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The regulars Amy and Sandy have been out pretty regular at and around the S. Wilmington bus stop. Picked up Niki there the other day. Tall red head, about 40/45. Went to her room in an economical motel and she wanted $40 for flute lesson uncovered. Started OK but ended with hand only. Would not repeat. Wanted a ride to Walmart after.
I decided to ride through the Briggs area around 5pm on Sunday. I have been out of circulation for awhile and really thought that I would simply ride through, check out the scene and be on my way. I saw three WSWs on Briggs. They all gave me the look as I rode by several times. Finally one approached my car when I stopped at the light on Gardner. I had never seen her before and I asked her if she needed a ride. I had simply hoped to get some digits and call her at a later time. She introduced herself as Kira. After riding for a few minutes she told me that she would do a CBJ followed by FS for a Jackson. I couldn't believe what I was hearing since her face was about a seven and her body appeared to be a six under the loose gym suit she wore. I took her to the house of a gentleman I know who rent rooms for $10 per pop. She took off all of her clothes and I discovered that the body I originally thought was a six was actually somewhere between an eight or nine! Her skin very smooth and blemish free. He breasts were a firm B. The CBJ left a lot to be desired. She will never be mistaken for a Hoover. I tagged her doggy-style for FS and she was tight. She had no digits but wanted mine after I tipped her ten. I would never pick her up if I only wanted a great BJ but she is highly recommended for FS. Heck, just looking at that beautiful body is worth a Jackson.
[QUOTE=Triangleman;1583477]I decided to ride through the Briggs area around 5pm on Sunday. I have been out of circulation for awhile and really thought that I would simply ride through, check out the scene and be on my way. I saw three WSWs on Briggs. They all gave me the look as I rode by several times. Finally one approached my car when I stopped at the light on Gardner. I had never seen her before and I asked her if she needed a ride. I had simply hoped to get some digits and call her at a later time. She introduced herself as Kira. After riding for a few minutes she told me that she would do a CBJ followed by FS for a Jackson. I couldn't believe what I was hearing since her face was about a seven and her body appeared to be a six under the loose gym suit she wore. I took her to the house of a gentleman I know who rent rooms for $10 per pop. She took off all of her clothes and I discovered that the body I originally thought was a six was actually somewhere between an eight or nine! Her skin very smooth and blemish free. He breasts were a firm B. The CBJ left a lot to be desired. She will never be mistaken for a Hoover. I tagged her doggy-style for FS and she was tight. She had no digits but wanted mine after I tipped her ten. I would never pick her up if I only wanted a great BJ but she is highly recommended for FS. Heck, just looking at that beautiful body is worth a Jackson.[/QUOTE]Congratulations on finding your Pot of Gold. I would guess most of the time, it is the other way around! Kinda like winning the lottery.
I was on my way to work Wed early morning and lo and behold, a cute little blond walking close to the mission. She says she is trying to make rent at a rooming house on Bragg. Sadie is her name. Best covered car date in a very long time. Two jacks and good to go. Says she is in her thirties and usually is on back page. Her link is below. I got the digits but I am not on this site all that often due to home surveillance if you know what I mean. But I will check in once in awhile. Her home rates sounded a little high but she may be worth a toss. Ad says she is 26, she is in her thirties though, I would bet on it. Usually there is no one out this time of day. Only three times have I seen someone working that stroll.
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Who has a few reports on this board. I know I've written a couple over the years. Her service can be good, but I pass her by now as I don't think her attitude is very friendly. She's a tad mercenary for my tastes. YMMV.
I have been out and about in the zones and found nothing. I got Shannon's number for a last minute resource, but its a hit and miss with her. When she is half way clean off the rock she gives great BBBJ, when she is too much on it she is not there at all. Is anybody else having luck out there.
Had a dream I Was in the area today and noticed a WSW sitting at the bus stop. In my dream I drve by an hour later she was still siting there. She had on blue jeans, white top, blonde hair, chubby. She was sitting with another man also. Black male dreads. Guess the "rght bus" didn't pick them up. Noticed they parted ways a few mins. Later. Any info on helping decipher my dream. Its killing me!
This probably should be posted elsewhere but I've just narrowly avoided being emasculated by a technology trap. If you have an iPhone and you upgrade to OSx 6 be aware that three problems must be circumvented:
1. If you activate the Cloud and you have more than one device registered to the same email address, it is possible that all of your contacts will be automatically sent to your partner's iPhone Contacts folder. I did and it wasn't pleasant.
2. If you have a shared situation as noted above the upgrade process will ask if you want your messages (text) to go to all your devices. The default is YES. Don't take the default. Otherwise an arrangement for a dream might turn into a nightmare.
3. If you receive text messages directed to your email address instead of your cell phone number they will go to all devices registered under that email address.
Just a word to the wise. Or maybe it's best to go out and buy a burner phone.
[QUOTE=Flockshepherd;1592229]Or maybe it's best to go out and buy a burner phone.[/QUOTE]This. Burner phones are cheap insurance. Highly recommended for the hobbyist.
Any dreamers dreamof a WSW in the area today. Blonde, chubby, jeans, jacket, white shirt? Itting waiting on bus.
[QUOTE=Flockshepherd; 1592229]This probably should be posted elsewhere but I've just narrowly avoided being emasculated by a technology trap. If you have an iPhone and you upgrade to OSx 6 be aware that three problems must be circumvented:
1. If you activate the Cloud and you have more than one device registered to the same email address, it is possible that all of your contacts will be automatically sent to your partner's iPhone Contacts folder. I did and it wasn't pleasant.
2. If you have a shared situation as noted above the upgrade process will ask if you want your messages (text) to go to all your devices. The default is YES. Don't take the default. Otherwise an arrangement for a dream might turn into a nightmare.
3. If you receive text messages directed to your email address instead of your cell phone number they will go to all devices registered under that email address.
Just a word to the wise. Or maybe it's best to go out and buy a burner phone.[/QUOTE]Burner phone FTW.
[QUOTE=Flockshepherd; 1592229]This probably should be posted elsewhere but I've just narrowly avoided being emasculated by a technology trap. If you have an iPhone and you upgrade to OSx 6 be aware that three problems must be circumvented:
1. If you activate the Cloud and you have more than one device registered to the same email address, it is possible that all of your contacts will be automatically sent to your partner's iPhone Contacts folder. I did and it wasn't pleasant.
2. If you have a shared situation as noted above the upgrade process will ask if you want your messages (text) to go to all your devices. The default is YES. Don't take the default. Otherwise an arrangement for a dream might turn into a nightmare.
3. If you receive text messages directed to your email address instead of your cell phone number they will go to all devices registered under that email address.
Just a word to the wise. Or maybe it's best to go out and buy a burner phone.[/QUOTE]This is great advice. Yes, a burner phone is best but I created a yahoo account and only access it using my browser and NOT using it as an actual mail account on the phone. Makes sending pictures difficult but I can private browse or wipe the history clean easily.
[QUOTE=Flockshepherd; 1592229]This probably should be posted elsewhere but I've just narrowly avoided being emasculated by a technology trap. If you have an iPhone and you upgrade to OSx 6 be aware that three problems must be circumvented:
1. If you activate the Cloud and you have more than one device registered to the same email address, it is possible that all of your contacts will be automatically sent to your partner's iPhone Contacts folder. I did and it wasn't pleasant.
2. If you have a shared situation as noted above the upgrade process will ask if you want your messages (text) to go to all your devices. The default is YES. Don't take the default. Otherwise an arrangement for a dream might turn into a nightmare.
3. If you receive text messages directed to your email address instead of your cell phone number they will go to all devices registered under that email address.
Just a word to the wise. Or maybe it's best to go out and buy a burner phone.[/QUOTE]Also, location services can track your location. Find my iPhone will show exactly where an iPhone / iPad is, I know someone that tracked their wife right into a hotel with another man so it catches both ways.
It's been my experience that any evidence anywhere will lead to discovery. Best thing is to not leave anything written. If you are being tracked, turn it off.
Hobbying is fun but if you're in a relationship, best thing is to be invisible and off the grid as possible.
[QUOTE=Lookin Good;1592249]This. Burner phones are cheap insurance. Highly recommended for the hobbyist.[/QUOTE]There's an iPhone app called Burner that lets you create temporary phone numbers that you can use through your iPhone. Your iPhone's call log is unaffected, and your phone number is not exposed. You can control whether or not calls / texts to your temporary number bridge back to your iPhone.
For the very occasional hobbyist, it might be an option:
[url]https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/burner-disposable-phone-numbers/id505800761?mt=8[/url]
I hope I am posting this in the right place. I am new to the site and new to the hobby, and would appreciate some advice. I don't want to look like a total newby, or get taken if that is possible. Have read the rules post, but am most interested in escort services. I know there is a learning curve here in terms of screening, negotiating, terminology, etc. For example, in reading escort ads I understand Hh and H and amounts, but sometimes there are other options listed like 60/80/160 where 80 and 160 are the Hh and H respectively, but what is the 60? Like I said new. I do have a throwaway e-mail and phone. Picked that up from reading other threads, so thanks. Also, any recommendations from members on specific Raleigh ads would be helpful. Oh, and one last thing that may matter, I am late 50s so I guess that may not be some's preference. Anyway, thanks in advance for any advice. I have already learned a lot from reading other posts.
[QUOTE=EasyTimes;1600088]I hope I am posting this in the right place. I am new to the site and new to the hobby, and would appreciate some advice. I don't want to look like a total newby, or get taken if that is possible. Have read the rules post, but am most interested in escort services. I know there is a learning curve here in terms of screening, negotiating, terminology, etc. For example, in reading escort ads I understand Hh and H and amounts, but sometimes there are other options listed like 60/80/160 where 80 and 160 are the Hh and H respectively, but what is the 60? Like I said new. I do have a throwaway e-mail and phone. Picked that up from reading other threads, so thanks. Also, any recommendations from members on specific Raleigh ads would be helpful. Oh, and one last thing that may matter, I am late 50s so I guess that may not be some's preference. Anyway, thanks in advance for any advice. I have already learned a lot from reading other posts.[/QUOTE]The lower price is usually for a "quick visit". Wham, bam, thank you maam.
[QUOTE=EasyTimes;1600088]I hope I am posting this in the right place. I am new to the site and new to the hobby, and would appreciate some advice. I don't want to look like a total newby, or get taken if that is possible. Have read the rules post, but am most interested in escort services. I know there is a learning curve here in terms of screening, negotiating, terminology, etc. For example, in reading escort ads I understand Hh and H and amounts, but sometimes there are other options listed like 60/80/160 where 80 and 160 are the Hh and H respectively, but what is the 60? Like I said new. I do have a throwaway e-mail and phone. Picked that up from reading other threads, so thanks. Also, any recommendations from members on specific Raleigh ads would be helpful. Oh, and one last thing that may matter, I am late 50s so I guess that may not be some's preference. Anyway, thanks in advance for any advice. I have already learned a lot from reading other posts.[/QUOTE]If the values are grouped in three like indicated usually the numbers represent qv / hhr / hr. QV is quick visit and usually 15 or 20 minutes. Some ladies provide only BJ for QV. Do your homework and stick to well reviewed ladies. You'll find age doesn't matter as long as you're respectful and clean.
[QUOTE=EasyTimes;1600088]I hope I am posting this in the right place. I am new to the site and new to the hobby, and would appreciate some advice. I don't want to look like a total newby, or get taken if that is possible. Have read the rules post, but am most interested in escort services. I know there is a learning curve here in terms of screening, negotiating, terminology, etc. For example, in reading escort ads I understand Hh and H and amounts, but sometimes there are other options listed like 60/80/160 where 80 and 160 are the Hh and H respectively, but what is the 60? Like I said new. I do have a throwaway e-mail and phone. Picked that up from reading other threads, so thanks. Also, any recommendations from members on specific Raleigh ads would be helpful. Oh, and one last thing that may matter, I am late 50s so I guess that may not be some's preference. Anyway, thanks in advance for any advice. I have already learned a lot from reading other posts.[/QUOTE]
Make sure you find out what you will get for the time. Babs is the only one I know of who will give you the full hour if you pay for it. With the rest if you pay for an hour but finish in 5 minutes then you're gone after that. Most guys are best off going with 15-30 minutes depending on how long it will take you to finish. One girl I tried was willing to give me more time in exchange for a tip but YMMV. I strongly recommend that you either read some of the backpage review boards or get an account at the erotic review.
[QUOTE=EasyTimes;1600088]I hope I am posting this in the right place. I am new to the site and new to the hobby, and would appreciate some advice. I don't want to look like a total newby, or get taken if that is possible. Have read the rules post, but am most interested in escort services. I know there is a learning curve here in terms of screening, negotiating, terminology, etc. For example, in reading escort ads I understand Hh and H and amounts, but sometimes there are other options listed like 60/80/160 where 80 and 160 are the Hh and H respectively, but what is the 60? Like I said new. I do have a throwaway e-mail and phone. Picked that up from reading other threads, so thanks. Also, any recommendations from members on specific Raleigh ads would be helpful. Oh, and one last thing that may matter, I am late 50s so I guess that may not be some's preference. Anyway, thanks in advance for any advice. I have already learned a lot from reading other posts.[/QUOTE]If you're planning to go with an escort service (a smart choice) , I think the best advice is to take the plunge. This, after all, is their business and the services charge a bit more to weed out the bad providers. The independents require more research and as too variable for my tastes.
Regarding time, I suggest, for your first time, take the hour. I remember I was nervous as hell and took a lot of "coaxing." You probably won't need an hour but, with an hour, you'll not feel a pressure to finish which may destroy your enjoyment. If you do finish early well, next time you'll know better. Chalk it down as a learning experience.
Most ladies "prefer older men" so that's no barrier.
Bottom Line: Go for it!
Gentlemen,
I have a "friend" in Durham I've been dealing with off and on for about 4+ years. She's gotten into a bit of a financial bind and is looking to do "something strange for a little bit of change" as the saying goes.
Description: 5'5-5'6" 130 lbs Chocolate complexion. Nice curves. She's danced occasionally, but never been on BP or any sites like that.
She can't host but is willing to do outcalls and send pics via email.
I'll give out her number and email to Sr Members or anyone who has contributed recently.
I posted this in Durham forum, but I figured some Raleigh people might be interested as well.
[QUOTE=BigWilleyStyle; 1610374]Gentlemen,
I have a "friend" in Durham I've been dealing with off and on for about 4+ years. She's gotten into a bit of a financial bind and is looking to do "something strange for a little bit of change" as the saying goes.
Description: 5'5-5'6" 130 lbs Chocolate complexion. Nice curves. She's danced occasionally, but never been on BP or any sites like that.
She can't host but is willing to do outcalls and send pics via email.
I'll give out her number and email to Sr Members or anyone who has contributed recently.
I posted this in Durham forum, but I figured some Raleigh people might be interested as well.[/QUOTE]I have posted a few times. I live in Chapel hill and would love to see your friend, if you will give me contact information.
Grambo
Sierra is a 27 year old brunette with tig ol bitties. She's a tad chunky, but that's what I kinda like. I've seen her a couple of times, but she only comes out once in a blue moon.
Her service is hit and miss. If she's had a few drinks she's more fun. Yesterday I picked her up and we went to my mongering spot for a half and half for $40. She performed adequately, but really wasn't too into it, and that kinda takes the fun away for me. I don't care if they fake it, but you need to act like you're not just waiting for this to be over.
I would pick her up again, but only with the caveat that I assess her mood first. If she's feeling frisky, you're good to go. If not, I'd pass. YMMV.
Any info on her would be nice. She was lookin for a ride and cash to pay for room? Is she legit?
[QUOTE=Joey Sambora;1626713]Any info on her would be nice. She was lookin for a ride and cash to pay for room? Is she legit?[/QUOTE]She is legit, also goes by the name of Nina. I was very disappointed in the service I got from her. Not woth the money, keep looking.
[QUOTE=Bustaload;1627693]She is legit, also goes by the name of Nina. I was very disappointed in the service I got from her. Not woth the money, keep looking.[/QUOTE]thanks for the tip! Any info on dream interpretation would be cool. PM me if you know of anyone.
I recently had a dream of meeting a blonde SW just off Capital. Her teeth could use some work, but other than that, she was solid. Pretty face, reliable, clean, aimed to please, and not an upseller. It's become a recurring dream of mine, and needless to say, I always wake up with a grin from ear to ear.
SM's pm only.
[QUOTE=Bustaload;1627693]She is legit, also goes by the name of Nina. I was very disappointed in the service I got from her. Not woth the money, keep looking.[/QUOTE]Nina (She went by Sadie when I met her) can be had off the street for $35. There's no reason at all to pay top shelf price for her services, which I would agree are sub-par.
There are quite a few internet girls who walk from time to time. I've met four or five in the last year or two and I didn't think any or their services were worth more than the average girl on the street. YMMV.
[QUOTE=Gem Finder; 1646397]Nina (She went by Sadie when I met her) can be had off the street for $35. There's no reason at all to pay top shelf price for her services, which I would agree are sub-par.
There are quite a few internet girls who walk from time to time. I've met four or five in the last year or two and I didn't think any or their services were worth more than the average girl on the street. YMMV.[/QUOTE]I've been preaching this reality for a long time now. Essentially what happens is that most of them need money on that particular night and the call volume from backpage is extremely low so they hit the streets. IMO, backpage has actually hurt the street game because the girls who would normally walk now just post an add with sometimes slightly higher rates and can get customers that way. Backpage has also greatly inflated the price of pussy. Trust me there is very little difference between the girl giving qv for 40 and the girl giving half hours for 100, in most cases both are only providing you with a hole to stroke in and nothing more (well in some cases a pretty face but when you've got someone trying to rush you through and out the door their face starts to matter less). I remember my first experience with a street walker; she barely touched me, would not lift her shirt, wanted it over with quickly and so forth. I cringe a little when I read reviews where guys pay 100+ for a similar experience. One odd one was a guy who reviewed a backpage pro and stated that she would not kiss and even went so far as to discourage him fucking her face to face.
Quick disclaimer, there are quality girls on backpage but they are harder to find. My definition of quality is low volume girls who in addition to sex provide some form of companionship or conversation.
How I miss those days when the streets were packed with young ass!
[QUOTE=Joe Looking; 1646927]I've been preaching this reality for a long time now. Essentially what happens is that most of them need money on that particular night and the call volume from backpage is extremely low so they hit the streets. IMO, backpage has actually hurt the street game because the girls who would normally walk now just post an add with sometimes slightly higher rates and can get customers that way. Backpage has also greatly inflated the price of pussy. Trust me there is very little difference between the girl giving qv for 40 and the girl giving half hours for 100, in most cases both are only providing you with a hole to stroke in and nothing more (well in some cases a pretty face but when you've got someone trying to rush you through and out the door their face starts to matter less). I remember my first experience with a street walker; she barely touched me, would not lift her shirt, wanted it over with quickly and so forth. I cringe a little when I read reviews where guys pay 100+ for a similar experience. One odd one was a guy who reviewed a backpage pro and stated that she would not kiss and even went so far as to discourage him fucking her face to face.
Quick disclaimer, there are quality girls on backpage but they are harder to find. My definition of quality is low volume girls who in addition to sex provide some form of companionship or conversation.
How I miss those days when the streets were packed with young ass![/QUOTE]I could not agree more Joe. I can remember the days when you had a menu beyond belief of available ladies to choose from. And with a reasonable price point. Now all seems that its over priced every thing. Makes me want to get one on the side and keep her up. That way I can play when I want to. But then more money for that too.
I felt a bit of nostalgia for the days of old and have been having trouble sleeping lately so I took a bit of a drive around 0100 this morning. I was not expecting to find anything but one can always hope. I had hoped to find a chick I've seen before near Wilmington, but that was not to be. Not feeling tired yet, I took a ride up and down the streets near Garner Road. I saw a thicker white chick with glasses cross the road and decided to give it a shot. She hopped in and after some idle chit-chat and LE check we reached a deal. BJ (what a name) was staying in a near by apartment with her brother and for 40 was willing to offer the whole menu. I contemplated talking her down to 30, but decided not too when she informed me that the whole menu included anal, so it really was the whole menu. We got to her apartment and her brother took a walk to the store for beer and loosies.
Things started with a nice BBBJ that included some rimming and whatnot. We then proceeded into anal. I got it in but getting things going at a good pace was proving difficult so I had her turn over and switched to the other hole. Long story short I finished in missionary and she showed me a good time. Like a lot of sws she was not much to look at but provided great service, I got her number and will probably be dialing it at some point.
On another note, I passed what I assume is a bar on Wilmington called the Blue Martini. I'm not sure how I've never noticed it before, but the lot was packed. Anyone know anything about it. I know there was a place downtown with the same name and live jazz several years ago, is it the same place?
Good luck out there guys.
Hey Joe, Did she have shorter dark hair? I believe I saw her in the near the gas station on Hoke at around 1:00 am this morning. Let's put it this way, we all know the well worn regulars and I've never seen her before, so I'm guessing that's who it was. I should have picked her up, based on your review, but maybe I'm getting a little too picky in my choice of SWs. .
Which leads to a rant that I typically make about this time of year. Joe's latest find aside, (which may do everything you want, but certainly isn't going to turn you on visually) Raleigh absolutely sucks for SW mongering, and it is drying up worse every passing year.
I guarantee you, I've wasted more money in gas, riding around looking for pussy, than I've actually spent buying pussy. And finally I am starting to wise up and partake in the hunt much less often. There is just nothing out there if you want a girl under 30. Finding a white girl under 30, who is new to the track would be the holy grail, but it ain't happening. Yes, there is action to be had, if you want to just put your dick into anything. My personal taste trends toward WSWs who aren't too fat. (Ashley is nice and is about my limit on how rubenesque I can go.) If I pick up a BSW, she'd better be on the younger side and have a banging body, or at least be petite. And there is absolutely NONE of that out there. Hell, Joe's find is the first "new" girl I've heard about in months.
I've done the BP thing, I've done the AMP thing, and I've had extensive experience at the bookstore on Capital, but I get my jollies from driving around and picking up a girl on the street, to each his own. This is a bummer for me because there's just less and less out there to ride out and get.
I might be wrong about this, but I don't think this lack of pussy on the streets is entirely due to Uncle Leo. Think about this; Raleigh is a government and university town. We don't have much industry in Raleigh proper and we are not located on an interstate that has commerce passing through on its way to somewhere else. Besides Ft. Bragg, Fayetteville also has a decent scene because they are just off of I-95, and thus get women passing through going north and south. You don't get near as much of that in Raleigh, as the only thing past us on I-40 is Wilmington.
What is a SW cruising monger to do?
Had a dream yesterday afternoon. I was driving near Renfrow / S. Wilm and saw a 30s WSW. She was standing under a tree and when I turned around to get a better look, she was being escorted away by somene else. Did anyone have a similar dream or know who this beauty in my dream could be?
If you want a little chuckle, check out the Google map street view of Lower Bragg, just east of Garner Road.
There's a SW standing there. Judging by the hair and build, I'd say it's Kim. I don't know how often they send around the cameras, but that's at least the second time I've seen it capture a SW there!
My hot wife is going downtown with her girlfriends Saturday night. So some stranger is probably going to get lucky while I watch. If anyone is interested, pm me for further details. This is not an invitation to just show up and do my wife. You would actually have to "pick her up" like any normal bar situation, so creeps need not apply and nothing is guaranteed.
[QUOTE=Robert1744; 1650951]Hey Joe, Did she have shorter dark hair? I believe I saw her in the near the gas station on Hoke at around 1:00 am this morning. Let's put it this way, we all know the well worn regulars and I've never seen her before, so I'm guessing that's who it was. I should have picked her up, based on your review, but maybe I'm getting a little too picky in my choice of SWs. .
What is a SW cruising monger to do?[/QUOTE]I wouldn't exactly call it short, but it was dark. Being picky is not really a bad thing. Truth be told she looked a lot better before she got in the car and once she did I just said f it.
I completely agree that the local scene is drying up, both in Durham and Raleigh. LEO's not the problem the Internet is. Check most low rate hotels in Raleigh and you'll probably find at least one backpage girl who would have been on the street without the Internet.
So what's a SW cruising monger to do? I guess we could try pulling regular women, but let's face it a lot of them are far more trouble than they're worth. Some of us could try breaking into the swinger scene, but as single guys that is difficult and at this point I've mainly seen ads looking for bi or bi-curious men. So I guess the best option for that is to start a new thread (assuming I did not overlook an existing one) for couples to post if they are looking for a single man / men to join them. I know there is an active swinger group in the Raleigh-Durham area and there is a brick and mortar club in Atlanta, but again single guys have to go with a couple.
You could experiment with strippers. Unfortunately it can be a little hard trying to separate the ones who want you to be a regular in the club from the ones who will do things with you outside of the club. It seems that girls at the after hours and at smaller clubs are a bit more amenable, at least to the chit chat that lays the ground work. At the after hours it's actually pretty easy to gauge who will and won't leave with you or at least do some things in the VIP. If you go this route then you need to be really clear with yourself about what you want from her because not being clear with yourself can leave you broke and with no release. It's important to remember that they are people too so some are lonely, some are greedy, some are addicts and so on. It's also important to remember that some of them are offered and turn down p4p pretty often and are not treated with respect by a lot of customers, so you might want to watch the level of aggression that you use. I can PM anyone who wants to know what has / has not worked for me in this regard or who wants to share their experiences.
Backpage is probably the new hunting ground. The experience from some of the quick view girls is just like what you would get from a random SW, sadly probably twice the price though. I've personally run into more than one bait and switch, but there appear to be more than a few white spinners under 30. On a positive note it looks like some of the quick view rates are coming down as the market is being flooded with providers.
Technically we are still in a recession so it is not unrealistic to imagine that there are women out there who want a friend with benefits who will help with some of the bills. I know there are sugar daddy websites, but I got the impression from the person who told me about them that women who use them are essential asking for the equivalent to a salary / month. My ATF has a guy that she sees a certain number of times per month in exchange for an allowance (I don't recall it being excessive). She met him because he sent out emails to providers on backpage seeking that arrangement. I've also seen men post ads looking for regulars so that's worth a shot.
I'll mention one last thing. About a month ago I responded to an ad on backpage and when I got to the apartment I was more into the roommate than the original girl. The originally girl did not seem too happy about it but I negotiated a switch. The price was $/hour. The original girl left for work and I did the deed with the roommate. After the deed we talked for a while and it turned out that both of them work regular jobs and do the backpage thing part-time, usually when things are really tight. Before I left she made sure to let me know that I should come back to see her again and that it would only be. 4, I smiled and then she said or I could just bring some drinks and we'll have fun. I'm not telling this story to brag, but to make a point. There are some women who are mercenary about this, they want the money as quick as possible and they want the guy out as quick as possible. There are other women who do it out of necessity and others, as odd as this is going to sound, to meet decent guys. If you want consistency I would definitely advise avoiding the quick view women and engaging in conversation with any provider you like. If you find a chick who is not too mercenary and let your personality shine through then you may be surprised by the results. Freebies are far more rare than discounts, but even at full price you would be amazed by how the clock can magically disappear with some women simply because you were the guy who took the time to listen instead of making a beeline for the door.
Thanks for a great post. In my experience with strippers and SW's, when you find a gem who is just happy to see you and doesn't watch the clock or your wallet, treat her well.
And avoid the "Takers."
Hey guys, just checking to see if anyone knows if she is still around? Feel free to pm.
[QUOTE=mat2817;1675947]Hey guys, just checking to see if anyone knows if she is still around? Feel free to pm.[/QUOTE]She moved to New Orleans.