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I get down to Memphis often on business -- great town and some lovely ladies. As for your question: Just thinking about her children is enough to cause an ED problem that an over sized dose of Viagra would not cure. Her ad is just wrong, wrong wrong. OK, so I am going to book an appointment with her, stop at Walmart along the way to pick up a box of baby wipes? Ummmmm... let me think.. No! Does not work for me. And imagine showing up at her place to find her bed surrounded by toys? And more boxes of baby wipes, courtesy of her last paying visitor! Y-U-K.

[QUOTE=Macie]What do you guys think about asp's that include their children in this business?

Just curious!

[url]http://memphis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/giving-massages-is-my-passion-100-attention-on-you-non-rushed-please-help-me-27/1653141[/url][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Boston Ampfan]I get down to Memphis often on business -- great town and some lovely ladies. As for your question: Just thinking about her children is enough to cause an ED problem that an over sized dose of Viagra would not cure. Her ad is just wrong, wrong wrong. OK, so I am going to book an appointment with her, stop at Walmart along the way to pick up a box of baby wipes? Ummmmm... let me think.. No! Does not work for me. And imagine showing up at her place to find her bed surrounded by toys? And more boxes of baby wipes, courtesy of her last paying visitor! Y-U-K.[/QUOTE]That has me rotflmao.

Some escorts use baby wipes to clean you up. It's better than a nasty "hot towel" cause you never know how many times that towel has been used already...

[QUOTE=Tomatommm]Some escorts use baby wipes to clean you up. It's better than a nasty "hot towel" cause you never know how many times that towel has been used already...[/QUOTE]Thats so wrong. I didn't think of that ewwwwwh. Wow anyone who knows me knows I use Baby wipes. For the simple fact I wouldn't want a bunch of dirty towels around. So thats what they do.

[QUOTE=SweetSarah]Forgive me ignorance ya'll.[/QUOTE]Adult Service Provider. Mam, your not ignorant, but you are Beautiful.

[QUOTE=Tomatommm]Some escorts use baby wipes to clean you up. It's better than a nasty "hot towel" cause you never know how many times that towel has been used already...[/QUOTE]

How many guys does the average escort fuck in a day? Anybody know or want to answer? Any ladies who want to answer would be nice.

What is the definition of Average Escort?
[QUOTE=Wyldhorses]How many guys does the average escort fuck in a day? Anybody know or want to answer? Any ladies who want to answer would be nice.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Tomatommm]Some escorts use baby wipes to clean you up. It's better than a nasty "hot towel" cause you never know how many times that towel has been used already...[/QUOTE]I am a huge fan of the unscented baby wipes for a million reasons that don't even include intimate visits. My friends know that they have choices when cumming at my place. They can always use my shower. I always have fresh clean towels and am constantly doing my laundry. I am usually coming straight out of the shower myself with no make up and never any perfume so it's not like my friends smell like a girl after spending time with me. Most opt for a fresh clean towel/washcloth or a hop in the shower. Sometimes the fun just happens in the shower and that makes clean up a breeze! As far as how many guys an "average" escort sees in a day, I can only answer for myself and have always had a strict rule of only one a day and usually more like only 3 or 4 a month. I don't consider myself an average provider though and I know I do thing totally different than most. Real work has been keeping me crazy busy lately so my little hobby has fallen to the wayside to the dismay of my hyper sex drive! Hugs and kisses to my friends that keep in touch.

SM

[QUOTE=Sonoman6611]What is the definition of Average Escort?[/QUOTE]Perhaps we should ask.

1) What is the average on a day of average demand?

2) What is the average on a day when there is more demand than supply for that average escort on that day? In other words, what is the most she would do in one day when the requests are more than she can handle?

[QUOTE=Wyldhorses]How many guys does the average escort fuck in a day? Anybody know or want to answer? Any ladies who want to answer would be nice.[/QUOTE]I don't know about average escorts, because I only visit extraordinary escorts.

[QUOTE=Wyldhorses]How many guys does the average escort fuck in a day? Anybody know or want to answer? Any ladies who want to answer would be nice.[/QUOTE]It varies any where from 0-6 guy's a day.

[QUOTE=G Dawg II]I don't know about average escorts, because I only visit extraordinary escorts.[/QUOTE]

Damn, I wish I had thought of that line. :D LMAO.

Looking at BP today for fun. It is truly amazing the number of different names, photos (several I can ID as stolen from other girls), descriptions and prices you can find when you search the number in this ad. It is pretty much a guarantee that whoever answers the door for this ad is not going to be who is pictured. I suggest you beware.

[url]http://memphis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/sexy-fox-here-from-st-louis-unrushed-total-g-f-e-sexy-smile-eyes-body-the-whole-pack-22/1708593[/url]

[QUOTE=Macie]An Escorts daily dreams.

ABOVE AVERAGE. 2-3max dreams every other day. She's picky, hot and has a life of her own(sometimes a batch BUT always a pretty batch) and her price rage may be above most because she knows she hot!

AVERAGE. 4-7 dreams a day shes friendly and talks alot to help her lack of looks (body, brains or face) she also has specials regularly to compete w/the above average escort. Loves regular company

BELOW AVERAGE. 7 dreams a day or more. Be it a drug problem, pimp or the rate is in every ones reach and if times get hard shes an instant SW!

Just my thought![/QUOTE]Really.... Thats a very interesting point of view.

[QUOTE=Macie]O. K. Guys,

What gives with the "beware" sign posted on my head! Rumors need to be put to rest. I would really feel better if someone toftt on this board and checked me out! I've seen a couple of guys that get on this board regularly and trust some of the hobbiest here, however they don't leave reviews! Whats up are you guys afraid of my donation, quality counts for something. Doesn't it?[/QUOTE]If you are wanting someone to toftt with a new lady you should make your donation just as competitive as the reviewed ladies or maybe less just to get your foot in the door. Once hobbiest see the quality you say you have then you could go back to the donation that you set and feel comfortable with. Then again its just IMHO of course. Just replying to the topic at hand.

[QUOTE=Cat Daddy #2]If you are wanting someone to toftt with a new lady you should make your donation just as competitive as the reviewed ladies or maybe less just to get your foot in the door. Once hobbiest see the quality you say you have then you could go back to the donation that you set and feel comfortable with. Then again its just IMHO of course. Just replying to the topic at hand.[/QUOTE]I haven't seen your rate, but if it's 2.0 or more, then you might consdier running some specials to get your name out there. Only doing outcall may not help either. Personally, I won't do a room in my name, ever, and I don't have a fake ID. There have been a few providers I have passed on for this very reason. Not to mention that I'm paying their rate and then paying another $50+ hotel cost for a room I only need for an hour. I'm sure not everyone looks at it that way, but I know at least a few do.

My opinion is worth exactly what you paid for it...

Ret

[QUOTE=Macie]O. K. Guys,

What gives with the "beware" sign posted on my head! Rumors need to be put to rest. I would really feel better if someone toftt on this board and checked me out! I've seen a couple of guys that get on this board regularly and trust some of the hobbiest here, however they don't leave reviews! Whats up are you guys afraid of my donation, quality counts for something. Doesn't it?[/QUOTE]It's your attitude. You seem to come across like you think you are better than everyone else. Plus, your insulting one of the most well liked providers in Memphis, didn't help you either. Lose the "I am the finest lady in Memphis" attitude and maybe you will do better.

[QUOTE=Cat Daddy #2]If you are wanting someone to toftt with a new lady you should make your donation just as competitive as the reviewed ladies or maybe less just to get your foot in the door. Once hobbiest see the quality you say you have then you could go back to the donation that you set and feel comfortable with. Then again its just IMHO of course. Just replying to the topic at hand.[/QUOTE]Well put CD, as always.

[QUOTE=Macie]Hello Sarah,
.....If there is a hump that is stoppping us from being friends let me know, I have an open mind and have no fear in making corrections where I have messed up.[/QUOTE]


I think it could possibly be the big one between your shoulders. I don't think most of the forum likes it (especially other providers) when people barge in here all opinionated and talking bad about other people even in just a general sense. I've seen it before. Nothing wrong with having an opinion but sometimes opinions can offend people and you may have done that. Show a little humility and I am sure you will be more welcome here.

[QUOTE=Macie]Hello Sarah,

I do not believe we have met before, Please understand I DO NOT think I am better than anyone, Infact I am very humble and down to earth, Spite what the typical stereotype of the average provider may be, Let me assure you ,I am not. I just come from a different place and have hopes that some gentlemen here would like to experience abit of me and where I come from and hold it to the same highest regards that I do. I just dont agree with some of the local class acts that are advertising,wich IM sure as a woman you can agree also, such as pregnant providers,or those using thier own personal issues like "childrens needs" as a catch phrase,asps working to support immoral or indecent habits of many kinds, or any woman bringing down another womans business out of fear or ignorance for the unknown. I welcome all personalities as strong as mine, I am confident well educated and sincere in all of my endevours, I do not always make the wisest decisions but those I do make are smart ones. If there is a hump that is stoppping us from being friends let me know, I have an open mind and have no fear in making corrections where I have messed up.[/QUOTE]I am sure every provider has her own reasons about why she is in this line of work. I don't really worry about that, I am referring to the way you "seem to come across" . You asked an opinion and I gave one.

[QUOTE=SweetSarah]It's your attitude. You seem to come across like you think you are better than everyone else. Plus, your insulting one of the most well liked providers in Memphis, didn't help you either. Lose the "I am the finest lady in Memphis" attitude and maybe you will do better.[/QUOTE]Sarah, sweetheart. That's what we've been trying to tell her since all this started. And she still doesn't get it.

You say below "...I DO NOT think I am better than anyone" yet contradict this statement with the following:

"I just don't agree with ...pregnant providers".
How can you find prostitution acceptable but the potential, NATURAL result of prostitution, meaning pregnancy, unacceptable? It makes no sense.

"...using thier own personal issues like 'childrens needs' as a catch phrase".
Some would infer you're saying children themselves must be immoral, especially when considering your outlook on pregnant providers. I'd rather know my money "may" actually be helping to support a kid as opposed to a crack habit. And besides, who doesn't use their money for "personal issues"? In fact, you spouting your moral restrictions are way more "personal" than "childrens needs".

For a profession that's considered immoral by the majority of people, it's comical you have so many moral restrictions within an "immoral" profession.

Since the majority of men pay FOR SEX in this profession and NOT to hear a provider's moral beliefs, it's also comical you'd voluntarily spout these beliefs knowing you can only lose potential customers, myself being one, not gain any.

What's next in your business plan of how to lose potential customers?

[QUOTE=Macie]Hello Sarah,

I do not believe we have met before, Please understand I DO NOT think I am better than anyone, Infact I am very humble and down to earth, Spite what the typical stereotype of the average provider may be, Let me assure you ,I am not. I just come from a different place and have hopes that some gentlemen here would like to experience abit of me and where I come from and hold it to the same highest regards that I do. I just dont agree with some of the local class acts that are advertising,wich IM sure as a woman you can agree also, such as pregnant providers,or those using thier own personal issues like "childrens needs" as a catch phrase,asps working to support immoral or indecent habits of many kinds, or any woman bringing down another womans business out of fear or ignorance for the unknown. I welcome all personalities as strong as mine, I am confident well educated and sincere in all of my endevours, I do not always make the wisest decisions but those I do make are smart ones. If there is a hump that is stoppping us from being friends let me know, I have an open mind and have no fear in making corrections where I have messed up.[/QUOTE]

This may or may not have anything to do with anything on this board. I'm just sharing some wisdom that stretches back to the earliest days of the Interwebs. The advice is this: please don't feed the trolls.

The idea is that unhelpful discussions will die out on their own if they are not "fed" or fueled by further discussion.

So, here's a new thing to talk about:

What do y'all think of those ads on BP with slide shows and music?

Examples:

[url]http://memphis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/simply-the-best/1709416[/url]
[url]http://memphis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/relax-sooth-enjoy/1708849[/url]

Personally, I'd rather just have the photos because I hate waiting for the slide show to load. And sometimes my taste in music is not the same as that of the ASP. On the other hand, that lets you know something extra about the ASP, so maybe that's good?

Discuss.

[QUOTE=Cat Daddy #2]If you are wanting someone to toftt with a new lady you should make your donation just as competitive as the reviewed ladies or maybe less just to get your foot in the door. Once hobbiest see the quality you say you have then you could go back to the donation that you set and feel comfortable with. Then again its just IMHO of course. Just replying to the topic at hand.[/QUOTE]

CD2's right . . . there's nothing wrong with having an "advertised" donation that's higher than the going rate, but unless folks KNOW that you provide better than the usual fare, no one's going to give that amount. Knowledge of the quality of your services will only come from reviews, and the problem is, no one's going to make the jump and TOFTT at a donation rate that's significantly higher than the average rate in this town (which I would pin at somewhere between $1.8 - $2 -- again, that's just an average). The risk is too high to justify any reward.

Many well-respected providers have high 'published' rates but run specials to allow folks access to them. One of my ATF providers generally asked $4 but agreed to see me the first time for a reduced donation. We ultimately saw each other several times at a rate that was less than her usual advertised donation but more than I paid the first time. She always understood that she got more donation from me over the long haul by reducing her rate than by sticking to her higher rate (and therefore preventing me from ever seeing her).

This is of course up to the individual provider. But the economic truth is you'll almost always get more business with competitive pricing than you will with 'marketing.'

[QUOTE=Memdal5]I don't like them. They make loading on portable devices slower. At times they also mean you are suddenly blasted with music from a speaker you forgot to mute when you are wasting time during a boring meeting at the office.[/QUOTE]
Why is her feet dirty? Just makes me wonder "what else is dirty?" I know whoever took the pics saw that but just didn't care.

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[QUOTE=Snoop Deville]Why is her feet dirty? Just makes me wonder "what else is dirty?" I know whoever took the pics saw that but just didn't care.

[url]http://memphis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/classifieds/EnlargeImage?oid=1711834&image=1711832[/url][/QUOTE]I bet it's the hotel floor!

I don't get how guys feel you are upselling them- I feel if you ask for something extra you need to pay for the extra. Now correct me if I'm wrong, but if you want to put something on my face or allow me to catch something with my mouth? You don't feel like I've earned that xtra for doing that and loving every minute of it? I feel some guys use this word as a way of saying they are cheap and want you to go the extra mile for them but they want to halt their wallets. Is it me?

Feedback please!

[QUOTE=Hotfoxxx]I don't get how guys feel you are upselling them- I feel if you ask for something extra you need to pay for the extra. Now correct me if I'm wrong, but if you want to put something on my face or allow me to catch something with my mouth? You don't feel like I've earned that xtra for doing that and loving every minute of it? I feel some guys use this word as a way of saying they are cheap and want you to go the extra mile for them but they want to halt their wallets. Is it me?

Feedback please![/QUOTE]Baby ain"t nothing ever wrong with your service. Just keep doing what you do and I will always be content with you.

No offense but being a provider for many years the number one rule is for working girls with children NEVER work out of the same place your children live at!!!! It does not matter if they are not there when your working its still stupid and reckless. It's dangerous to work out of your residence even without kids and plus if god forbid something does happen your problems will be enhanced. I'm not judging you in anyway consider this advice from a veteran provider who is not even in your state working. I've been quietly reading whats been going on and I just cannot just sit back and not say anything. Not every guy you meet is going to be a nice guy trust me some will come and see you just because you mentioned your children " thats not in a good way" You seem like a really nice person but just think about it ok? Its cool to love your children and too share you and your childrens lives in "private" with the right guys you meet while working not posting it in your ad for all too see good and bad. You show your face on your ads as well come on girl! Teachers daycare providers etc etc have access to these sites as well. Its just not a good idea too put children in a adult escort ad period. I hope you do not take this the wrong way just think about what I've said take it for what its worth. good luck to you and yours and be safe.

I have personally had this girl set appointments with me twice and then not answer her phone after the appointment was set.

[quote]I am Valerie. Christy is my real name and some of my friends know me as Christy and some know me as Valerie. I've posted the name Christy on backpage a few times this past week so that my friends that know me as Christy when I was a blonde will be able to find me. I am not the "valerie" that some have posted about standing people up though.[/quote]

[QUOTE=Hotfoxxx]I don't get how guys feel you are upselling them- I feel if you ask for something extra you need to pay for the extra. Now correct me if I'm wrong, but if you want to put something on my face or allow me to catch something with my mouth? You don't feel like I've earned that xtra for doing that and loving every minute of it? I feel some guys use this word as a way of saying they are cheap and want you to go the extra mile for them but they want to halt their wallets. Is it me?

Feedback please![/QUOTE]It all depends on how you advertise. Generally if the provider says something like "extra donation for fetishes" that suggests to guys that there are some limitations on what your rate covers (and that there are services that the provider is willing to do for an additional cost).

But if the provider advertises a "GFE" or "I do it all" or something like that without mentioning an additional donation, then I take it to mean that one rate covers everything that the provider is willing to do.

Thank you for responding. I appreciate the advice and I think I will change my ad around some because you put up very valid points. The reason for making the ad the way I did was simply because I realize I'm not the most beautiful girl on the site. I just thought peep would like to know that the money is going to help me pay bills and provide a life for us and not going to be given to a "manager". And I realize that not every client cares where the money goes, as long as they have a nice time with the lady. I wasn't trying to step on anyone's toes or put my kids out to the world. Maybe I'm just being to honest with my ad. I've been in the business for awhile, I'm not a newbie, but not quite a veteran. I've thought about "others" seeing my ad and it alerting them, but I just assumed as long as I didn't do anything wrong then I wouldn't have any problems. Maybe that's just me living in a dream world. I will seriously think about a different way to advertise.

[QUOTE=Cat Daddy #2]Baby ain"t nothing ever wrong with your service. Just keep doing what you do and I will always be content with you.[/QUOTE]Roger That!

Guys she has an ad on the escort ad forum. I saw her up in New York a while back and had a great time! I tried to talk her into coming down our way and now it looks like she is. She has been in the business a little while and has plently of reviews. She just hasn't been on this site long. Go to her web page and also some of the other sites and you can find more about her and some great reviews. Let's make her first trip to Memphis worth it. If you get a chance to see her I think you will want to repeat like me. Now if I can get her to make Memphis a regular stop!

P.S. Senior members PM me if you need more info on her or her reviews.

TGTBT, I know, but does anyone have any info on her? Here are the pix and text from the add:

[quote]Looking for the Perfect Playdate? I guarantee you, I'M YOUR GIRL! I'm the Bachelor's Best Friend & the Married Man's Best Kept Secret! Real Pics, Real Discreet, Real Fun! I prefer the companionship of a generous, respectful, successful gentleman who appreciates a young lady like myself. Call me, you won't regret it.. I'll show you an amazing time. Always Pretty- Vanessa**** 5'2 110 lbs Petite exotic figure and a pretty little face you will never forget! **** •♥•2-3-9-5-8-8-0-3-9-1 •♥•-Incalls available **** Outcalls all night ♥ NO REGRETS

East Memphis / Airport / Business District / Germantown / Collierville / Tunica / Incall / Outcall / Downtown / West Memphis
Poster's age: 19[/quote]

[QUOTE=Rebelest]TGTBT, I know, but does anyone have any info on her? Here are the pix and text from the add:[/QUOTE]

Shes for real. Attractive body, face not too bad. She said I looked familiar but at first I didn't have any memories of her, but then I had her tramp stamp spread between my hands and then I knew that I've stared at that tattoo before in the past.

MC, thanks for your post....Sarah is the most reliable, honest girl here. Love the pic! LOL

[url]http://memphis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/perfect-10-gentlemans-delight/1725796[/url]

Any one TOFTT?

She has been advertising for the past 2 weeks and no reports......

S/U

[QUOTE=StraightUp][url]http://memphis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/perfect-10-gentlemans-delight/1725796[/url]

Any one TOFTT?

She has been advertising for the past 2 weeks and no reports......

S/U[/QUOTE]Yes I took "one" and I am still hitting myself for not just walking away. Pics are very real and the girl in the pics is gorgeous. I would love to meet that gal someday. Instead I got someone else. Girl was nice and everything but no resemblance in anyway to girl in pic. I have been duped by this service before. Same nasally voiced girl answers, sounds kind of hot, but this is not the girl you will see. Next time if girl does not match pics I am walking away. Let me rephrase that, if the girl is not hotter or as hot as one in pics, I am walking away.

[QUOTE=Nickjohn]This ain't my business or my argument but I didn't know I was suppose to get a receipt. I didn't know hoes gave refunds. Next time I have a dream I'll demand a receipt.[/QUOTE]Yeah that way you can clain it on your taxes.