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[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;3690898]Has anyone ever done a legitimate business transaction with a provider or former provider? Specifically I am talking about renting a house or an apartment to a former provider. I own a few rental properties and a former provider who I have kept in contact with for sometime wants to rent a house from me. I know previously she rented a house from a guy who she would see as a client for A discount in her rent. I don't think that is going to happen in this situation but curious as to what everyone's thoughts are. This girl has been out of the game for a couple of years. We kept in contact through social media because before she retired we became friends. Even since her retirement we hooked up a couple of times. I know she needs some help and I am able to help or just not for sure if it is a safe thing to do for either one of us.[/QUOTE]There way to many negatives for this to go sideways. I would treat this as any other renter and forget you know her and how. Run credit and employment checks (assuming you do that) and if if she meets your minimum requirements then rent to her if she don't then don't rent. Don't bend your rules.

It just doesn't seem prudent to have business dealings with these ladies (beyond the obvious, of course).

They are in a profession rife with mental instabilities, drug and alcohol addiction and possibly a slew of other unhealthy behaviors.

But, if your potential tenant has truly quit and has legitimized herself, then I would go ahead and subject her to same conditions as anyone else.

Good luck!

Barry.

[QUOTE=Docd62;3690970]There way to many negatives for this to go sideways. I would treat this as any other renter and forget you know her and how. Run credit and employment checks (assuming you do that) and if if she meets your minimum requirements then rent to her if she don't then don't rent. Don't bend your rules.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;3690898]Has anyone ever done a legitimate business transaction with a provider or former provider? Specifically I am talking about renting a house or an apartment to a former provider. I own a few rental properties and a former provider who I have kept in contact with for sometime wants to rent a house from me. I know previously she rented a house from a guy who she would see as a client for A discount in her rent. I don't think that is going to happen in this situation but curious as to what everyone's thoughts are. This girl has been out of the game for a couple of years. We kept in contact through social media because before she retired we became friends. Even since her retirement we hooked up a couple of times. I know she needs some help and I am able to help or just not for sure if it is a safe thing to do for either one of us.[/QUOTE]It will end up biting you on the ass. You will be open to sexual harassment charges of major proportions. It would be like this, "He said he would kick me and the kids out if I didn't suck his dick. " Hundreds of thousands of dollars are at risk as well as possible criminal charges. But it might be a great and wonderful experience for both of you. Only you can decide.

[QUOTE=Ralphisit;3691018]It will end up biting you on the ass. You will be open to sexual harassment charges of major proportions. It would be like this, "He said he would kick me and the kids out if I didn't suck his dick. " Hundreds of thousands of dollars are at risk as well as possible criminal charges. But it might be a great and wonderful experience for both of you. Only you can decide.[/QUOTE]Well put ralphisit. I see nothing but a big downside. DnC.

[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;3690898]Has anyone ever done a legitimate business transaction with a provider or former provider? Specifically I am talking about renting a house or an apartment to a former provider. I own a few rental properties and a former provider who I have kept in contact with for sometime wants to rent a house from me. I know previously she rented a house from a guy who she would see as a client for A discount in her rent. I don't think that is going to happen in this situation but curious as to what everyone's thoughts are. This girl has been out of the game for a couple of years. We kept in contact through social media because before she retired we became friends. Even since her retirement we hooked up a couple of times. I know she needs some help and I am able to help or just not for sure if it is a safe thing to do for either one of us.[/QUOTE]I have been involved in a fair number of forcible detainer actions, and my advice would be to make sure EVERYTHING is legit, above board, and included in a standard lease agreement. You do not want your ability to evict to be compromised by any other "negotiations" or consideration. And that does not even begin to scratch the surface of the problems you might face if any illegal activity takes place on property you own.

[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;3690898]Has anyone ever done a legitimate business transaction with a provider or former provider? Specifically I am talking about renting a house or an apartment to a former provider. I own a few rental properties and a former provider who I have kept in contact with for sometime wants to rent a house from me. I know previously she rented a house from a guy who she would see as a client for A discount in her rent. I don't think that is going to happen in this situation but curious as to what everyone's thoughts are. This girl has been out of the game for a couple of years. We kept in contact through social media because before she retired we became friends. Even since her retirement we hooked up a couple of times. I know she needs some help and I am able to help or just not for sure if it is a safe thing to do for either one of us.[/QUOTE]In my opinion this would most likely lead to unwanted complications in your business life, your personal life and probably conflicts in both.

[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;3690898]Has anyone ever done a legitimate business transaction with a provider or former provider? Specifically I am talking about renting a house or an apartment to a former provider. I own a few rental properties and a former provider who I have kept in contact with for sometime wants to rent a house from me. I know previously she rented a house from a guy who she would see as a client for A discount in her rent. I don't think that is going to happen in this situation but curious as to what everyone's thoughts are. This girl has been out of the game for a couple of years. We kept in contact through social media because before she retired we became friends. Even since her retirement we hooked up a couple of times. I know she needs some help and I am able to help or just not for sure if it is a safe thing to do for either one of us.[/QUOTE]In my experience, doing ANYTHING with a provider outside of the hobby is a recipe for disaster. BEST case scenario: you could find yourself ripped off. And then you'll have no recourse as your hobby will inevitably out itself if you pursue action. Worst case scenario: you could find yourself in complicity-based troubles depending on what this chick decides to do. Bottom line: if she provides for you, KEEP IT AT THAT.

[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;3690898]Has anyone ever done a legitimate business transaction with a provider or former provider? Specifically I am talking about renting a house or an apartment to a former provider. I own a few rental properties and a former provider who I have kept in contact with for sometime wants to rent a house from me. I know previously she rented a house from a guy who she would see as a client for A discount in her rent. I don't think that is going to happen in this situation but curious as to what everyone's thoughts are. This girl has been out of the game for a couple of years. We kept in contact through social media because before she retired we became friends. Even since her retirement we hooked up a couple of times. I know she needs some help and I am able to help or just not for sure if it is a safe thing to do for either one of us.[/QUOTE]What could possibly go wrong? LOL. It wouldn't be surprising to see her own the property if something were to go wrong. You can't go to the authorities with unclean hands to get justice.

It would make for a great episode of Judge Judy though

You never ever mix business with pleasure! Especially with prostitutes plain and simple mongers you need to think with common sense.

The point here is not to expose yourself to unnecessary complication and problems that others have mentioned in their responses to you. You have more to lose. Keep it simple and minimize your exposure.

[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;3690898]Has anyone ever done a legitimate business transaction with a provider or former provider? Specifically I am talking about renting a house or an apartment to a former provider. I own a few rental properties and a former provider who I have kept in contact with for sometime wants to rent a house from me. I know previously she rented a house from a guy who she would see as a client for A discount in her rent. I don't think that is going to happen in this situation but curious as to what everyone's thoughts are. This girl has been out of the game for a couple of years. We kept in contact through social media because before she retired we became friends. Even since her retirement we hooked up a couple of times. I know she needs some help and I am able to help or just not for sure if it is a safe thing to do for either one of us.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;3690898]Has anyone ever done a legitimate business transaction with a provider or former provider? Specifically I am talking about renting a house or an apartment to a former provider. I own a few rental properties and a former provider who I have kept in contact with for sometime wants to rent a house from me. I know previously she rented a house from a guy who she would see as a client for A discount in her rent. I don't think that is going to happen in this situation but curious as to what everyone's thoughts are. This girl has been out of the game for a couple of years. We kept in contact through social media because before she retired we became friends. Even since her retirement we hooked up a couple of times. I know she needs some help and I am able to help or just not for sure if it is a safe thing to do for either one of us.[/QUOTE]With all the stuff going on in the media, that is a for sure way to get a rape charge and to lose control of your life.

I actually think you went too far by being friends with a ex-working girl on social media to begin with.

[QUOTE=LukeDuke;3691204]What could possibly go wrong? LOL. It wouldn't be surprising to see her own the property if something were to go wrong. You can't go to the authorities with unclean hands to get justice.

It would make for a great episode of Judge Judy though[/QUOTE]LOL! Reminds me of a certain episode. Where a monger took Jessica to court. He won though. His name suffered a bit though. Still got that episode on my computer. I met the guy in person.

From StinkyNuts. In my experience, doing ANYTHING with a provider outside of the hobby is a recipe for disaster.

Could not agree more. Had a provider I had been seeing for a couple of years. She got a little behind the eight ball and her car was re-poed by the bank. To help her out, I bought her a good used car to get back her her feet. Next thing I know, she is on her way to florida, in the car I bought her, with her boy firend, never to be heard from again. From the Indiana Jones movie: 'I chose poorly'. DnC.

[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;3690898]Has anyone ever done a legitimate business transaction with a provider or former provider?
.[/QUOTE]By my count - 15 against, 01 neutral, 00 in favour. Even Yoda can figure this one out. DnC.

[QUOTE=DickensCider;3691908]By my count - 15 against, 01 neutral, 00 in favour. Even Yoda can figure this one out. DnC.[/QUOTE]Yeah I was really hoping whoever rented to her before was on here and would say best decision ever. I really should know better than that though. Thanks for all the input guys. Appreciate being reminded of reality.