IF they have limited English use WeChat and Google Translate
As HRodebert says. Keep contact information. The Chinese women are much more comfortable with WeChat, since it eliminates the language barrier. It is also a bit more anonymous, which protects both you and her. At the end of the massage, use Google Translate to simply tell her you want to see her again, but you are worried she will go to another shop. Then ask for Wechat contact. (For me 90% of the time, she gives me the info.) The connection is basically pointing the two phones at each other. One phone as a scan code; the other phone has the scan reader. Aside from being able to chat with the girl, you will also be able to "follow" her to new places and meet new friends. Once you have the contact information. Chat a bit with the girl. At a minimum, send a chat after you leave thanking her for the massage and telling her you look forward to seeing her again. After a few visits, you will have a rapport. Often the opportunity to see her on her day off. Take her to eat, shopping, take her to Chinatown. All the stuff she does not get to do frequently. Over time, you will have a FWB opportunity. Bob.
[QUOTE=Hrodebert;2663295]If you can. I have found that most of them will give it up the first time if they think you will be a steady customer.
Also, if they can not speak English, put WeChat on your phone.[/QUOTE]
I'm reluctant to answer you
I hesitate to take the bait an answer this post. But I might have been unclear. On the language question, I assure you all these women are trying to learn English. I've taught English to them and they have taught me a fair amount of Chinese. It's actually interesting talking to a person from a different culture, or, for that matter making love with someone from a different culture. Eating with a person from a different culture is fantastic. I've had women take me to their favorite restaurant (and pay for dinner). Cook for me in their apartments. I've introduced pancakes and hamburgers to women. (Probably not doing them any favors). When we shop, they buy their own stuff. I'm a friend, not a sugar daddy. I do not pay them for sex. Some have cars and licenses and some do not. You can actually tell how long a woman has been in the US based on criteria, like speaking English, owning a car, having an apartment. Just like any other immigrant, they are trying to build the American dream, working seven days a week, 11 hours a day. I admire these people and I am glad I can help in some small way. Bob.
[QUOTE=WhiteRookDown;2663548]Please. You need to talk into a phone to translate what you say to her, and she talks into a phone to translate what she says to you? How about she spends some time and energy to learn English, since she's living here in the US? Take her to eat? And do what, sit with phones in hand in order to communicate across the table? Take her shopping? Take her to Chinatown? You cannot be this twat-whipped. She can buy her own stuff, and if she wants to go to Chinatown, she can drive herself. That is, if she's.
Here legally and eligible for a license. Yeah, friends with benefits. The only one benefitting is her, with your cash.[/QUOTE]