Jewell88 Not worth the time
[QUOTE=FunNthaSun;3737243][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/2c297c2c-b7c8-4527-a1fb-b35418b10dfd[/URL]
Any info on this one. Did alil chatting online and offline and seems to be unsure about this whole SD / SB thing. Beats around the Bush alot so just wondered if anyone met with her yet.[/QUOTE]My schedule changed and I set up a meeting for her for tonight, (Saturday). At first she said she'd be free from 3 or 4 pm on for the rest of the night. Checked in with her and we decided to meet at 6 pm. A few minutes later she texts back and asks to move it back to 7:30 PM or 7:45 pm. She also mentioned that her phone was almost out of charge, and she was going to try and get a charger, and needed food, bill money. Ad nauseum. (VERY LENGTHY TEXTS). Knowing how these girls typically are, I figured the latter was the more accurate time. I texted her when I was about 10 minutes away with my ETA and then just before I'm supposed to pull in, she texts back that "She just got my text and she had just left to go with a GF who was going to loan her some money, and would be back in 20-25 minutes and would "make it up to me". I'm thinking WTF, why leave when you'd know I'd be there within minutes. I say OK and then go to kill some time.
After 30 minutes with no word I message her asking her status. At 8:30 PM she calls and we work out the details of our meet, etc. I hadn't ate all day and offered to buy her something to eat before we got to it. She wants me to come up to see her, because she was still getting ready. (Another inward groan, why the fuck wasn't she ready to go at 7:45 PM when that was the time she said she'd be ready by at the get go?
So at 8:45 PM I arrive and she looks like she's ready to me, but she has to finish her make up and will be ready in 15 minutes. My firsts impression is that she's on something. She seems completely discombobulated, and disorganized, and forgetful.
She goes into the bathroom and locks the door. She comes back out, with some pamplets from the hotel showing me "What to do in Jacksonville". Seriously? Then goes back into the bathroom. 15 minutes go by, and I'm told 5 more minutes. Then we get to the half hour point. I'm WTF ing in my mind and asking her if she's ready to go? "Yes just 5 more minutes I'm getting dressed". WTF? (I'm also starting to wonder if she's stalling because someone is coming back to the room or something?) Now at the 45 minute point that I've been sitting there. I'm asking her if she's ready. She's swearing up and down she'll be right out, and finally she does, grabs something to wear, and I tell her let's go, you're fine. She grabs some sandals and goes back into the bathroom and locks the door again! I'm seriously pissed at this point, having my time wasted, and because I'm hungry as hell. If I'd known this was going to be such a shit show, I'd have passed or at least ate before I got there, just fucked her and left.
Finally I tell her I'm going, and she's in the bathroom, telling me "I have to put my socks on and it takes time, I swear I'll be right out". For Christs sake she took a pair of silver sandals in there with her! I leave, one hour after getting to her room. Tried to get something going with a couple of my regulars. Two are out of town, and no response from the third. Complete Saturday night shot in the ass by some dumb, scatterbrained broad. Clearly a YMMV situation, but she isn't worth more than $100 IMO even though we settled on 2 bills. Big sigh. PASS. BLOCKED.
Learn to differentiate the pros from the amateurs.
[QUOTE=Traveler6940;3738454]1. So at 8:45 PM I arrive and she looks like she's ready to me, but she has to finish her make up and will be ready in 15 minutes. My firsts impression is that she's on something. She seems completely discombobulated, and disorganized, and forgetful.
2. She goes into the bathroom and locks the door. She comes back out, with some pamplets from the hotel showing me "What to do in Jacksonville". Seriously? Then goes back into the bathroom. 15 minutes go by, and I'm told 5 more minutes. Then we get to the half hour point. I'm WTF ing in my mind and asking her if she's ready to go? "Yes just 5 more minutes I'm getting dressed".
3. She grabs some sandals and goes back into the bathroom and locks the door again! I'm seriously pissed at this point, having my time wasted, and because I'm hungry as hell. If I'd known this was going to be such a shit show, I'd have passed or at least ate before I got there, just fucked her and left.
4. Finally I tell her I'm going, and she's in the bathroom, telling me "I have to put my socks on and it takes time, I swear I'll be right out". For Christs sake she took a pair of silver sandals in there with her! I leave, one hour after getting to her room.
5. Complete Saturday night shot in the ass by some dumb, scatterbrained broad. Clearly a YMMV situation, but she isn't worth more than $100 IMO even though we settled on 2 bills. Big sigh. PASS. BLOCKED.[/QUOTE]Again, I am sorry if my input may shatter some egos, but have identified several clues above. You guys should learn from this experience. These girls are straight up pros. The erratic behavior is clear to me, though others may disagree. She has some sort of substance problem.
Very sorry for your experience. I jumped into this threat because I had some time to kill, but it seems the same underlying themes are running through. When you focus on the girls who are BP pros, and this is their primary income source, you are going to have your time wasted. If you're OK with that, then no problem.
SA has a process for getting rid of these girls. You can file a complaint and report their profile. If you are worried about getting your profile deleted, you can modify the info a bit to protect yourselves, and feign innocence. I helped to get quite a few girls removed who were robbing, scamming, or doing stuff like this. Please fellas, for the sake of all of us, report these girls and become part of the process for getting them removed. Or, continue to have your time wasted, it's all up to you.
Best thread for leaning the nuances of SA and how to identify decent girls.
I might also suggest you browse on over to the Richmond Virginia SA thread. There are a lot of vets there, giving great advice. You will thank me if you want to put some time in and read back 20 pages or so. Good luck, gents.
I paid tuition for a reminder on what not to do. Thanks AceofHearts
[QUOTE=KDoogie;3732007]Sent a note via SA to this one, who responded almost immediately with digits. Anybody have any intel on her?
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b189c426-5fdd-4eba-99db-115788ba16db[/URL][/QUOTE]I'd messaged her 3 months ago, and we chatted then she went comms dark. Got a message from her at the start of last week and she gave me her digits. Arranged for a meet today and she said she needed money for her lupus meds. Well based on the reviews she seemed pretty reliable. I told her it was more than I usually paid but I'd hook her up this once, with the extra and then we'd adjourn to my place. I picked her up at her place out off of Knightbox and Old Jennings Rd and we went to St Vincents, chatting the whole way. Never got a bad vibe from her at all. She was intelligent, engaging and very funny. She went in got the meds, (presumbably) and I never saw her again. I feel like a total dumbass.
I've seen these types of Pics before. 99.99% sure its computer generated.
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