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[QUOTE=NinjaLurker;1249512]But after she had me buy one more for her and one for one of her girls, I had enough. Then she had the nerve to call me cheap. When I get over it, I'll go back but for now, I won't step foot in there and continue your NEON crusade.[/QUOTE]Get plenty places to drink, eat, & have fun. If the KBGs try anything funny with me, I just cut the line and move forward; just like any KBG would cut your line once they find one LVB who spends more than you.
[QUOTE=Hello Kitty;1248988]I think Club Chance has a Grand Opening on 16, 17, and 18[/QUOTE]But Club Chance is a total waste of time. Layout is such that play is all but impossible, even if there were talent that was willing to play.
[QUOTE=NinjaLurker;1249512]Was friends with the MS, so she always gets herself a drink when I go see her (she usually bartends). But after she had me buy one more for her and one for one of her girls, I had enough. Then she had the nerve to call me cheap. When I get over it, I'll go back but for now, I won't step foot in there and continue your NEON crusade.[/QUOTE]
You would be helping the members of this forum greatly to name the bar. If the MS would do that to a friend, what chance does the average guy have?
Also, friend or not, it is a bad habit to foster in any BG. You should not let them ever get themselves a drink automatically. Leads to this kind of behavior.
[QUOTE=NinjaLurker;1249512]I started following your and Oldee's lead after I went to my ex-favorite bar in Kalihi. Was friends with the MS, so she always gets herself a drink when I go see her (she usually bartends). But after she had me buy one more for her and one for one of her girls, I had enough. Then she had the nerve to call me cheap. When I get over it, I'll go back but for now, I won't step foot in there and continue your NEON crusade.[/QUOTE]Who can the bar call if you don't pay for a kgb's drink or bar tab? The police? The liqour commision?
[QUOTE=Mogo Master;1249663]Who can the bar call if you don't pay for a kgb's drink or bar tab? The police? The liqour commision?[/QUOTE]The police can be called by the bar and the charge may be second-degree theft; but there are always circumstances so, if can, make sure you have witnesses who can assist. On another note:
1. ALWAYS or automatically buy a KBG a neko? You may be unknowingly establishing a tab ("but he ALWAYS buy me one; ask everybody"). A good habit is not buying drinks.
2. Never establish a bar tab. Anyone can fudge with it; what you going say? Where's the evidence?
3. Friends in the bar? No such thing! Acquaintances, maybe. If there's trouble, everybody walks.
4. Learn to put some trust in your inner self or voice; it steers you in the right direction at times.
5. Always be aware; check the surroundings and vibes even if it's your regular bar. No need be scared; just smart.
6. People can turn on you at any time for no reason; expect it in a venue of liquor, sharks, bait, & other dysfunctions and you'll be all right.
7. No trust anybody. Cordial and friendly is OK but not full-on trust.
8. Always have good manners and no drink too muchy.
9. Add some more.
[QUOTE=Mogo Master;1249525]Ninja, can you tell us which bar you are talking about? I'd like to know which ms has this type of attitude so I may stay away myself. Can't think of a bar that the ms bartends.[/QUOTE]Long ago, Pisces ms Diane did the bartending when had to; she was the day bartender at CStation prior to Pisces. Auto neko for that? You must be kidding or that thing has put a spell on the joint she manages. Everybody's different; she put on a good ack for her LVBs at Cheers. And treated others as crap; therefore her "bustling" business at this time. Anyway, they all like spiders waiting for the web to catch an unlucky victim.
[QUOTE=Mogo Master;1249663]Who can the bar call if you don't pay for a kgb's drink or bar tab? The police? The liqour commision?[/QUOTE]I have been called cheap a few years back. I used to take that as a compliment.
actually......I still do. I think I'm beyond cheap, I'm more of a lost cause (why bother?) ehehe
[QUOTE=Head Lock; 1248168]Seems like the place has really taken a dive after one of the MS' left. Nothing but old hags with crappy attitudes to match.
Stopped in here after getting annoyed at RC. Attaching a pic of the KBG in question. Looks better going away so this might be her better side. For an airhead, she seems to be getting the lion's share of biz from the LVBs.[/QUOTE]Judging by the simple photo she doesn't look so hot, eh not my type. LOL
[QUOTE=Mogo Master;1249663]Who can the bar call if you don't pay for a kgb's drink or bar tab? The police? The liqour commision?[/QUOTE]I believe anything regarding the customer, only the police can handle. From there the police may summon LE for further investigation.
[QUOTE=Mogo Master;1249663]Who can the bar call if you don't pay for a kgb's drink or bar tab? The police? The liqour commision?[/QUOTE]
They can call Ghostbusters for all that's worth. Girl's drinks, nekohana, are against LC rules. So that agency is out of the picture. HPD? What is the bar going to say? He won't pay for this $20 beer bottle full of tea? LOL.
[QUOTE=Blade82;1249798]I believe anything regarding the customer, only the police can handle. From there the police may summon LE for further investigation.[/QUOTE]. And since the transaction is illegal to begin with, it will go nowhere. But that said, they will never call the cops, if you walk on one, two or three dirnks, that is a drop in the bucket and not worth the hassle. They will make it up on the next LVB who walks in the door. Hell, I know a guy who walked on an unsolicited bottle of champage.
Look, BGs see you as a commodity, why treat THEM any better? Yeah, yeah, this one is different. I don't want to hear it.
If you get unsolicited drinks pushed on you, and you cave, your bad. Don't blame the BG. She is just being what she is. By rewarding that behavior, you have just reinforced it. Think you are being a nice guy? Congratulations. You got hustled.
[QUOTE=Head Lock;1249844]If you get unsolicited drinks pushed on you, and you cave, your bad. Don't blame the BG. She is just being what she is. By rewarding that behavior, you have just reinforced it. Think you are being a nice guy? Congratulations. You got hustled.[/QUOTE]Amen Head Lock wish I had heeded your advice years ago. It cost me a few to get where I'm at. But, onward. Stopped by that bar with a new name (forget what) that used to be Chocolate. Ran into Poison Ivy the Tongue. Seems she rotates between there and Illusion, similar to what Alissa the Singer is doing between old Chocolate and Spotlight. Ivy tried to hustle a 40dolla drinkee. Nope, not into that anymore so be wary gents and don't be afraid to ask how much does it cost before you say yes.
Cruised on over to Cindy's Place which turned out to be just a Thai / Lao local bar in Kalihi that plays country western songs. Yah got to love it.
Friendly peeps and the food smelled real good but I didn't partake having over-carbed earlier. Good warm up bar I think. No play.
I'm going to folo in Head Lock's footsteps if I have a chance. Posting that pic took reports to a whole new level. Just got to figure out how to turn off my flash.
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[QUOTE=Shipshape;1250382]wish I had heeded your advice years ago. It cost me a few to get where I'm at.[/QUOTE]Back when I was young, dumb and full of income, I made so many of the mistakes that I now rail against. I am no rocket scientist, but I try not to make the same mistake twice. Plenty of new, creative ones to be made.
[QUOTE=Shipshape;1250382]I'm going to folo in Head Lock's footsteps if I have a chance. Posting that pic took reports to a whole new level. Just got to figure out how to turn off my flash.[/QUOTE]It was a target of opportunity. I happened to be carrying an old dumbphone with a pretty lousy camera. But the lack of flash was a blessing. My smartphone has too danged many features in a way. Hard as heck to turn off the shutter sound and it's loud enough to wake the dead.
Making a late run to your turf tonight. Going to stop in at a couple of places in Kalihi. Will report if anything interesting is found, but I'm not holding my breath.
So Wednesday check out Green Tee. Saw that young girl everyone talking about and she is good looking. Heard alot of yelling. Bg yelling at a customer. Banging on the table. Don't know if she slap the guy but I just left I call that night quits after I heard the yelling. Should have stay home and play with my ps3.
[QUOTE=Hello Kitty;1250490]So Wednesday check out Green Tee. Saw that young girl everyone talking about and she is good looking. Heard alot of yelling. Bg yelling at a customer. Banging on the table. Don't know if she slap the guy but I just left I call that night quits after I heard the yelling. Should have stay home and play with my ps3.[/QUOTE]Heh. Did a quick pass through Kalihi Thursday night. Some new KBGs but MILFish at best. The prime meat was all occupied with a cluster of LVBs at the end of the bar. That chick Lexi (sp?) and the bartender Jiya (sp?). Barback was all happy and wailing on karaoke. Too fooking loud and I moved on. Ran into one of the Carnival twins out on the sidewalk. The taller one. Small talk for a couple of minutes, then headed for home.
Apologies for a lame report.
Dropped in on Join Us (Pearl City) tonight after work. Candy and one of her bartenders are partners in running the place now. Got the new management rush and the place is jammed. Same old Pearl City / Aiea tuna, just recycled. If it weren't for $2 beers, I'd have probably moved on, but in the area, what are the choices anyway?
Just remembered that someone mentioned digging "Ari". She came in to hang out with the bartender tonight. Wearing this spaghetti strap dress thing. Not flattering. With no suspension function, her boobs were roughly at elbow level. Lack of structure in her frock displayed her distended belly quite well. OTOH, she doesn't seem to be a bad perrson. Nitwit maybe, but not evil, as far as I can tell. So for those of you into banana titties, you might be in luck.
Friday night meanderings found me at Club Illusions. Seemed to be a pretty good crop in there hitting on all the old guys. BeBe, Gina (used to be a bartender for Miya) , and that real shortie (don't know her name) were in attendance (Shortie was super wasted). Wasn't in the mood for spending drinkee's at that point so moved on after a couple of beers to Paradise which was kindah slow (plus Ivy the Tongue was there. She'll really hit you up for drinks and is too high pressure for me) so moved on to Green Tea. Even slower. Probably should have stayed at Illusions to watch some TV and see how fast the girls were hitting the guys. Made the move to Napa's after 2. Pretty busy as usual for a Friday night. Here comes Saturday night.
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