The cure if simple, but difficult.
[QUOTE=DeadRater;4630839]Basically the title. Don't know where to put this but thought general forum might help.
Just need help in regards to trying to make the experience with the girl more enjoyable and pleasurable. Currently have an issue where I can't shoot (get hard but can't goal) and I don't want to be that guy where I'm just pounding away (either soft or hard) and can't goal. I feel worse that I'm spending $$ with girls I want to enjoy the experience with and even more so that the girls feel like they aren't doing a fantastic job (which they absolutely are).
So I'm asking for either tips, advice or maybe even recommendations on things I can do to make the experience more enjoyable and less painful (for her = raw from too much pounding). Thanks in advance. Also, sorry if this isn't in the right forum if the post get's taken down.[/QUOTE]The solution is so simple. YOu already know the answer. Like dieting and exercise — it's just hard to practice.
Stop masterbating!
Stop for at least a week or two before you see the provider. Also, stop watching porn. GOOGLE the mental and physical health issues.
Since I stopped masturbating, I can fk anything. Of course, like everyone, I love the young skinny girls. But they are impossible to find on this island now that SanHo has closed. But my dick is less picky and I am able to screw fatter, older, milfs and perform better than ever before.
Try it! What have you got to lose? Also, eat clean. Floss your teeth. Stop drinking. Start lifting weights using big muscles. Dead lifts, squats, bench and pull-ups. And join an MMA / boxing / Jiujitsu gym. Manly activities will actually make you perform better! LOL.
Circumcision effecting your ejaculation
I saw this documentary of men who were circumcised and have hard time ejaculating. The forskin has plenty of nerve endings and when you get circumcised it makes it harder to cum because you cut them off and have less feeling. So they used a penis tool to stretch the skin so it has more slack. This allows sex to be more comfortable and not have a tug tight feeling when you are stroking. All the other advice is good also like not watching porn and working out and eating right.
Thank you very much for the help.
Sorry for the delayed response. This past weekend was quite busy and I would like to thank everyone for answering.
[QUOTE=DeepState;4633236]The solution is so simple. YOu already know the answer. Like dieting and exercise it's just hard to practice.
Stop masterbating!
Stop for at least a week or two before you see the provider. Also, stop watching porn. GOOGLE the mental and physical health issues.
Since I stopped masturbating, I can fk anything. Of course, like everyone, I love the young skinny girls. But they are impossible to find on this island now that SanHo has closed. But my dick is less picky and I am able to screw fatter, older, milfs and perform better than ever before.
Try it! What have you got to lose? Also, eat clean. Floss your teeth. Stop drinking. Start lifting weights using big muscles. Dead lifts, squats, bench and pull-ups. And join an MMA / boxing / Jiujitsu gym. Manly activities will actually make you perform better! LOL.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=InThe808;4635917]This brother couldn't be more right. Eat healthy workout stop the porn. They did study's that prove watching porn hurt you Ability to interact with other humans such as whole conversations be a part of society in groups. Start working out you'll be amazed how good you perform in bed I have been. Last longer go better watch her smile each time when her legs start shaking you know you did it eight and all that eating healthy and working out pays off.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the tip. I'll probably start exercising though stop watching porn is going to be hard. Didn't think watching porn will hurt my ability to interact with other's that badly. Already eating clean (somewhat); didn't think of doing MMA / Boxing / Jiujisu classes so I'll consider it when my schedule is more stabilized.
[QUOTE=CosmicKid;4633863]I'd like to suggest a book. The title is, Sexual Healing. You might find some helpful ideas. Lot of good stuff in there.
I'm curious, if you don't mind my asking. Have you had this problem the whole time or is it only recently that it's become an issue for you?[/QUOTE]Thanks for suggesting the book. I'll take a look once I can find it. Also yes, this has been a problem the whole time; I thought I had endurance like a champ but as I later found out that it's not normal as I thought. So that made me try do research on it but the answer I came with is either insensitivity, too much self control, a mental problem and being frigid. So I wanted to consult with other on other possible solutions or advice that could be better.
[QUOTE=Lknfrpssy;4636206]Eat foods with lots if zinc and magnesium. Oysters are the winner, high zinc and d-aspartic acid.[/QUOTE]Probably will have to use supplements for those since I'm unable to eat most seafood. If you don't mind me asking what does those type of nutrients do that helps the body?
[QUOTE=WSmith69;4636624]I saw this documentary of men who were circumcised and have hard time ejaculating. The forskin has plenty of nerve endings and when you get circumcised it makes it harder to cum because you cut them off and have less feeling. So they used a penis tool to stretch the skin so it has more slack. This allows sex to be more comfortable and not have a tug tight feeling when you are stroking. All the other advice is good also like not watching porn and working out and eating right.[/QUOTE]So basically get a tool to extend my penis? Also, that is interesting to discover about the circumcised penis. I didn't know that was a possibility at all.