Touch of Paradise - Fuggittaboutit
[QUOTE=Crutch]Called "Touch of Paradise" (can't recall her name) was told it was $. 20 an hour for a sensuous massage. A little more than I normally want to pay, however, foolishly, I went for it. The massage itself was fairly good, although not very sensuous. On the flip I pulled her pants down over her ass and played, but there was no HE. When I asked, she said "special requests" were always extra. That sure wasn't what I wanted to hear. I wasn't about to pay any more than I'd already dropped. Gentlemen, that was $. 20 I'll spent.
As always YMMV.[/QUOTE]
Her name is Ifoma and I wrote a post a long time ago I think about her. She is pure lesbian (OK in principle) and likes fetishes with men I suspect to humiliate them. Just after the money. Massages hurt and was way too rough on sensitive spots. Sorry you TOFTT. You paid way too much.
Characteristics of a good provider
1) Picks up her phone or returns texts virtually whenever you call.
2) Actually shows up for the appointment.
3) Is actually who the picture shows.
4) Is clean and so is her place.
5) Is friendly and enjoys her work, has a great personality.
6) Doesn't up sell, no bait and switch (OK, if YOU want more extreme massage service you should pay more)
7) Doesn't demand payment up front.
8) Actually knows how to do massage.
9) Doesn't scrub sensitive body parts like she was washing a car or the dishes.
10) Makes sure the customer leaves with a great experience.
11) Is comfortable with her own body (doesn't keep telling you how fat her ugly scar is. I got it)
12) Doesn't have a driver or anybody hanging around.
13) Doesn't live in a bad part of town (in call)
14) No two-call arrangements.
15) Smart enough to be independent.
16) Keeps her prices low, has competitive rates.
17) Has high availability and doesn't vanish for weeks on end (other than emergencies or vacation)
18) Willing to be treated as a friend and receive favors as you would with any business person you like.
19) Is very attractive.
20) Knows instinctively what we need that day.
21) Actually likes men.
Have I missed any?
Re: Characteristics of a good provider
Very good. Needs to be reposted to PHX & TUS BP.
Thoughts on Massage Therapists and Users
Gentlemen, please remember that these providers are masters at what they do:they are master actors. Their goal is your money for a little company in the arms of, if you are lucky, a warm beautiful young girl or lady. Nothing wrong with that. The GFE is a fake act that we pay for. Same with massage with HE. It is meaningless and just relieves an itch that needs scratching. I've been there with these urges.
But these women can make $75. 000 to $100, 000 tax free if they aren't lazy and just settling to get by. They are all big girls and they know what they are doing. So do we users. I have met one or two over the years who I really wished could leave the biz. But none really do until it is too late.
For extra or if the provider takes a (superficial) liking to you she may even have sex with you. But they will never be your friend; your money is her friend and it is just business. Plus does she always make you use a condom if things get out of hand? How many times have they told you she isn't having sex with that may people?
But I am not about judging anyone; I say this out of compassion: do what you need to do to get by. I hope all can have peace and love outside of this hobby.