.[/QUOTE]Texting is easy. Easier to keep multiple conversations going at any given time, and more importantly, in darn near any situation. Sitting on the bus / train within earshot of a dozen people? Sitting on the stoop cause it's hot outside and the neighbour might walk by at any moment? Probably not going to answer (or return) that call, but no one gives a second glance to someone typing away on their phone.
[QUOTE=BeechNut79;5454858]This is something long overdue here. I have had no luck lately in finding an escort who will take cas, especially one who will do so without an advance deposit. I have urged everyone to boycott those who want deposits and / or gift cards. Who might be some of the ones who don't operate this way?[/QUOTE]I only do incalls. I've mainly used LC girls, I've had *one* ask for money up front to "hold" an appointment (I of course said no). I've never seen personally, or seen ads for, a girl that wouldn't take cash.
There was one that always wanted me (and everyone else) to send her a *picture* of the cash before she'd give her address.
[QUOTE=BeechNut79;5454858]This is something long overdue here. I have had no luck lately in finding an escort who will take cas, especially one who will do so without an advance deposit. I have urged everyone to boycott those who want deposits and / or gift cards. Who might be some of the ones who don't operate this way?[/QUOTE]Never heard of anyone who wouldn't take cash. Gift card is an indication of a scam.
I think there a lot more scams and fakes now than there were 5 years ago.
[QUOTE=BeechNut79;5454858]This is something long overdue here. I have had no luck lately in finding an escort who will take cas, especially one who will do so without an advance deposit. I have urged everyone to boycott those who want deposits and / or gift cards. Who might be some of the ones who don't operate this way?[/QUOTE]Until mongers stop paying deposits, providers will continue to get away with this scam. I never have paid a deposit and never will.
Right on again!!
[QUOTE=GiveMeLiberty;5460953]Until mongers stop paying deposits, providers wnnill continue to get away with this scam. I never have paid a deposit and never will.[/QUOTE]
On the website the ladies list their services, like DATY, BBBJ, Anal, etc. , who knows what porn star experience would mean? PM me if you like.
[QUOTE=DeepSubman;5496862]On the website the ladies list their services, like DATY, BBBJ, Anal, etc. , who knows what porn star experience would mean? PM me if you like.[/QUOTE]It usually means they act wild, moaning loudly and such, not kissing and acting nice and demur (that is GFE). Of course, that also varies by the girl, too. I would not put much store by it.
[QUOTE=HenryA77;5496945]It usually means they act wild, moaning loudly and such, not kissing and acting nice and demur (that is GFE). Of course, that also varies by the girl, too. I would not put much store by it.[/QUOTE]Thought maybe it meant bareback, anyone ever asked a provider what it meant?
[QUOTE=DeepSubman;5496862]On the website the ladies list their services, like DATY, BBBJ, Anal, etc. , who knows what porn star experience would mean? PM me if you like.[/QUOTE]Depends on the girl. For some it means anal, for some it means BBFS, for some it literally means more porn-like (I. E. Throatfucking / hair-pulling / etc.).
Either ask her or (ideally) see what her previous reviews say.
[QUOTE=LongDStyle;5459873]It's been awhile but I've reported in the past about providers who ask for addresses and don't show up. I had this happen recently but it was brought to my attention by another monger that it may be more that meets the eye. I had a provider ask for my address. I always give out a nearby one just in case the unknown happens. I told her the city I was in which is small and at that point she should know if I'm too far. After agreeing on details she asks or the address and goes completely ghost. I get a text recently stating they are offering incalls. The point of caution is that I wouldn't see a provider for the first time if she's aware where I live. Could turn into a robbery while your gone (they know where you are if you're with the girl) or even a blackmail scheme. Just think, would you visit a provider if she demanded to know your address before meeting at her location?[/QUOTE]You're saying providers out there are asking for your address when you're going to meet them? That doesn't make sense. Why even entertain that shit?
[QUOTE=DeepSubman;5496976]Thought maybe it meant bareback, anyone ever asked a provider what it meant?[/QUOTE]I was told it meant that they act like a porn star. I have found that still depends on the girl. What you doing over here Sub?
[QUOTE=DeepSubman;5496976]Thought maybe it meant bareback, anyone ever asked a provider what it meant?[/QUOTE]Sometimes it does, but not often. Most of the time it means nothing more than an attempt to drum up more interest, when it does mean something it's often acting like a porn star with all the dirty talk and sloppy BJs, sometimes (if there's an extra charge for it) it means Greek.
Bareback can take many forms. Sometimes PSE implies it, sometimes "fetish", sometimes "open minded", sometimes "ultra" or "ultimate" or "all natural", sometimes GFE+ and sometimes VIP. And sometimes they don't mention it at all in their ad.