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[QUOTE=Rico1976]I am in Rocky Mount but the Rocky Mount boards are almost completly dead. So I thought I post here for some advice. Here is what I posted on a Rocky Mount board. Thanks in advance for any advice.
Finally came across a WSW on Falls rd. Picked her up on grace st. Went to a spot for some activity. I could not release as had no lube inside rain coat. She was not slick enough either. She did make herself very tight. With the tightness and no lube I gave up. I realized the the rain coat had bust.
Now I am very worried. This was my 1st time with a SW. She said she has no diseases nor has had any.
I am married and haven't used a rain coat with my wife in years. I do not want her the get anything nor do I want her to find out about what I have done. At this very moment we haven't been speaking for several days, but when we do get together I will be very very suspect if I use a condem.
Any ideas on what I should do and how to get checked out quickly but discreetly?
Please help.[/QUOTE]
Most diseases take some time to incubate and some take months to show up. HIV for example can take up to 6 months to show up on tests. The Clap on the other hand can show signs in just a couple of days.
Its pretty unlikely for HIV to be transmitted to a guy from straight unprotected sex. That being said, you're right to be worried. That IS the danger of pursuing this hobby while in a relationship. Right now, you either have to find a reason to abstain from sex till a doctor says its likely ok, tell your wife the truth and hope she forgives you, or say "fuck it, what are the odds?" and risk your wife's health and life.
Odds are, if you quickly realized the condom was broken, you're pretty safe. Not every girl has a disease (even on the street), and just because she has it doesn't mean you caught it. Please tell me you found some rubbing alcohol or something similar to use (I carry some with me for just such emergencies).
This is what I would do if I were you.
Go to the doctor, tell them what happened and ask if there is any sort of antibiotic series you can get on that would kick out any potential bacterial infections (the clap, syphilis, chlamydia, etc.) I know Chlamydia and Gonorrhea can be cured by the same antibiotic. Also see if there is any product which might keep a virus from catching hold (don't think there is, but explore all avenues). Have an honest talk about the odds of catching serious diseases with the exposure you had.
Avoid sex with your wife till you know its safe, and have some novelty condoms (glow in the dark, flavored, ribbed, french tickler, etc.) on hand to "spice things up" if you get pressed. Maybe she'll buy into it if you present it like you want to be kinky.
If all else fails, tell her.
I was feeling the need for a flute lesson earlier today so I went out looking for a qualified teacher. I found quit a skilled teacher off of Bragg Street down by the apartments. She was a strong 8 on the Street Walker scale. I did not get her name but she was mid 20’s, awesome rack, very firm, with short hair. She did the Leo check and then we went for a ride to discuss what she would be teaching today. It took a few minutes to find a suitable location for this afternoon’s lesson but we finally did. She went right to work playing the flute. She was very skilled. I really enjoyed her technique and would defiantly take an advance course from her if I get the chance.
I think Trial Run gave good advice except for suggeting you telling your wife what you did. DO NOT TELL HER! The few benefits of telling her are greatly outweighed by the utter hell your life will become regardless of which way she finds out what happened.
The most common form of STD's are genital warts and they can take years to appear. A buddy of mine caught them and then proceeded to convince his wife (after asking if she was fucking around on him) that it must have been from an old partner she had and that they finally appeared (since she thinks he has only ever been with her, which is so laughable if you know the truth- that he has nailed hundreds of girls). They are highschool sweethearts.
Dude. Seriously, do not tell her.
[QUOTE=Luap Needssome]I was feeling the need for a flute lesson earlier today so I went out looking for a qualified teacher. I found quit a skilled teacher off of Bragg Street down by the apartments. She was a strong 8 on the Street Walker scale. I did not get her name but she was mid 20’s, awesome rack, very firm, with short hair. She did the Leo check and then we went for a ride to discuss what she would be teaching today. It took a few minutes to find a suitable location for this afternoon’s lesson but we finally did. She went right to work playing the flute. She was very skilled. I really enjoyed her technique and would defiantly take an advance course from her if I get the chance.[/QUOTE]A Sw with a nice rack? Where is she?... My past few dreams (with the exception of 5g's) I have only found small breasted ladies. All that crack and meth, really disintegrates a body I guess.
The search continues!
[QUOTE=Trialrun]Most diseases take some time to incubate and some take months to show up. HIV for example can take up to 6 months to show up on tests. The Clap on the other hand can show signs in just a couple of days.
Its pretty unlikely for HIV to be transmitted to a guy from straight unprotected sex. That being said, you're right to be worried. That IS the danger of pursuing this hobby while in a relationship. Right now, you either have to find a reason to abstain from sex till a doctor says its likely ok, tell your wife the truth and hope she forgives you, or say "fuck it, what are the odds?" and risk your wife's health and life.
Odds are, if you quickly realized the condom was broken, you're pretty safe. Not every girl has a disease (even on the street), and just because she has it doesn't mean you caught it. Please tell me you found some rubbing alcohol or something similar to use (I carry some with me for just such emergencies).
This is what I would do if I were you.
Go to the doctor, tell them what happened and ask if there is any sort of antibiotic series you can get on that would kick out any potential bacterial infections (the clap, syphilis, chlamydia, etc.) I know Chlamydia and Gonorrhea can be cured by the same antibiotic. Also see if there is any product which might keep a virus from catching hold (don't think there is, but explore all avenues). Have an honest talk about the odds of catching serious diseases with the exposure you had.
Avoid sex with your wife till you know its safe, and have some novelty condoms (glow in the dark, flavored, ribbed, french tickler, etc.) on hand to "spice things up" if you get pressed. Maybe she'll buy into it if you present it like you want to be kinky.
If all else fails, tell her.[/QUOTE]
Many years ago, I picked up a SW in Arizona. We found a place to park. She was an easy 8 on the SW scale. I originally just wanted a flute lesson. As she was giving the lesson, she kept talking dirty about wanting this flute inside her and let me "F" you and so on. I gave in and pulled out a condom. She was great, grinding her hips, totally orgasmic. Just as I was about to finish, I thought, it felt too wet down there. I looked down and the condom was a mere neck tie around the base of my penis. It had broke. I pulled out immediately and that is when the real scare started. Not only had the condom broke, she was still finishing up her period. She was not in full session, but my flute was noticably coated in her blood. I about had a heart attack on the spot.
As I was driving her back, she was cool about it and told me she was tested for HIV and negative, but she did have Hep C from IV drug use in her past. I sincerely appreciated her (perceived) honesty and was a little relieved as I knew Hep C is not too easy to catch this way. I droped her off, she gave me hug and told me not to worry.
A few days later, my paranoid nature got the best of me and something just did not seem right. I went back out to around the location I have found her and picked up another girl. I asked is she knew the one whom I had the scary expereince with. She indeed knew her very well and they had even roomed together before. I asked her is she had an diseases she knew about. At first she did not want to answer. After giving her $50, she finally broke down and told me she had HIV and could take me to meet her brother who would confirm it.
Making a long story short, her brother confirmed it and I about lost my mind. I was 100% sure, I was doomed. Fast forwarding through 6 months of the greatest living hell of my life, I tested negative, once and for all. Since that time, I have never screwed a SW, only flute lesson. This experience scared the living piss out of me and still rattles my cage to this day.
After a six month absence from my home town due to a new job, I have been back twice over the course of the last 3 weeks. The first time back I found Ginger over on Jones. Not too bad a session but she is a thief and tried to make off with my ipod that I forgot to secure before heading out and took some spare change (a Lincoln) that I had laying around. I have been going from city to city and do not really like mongering in cities I don't know (with the exception of Orlando, could not resist mongering there!), so I have been getting my kicks off cl. But when I got back here to Raleigh there is some silly flagging mission going on! So Thursday evening I went to visit a friend in Knightdale and when I came back made a pass through the old areas. I hit the jackpot on the road that runs behind the plant (Cargil I think?).
A very attractive blond, 5'6", about 115, small chest but a killer ass and nice thighs, blue jeans and dark blue tank with a butterfly tat right under her neck. Stopped and offered her a ride, but she looked behind her and I noticed two dudes down the road following her. She refused the ride and kept walking. I was determined not to let this one get away. Circled around after she had put a little more distance between her and the guys and this time she hopped in before I could even ask. Said she just wanted to get out of the neighborhood and was headed to her girl's house. Did the le check and made an offer, Jackson for cbj and she accepted.
She said her name was Kim and did not live in the area. Went back to her spot and got comfortable. She stripped down naked which worried me at first because I was worried that the clothes might deceive what was underneath. Did not want to see sores, scars, or track marks. But when she turned around, perfection! A little on the pale side, but she was fair skinned so I don't know how much tan she could get. Anyway, gave a very nice flute lesson and did not mind wondering hands at all. As a matter of fact, was very responsive, moving around to encourage her mutual enjoyment also. She was very articulate and seemed like the streets had not got to her yet, even though she claimed that she was not on any drugs apart from weed and did not come over there but once every two or three months. It was so enjoyable that I did two things I never, never do. Actual took her to get something to eat, and dropped her another 0.15 for her effort. She was actually attractive enough that you wouldn't mind being seen in public with her.
If anyone runs across her, DO NOT LET HER GET AWAY! It will be worth it.
Of course she had no digits and didn't want pics, but senior and contributing members feel free to pm and I will let you know where she is staying.
[QUOTE=Rico1976]I am in Rocky Mount but the Rocky Mount boards are almost completly dead. So I thought I post here for some advice. Here is what I posted on a Rocky Mount board. Thanks in advance for any advice.
Finally came across a WSW on Falls rd. Picked her up on grace st. Went to a spot for some activity. I could not release as had no lube inside rain coat. She was not slick enough either. She did make herself very tight. With the tightness and no lube I gave up. I realized the the rain coat had bust.
Now I am very worried. This was my 1st time with a SW. She said she has no diseases nor has had any.
I am married and haven't used a rain coat with my wife in years. I do not want her the get anything nor do I want her to find out about what I have done. At this very moment we haven't been speaking for several days, but when we do get together I will be very very suspect if I use a condem.
Any ideas on what I should do and how to get checked out quickly but discreetly?
Please help.[/QUOTE]After reading the post it stayed on my mind for a while. If you decided to monger while being married something must have been wrong. IMO. You may have to man up and tell her. You may not want to mention with a SW but you cheated and the condom broke. It'll be worse if you don't say anything and she finds out by catching an STD from you. Hopefully you don't have anything but do you really want to lie with your wife under these circumstances.
Question for the single mongers.
Do you mess around with other chicks, or is SW's most of the time?
Hey all,
I got a question, and was hoping someone could answer it. There is a new girl named Camilia on Eros.com in the Carolinas. I read her ad, and she said she requires references that she can discreetly verify. I called her up and gave her my usual reference that always works and makes me safe in a providers eyes. She sounded a little "ghetto" on the phone. It wasn't really what I was expecting from looking at her pictures, but that doesn't mean much. I asked her about reviews, and she said "no, and to be honest, I would be upset if anyone posted about me on the net. I think what happens in the bedroom, should stay in the bedroom. " I don't know what it is, but I didn't get that great of a vibe from her. I know that nothing should be posted on here to respect her wishes, but if someone coould OM me with some info, I would greatly appreciate it. I just can't take one for the team now, as funds are limited.
Thanks all.
[QUOTE=Darkstick]Question for the single mongers.
Do you mess around with other chicks, or is SW's most of the time?[/QUOTE]Here's the thing. If your screwing SW's, you always run the risk of catching an STD, or something worse, even if you use protection, and I think that's the biggest risk concerning this hobby. BUT, in my case, I regularly get tested for STDs and all that. However, when I have the opportunity to mess around with other girls(non-sw's), I take extra precautions in case I might have gotten 'something' between the last time I got tested and now, so I won't pass it on to them.
Overall, its a complicated and complex hobby. I, for example, would not mess around with SWs if I was in a relationship with somebody. Which is the reason why I'm single, I can practically choose when, how, and who I screw.
It all depends on your view of life, once you understand the risks, its up to you to make the right choice.
[QUOTE=Eli Blah]Here's the thing. If your screwing SW's, you always run the risk of catching an STD, or something worse, even if you use protection, and I think that's the biggest risk concerning this hobby. BUT, in my case, I regularly get tested for STDs and all that. However, when I have the opportunity to mess around with other girls(non-sw's), I take extra precautions in case I might have gotten 'something' between the last time I got tested and now, so I won't pass it on to them.
Overall, its a complicated and complex hobby. I, for example, would not mess around with SWs if I was in a relationship with somebody. Which is the reason why I'm single, I can practically choose when, how, and who I screw.
It all depends on your view of life, once you understand the risks, its up to you to make the right choice.[/QUOTE]Thanks for responding but the question is not about STD's. SW or not we run a risk when messing around with chicks. I use just curious if my most of the hobbyists here just mess with SWs or both.
[QUOTE=Darkstick]Thanks for responding but the question is not about STD's. SW or not we run a risk when messing around with chicks. I use just curious if my most of the hobbyists here just mess with SWs or both.[/QUOTE]
Ask any hooker, most of her clients are married. That is a fact. I think they actually did a study and something like 78% of men who pay for sex are married. The main reason is that married men are trapped and cannot play the field or have a messy affair (although some still do) and if you are in a sexless relationship you have two choices. Never get any, or pay for it. If you try and have an affair and get caught, you can loose everything you worked for, despite the wife never wanting to give it up.
My personal belief, is that if you a man, good to your wife, do all you're supposed to do, support finicially and emotionally, raise the kids, be sexual yourself and she just flat out refuses to give it up, then you should be allowed to go outside the marriage. As a man, I need sex, no way around it. Thankfully I'm single, but I have many buddies in the above situation. they are good to their wives and the wife never gives it up.
"My personal belief, is that if you a man, good to your wife, do all you're supposed to do, support finicially and emotionally, raise the kids, be sexual yourself and she just flat out refuses to give it up, then you should be allowed to go outside the marriage. As a man, I need sex, no way around it. Thankfully I'm single, but I have many buddies in the above situation. They are good to their wives and the wife never gives it up. "
This is soooo true. They have found a food that depresses the sexual libido in women. It's called wedding cake. LOL.
But seriously, this is also why many other countries allow prostitution and they have a lower divorce rate. We just want sex and a lot of other cultures don't consider this "cheating".
[QUOTE=Rico1976]I am in Rocky Mount but the Rocky Mount boards are almost completly dead. So I thought I post here for some advice. Here is what I posted on a Rocky Mount board. Thanks in advance for any advice.
Finally came across a WSW on Falls rd. Picked her up on grace st. Went to a spot for some activity. I could not release as had no lube inside rain coat. She was not slick enough either. She did make herself very tight. With the tightness and no lube I gave up. I realized the the rain coat had bust.
Now I am very worried. This was my 1st time with a SW. She said she has no diseases nor has had any.
I am married and haven't used a rain coat with my wife in years. I do not want her the get anything nor do I want her to find out about what I have done. At this very moment we haven't been speaking for several days, but when we do get together I will be very very suspect if I use a condem.
Any ideas on what I should do and how to get checked out quickly but discreetly?
Please help.[/QUOTE]First, for excellent info on STDs, go to [url]www.ashastd.org/[/url]. Second, call their toll free hot line, 1-800-227-8922. They are great about helping you asses your risk, talking you through what to do, and suggesting where to get tested/treated anonymously.
Third, if it turns out you have something that is not treatable, you just got to tell her, if you love her, which seems pretty obvious. If it is treatable you may be able to refrain from sex with your wife for a couple of weeks ("I've got a headache! "), without arousing suspicious. I have caught somethinng treatable (thankfully! ) twice, and made to tell some white lies, so if you want to talk hit me up privately.