Ok, if what you say is true then why so few posts?
[QUOTE=BowlerGeno;1952404]The reason for these sites is for us mongers to share info [/QUOTE]If, indeed, this forum is for the open "sharing" of information and you've been at this for 10+ years, why is it that you've "shared" so little information? I'll answer for you. It's because you want all the benefits from this forum, yet are reluctant to contribute, for whatever reason. I, too, believe this forum is about sharing of information and to me sharing, as I was taught when I was about 3 years old, is about both people giving and receiving derived benefit.
My point here is that for someone to need to contribute in order to gain information is not BS. Quite the contrary, its the carrot that's being dangled for them to eek there way out of their shell and start adding posts that others can benefit from, including you. If everyone posted 11 post in 10+ years this forum would be utterly worthless. In fact you say it best when you mention all of us working together. Part of working together is contributing. Might I suggest you start!
Just my 2 cents worth.
L10.
Why we don't just answer the simple question.
[QUOTE=Levi10;1954049]I, too, believe this forum is about sharing of information and to me sharing, as I was taught when I was about 3 years old, is about both people giving and receiving derived benefit.
My point here is that for someone to need to contribute in order to gain information is not BS. [red]... [/red]
. Part of working together is contributing. Might I suggest you start!
Just my 2 cents worth.
L10.[/QUOTE]Levi has dome a fine job of articulating the general belief of 'Senior Members' that give and take is an important mantra. First we [RED]'GIVE'[/RED] then we [RED]'TAKE'[/RED].
QUID PRO QUO boys!!
I understand that many newb 'types' don't think it necessary to participate before asking questions. Whether you have been 'around' our hobby for decades or just starting out, the need for good information is vital to good, safe, hobby practices. The truth is that as a new member you don't need to go out and TOFTT and report back before anyone helps. What you need to do is [RED]PARTICIPATE!!![/RED] that can be simply getting involved in the discussion or posting an introduction and asking questions ABOUT the hobby.
Most individuals that 'don't have a clue' start off first with a question about this girl or that girl. Which is a mistake, if you consider what would be the dynamic of the same conversation in a bar. Imagine 3 guys talking about the girls they have seen and the activities provided and for what price...Suddenly, a stranger appears and says 'What do you know about 'Sally Rottencrotch'? " All 3 guys would shut up and be like 'Who the fuck are you?' 'Piss off jerk-off and ask your mother..." yada yada yada RIGHT!
That is what tends to happen when a stranger interjects themselves in an unfamiliar group's discussion. So why would you think it is any different in an internet forum?
If you have ever seen the movie 'Animal House" and Flounder walks up to the guys obviously playing poker and says 'You guys playin' cards... And everybody stops and looks at him like the knucklehead that he is-THAT!! Is what WE do when we get that kind of question.
So the new guys can understand where this all comes from, remember- 10 yrs ago there was no craigslist or backpage etc... We had to prowl the streets or know a friend who knew a girl who provided service. When that was the case, we all guarded our secrets closely so some Jabronie didn't ruin a good thing. Times were much harder back then, so we played our cards close to the vest. That culture still exists today. Why should I give a new guy with no history the keys to my dragon horde and let him go fuck things up? I have been able to accrue a list of DOZENS of ladies to call, who can see me at a moments notice and cure what ails me- Which is a VAST improvement over driving the stroll for hours looking for some toothless Tammy to lick the lizard. I don't do the streetwalker thing anymore, not with the list of lovely girls I have seen and continue to see.
Talk about SO MUCH BETTER! Words cannot describe the happiness in my soul to go to a hotel room, take a shower, pay the lady, get naked and enjoy the carnal debauchery that will surely ensue!
Now, all we ask is that members [RED]PARTICIPATE!!![/RED] If you think that is 'bullshit' or 'bs' ...let me know how you feel about that in a year- after you take 800 PM's requesting the number and address of your ATF. After you give the number out to some faceless stranger who then goes and abuses that girl so badly that she leaves the biz forever. After she won't take your calls anymore because she thinks you are friends with that asshole. After you can't get a date because the girls talk and decide you have the wrong friends and they won't risk it with you because they think you are part of 'those guys'.
Yes, we are a difficult group to become entrenched with. We don't share our information as freely as the bloodsuckers would like. But the truth is- WE DO! Read the fucking forums!! Almost ALL the answers to those dickhead questions have been answered already, many are just too lazy to do their own research. So they just ask a blunt ' HAs anyone seen 'Sally Stinkpants'? Yeah, we have! She was the topic of debate last week, but you don't want to go back and search so why not just ask?
Fuck, I can't even begin to count the number of times I was promised information back if I provided digits upfront and got NOTHING! Got to be in the hundreds of times by now. The words 'Give and Take' are presented since time eternal in that order '[RED]FOR GOOD REASON[/RED].
Peace.
PK.
Loki's logic is 100% correct.
Listen to the man, now I will provide an example why.
In the not so distant future I received countless PM's regarding a particular massage provider, I won't mention any names in this post nor via pm, just felt the need to share after reading what Loki just said.
Some 1 post 'POG' (piece of garbage) that I provided with BASIC info decided to use me, w / o my consent, as a reference via my screen name. As a long time customer the provider knew my screen name and happily obliged the 'POG' with an appointment. Well this scumbag, low life was a pushy arrogant loser and didn't want to play by the rules, so apparently every time he overstepped a boundary it was followed up with I (that would be ME) said it was allowed.
I received a text message asking me to never refer her to anyone I know again, the creep ' I sent ' tried to short her on the donation, was pushy, had terrible hygiene, etc. Needless to say my texts from that point were never answered again, nor my calls. A lose lose situation for her and I. Obviously she was wayyy creeped out and in her eyes, I had a major part in why.
Now I understand the guys who say they will provide info via PM to senior members only, makes a hell of a lot of sense. It makes one wonder how many 'POG' have used the more popular names here as reference w / o any consent after reading a review or comment. I'd bet most of the 1 post wonders are actually one in the same continuously making up new screen names, hoping to get a reputable reviewer to fall for the bait. In my case it was complete made up bullshit but how the hell do you police that?
Proceed with caution Gents.
Fox.
I agree with SilverFox, Levi, and Loki
[QUOTE=SilverFox69;1955505]Listen to the man, now I will provide an example why.
In the not so distant future I received countless PM's regarding a particular massage provider, I won't mention any names in this post nor via pm, just felt the need to share after reading what Loki just said.
Some 1 post 'POG' (piece of garbage) that I provided with BASIC info decided to use me, w / o my consent, as a reference via my screen name. As a long time customer the provider knew my screen name and happily obliged the 'POG' with an appointment. Well this scumbag, low life was a pushy arrogant loser and didn't want to play by the rules, so apparently every time he overstepped a boundary it was followed up with I (that would be ME) said it was allowed.
I received a text message asking me to never refer her to anyone I know again, the creep ' I sent ' tried to short her on the donation, was pushy, had terrible hygiene, etc. Needless to say my texts from that point were never answered again, nor my calls. A lose lose situation for her and I. Obviously she was wayyy creeped out and in her eyes, I had a major part in why.
Now I understand the guys who say they will provide info via PM to senior members only, makes a hell of a lot of sense. It makes one wonder how many 'POG' have used the more popular names here as reference w / o any consent after reading a review or comment. I'd bet most of the 1 post wonders are actually one in the same continuously making up new screen names, hoping to get a reputable reviewer to fall for the bait. In my case it was complete made up bullshit but how the hell do you police that?
Proceed with caution Gents.
Fox.[/QUOTE]Silver Fox your past experience with some member falsely using your handle as a reference is the reason that I have always informed the woman that I will ONLY share her contact information with those senior members and some regular members that I know to be " legit " contributors to this site or other sites that I am on. The woman and I establish a " code word or words " that she must hear from the man. If she doesn't hear the code words as we agreed in advance, then she knows that the recommendation did NOT come from me. As SilverFox said, anyone reading this site could contact the woman and say " " Quail " sent me or " Quail " and I are best buddies. " I do this because I not only want to protect the woman from a newbie jerk / creep, but also possible LE that may be monitoring these sites. And I want to insure that this woman who I have enjoyed personally as well as my friends and trusted fellow members have enjoyed, continues to safely provide her services to us for a long time to come. Very often the provider will send me HANDLE on the site as well as his REAL name. Many times when a member contacts this woman, the member give his real name (or a fake real name) . While I do know many members real names as well as their handles, for the most part I do not. So when the provider tell me that " Tom Swift " called, I have no clue what " Tom Swift's " handle is. Shit, I just used the name Tom Swift, who was a character in a series of boys books in the 1950's that I read- Like the Hardy Boys series or the Nancy Drew series of books for girls. My " tenure and experience (and yes Loki, my age " are showing here. LOL. That is why I ask the woman to get me the handle.
I, probably more than most members, have found or tried someone new and, always with the providers permission. Been willing to post a review or comments and share her information. But I always ask her permission in case she wishes to remain UTR. If she chooses UTR and perhaps wants ONLY a few new clients, then I will only contact by private message those trusted members that I believe will enjoy her particular skills or looks.
Number 1 Rule About Women Is They Love Money.
[QUOTE=LokiPk;1963188]Problem is that I have spoken to her 4 times in the last 4 days and it has become more than obvious that I represent nothing more than an ATM to supplement the holiday shopping spree.
So I go do some Christmas shopping and got bored and made a few other calls. Destiny was able to see me on short notice...FUN was had by ALL ;).
And I made sure to leave a little extra coin for the Christmas season! Good for Destiny!! Bad for my old friend C'est la vie!!
Peace.
PK.[/QUOTE]All Women look at us Guys as their personal Money Machines. So this shouldn't be a Big Secret. All Women, Hookers or Regular Girls Love Dead Presidents over a Living Guy. Very few Women like a Guy for who he is. Glad you found a new replacement.
Got to love the holidays...
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Seriously?
You gotta bust my ass on Christmas Eve?
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A Note To Providers Re: Telephone Skills
Ladies,
Ditch the attitude of the phone. I am calling to get information. I am interested in meeting you, if I wasn't I wouldn't be calling. The call, however, is not a guarantee that it will work out and if it doesn't I haven't "wasted your time", some of the information you gave me prevented me from seeing you this time. It may have been the price, the location, the time your available, it could have been a number of things.
However I can tell you this, if you give me a pissy attitude just because I won't book an appt. Right then and there, your phone won't be ringing with my number on your caller I'd. Ever.
We the hobbyists aren't the enemy. Remember that. If you can't, go work at McDonalds where I would like a large fry with that please.