She is a very hot older lady 40 ish. Never had kids, wild as hell in the sack. She is one beautiful lady. Only problem is she is southern Indiana. Be nice to her she a sweetheart and loves the Colts games! Play nice!
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She is a very hot older lady 40 ish. Never had kids, wild as hell in the sack. She is one beautiful lady. Only problem is she is southern Indiana. Be nice to her she a sweetheart and loves the Colts games! Play nice!
[QUOTE=Bigg2003;2711521]I've recently exchanged messages with a Sugar Baby on SA, but she was rather direct (maybe even too direct) about her expectations and pricing:
Me: What are you looking for in a daddy?
SB: Someone to sexually pleasure once a week and be friends and get an allowance.
Me: Sounds perfect. What kind of allowance are you looking.
SB: $300 per meet.
Maybe I'm being overly paranoid and / or she is young and naive, but that's enough for anyone to run into trouble (especially when it's in writing). Would anyone else be comfortable seeing someone who wrote that to them?[/QUOTE]I had an identical conversation with an Amber who also listed out a bunch of rules. I passed as she seemed careless in her communication and lacked the charm that many more affordable ladies offer on that site. The best SBs know what we want and prefer to meet and talk prior to setting a price. In my humble opinion, if they aren't concerned with chemistry the experience would likely be no more rewarding than BP for you, and 300 is an awefully high price for a BP style arrangement.
There is another "boy looking" young lady trying to collect the same amount and reaching out unsolicited with "want to meet up? $300. " I took one look at her profile and question her legal age. Play safe.
[QUOTE=JohnBuddy;2711623]She is a very hot older lady 40 ish. Never had kids, wild as hell in the sack. She is one beautiful lady. Only problem is she is southern Indiana. Be nice to her she a sweetheart and loves the Colts games! Play nice![/QUOTE]How far south? How do I get her number without paying outrageous SA fees?
[QUOTE=GoodTimes007;2712622]I had an identical conversation with an Amber who also listed out a bunch of rules. I passed as she seemed careless in her communication and lacked the charm that many more affordable ladies offer on that site. The best SBs know what we want and prefer to meet and talk prior to setting a price. In my humble opinion, if they aren't concerned with chemistry the experience would likely be no more rewarding than BP for you, and 300 is an awefully high price for a BP style arrangement.
There is another "boy looking" young lady trying to collect the same amount and reaching out unsolicited with "want to meet up? $300. " I took one look at her profile and question her legal age. Play safe.[/QUOTE]I know Amber. Total waste of space on this earth. If you met her it would be the worst $300 you've ever spent.
And I also got the message from the extremely young looking girl. I asked her if she was even 18. She said yes, I told her I'd need to see I'd.
[QUOTE=Bigg2003;2711521]I've recently exchanged messages with a Sugar Baby on SA, but she was rather direct (maybe even too direct) about her expectations and pricing:
Me: What are you looking for in a daddy?
SB: Someone to sexually pleasure once a week and be friends and get an allowance.
Me: Sounds perfect. What kind of allowance are you looking.
SB: $300 per meet.
Maybe I'm being overly paranoid and / or she is young and naive, but that's enough for anyone to run into trouble (especially when it's in writing). Would anyone else be comfortable seeing someone who wrote that to them?[/QUOTE]That is a big red flag for me, and more cash than I would want to agree to pay without ever having met. The appeal of an SB over a Pro / UTR for me is the dating and long sessions spent together. I won't do any talk of price before the meet and greet. Also be wary of getting locked into a price. Price are more likely to go up over time, not down. Plus 300 is more than any, and I mean any of the girls have ever asked of me on SB after texting / meeting. Maybe I'm lucky.
[QUOTE=Mwdude;2712889]How far south? How do I get her number without paying outrageous SA fees?[/QUOTE]I don't think the cost for one month is really that outrageous. In the long haul, one month on SA can pay for itself if you find the right woman / women.
Very very nice young lady (20). Upside, she has her own place in upscale area Zionsville. Great open menu and very easy on the wallet. Downside a little heavier than her. Pics. But some big young boobies. Play safe!
Is there any way to search by username on SA?
[QUOTE=Golfer72;2714492]Is there any way to search by username on SA?[/QUOTE]Yes, enter the username in the profile text box.
[QUOTE=Golfer72;2714492]Is there any way to search by username on SA?[/QUOTE]You can only do that type of search with a paid subscription.
[QUOTE=Mwdude;2712889]How far south? How do I get her number without paying outrageous SA fees?[/QUOTE]If you download the Android app, you can pay cheaper rates for less subscription time, but IMHO, SA pays for itself in the long run.
[QUOTE=Golfer72;2714492]Is there any way to search by username on SA?[/QUOTE]Yes. In the search filter choose / toggle down "profile text" and input the username your looking for. If age, body, area, etc would exclude them they won't show up. For example if you're looking for Name, but Name is Asian and your search is limited to Caucasian she won't show.
[QUOTE=Golfer72;2714492]Is there any way to search by username on SA?[/QUOTE]Go to filter and look for profile text put name and make sure city and state are correct and then research it will come up.
There has been repeated conversation about the SA fees and opinions on whether or not it is worth it. As many have said, it is. However, since you are paying a monthly subscription, the value is set by how many ladies you are able to see in that time. If your budget only allows you to see 1 or 2 ladies a month, it may not be worth your time or subscription fee.
Here are a few pointers from a relative new guy to SA but had massive success in just a single month:
If the $70 subscription is an issue, sign up for the basic membership today but don't upgrade to premium. In a short time, they will offer you a lowered subscription fee. It drops nearly in half. This will be for 1 month. After a month, do not renew. Wait a month or so and then sign up again when they offer you the lowered premium rate again. If you do it right, you will have enough in the pipeline to keep you busy until the fees drop again.
In that month, go crazy and contact every girl you are interested in. Some will not reply for one reason or another. Some are game players (not many). Then you will get the girls that are serious. Get them offline as soon as possible with phone numbers or similar contact methods that way you can contact them even after your month is up. Feel them out. Some are willing to take there time and communicate for a while before meeting while others want to meet quickly or will stop communicating as they think you are just playing games and aren't serious. Meet the ones that want to meet right away and slowly work in the ones that are willing to wait but don't wait too long.
If you like them young and are willing to drive, there are hot beds of smoking hot young coeds in the big colleges to the north and south. Some are willing to drive to you. Most of this young beauties don't care if you are old or not.
Be sure to be VERY discrete about talking about them here or on any similar board. I communicate routinely with a young lady that was recently mentioned on this board. She told me how it was strange because her contacts on that sight jumped seemingly overnight.
Lastly, be sure to PM me with any legit redheads, freckles, or best of all freckled reds. Don't tell that other guy on here. He can find out later.
Indy Guy.
You can use the search function without a paid subscription, I have done it.
BG.
[QUOTE=IndyTech;2714662]You can only do that type of search with a paid subscription.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BigGuyUAteMe;2715447]You can use the search function without a paid subscription, I have done it.
BG.[/QUOTE]Ditto that. I have a separate non-premium acct just for doing searches or checking out who looked at / Favorited me without having to use my main.
[QUOTE=Evalder;2715674]Ditto that. I have a separate non-premium acct just for doing searches or checking out who looked at / Favorited me without having to use my main.[/QUOTE]Sorry about the false information, I guess I didn't figure out the text search until I had a paid subscription.
For punishment, I am putting myself on a freckle free diet for a week.
Don't you think that that's a little too harsh of punishment?
BG.
P.S. Have fun, play safe, do your research, give and get respect, if you find freckles PM FF, then TPHFB.
[QUOTE=IndyTech;2716381]Sorry about the false information, I guess I didn't figure out the text search until I had a paid subscription.
For punishment, I am putting myself on a freckle free diet for a week.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BigGuyUAteMe;2716675]Don't you think that that's a little too harsh of punishment?
BG.[/QUOTE]Not at all, I guess I should have mentioned that my two current babies are without freckles. My ATF is a thick 23 year old Hispanic FREAK. My other is a 25 year old Hispanic spinner, that gives porn star quality blow jobs.
I will somehow make it through my week of punishment, not to worry.
[QUOTE=IndyTech;2716766]Not at all, I guess I should have mentioned that my two current babies are without freckles. My ATF is a thick 23 year old Hispanic FREAK. My other is a 25 year old Hispanic spinner, that gives porn star quality blow jobs.[/QUOTE]Where is the punishment? That sounds like taking car keys from a teenager when the car has a blown engine.
Indy Guy.
[quote=indyguy123;2716922]where is the punishment? That sounds like taking car keys from a teenager when the car has a blown engine.
Indy guy.[/quote]they don't have freckles.
Stay away from Dezirae in SA. Cash and dasher.
[QUOTE=BiteOfTheApple;2717602]Stay away from Dezirae in SA. Cash and dasher.[/QUOTE]Sorry about your experience.
She tired to get me to see her. Something about her seemed fishy. Glad I stayed away.
Take care and thanks for the heads up.
[QUOTE=BiteOfTheApple;2717602]Stay away from Dezirae in SA. Cash and dasher.[/QUOTE]She messaged me last night out of the blue asking if I was available. Red flags all over the place.
Anyone have any info on her? She messaged me and said she was driving up to Fort Wayne and wanted to meet and hinted maybe more. We had never messages before. Any help would be appreciated. Profile says she is from Greenwiid.
[QUOTE=BiteOfTheApple;2717602]Stay away from Dezirae in SA. Cash and dasher.[/QUOTE]I would never have guessed with that innocent face. Bummer. She looks cute. Here is what I'm learning, anyone care to add to the list?
1. If they only have one picture, likely a scam.
2. "I am hot and want your money but don't ask for sex because you aren't getting it. " Can I please buy the man a beer that allow these women to exist? I'll provide them advice at half the price, and won't make him take me shopping.
3. Do the "two or three for one" really think we are dumb enough to think we'd benefit at all?
4. What value does mamaj, therealoprawhinfrey, kaileyr1, becca07, yourgirl_xo, mia32114, cupcake47, iceblue, and the like ad to SA other than sign us up for memberships?
5. Does SA need to age validate, or should they just allow dateline to do an episode on us?
6. Why does "I'm not a prostitute" translate to "the more hot an affordable version of," and why aren't there more of you?
7. Since when is a 300 lbs girl a sugar baby? Yes, made of sugar, but nobody I'd call baby.
8. Is there an attractive black lady in Indy that does not induce risk to ones health and safety? So hot, so many scams! Why!
9. Is Snow White a ***** or is it just me?
10. If I'm paying $150 for a Starbucks, can I cum in it first?
[QUOTE=GoodTimes007;2718238]1. If they only have one picture, likely a scam.[/QUOTE]Although I know there are some that this may be the case, not necessarily true. If you get her talking away from the site and she still won't send you a picture then likely a scam. If in question, get them to text you a picture that is distinctive and not a standard pose.
[QUOTE=GoodTimes007;2718238]2. "I am hot and want your money but don't ask for sex because you aren't getting it. " Can I please buy the man a beer that allow these women to exist? I'll provide them advice at half the price, and won't make him take me shopping.[/QUOTE]Some of them do this as they want to really play the SB role. Get them alone after a M&G and "you aren't getting any" turns into I will give you more than you can take.
[QUOTE=GoodTimes007;2718238]3. Do the "two or three for one" really think we are dumb enough to think we'd benefit at all?[/QUOTE]Agree! 2 or 3 times the allowance but the same amount of playing.
[QUOTE=GoodTimes007;2718238]4. What value does mamaj, therealoprawhinfrey, kaileyr1, becca07, yourgirl_xo, mia32114, cupcake47, iceblue, and the like ad to SA other than sign us up for memberships?[/QUOTE]I can tell you on more than one of them they add a lot. .
[QUOTE=GoodTimes007;2718238]5. Does SA need to age validate, or should they just allow dateline to do an episode on us?[/QUOTE]Agree. If they are young and even in question, ask them to see their driver's license. If they won't do it, exit stage right.
[QUOTE=GoodTimes007;2718238]6. Why does "I'm not a prostitute" translate to "the more hot an affordable version of," and why aren't there more of you?[/QUOTE]So true and some of the best out there imo.
[QUOTE=GoodTimes007;2718238]7. Since when is a 300 lbs girl a sugar baby? Yes, made of sugar, but nobody I'd call baby.[/QUOTE]Not my thing but big girls need loving too and some guys, including on this forum, like the bigger ladies.
[QUOTE=GoodTimes007;2718238]10. If I'm paying $150 for a Starbucks, can I cum in it first?[/QUOTE]Never pay for the M&G other than any food or refreshments you have during that time.
I will add one item. Since you can search by hair color, the redheads are covered. They need a search parameter for freckles!
Indy Guy.
[QUOTE=GoodTimes007;2718238]I would never have guessed with that innocent face. Bummer. She looks cute. Here is what I'm learning, anyone care to add to the list?
1. If they only have one picture, likely a scam.
2. "I am hot and want your money but don't ask for sex because you aren't getting it. " Can I please buy the man a beer that allow these women to exist? I'll provide them advice at half the price, and won't make him take me shopping.
3. Do the "two or three for one" really think we are dumb enough to think we'd benefit at all?
4. What value does mamaj, therealoprawhinfrey, kaileyr1, becca07, yourgirl_xo, mia32114, cupcake47, iceblue, and the like ad to SA other than sign us up for memberships?
5. Does SA need to age validate, or should they just allow dateline to do an episode on us?
6. Why does "I'm not a prostitute" translate to "the more hot an affordable version of," and why aren't there more of you?
7. Since when is a 300 lbs girl a sugar baby? Yes, made of sugar, but nobody I'd call baby.
8. Is there an attractive black lady in Indy that does not induce risk to ones health and safety? So hot, so many scams! Why!
9. Is Snow White a ***** or is it just me?
10. If I'm paying $150 for a Starbucks, can I cum in it first?[/QUOTE]I know for fact a few of those names you mentioned are very much for real. You just have to get used to running into some flaky girls, or girls that start a conversation on the website and then don't check messages for a few days or even weeks. But it's definitely a numbers game, there is so many available gals that if you throw out enough lines you're going to have more than you have time for.
The underage thing does seem to be becoming for of an issue. I met up with an Asian girl last week, and I highly doubt she was a day over 16. Due to her looks and her maturity level in face to face conversation. She had nothing to verify her age, so I declined and got out of there.
And I think I have only came across one scam in all of my dealing. And it was obvious right away. She was asking for a MoneyPak before meeting. Other than that, I haven't had a hint of a scam.
[QUOTE=GoodTimes007;2718238]Here is what I'm learning, anyone care to add to the list?
1. If they only have one picture, likely a scam.[/QUOTE]Not always. I think that maybe you're having trouble with your approach or interactions with the women on the site.
[QUOTE]2. "I am hot and want your money but don't ask for sex because you aren't getting it. " Can I please buy the man a beer that allow these women to exist? I'll provide them advice at half the price, and won't make him take me shopping.[/QUOTE]I know of a few scenarios where having arm candy would be useful and where the guy might not be looking for sex. Different people want different things. If you and those ladies don't want the same things, then move on. Also just cause they say they don't want sex, doesn't mean they will not become intimate. It just may take more time / skill / effort than you are willing to put in.
[QUOTE]3. Do the "two or three for one" really think we are dumb enough to think we'd benefit at all?[/QUOTE]Never tried them, go a rip-off / scam vibe from one and the other I saw you couldn't pay me to date. YMMV, but I doubt those are good deals.
[QUOTE]4. What value does mamaj, therealoprawhinfrey, kaileyr1, becca07, yourgirl_xo, mia32114, cupcake47, iceblue, and the like ad to SA other than sign us up for memberships?[/QUOTE]I can tell you that I personally know a few of those you listed. One is very, very picky and some of the others require a good deal of charm and finesse to reach. Again I think your approach may be an issue as might be your profile.
[QUOTE]5. Does SA need to age validate, or should they just allow dateline to do an episode on us?[/QUOTE]They should age validate, but not sure how they would do so outside of collecting DLN numbers or something, and that would scare off a lot of girls.
I'm also of the mindset there should be some kind of barrier to entry for the ladies, but no idea what that would be.
[QUOTE]6. Why does "I'm not a prostitute" translate to "the more hot an affordable version of," and why aren't there more of you?[/QUOTE]I don't know. Need more of them for sure. I think the "Not a prostitute" label is to for their own sense of self worth and mostly to ward off creeps. From what I've heard, guys are talking to these girls like they are responding to a backpage ad. Guys are being creepy, rude and inappropriate right out of the gate.
[QUOTE]7. Since when is a 300 lbs girl a sugar baby? Yes, made of sugar, but nobody I'd call baby.[/QUOTE]Different people have different tastes. While they may not be to my or your liking, they are still people and still have some inherent self worth and someone will find them attractive.
[QUOTE]8. Is there an attractive black lady in Indy that does not induce risk to ones health and safety? So hot, so many scams! Why![/QUOTE]I don't particularly fancy the AA ladies. But from speaking with a few and from some other research, it seems they get the fewest number of men messaging them. If you are encountering scams, please report them on the site along with any proof of the attempted scam.
[QUOTE]9. Is Snow White a ***** or is it just me?[/QUOTE]Never talked to her. Can't say. Might be her, might be you.
[QUOTE]10. If I'm paying $150 for a Starbucks, can I cum in it first?[/QUOTE]Never, ever, ever, pay the lady for the Meet and Greet. Heck if you play your cards right, sometimes you can get her to buy your drink.
Thank you so much for the replies, I will surely keep trying with the limited A list. I don't believe in posting positive experiences publicly as I have yet to meet a lady wanting public reviews on SA. Now, if I feel one falls into the realm of unsafe or insane, I will provide warning. However if either of you have inquiries, I'd be happy to share my positive encounters via PM. I appreciate the replies.
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We all talk about SA so much. What about AF (Arrangement Finder)? A lot of the girls are the same but there are also a number that are not on SA. AF is even a sponsor of this little site we call home.
Indy Guy.
[QUOTE=IndyGuy123;2721531]We all talk about SA so much. What about AF (Arrangement Finder)? A lot of the girls are the same but there are also a number that are not on SA. AF is even a sponsor of this little site we call home.
Indy Guy.[/QUOTE]I know that SA boasts about no fake profiles, and I believe that to be true. Not sure about AF, but I'll stick to SA. I already don't have enough time in my day, or days in my week juggling SA babies.
[QUOTE=Jim765;2721018]Anyone have any experience with Misskay30. I have been chatting for a while with her, and want to be sure she legit.[/QUOTE]I have only briefly chatted with her online. She seemed okay, but still be safe. I got distracted by life and several other SBs that I found more interesting to talk to.
You probably know this, but I'll say it anyway: Follow the usual M&G in public protocols and don't bring too much cash and play it smart. Always think with the big head and make the SBs work for your attention and generosity.
[QUOTE=GoodTimes007;2719713]I don't believe in posting positive experiences publicly as I have yet to meet a lady wanting public reviews on SA. Now, if I feel one falls into the realm of unsafe or insane, I will provide warning.[/QUOTE]I agree with that 100%.
[QUOTE=Evalder;2719529]Not always. I think that maybe you're having trouble with your approach or interactions with the women on the site.
Never tried them, go a rip-off / scam vibe from one and the other I saw you couldn't pay me to date. YMMV, but I doubt those are good deals.
I can tell you that I personally know a few of those you listed. One is very, very picky and some of the others require a good deal of charm and finesse to reach. Again I think your approach may be an issue as might be your profile.[/QUOTE]I agree with the others on this. I also know several of the girls on your list and one of them is absolutely spectacular. She showed me the messages she gets on there, and 9 of 10 are horrifying. We're lucky any of them stay on longer than a week. You have to go out of your way to set yourself apart from the herd, especially with the top notch ones.
[QUOTE=Nostra3;2722637]I agree with the others on this. I also know several of the girls on your list and one of them is absolutely spectacular. She showed me the messages she gets on there, and 9 of 10 are horrifying. We're lucky any of them stay on longer than a week. You have to go out of your way to set yourself apart from the herd, especially with the top notch ones.[/QUOTE]From conversations with the ladies on the site, even those I have no interest in, it is appalling how some of these men behave. From asking how much $ for X, to a guy whose first message to a girl was "I bet your pussy taste great".
SBs (well most anyway) are not BP girls. I'm honestly concerned that the monger hoards will end up spoiling it for those looking for something more than an escort.
Heads up! Guys.
Amber M /21 Indianapolis.
She is probably the hottest chick I've met on SA.
She is a lot of talk. Maybe you might get some attention. Hopefully she learned what this site is about. But chances are she's going to tell ya the SOB stories and ask for money all the time.
Met her this past spring / summer. The first month I knew her she was locked up for 2 weeks.
Kept asking for money for court fees, attorney fees and playing the baby card. Baby needs diapers, please. Baby needs food, please.
She's changed her profile name. It was Angie.
[QUOTE=Evalder;2722983]From conversations with the ladies on the site, even those I have no interest in, it is appalling how some of these men behave. From asking how much $ for X, to a guy whose first message to a girl was "I bet your pussy taste great".
SBs (well most anyway) are not BP girls. I'm honestly concerned that the monger hoards will end up spoiling it for those looking for something more than an escort.[/QUOTE]I wouldn't worry about it too much. I have a few single female friends on regular dating sites and they get the same stuff from guys. If anything, it makes things much easier for the guys with a bit of class. All you have to do is treat them nice and you're already in the top 10%.
[QUOTE=Tonylove465;2723004]Heads up! Guys.
Amber M /21 Indianapolis.
She is probably the hottest chick I've met on SA.
She is a lot of talk. Maybe you might get some attention. Hopefully she learned what this site is about. But chances are she's going to tell ya the SOB stories and ask for money all the time.
Met her this past spring / summer. The first month I knew her she was locked up for 2 weeks.
Kept asking for money for court fees, attorney fees and playing the baby card. Baby needs diapers, please. Baby needs food, please.
She's changed her profile name. It was Angie.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the heads up. Been messaging her today and definitely don't need the drama.